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I agree. Hopefully some will read this stuff and be better clients. I’ve only been hiring a short time but in a few conversations I’ve had with some providers- they have to put up with a lot of crap.  There are assholes in every industry, but I think some of the worst people think that because they are dealing with sex workers they can take advantage or even worse, be outright disrespectful. Just my limited view take on this. 

Mutual respect, smiles, treat each other like human beings not machines~ If someone has control or anger management issues, leave them outside of your time together~ Turn off all phones~ Resist the temptation to do poppers every few seconds/minutes or every time the action gets started~ Allow for random unexpected fun~  
 

I enjoy all my meetings but some less so and it’s usually when they won’t look me in the eye (often Arabic clients with issues around gay sex), or when they have too many instructions such as “fuck me in this position, now this position, now do this etc”. I prefer the session to proceed organically with of course me including the things they like but at the appropriate time, letting it evolve naturally. 
The other characteristics that are essential for the best experience are cleanliness down there (I.e. douche well) and good hygiene. 

Hey fellas!  
 
I get a lot of joy reading your back and forth in this forum and appreciate the time you invest in answering our questions. 
 
I am going to pick a lucky provider at random and Venmo/cash app/paypal you $500.  
 
If you’re a provider, simply drop your rentmen, website or rentmasseur link in this thread and I’ll pick a winner at random on December 20th! 
 
Merry Christmas guys! 

People like different things… when you judge/shame him you are also judging/shaming people that want or do hire him because that’s what they enjoy~ For example the original poster and the other 32,323 others who checked out his profile~
 

I don’t know this person but, he might be on the party circuit: ie… think Beef Dip festival is in Puerto Vallarta End of Jan and first week in Feb:  

 His schedule looks typical of traveling escorts… a few days in each city~ Especially if people are flying him here and there~ According to his profile, he’s been on RM since 2018… He has a youthful look… So, probably popular with the twink fans~ 
 I’m beginning to travel now a bit but prior to the pandemic, my travel schedule looked insane to many people… I would be gone for two to three months at a time… one week to ten days in each city: 95% travel~
 My travel route was #1 the UK, EU and India with embedded traveling to Asia and the Middle East~ I spent approximately four months of my time in the states touring various states and cities, (big and small)~ 
 Sometimes guys would want to see me from small towns/villages because they don’t get to or want to get to the big cities~ So, my holidays were not always in the major cities~ 
 People enjoy companionship in Mayberry RFD as well as big cities~
 IDK…  He might be an opportunistic type escort, one of these guys who wants a generous gift baring sugar daddy… but, there’s a lot of that in big cities anyways. Florida is notorious for guys wanting your credit card~ Not that I think that’s right… It simply is~ New York can be like that… London too~
 I think the bottom line is if you don’t think that he’s serious just find somebody else that you have better communication with and a better feeling about. Like I said… I really don’t know this person at all but, I don’t really see that he is trying to scam anyone… I guess people responded that he’s kind of aggressive about seeking clients but, I guess some guys are like that. He also looks kind of young… So, as an escort maybe he’s got some growing to do. I’m not saying he’s good or bad… They’re just seems to be a lot of superficial judgment going on here. It may be valid and it may not be. It’s just kind of hard to tell . His profile doesn’t really look out of whack to me… He doesn’t have any positive reviews but I guess he doesn’t really have any negative ones either… just a lot of speculation~ 
 additionally to being a newer escort… He came into the business shortly before the pandemic. Not everybody work through the pandemic. I did not work at all and I wasn’t traveling with exception to three clients that I was in constant contact with and saw in a very safe situation. There are a lot of other guys that just worked all through coronavirus whether they were sick or not. I guess those guys may have gotten a lot of reviews… Mine were pretty sparse because I just wasn’t working except with these three Clients~ 
 

Thank you Minneapolis for a wonderful week and holiday cheer~ Many hugs and lots of luvins… See you again soon~!


 

I agree. Hopefully some will read this stuff and be better clients. I’ve only been hiring a short time but in a few conversations I’ve had with some providers- they have to put up with a lot of crap.  There are assholes in every industry, but I think some of the worst people think that because they are dealing with sex workers they can take advantage or even worse, be outright disrespectful. Just my limited view take on this. 

I agree. Hopefully some will read this stuff and be better clients. I’ve only been hiring a short time but in a few conversations I’ve had with some providers- they have to put up with a lot of crap.  There are assholes in every industry, but I think some of the worst people think that because they are dealing with sex workers they can take advantage or even worse, be outright disrespectful. Just my limited view take on this. 

