TylerGrovesNYC

As a provider, the answer to this is simple: The messages that garner My immediate response are the messages that I know in My experience are from those who are serious + good & fun clients. 10 times out of 10 -- these are the message from the best clients. 
Hey, Tyler - really nice profile on RM. I'm visiting NYC until Wednesday, I'd love to book a session if you have any availability? Fit, laid back, 35yo, bottom sub here, 5'10" 175lbs, easygoing. Also, wondering what is your donation? Looking for a FFisting/Flogging/Verbal Dom session, love it + if in leather. Thanks, let me know, John.
^ those are the clients that usually end up becoming regulars, book multi-hr & big ticket sessions (even on the first meet), and are often all set & ready to put down a deposit to pre-book at the time of their inquiry when texting
These are the messages from clients that are usually the worst of the lot, or even worse - timewasters
"U avail?"
"Hi", "hey", "hot pics", "nice cock"
"found U on RM can U host looking for right now or in 10 minutes"
Finally, these are the texts from total worthless trolls/pranksters/fakes; these are the ones that 99% aren't even worth answering other than for entertainment before I block & blacklist them on all platforms that escorts frequent to do their screening:
"Send pic"
"pic?"
"send cock"
"where r u?"
"send vid"
"can u vid chat"
"hey can I see ur vids on fansonly? can u send here? went to the site but it says I have to pay"
and so on & so forth, ad nauseum 

As a provider, the answer to this is simple: The messages that garner My immediate response are the messages that I know in My experience are from those who are serious + good & fun clients. 10 times out of 10 -- these are the message from the best clients. 
Hey, Tyler - really nice profile on RM. I'm visiting NYC until Wednesday, I'd love to book a session if you have any availability? Fit, laid back, 35yo, bottom sub here, 5'10" 175lbs, easygoing. Also, wondering what is your donation? Looking for a FFisting/Flogging/Verbal Dom session, love it + if in leather. Thanks, let me know, John.
^ those are the clients that usually end up becoming regulars, book multi-hr & big ticket sessions (even on the first meet), and are often all set & ready to put down a deposit to pre-book at the time of their inquiry when texting
These are the messages from clients that are usually the worst of the lot, or even worse - timewasters
"U avail?"
"Hi", "hey", "hot pics", "nice cock"
"found U on RM can U host looking for right now or in 10 minutes"
Finally, these are the texts from total worthless trolls/pranksters/fakes; these are the ones that 99% aren't even worth answering other than for entertainment before I block & blacklist them on all platforms that escorts frequent to do their screening:
"Send pic"
"pic?"
"send cock"
"where r u?"
"send vid"
"can u vid chat"
"hey can I see ur vids on fansonly? can u send here? went to the site but it says I have to pay"
and so on & so forth, ad nauseum 

As a provider, the answer to this is simple: The messages that garner My immediate response are the messages that I know in My experience are from those who are serious + good & fun clients. 10 times out of 10 -- these are the message from the best clients. 
Hey, Tyler - really nice profile on RM. I'm visiting NYC until Wednesday, I'd love to book a session if you have any availability? Fit, laid back, 35yo, bottom sub here, 5'10" 175lbs, easygoing. Also, wondering what is your donation? Looking for a FFisting/Flogging/Verbal Dom session, love it + if in leather. Thanks, let me know, John.
^ those are the clients that usually end up becoming regulars, book multi-hr & big ticket sessions (even on the first meet), and are often all set & ready to put down a deposit to pre-book at the time of their inquiry when texting
These are the messages from clients that are usually the worst of the lot, or even worse - timewasters
"U avail?"
"Hi", "hey", "hot pics", "nice cock"
"found U on RM can U host looking for right now or in 10 minutes"
Finally, these are the texts from total worthless trolls/pranksters/fakes; these are the ones that 99% aren't even worth answering other than for entertainment before I block & blacklist them on all platforms that escorts frequent to do their screening:
"Send pic"
"pic?"
"send cock"
"where r u?"
"send vid"
"can u vid chat"
"hey can I see ur vids on fansonly? can u send here? went to the site but it says I have to pay"
and so on & so forth, ad nauseum 

As a provider, the answer to this is simple: The messages that garner My immediate response are the messages that I know in My experience are from those who are serious + good & fun clients. 10 times out of 10 -- these are the message from the best clients. 
Hey, Tyler - really nice profile on RM. I'm visiting NYC until Wednesday, I'd love to book a session if you have any availability? Fit, laid back, 35yo, bottom sub here, 5'10" 175lbs, easygoing. Also, wondering what is your donation? Looking for a FFisting/Flogging/Verbal Dom session, love it + if in leather. Thanks, let me know, John.
^ those are the clients that usually end up becoming regulars, book multi-hr & big ticket sessions (even on the first meet), and are often all set & ready to put down a deposit to pre-book at the time of their inquiry when texting
These are the messages from clients that are usually the worst of the lot, or even worse - timewasters
"U avail?"
"Hi", "hey", "hot pics", "nice cock"
"found U on RM can U host looking for right now or in 10 minutes"
Finally, these are the texts from total worthless trolls/pranksters/fakes; these are the ones that 99% aren't even worth answering other than for entertainment before I block & blacklist them on all platforms that escorts frequent to do their screening:
"Send pic"
"pic?"
"send cock"
"where r u?"
"send vid"
"can u vid chat"
"hey can I see ur vids on fansonly? can u send here? went to the site but it says I have to pay"
and so on & so forth, ad nauseum 

