shawshini

Guys, cool it. He obviously doesn't want to be talked about here constantly, and given the fire storm when he is, why would he? Why assume he has something to hide? How about we talk about whether he is good as an escort rather than play pointless whack-a-mole?

gee, lots of assumptions and judgment here.......maybe we should ease up a bit and be a bit more mature??.......among a few providers, this forum has a rep for being vicious and catty.......

One of my longest-term clients, and a very good friend, is still quite happy with me, and me with him. I was in my 20s when we met, I'll be 50 soon.  He was in his 70s when we met, now he's 94.  So, in answer to the OP, YES!

Ooh interesting, I’ve actually had two so far, major job change and cross country move…  but I’ll take more.  (Only two months left) 😀

A primary number year. Something significant is going to happen in your life this year.  One of my few superstitions 

I am not a provider, but I always give my age to make sure they are ok with my age.  I always get the reviews on this site first and rarely have a problem.  My current go to guy is 21 and we both leave satisfied (or at least he cums).  Bottom line is that, I sure understand that they may rather be with a younger guy, but I appreciate the effort of a true professional.   I look forward to seeing how the providers respond to this question. 

Don’t be ridiculous…..we’re gay men. 
You know damn well, anyone over 29….is ancient!

Just curious as to how we are defining “older”? 

Thank you!  This response is so helpful. I’m not insecure about hiring either, I’ve actually used it as a tool to become more comfortable in my own skin, and this is what I’d like to explore further with my therapist. 

Silly, or, perhaps, prudent on the part of the escort? Per Jack Graysonn, an established escort at New Orleans, and posted to his rentmen.eu advertisement: "Taking off for treatment, guys. Get yourself tested, guys. This is my FOURTH treatment this year and it hasn't been particularly busy. This will make 11 weeks I've had to take off because someone had something." And he ain't making reference to a common cold. . . 

First of all, I love that you are posting here @Romani.
Secondly, it would be an honor to be inspected by you. I brush and floss and have never had a cavity, so I’m hoping I’d pass!

I kiss people who have good breath. If I haven't known them long enough to determine their standards, I inspect their mouth beforehand.
If anyone's offended by this, bear in mind that you're not the only person I'm connecting with. If you don't want someone who's careful, and considers how his choices could potentially impact others, you can always hire someone who's careless and rely on luck.

I don’t want to get anyone’s hopes up, I don’t think I’ll ever open up to bottoming, and I’m not the type of man you want to fall in love with (I’ll be marrying a lady some day), but the more a person respects my time and preferences (especially those revolving around cleanliness/hygiene—I have a sensitive nose and an active imagination), the more open I become.
I have a lot of walls up to protect myself and ensure I don’t inadvertently become a home-wrecker, but I’m pretty chill around my regulars.

I'm not suggesting that this is a valid excuse for being an asshole, but it's actually closer to 9 out of 10 people who reach out. The serious ones tend to make themselves known.

Thank you!  This response is so helpful. I’m not insecure about hiring either, I’ve actually used it as a tool to become more comfortable in my own skin, and this is what I’d like to explore further with my therapist. 

I was nervous telling my therapist that I hired a couple of guys, but I felt I needed to discuss the issue since at first I had some mixed feelings about paying for sex. I told him after I was seeing him for at least several months. I think that discussing the issue with him wind up being helpful and gave me some insight

Thank you!  This response is so helpful. I’m not insecure about hiring either, I’ve actually used it as a tool to become more comfortable in my own skin, and this is what I’d like to explore further with my therapist. 

Thank you!  This response is so helpful. I’m not insecure about hiring either, I’ve actually used it as a tool to become more comfortable in my own skin, and this is what I’d like to explore further with my therapist. 

My therapist knows.  Hiring or getting paid for sex is not an insecurity for me or a hangup for my therapist.  It is a part of who I am and what brings me joy.  He also rightfully agrees that we all pay for companionship in one form or another.  My therapist has helped me mentally deal with things that I wanted to change such as alcohol consumption and my work performance.  For example,  he'll bring up how I don't need alcohol to talk with an escort, so I should be able to talk with strangers at a bar without alcohol as well. 

I joined his JFF a while back and it was mostly older content, rarely updated.  I also tried to message him there but no response.   

Well they certainly wouldn't have home phones. (Buh-duh-bing.)
Kevin Slater

Update!  He had a totally understandable delay and all worked out, I ended up having a great time.  Some things are worth the wait.  Thanks for all of your feedback, I am truly grateful for this forum!

Any developments in Atlanta? Any recommended providers who are not on Rentmen? Any good source for providers other than Rentmen?
Thanks!

True story: Back before cell phones were ubiquitous (In fact, I worked on the startup team for a provider who became part of today's T-Mobile) a hook-up was on his way to my place in Evanston, IL. It is the first city north of Chicago by Lake Michigan and despite looking like it is a short drive it can be a pain in the ass to get in and out. Guy didn't show up, didn't show up, didn't show up so I found someone else to come over. Guy #2 (the someone else) comes over and tells me about a terrible accident on Lake Shore Drive that has the north side of Chicago paralyzed. We have fun and he leaves. About an hour later, Guy #1 shows up. He's very apologetic and looks stressed and freaked out, so I invite him in. Turns out, he witnessed the horrific accident in which two people died. There was no way for him to leave the scene until the accident had been cleared and without a cell phone there was no way for him to call me. He was in no mood to mess around, but he also was in no emotional shape to drive back home, so we ordered in and hung out.
He came over later in the week.
 
Thank you for the reminder to ask if everything is OK. I should have mentioned that. 

Me, too.  He is not only lean and ripped, he is also very handsome, quite intelligent, eager to please older guys, and a really good passionate time.  A+++