I agree. Hopefully some will read this stuff and be better clients. I’ve only been hiring a short time but in a few conversations I’ve had with some providers- they have to put up with a lot of crap.  There are assholes in every industry, but I think some of the worst people think that because they are dealing with sex workers they can take advantage or even worse, be outright disrespectful. Just my limited view take on this. 

I’m glad he gets it off his chest. Festering is bad.

Be really clear what you’re looking for. I’m surprised they ride your cock without asking or agreeing to that beforehand. It’s unacceptable. If a client says to me “no anal” then that’s great, I know not to go there.
I think the challenge is sometimes clients will say things before the session that they then change their mind on during the session. It’s because of anxiety or embarrassment asking for something at the start or just out of getting so horny during the session that they get more adventurous. So I always check as we go by whispering in his ear “are you ok”, or before we start I’ll say that periodically I’ll squeeze his hand and he should squeeze back if all ok. I can then keep it at the level he likes. If it looks like he wants to fuck or get fucked then I’ll test by putting my cock near his hole, it’s up to him then to push himself on. He’s in control about whether it goes in. 
I think you should ask your providers to communicate during the session so that you can keep things from escalating to places you don’t want to go. It doesn’t have to be spoken; just make the physical signs clear to him. Oh and choose providers who are professional, they’re focused on your pleasure above all. I hope you find the intimacy you seek. 
 

Hey! How dare you?! He asked me the same and he will be with ME!

@Woofiecmhsame!  Asking if I want to join him in PV...  lol 

Yeah that’s when I agree, like Midtown or surrounding areas. I always try to stay in midtown if I can when in ATL. 

Exactly. But on my way out of the downtown going north last Sunday, it was pretty smooth sailing. The problem traffic came when I hit Chattanooga. Idk what’s up with that town but it seems to also have stalled traffic and accidents. Seems you have to go after midnight to be in the clear.
I’m currently in the Midwest, but with the exception of Chicago and Saint Louis, you can usually detour around it. But the caveat with the Midwest in comparison to Atlanta is: it gets very tired and sleepy here in the Fall and Winter. Even though Atlanta isn’t my taste in a city, I appreciated the liveliness and the fact that it seemed like people (especially men of color but also others) desired to be there.
In Kansas City and St. Louis, many in the Gay community just talk about wanting to relocate elsewhere. There seems to just be no zest or aspiration in these parts. 
 

Being a Midwest transplant to Atlanta...  ugh the traffic is a nightmare.  I’ve never experienced anything like it.  Sorry you had to deal with the booting @Jarrod_Uncut!!

Being a Midwest transplant to Atlanta...  ugh the traffic is a nightmare.  I’ve never experienced anything like it.  Sorry you had to deal with the booting @Jarrod_Uncut!!

This is the difference maker here. You can usually tell the pros who enjoy it and those who don't fizzle and fade.  What a gift to enjoy what you do and share with others!

I am yes. I do believe that regardless that “it’s a job” you still treat people with respect like you would in the outside world. Obviously we all have different moods, and different people bring those out at times, but as a whole you treat people the same. In my personal life I still wanna make people feel good, that should be the same otherwise.

I have one who generally will text with “I miss you, Babe”, every few months. He’s a hottie and we’ve spent 4 overnights together but he’s not kinky enough for me, although I do enjoy chatting with him and his rate is quite fair. I’m not sure I want to see him again, but feel compelled to answer his texts. When he was in NYC, he was very busy, but now I think it’s more hit and miss. Generally, I prefer to be the one reaching out.a

Reminds me of a sociology professor I had who basically said that employers pay employees to set themselves (particularly their emotional selves) aside.  His point was that workers are not just paid to accomplish a task but also to do so without letting themselves get in the way of work.  My favorite escorts have been men who are a good mix of being genuine and providing fantasy.  If someone is too detached, it's very difficult for me to have fun.  I have no delusions that these guys would have chosen to get in bed with me if they weren't working, but a good escort is someone who can create pleasure in the moment with clients and not convey, even subtly, that the only reason they are there is money. 

He’s also a super nice guy.  I haven’t had the chance to meet with him (yet), but text exchanges have been very professional and friendly.  

Here is my standard reply: "Thank you for your message - work keeps me busy so I hardly ever respond to texts. I do enjoy hanging out with you so be assured I will reach out when next I can meet. 🙂 "  Then I just ignore all text until I am good and ready to meet. 

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