As a provider, the answer to this is simple: The messages that garner My immediate response are the messages that I know in My experience are from those who are serious + good & fun clients. 10 times out of 10 -- these are the message from the best clients. 
Hey, Tyler - really nice profile on RM. I'm visiting NYC until Wednesday, I'd love to book a session if you have any availability? Fit, laid back, 35yo, bottom sub here, 5'10" 175lbs, easygoing. Also, wondering what is your donation? Looking for a FFisting/Flogging/Verbal Dom session, love it + if in leather. Thanks, let me know, John.
^ those are the clients that usually end up becoming regulars, book multi-hr & big ticket sessions (even on the first meet), and are often all set & ready to put down a deposit to pre-book at the time of their inquiry when texting
These are the messages from clients that are usually the worst of the lot, or even worse - timewasters
"U avail?"
"Hi", "hey", "hot pics", "nice cock"
"found U on RM can U host looking for right now or in 10 minutes"
Finally, these are the texts from total worthless trolls/pranksters/fakes; these are the ones that 99% aren't even worth answering other than for entertainment before I block & blacklist them on all platforms that escorts frequent to do their screening:
"Send pic"
"pic?"
"send cock"
"where r u?"
"send vid"
"can u vid chat"
"hey can I see ur vids on fansonly? can u send here? went to the site but it says I have to pay"
and so on & so forth, ad nauseum 

I worked with him in NYC, we were dancers at Adonis Lounge together, he's a friend of Mine & I can vouch for him -- good provider; ethical sex worker.
I've also filmed with him. Nice guy, definitely way more aware & present than your average dancer/escort. 

As a provider, the answer to this is simple: The messages that garner My immediate response are the messages that I know in My experience are from those who are serious + good & fun clients. 10 times out of 10 -- these are the message from the best clients. 
Hey, Tyler - really nice profile on RM. I'm visiting NYC until Wednesday, I'd love to book a session if you have any availability? Fit, laid back, 35yo, bottom sub here, 5'10" 175lbs, easygoing. Also, wondering what is your donation? Looking for a FFisting/Flogging/Verbal Dom session, love it + if in leather. Thanks, let me know, John.
^ those are the clients that usually end up becoming regulars, book multi-hr & big ticket sessions (even on the first meet), and are often all set & ready to put down a deposit to pre-book at the time of their inquiry when texting
These are the messages from clients that are usually the worst of the lot, or even worse - timewasters
"U avail?"
"Hi", "hey", "hot pics", "nice cock"
"found U on RM can U host looking for right now or in 10 minutes"
Finally, these are the texts from total worthless trolls/pranksters/fakes; these are the ones that 99% aren't even worth answering other than for entertainment before I block & blacklist them on all platforms that escorts frequent to do their screening:
"Send pic"
"pic?"
"send cock"
"where r u?"
"send vid"
"can u vid chat"
"hey can I see ur vids on fansonly? can u send here? went to the site but it says I have to pay"
and so on & so forth, ad nauseum 

I worked with him in NYC, we were dancers at Adonis Lounge together, he's a friend of Mine & I can vouch for him -- good provider; ethical sex worker.
I've also filmed with him. Nice guy, definitely way more aware & present than your average dancer/escort. 

Nice strawman. There are plenty who ask for upfront payments not in this fashion and who are honest with their work. You wanted to make the point that it is custom to paying only after a service. That is patently false. Again, make sure to tell airlines, hotels, concert venues, sport stadiums, photographers, housing contractors, delivery services, web developers and most freelancers in a variety of industries they're not following your fictional customs properly. Sorry United, I'm only paying after my flight. Sorry Marriott, I'm not paying any deposit. Sorry Amazon, I'm only paying after my delivery. If it's understandable why such businesses require upfront payment, then it should be even more understandable why escorts who have no means of recourse do so as well. People get ripped off on both ends of this industry. If you're able to think of others besides yourself, you would understand why some require upfront payment and you would be able to have an adult conversation about it seeing where both sides are coming from.

