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"Real straight guys" don't have sex with other guys. 
This is not a realistic pursuit. 
Oh, and "every straight guy has his price" is a load of BS; it's just something that many sad, pathetic gay men convince themselves of because they want to cling on so badly to their fantasies of fucking straight guys (for whatever reason, this seems to be an unhealthy obsession for a lot of gay men).
 

Well, I'm attracted to all different kinds of men. My favourite type, however, is guys with dark hair and darker skin complexion; Latinos in particular.
I'm pale with fair hair, so that type is the polar opposite to myself. Perhaps that's why I'm so attracted to that type.
When hiring, I tend to choose a Latino guy. Not always, but usually. There's a lot of Brazilian guys working as gay escorts in London/the UK, so I'm really lucky 😁

Jamie21 said it all in the last line of his post: 
Discretion is the most important quality of a good escort and one that escorts appreciate from clients too.
 

Reading this guy's comments on here, it is clear to me that he views clients with absolute contempt. 
"Being allowed to engage with us in any form is a privilege" - oh, really? If that's his attitude, then he's definitely one provider to avoid like the plague.
I was astounded when he said that an escort taking full payment for an agreed amount of time (for an overnight session) and leaving early is acceptable. 
So many red flags with this guy in his attitude that comes through in his comments here on this post.
Less interested in providing a good quality service and making clients happy and treating them with respect and kindness (a two-way thing), and more concerned just about taking money, obviously. He is extremely rude, arrogant and as we say here in the UK, "up his own arse". Really not attractive qualities in any person, never mind a provider. 
 
 

"Real straight guys" don't have sex with other guys. 
This is not a realistic pursuit. 
Oh, and "every straight guy has his price" is a load of BS; it's just something that many sad, pathetic gay men convince themselves of because they want to cling on so badly to their fantasies of fucking straight guys (for whatever reason, this seems to be an unhealthy obsession for a lot of gay men).
 

I've met very few escorts who wouldn't at least listen to me talk about my "regular" sex life. Only a few of them counseled me back, though.
One minor warning - don't get dependent on hired companionship, even if you keep it as a hobby. And try not to hire when you're depressed.

I'm sorry to hear you are going through this pain. 
There are definitely escorts who can help you find the validation you want and need. When you are at a place where you can hire, find a few escorts and ask about them here in The Deli.
So far, so good.
OK, we need to stop right here. You do not know what other people when they pay you a compliment. What you intend to say is "the other part of me that completely overthinks everything thinks..." 
We tend to use these words interchangeably, but they don't mean the same thing. (You aren't the only one )
There are escorts who truly enjoy being with their clients. The trick is finding one of those escorts. As I said above, when you are ready to hire, pick out a handful of ads and ask for feedback here on the Forum. 
 
Yes, I do have some advice. First and foremost, learn to take compliments and feedback at face value. It takes practice, but it will make life much more enjoyable. Second, remember that this is all about you. Third, be upfront with yourself about what you want when you hire. Do you want a F-buddy experience, a romantic evening, a dominant guy, etc. Once you know what you want, you can ask an escort for what you want. The notion that this is all about you is worth repeating. 
Regarding whether or not to provide the full context to someone you want to hire, you might want to mention the situation (I'm hiring to help me get through a breakup) and leave it at that. As @nycman said, unpacking your breakup is for friends or a therapist, not an escort. The escort is there to make you feel good. 

I’ve used escorts to get over the pain of a breakup in the past and I think 
it’s helpful as long as you go into it with your eyes wide open. This hobby
is not a substitute for love. Never has been. Never will be. At best, it’s a 
a nice distraction for an hour or two. 
I wouldn’t suggest bringing all your breakup baggage to your appointment 
with the escort. You’re going there to escape that, not unpack it. If you need 
to unpack it, you should talk to friends or see a therapist.
An escort can put you on the road to recovery, but you still have to drive the bus. 

My point exactly. They're not 100%, genuinely and exclusively straight.
Thank you.

