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Just want to clarify, Camp-It is not clothing optional. There is a cruising area in the woods, and there is a midnight unofficial nude swim in the pool, but generally public nudity is not allowed.

Many native populations still use the word Indian to describe themselves. 

Got a massage from Wagner the other night and he was sexy as fuck. Furry, built, and tatted. Was also super nice. Had a relaxing massage with lots of body contact. Left very happy. 

Man he's my biggest fantasy. Wish he was still working.

Unfortunately the altitude got to us and we didn’t end up going out much on the weekend because we were exhausted at the end of the day. We did go to Tom’s Leather Bar on Sunday and they did have naked hard gogos even on Sunday which surprised us. One came out every half hour on the dot. We realized they’d play a showtune every half hour and right after that ended the gogo would come out which was pretty funny. 

Though if you’re into smaller guys, this might be up your alley: https://twitter.com/funny_mxxx

It's hard to take you seriously when you use terms like alphabet mafia. Do you use the term feminazi too?

Similarly, the word "homosexual" is by definition a clinical term and an accurate descriptor of who I am. But 90% of the time when I hear that word outside of the clinical setting, it is being used as a pejorative by people who hate me. Words don't literally only mean what the dictionary says they do, especially when it comes to how minority communities use those words (generally they're not the ones who get to decide the definitions).

Never said it was. The Black community has generally come to a different decision about it than the queer community has. Doesn't mean my decision is any less valid.

It's hard to take you seriously when you use terms like alphabet mafia. Do you use the term feminazi too?

Never said it was. The Black community has generally come to a different decision about it than the queer community has. Doesn't mean my decision is any less valid.

Similarly, the word "homosexual" is by definition a clinical term and an accurate descriptor of who I am. But 90% of the time when I hear that word outside of the clinical setting, it is being used as a pejorative by people who hate me. Words don't literally only mean what the dictionary says they do, especially when it comes to how minority communities use those words (generally they're not the ones who get to decide the definitions).

It's weird to me that you bring up "gay" being used as an insult here and don't realize it's hurting your argument. "Gay" is both used as an insult and as a self-identification. "Queer" is both used as an insult and as a self-identification. Lots of words can be used both as an insult and as a source of pride. Or used in a spirit of defiance in the face of oppression. I have personally had the word "gay" used more to insult me than "queer," does that mean I'm allowing myself to be defined by an insult when I call myself gay? No one is being willfully ignorant of the fact that queer can be and is used as an insult. You're the one being willfully ignorant of the fact that many people are well aware of that fact and still make the well-educated decision to use that term for themselves.

Similarly, the word "homosexual" is by definition a clinical term and an accurate descriptor of who I am. But 90% of the time when I hear that word outside of the clinical setting, it is being used as a pejorative by people who hate me. Words don't literally only mean what the dictionary says they do, especially when it comes to how minority communities use those words (generally they're not the ones who get to decide the definitions).

It's hard to take you seriously when you use terms like alphabet mafia. Do you use the term feminazi too?

It's weird to me that you bring up "gay" being used as an insult here and don't realize it's hurting your argument. "Gay" is both used as an insult and as a self-identification. "Queer" is both used as an insult and as a self-identification. Lots of words can be used both as an insult and as a source of pride. Or used in a spirit of defiance in the face of oppression. I have personally had the word "gay" used more to insult me than "queer," does that mean I'm allowing myself to be defined by an insult when I call myself gay? No one is being willfully ignorant of the fact that queer can be and is used as an insult. You're the one being willfully ignorant of the fact that many people are well aware of that fact and still make the well-educated decision to use that term for themselves.

@mike carey, there is no nail
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The meaning of words evolves over time. Saying it’s impossible for queer to be empowering because it means “strange” or “other” makes as much sense as saying “fa**ot” cant be an insult because it means “bundle of sticks.”  Sure, these words can mean those things, in specific contexts. In the modern context “queer” means “not conforming to cis and heteronormative expectations of gender and sexuality.” In many contexts today that is used in a positive or neutral descriptive way. It’s possible to lob it as an insult or slur, depending on the intent of the speaker, the same way “gay” can be a neutral or positive term or be used as an insult or slur depending on the speaker’s intent. 

I feel like it's 98% to get the boys to stick around rather than leaving for lunch.

Several years ago the NYC government made the decision to deprioritize enforcement of nudity/sexual activity laws w/r/t gay bars. Without naming any names, there are NYC gay bars that advertise having play spaces, there are events held at bars that openly advertise as play parties, and there are even gay naked happy hour events that travel around between non-gay bars. 

I also had a great experience with Armagan. Super friendly, very sexy, very powerful and sensual massage, great extras. He’s also super friendly. Only caveat is that my theory that you have to subtract two inches from listed height proved to be correct yet again lol. His ad said 6’ but I’m 5’10” and he was my height if not slightly shorter. 

That was exactly how it went. It got a bit busier as the night went on, but none of the guys were very my type. (I tend to like built or bear-adjacent dudes and they were all slim or twinky.) they advertise a drag race watch party on Fridays so I came back tonight and there were 5 people there for drag race lol. Followed by a drag show for an hour and then the same 4 guys came back out as gogos

Atmosphere has no lap dances at all. I don’t think there’s anything that could be called a “strip club” in Chicago at the moment. 

Atmosphere has no lap dances at all. I don’t think there’s anything that could be called a “strip club” in Chicago at the moment. 

Several years ago the NYC government made the decision to deprioritize enforcement of nudity/sexual activity laws w/r/t gay bars. Without naming any names, there are NYC gay bars that advertise having play spaces, there are events held at bars that openly advertise as play parties, and there are even gay naked happy hour events that travel around between non-gay bars.