I'm an established provider & I require a deposit of 25% for all FUTURE appointments (i.e. an appointment taking place on a day that is not today, inwhich I will have to block out time in My schedule for you & prepare toys, leather, etc). If the client doesn't like that, I tell them that they're welcome to hit Me up on that actual day but if I am already booked by someone else, or in session at the time of the call, it's first come first serve. 
I work mainly as much more of a Pro Dom how than an escort & for fetish/bdsm this is much more standard in that niche of things. Guys wanting a session in a dungeon, or with lots of toys are usually going to plan in advance, and they don't mind doing this. Other guys who are looking for more escort related things but are willing to plan in advance don't mind this either.
I tell all clients however who are hesitant they should always screen a provider before ever giving a deposit. 
-do they have adds on multiple platforms (not just RentMen) I am on Eros & Tryst as well
-do they have social media? Twitter 
-do they have a video presence, on multiple platforms (I personally have 3: OnlyFans, ManyVids, ModelHub)
-do they have a website?
-do they have reviews? If so how many? I've got 35, all 5 star mostly 
If the provider checks off all or most of these boxes the greater the chance is of them being legit & not walking away with your deposit money 
 
When it comes to money upfront before the session starts, I personally don't do this, I wait until the end. For all same day appts I don't require a deposit- the client has the desire fresh on their mind & the likelihood that they will follow through is high. I find that for all future appts that a deposit is not collected (unless I know the person), if a deposit is not received, they aren't showing up & I wasted my time blocking out a slot for them in My schedule, or restricted my personal life when I didn't have to.
 
Sure, I lose a little business this way, & it was much harder to get deposits in the beginning before I became well known, but the pay off of enforcing that system is invaluable to Me.

Whip it good Tyler!

I'm an established provider & I require a deposit of 25% for all FUTURE appointments (i.e. an appointment taking place on a day that is not today, inwhich I will have to block out time in My schedule for you & prepare toys, leather, etc). If the client doesn't like that, I tell them that they're welcome to hit Me up on that actual day but if I am already booked by someone else, or in session at the time of the call, it's first come first serve. 
I work mainly as much more of a Pro Dom how than an escort & for fetish/bdsm this is much more standard in that niche of things. Guys wanting a session in a dungeon, or with lots of toys are usually going to plan in advance, and they don't mind doing this. Other guys who are looking for more escort related things but are willing to plan in advance don't mind this either.
I tell all clients however who are hesitant they should always screen a provider before ever giving a deposit. 
-do they have adds on multiple platforms (not just RentMen) I am on Eros & Tryst as well
-do they have social media? Twitter 
-do they have a video presence, on multiple platforms (I personally have 3: OnlyFans, ManyVids, ModelHub)
-do they have a website?
-do they have reviews? If so how many? I've got 35, all 5 star mostly 
If the provider checks off all or most of these boxes the greater the chance is of them being legit & not walking away with your deposit money 
 
When it comes to money upfront before the session starts, I personally don't do this, I wait until the end. For all same day appts I don't require a deposit- the client has the desire fresh on their mind & the likelihood that they will follow through is high. I find that for all future appts that a deposit is not collected (unless I know the person), if a deposit is not received, they aren't showing up & I wasted my time blocking out a slot for them in My schedule, or restricted my personal life when I didn't have to.
 
Sure, I lose a little business this way, & it was much harder to get deposits in the beginning before I became well known, but the pay off of enforcing that system is invaluable to Me.

I'm an established provider & I require a deposit of 25% for all FUTURE appointments (i.e. an appointment taking place on a day that is not today, inwhich I will have to block out time in My schedule for you & prepare toys, leather, etc). If the client doesn't like that, I tell them that they're welcome to hit Me up on that actual day but if I am already booked by someone else, or in session at the time of the call, it's first come first serve. 
I work mainly as much more of a Pro Dom how than an escort & for fetish/bdsm this is much more standard in that niche of things. Guys wanting a session in a dungeon, or with lots of toys are usually going to plan in advance, and they don't mind doing this. Other guys who are looking for more escort related things but are willing to plan in advance don't mind this either.
I tell all clients however who are hesitant they should always screen a provider before ever giving a deposit. 
-do they have adds on multiple platforms (not just RentMen) I am on Eros & Tryst as well
-do they have social media? Twitter 
-do they have a video presence, on multiple platforms (I personally have 3: OnlyFans, ManyVids, ModelHub)
-do they have a website?
-do they have reviews? If so how many? I've got 35, all 5 star mostly 
If the provider checks off all or most of these boxes the greater the chance is of them being legit & not walking away with your deposit money 
 
When it comes to money upfront before the session starts, I personally don't do this, I wait until the end. For all same day appts I don't require a deposit- the client has the desire fresh on their mind & the likelihood that they will follow through is high. I find that for all future appts that a deposit is not collected (unless I know the person), if a deposit is not received, they aren't showing up & I wasted my time blocking out a slot for them in My schedule, or restricted my personal life when I didn't have to.
 
Sure, I lose a little business this way, & it was much harder to get deposits in the beginning before I became well known, but the pay off of enforcing that system is invaluable to Me.

He looks great - Id take him in a heartbeat.

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