kevininsa

Hey Adam,
I'm guessing here, but could it be your size?  There's not a lot of tops that are smaller than 7" in SA.  Some guys might want to btm but can't handle the larger size.  Maybe they're just attracted to your look.  The size was the first thing that came to my mind though.  My only other suggestion would be to ask.  Wait till you're wrapping up the session and just say, "out of curiosity, why did you choose me?"  It's a perfectly valid provider question.   🙃

Gloryholes have ALWAYS scared the CRAP out of me! I have a HUGE FEAR of sticking my cock through a hole and getting it slashed, cut and cut off. 
I just can't get over the fear of it. 

Too much of a lady for me.

All true, but I believe the comment "I usually screen well" meant that @kevininsais also aware of this and was telling us with that phrase that this wasn't the case.

I understand what you're saying, but this is the job they have chosen to do.  Clients are going to be all over the board.  The only excuse is poor hygiene which was NOT an issue.  I discussed this with my first hire 20+ years ago.  It was Logan Brock of Dallas.  His response?  If I'm not attracted to them I just close my eyes and think of someone else. But then, I found Logan to be a class act.
As for me, I'm not offended, but then you weren't describing me. I look 15 yrs. younger than I am. A few extra pounds, but still in good shape.  There was no reason for what happened except he wanted to scam me.  From the moment I walked in I felt like he wanted it over quickly. And his actions confirmed it.   
Ok, I'm going to try to stop ranting now.
 

“It was only 1/2 hour no passion rushed very rushed not good don’t waste time or money”
 
I copied and pasted the comment from this provider’s other one-star review on RM.  Sounds like a similar experience to the OP’s experience.  

For my 40th birthday, I finagled my way into an only fans content creator weeklong extravaganza and you’re all invited!   I’ll be posting tons of hot guys doing hot guy shit. I’ll take your suggestions on what videos you wanna see with which models doing what stuff. I’ve got permission to film and engage and hire and share and promote etc. 
 
I’ll start posting the roster as more guys sign on. 12 are confirmed so far with airfare. The house is booked. Shenanigans begin March 17th and I’m so so excited to ring in 40 this year! Start getting creative fellas! 

Interesting, he says he is a top buy shows a lot of ass...

Met with Sam last year and he was very good in pleasing. Very polite and shy which was sexy. 

Although, interestingly, drug dealers are statutorily prohibited from deducting business expenses other than cost of goods sold.
Kevin Slater

From a former IRS employee.  The IRS doesn't care what you do as long as you report it. They do not communicate any illegal acts to anyone because they want you to accurately report.  Technically, an assassin could file a Schedule C, say they are an assassin and even deduct their ammo expenses and the IRS wouldn't care.  The tax examiners would even get a laugh out of it.  But if you're concerned, just put down Masseur or Consultant.  

That's kind of intense. I admit to only find cum hot when it's fresh. After it cools off, I find it pretty gross and want it off of me as quickly as possible. 

No kissing + no oral = absolutely no hiring. 

Nope. I don't receive oral - I only perform it - but without kissing the whole session would be a waste to me.

I would not consider hiring anyone who does not provide oral (mutual, giving and receiving) nor kiss.  Was recently chatting with a cute RM in NYC who only topped, but would not kiss nor do oral. I guess they exist for some clients, but not for me. I prefer a more interactive experience. 

I've encountered this several times now where I've sent an RM message and received an auto-response to the effect that I should call or text at the number given.
My preference is to establish communication via RM messages, and once I feel comfortable, then switch to texts. In other words, I'd rather not give out my phone number until the provider has given me some evidence that he's not a flake or worse.
So I'm just curious why some people are so allergic to using the RM message system. FWIW, I've never had any serious problems using it.

I just met SamArab (https://rentmen.eu/samarab) last Saturday.  Very quiet, polite, kind of shy, but a really good top.
Re: Daniel's size:  O M G... I'm not trying that tree branch!  LOL

What others said. Success breeds attitude. What others might jump at, another doesn't pay much attention to. 

Move on to another guy. He clearly doesn’t want to work. His loss not yours. The last thing you want is give your money to someone that has an attitude. 

I actually met with Kevin and found him to be a pretty great escort. But I did get a sense that he was getting a bit tired of all the flakes and questions. 
I agree that he was being a bit rude, but I also get that he could have been answering so many questions all day he was just kind of over it. 
We all could use a little grace here.

I just met SamArab (https://rentmen.eu/samarab) last Saturday.  Very quiet, polite, kind of shy, but a really good top.
Re: Daniel's size:  O M G... I'm not trying that tree branch!  LOL

I'll talk.  Just saw last Saturday.  Very nice, polite, hot as hell.  On his phone the entire visit expect during actual play, but even then he looked in the phone's direction when it chimed.  Told me he was a passionate kisser, but barely pecked.   Lost his wood during., but he really is so hot I finished anyway.  LOL   Oh, and his English is almost non-existent.  I would not repeat. 

I'll talk.  Just saw last Saturday.  Very nice, polite, hot as hell.  On his phone the entire visit expect during actual play, but even then he looked in the phone's direction when it chimed.  Told me he was a passionate kisser, but barely pecked.   Lost his wood during., but he really is so hot I finished anyway.  LOL   Oh, and his English is almost non-existent.  I would not repeat. 

My only request is a speedo if they have one.  It's an instant turn-on for me.
Most annoying when they "forget".  More annoying when they agree and then are wearing a jockstrap or tight underwear because they don't have one.  Just tell me that, I'd rather know up front then be disappointed when I arrive!

I just glanced back at that.  How do you get that?  They all have different names.  None are duplicated.