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With a little time, I am able to put things in perspective, forgive, move on, not be controlled by the hurt/feelings, but that does not mean I trust the other party. You can forgive someone, but not trust them. Trust is a bank account and requires alot of deposits over a long period of time to accrue. It can be bankrupted by one act.

With a little time, I am able to put things in perspective, forgive, move on, not be controlled by the hurt/feelings, but that does not mean I trust the other party. You can forgive someone, but not trust them. Trust is a bank account and requires alot of deposits over a long period of time to accrue. It can be bankrupted by one act.

Based on first-hand accounts from two former "babies" (they were naive), some SA "daddies" are savvy, manipulative *&!*#@s. They were frustrated while they were in it and lacked confidence to know what to do. Experience and hindsight allowed them to see it more accurately for what it was. Daddies wined 'em, dined 'em, and bought 'em nice clothes, but the kids were struggling to survive. I advised them to set a financial requirement. They did, and suddenly, both relationships ended. They were ok with it because they were not being helped in either situation.

I hit the 5 - 0 this year. Based on all of this chatter, I'm nowhere near to hitting my desirability stride. Happy days are still to cum!

Based on first-hand accounts from two former "babies" (they were naive), some SA "daddies" are savvy, manipulative *&!*#@s. They were frustrated while they were in it and lacked confidence to know what to do. Experience and hindsight allowed them to see it more accurately for what it was. Daddies wined 'em, dined 'em, and bought 'em nice clothes, but the kids were struggling to survive. I advised them to set a financial requirement. They did, and suddenly, both relationships ended. They were ok with it because they were not being helped in either situation.

Ah yes, the euphoric effects of Mike's tongue. He worked you over good, eh?

Ah yes, the euphoric effects of Mike's tongue. He worked you over good, eh?

Ah yes, the euphoric effects of Mike's tongue. He worked you over good, eh?

Ah yes, the euphoric effects of Mike's tongue. He worked you over good, eh?

I cut the cord 7 years ago, and do not miss cable/satellite......at......all!

And I, for one, am very very glad you do!

Not exactly. I live along the coast, just visit the city occasionally, so I'm not always on top of the latest local developments. Keith is doing a good job of sifting the treasure from the rest.

Excellent analysis! Given the style, I momentarily flashbacked to FFF and Rockhard who oft employed this method when they de-constructed forum posts.

Excellent analysis! Given the style, I momentarily flashbacked to FFF and Rockhard who oft employed this method when they de-constructed forum posts.

I meant what I said. Just surrender to the passion.

6-5 studliness. Yummy!
 
WmClarke, go ahead and take him for the team. Report back ASAP.

I meant what I said. Just surrender to the passion.

My arrangements were college boys with a built in ending. They would graduate (hopefully), move on with life, possibly re-locate, enter the work force, etc. I provided a set monthly stipend for a certain number of days/nights per month. No exclusivity. Two of them posted ads and were hired by other clients; they gave me scheduling priority. The other collegian saw no other clients (as far as I know); he was satisfied with the stipend.
 
These arrangements worked well because of the character of the young men, which I vetted through several meetings/hiring situations before terms were offered and accepted. All three of them went way beyond the minimum requirements in terms of satisfaction, scheduling, and number of meetings. Each ended amicably. They moved on to professional careers, and my interaction/communication with them ended.
 
It's a privilege to help aspirational young men.

I'm not relationally-oriented. I'm a happy single guy, so it's not too hard for me to move on. I think they were more nervous about moving on. I was easy for them, that is, until they got those lucrative job offers.....and never looked back. HAHA! But I say good for them. I wish them the best.
 
I had an early test in my hiring career of whether I'm vulnerable to "falling in love". I hired a handsome sexy guy often. I was 35. He was 32. We really clicked. Got along sensually and socially. Spent many nights together. Enjoyed each other's company. Often went shopping/dining/outings together off the clock, and no, I didn't pay for everything. He eventually moved to San Fran and returned to the corporate world from which he took a break. While I missed the convenience and compatibility of our time together, I was not wounded. If I was ever going to be tempted to fall in love with one of these guys, it would have been him. It did not happen.
 
I'm free.........to have fun.

You are a dream client. I'm available and my rates are reasonable.
 
But seriously, keep searching. Your fantasy can be fulfilled.

I occasionally wonder who writes some of the prose posted in this community.

You are a dream client. I'm available and my rates are reasonable.
 
But seriously, keep searching. Your fantasy can be fulfilled.

You are a dream client. I'm available and my rates are reasonable.
 
But seriously, keep searching. Your fantasy can be fulfilled.

I'm not relationally-oriented. I'm a happy single guy, so it's not too hard for me to move on. I think they were more nervous about moving on. I was easy for them, that is, until they got those lucrative job offers.....and never looked back. HAHA! But I say good for them. I wish them the best.
 
I had an early test in my hiring career of whether I'm vulnerable to "falling in love". I hired a handsome sexy guy often. I was 35. He was 32. We really clicked. Got along sensually and socially. Spent many nights together. Enjoyed each other's company. Often went shopping/dining/outings together off the clock, and no, I didn't pay for everything. He eventually moved to San Fran and returned to the corporate world from which he took a break. While I missed the convenience and compatibility of our time together, I was not wounded. If I was ever going to be tempted to fall in love with one of these guys, it would have been him. It did not happen.
 
I'm free.........to have fun.

I'm not relationally-oriented. I'm a happy single guy, so it's not too hard for me to move on. I think they were more nervous about moving on. I was easy for them, that is, until they got those lucrative job offers.....and never looked back. HAHA! But I say good for them. I wish them the best.
 
I had an early test in my hiring career of whether I'm vulnerable to "falling in love". I hired a handsome sexy guy often. I was 35. He was 32. We really clicked. Got along sensually and socially. Spent many nights together. Enjoyed each other's company. Often went shopping/dining/outings together off the clock, and no, I didn't pay for everything. He eventually moved to San Fran and returned to the corporate world from which he took a break. While I missed the convenience and compatibility of our time together, I was not wounded. If I was ever going to be tempted to fall in love with one of these guys, it would have been him. It did not happen.
 
I'm free.........to have fun.