That's right, it wouldn't.
So please drop this silly fantasy. 
I've been warned by others that you're a bit of a troll on these forums, and not to feed you. I'm going to heed that advise now. 
Have a nice day. 

"Real straight guys" don't have sex with other guys. 
This is not a realistic pursuit. 
Oh, and "every straight guy has his price" is a load of BS; it's just something that many sad, pathetic gay men convince themselves of because they want to cling on so badly to their fantasies of fucking straight guys (for whatever reason, this seems to be an unhealthy obsession for a lot of gay men).
 

Would you be so quick to help if he wasn’t in his 20’s and cute?
I know lots of nice 80 year olds who could use a helping hand.
Just saying….let’s not get too self righteous. 
 
 

"Real straight guys" don't have sex with other guys. 
This is not a realistic pursuit. 
Oh, and "every straight guy has his price" is a load of BS; it's just something that many sad, pathetic gay men convince themselves of because they want to cling on so badly to their fantasies of fucking straight guys (for whatever reason, this seems to be an unhealthy obsession for a lot of gay men).
 

... And let's not forget self-loathing.  A boatload of self-loathing.

"Real straight guys" don't have sex with other guys. 
This is not a realistic pursuit. 
Oh, and "every straight guy has his price" is a load of BS; it's just something that many sad, pathetic gay men convince themselves of because they want to cling on so badly to their fantasies of fucking straight guys (for whatever reason, this seems to be an unhealthy obsession for a lot of gay men).
 

in absence of pussy? 
They escort for the money...
MANY don't mind getting a bj? please they get pussy so easy now a days... "they would never penetrate a guy unless money is involved"
Too many rules in the way you see sexuality. 
If money is involved, they're doing it for the money. 

Exactly. 
Zero's on the Kinsey Scale aren't just straight-identifying men, they are genuinely and exclusively straight. 
If the OP genuinely believes he's had sex with straight men, he can fool and delude himself all he wants. He's entitled to his fantasies and to believing what he wants to believe as long as it makes him happy and satisfies his sexual desires, kinks and interests. 
He may well have fucked with straight-identifying men, but objectively and genuinely straight they were not - or they wouldn't have been in bed with the OP. 
They were likely 1 or 2 on the Kinsey Scale as you say, but of course it goes without saying, that they were not exclusively straight (otherwise OP wouldn't have had any encounters with them).
By the way, I think your comment has totally destroyed his fantasy 😂

My point exactly. They're not 100%, genuinely and exclusively straight.
Thank you.

Y'know guys, if you keep feeding the troll, they never go away.
The OP has asked this question in so many ways, so many times, that now it's like a well-worn Laurel & Hardy routine.

"Real straight guys" don't have sex with other guys. 
This is not a realistic pursuit. 
Oh, and "every straight guy has his price" is a load of BS; it's just something that many sad, pathetic gay men convince themselves of because they want to cling on so badly to their fantasies of fucking straight guys (for whatever reason, this seems to be an unhealthy obsession for a lot of gay men).
 

Because he's a 0 on the Kinsey scale? I'm a solid 6 (meaning exclusively gay), and I find the thought of getting a blow job from a female utterly repulsive. I doubt that I could do it for any amount of money even if I tried. I suspect an exclusively straight guy (0 on the scale) would feel the same about being done by a dude.
What you're probably looking for is some guy who is a 1 or 2 on the scale, that is, someone who is predominantly straight but isn't repulsed by sex with a guy or even kinda likes it on occasion.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale

"Real straight guys" don't have sex with other guys. 
This is not a realistic pursuit. 
Oh, and "every straight guy has his price" is a load of BS; it's just something that many sad, pathetic gay men convince themselves of because they want to cling on so badly to their fantasies of fucking straight guys (for whatever reason, this seems to be an unhealthy obsession for a lot of gay men).
 

Must you bring this subject again...
you forgot to mention your desire for a blue collar guy penniless and with a baby mama.