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3 hours ago, Simon Suraci said:

I had this exact scenario recently. Top client hired myself and another to both bottom for him. Some kinky fun too, among other play. It was hot!

After the client had his way with us and shot a huge load all over my buddy escort, I cleaned his body with my tongue and my buddy got up and pounded a load into me…as the client watched smugly and a third guy (masseur) came in to join us for a few minutes until the client was ready for his massage to follow. 

Then my escort buddy left having completed his responsibilities for the session and my collaborating masseur and I proceeded to give the client a 4-hand massage, getting him off again for the finale.

I pride myself on providing good top service, but I can bottom with the best of them. Being “shared” is part of the deal sometimes, and I’m here for it. Whatever the client wants!

Cheers to finding what you want. Filtering your search online is one way, but it won’t capture everyone. All you have to do is find someone you like and ask. Even better if he’s a regular. That’s how my client got what he wanted.

Now that’s a movie 

8 hours ago, Luv2play said:

 I Like the earthquake idea if it comes at the right moment. 

Lol 😂 I think if the video isn’t shaky then I must not be doing something right 😁😁🫨😉

25 minutes ago, EastbayMike said:

Years ago a masseur I liked had a photo in his ad wearing a straw cowboy hat that I thought looked cute on him. Talking on the phone about an appointment,  I jokingly asked him if he wore it during the massage. He said that would be a fetish session with a $50 surcharge. This was over 10 years ago so the $50 was a 50% hike in his fee. I decided not to schedule. 

For a hat ??  my goodness 😂😂😂I just like to put something sexy on regardless.

As for me some guys will ask to video but I do find it awkward especially with a camera phone because Topping and holding the phone trying to get a good angle is a bit much. Then your video looks like a earthquake video.

I don’t care about face pix it wouldn’t sway my decision I don’t discriminate on looks. Sometimes I get face pix on the first text and I for sure know it’s a flake wanting to get off and I’m 98% right. I just don’t like face pix at the beginning of a dialogue it’s bullshitty to me . 

The only music you’ll hear is the bed squeaking. 😉🫨😌

11 minutes ago, BenjaminNicholas said:

I mean, this would probably get my dick hard, but then again, I've got a wacky variety of tastes and turn-ons

It actually kind of shocked me because he completely turned submissive so the tattoos and toughness flew out the window lol ..😂 🫨🫨🫨

2 hours ago, Your Man in Arlington said:

A couple of providers I've hired have OnlyFans accounts which I subscribed to before hiring as part of researching and deciding to go with them. For $10 or so, it's worth it before making a larger investment.

If you have the bandwidth for it, I think it could both be a way to make some money from guys who just want to rub one out and as marketing for your services.

Sounds good I’m going to look into how to set the whole thing up and get established in Of platform   
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not me but I figured I’d spice the topic up lol.

33 minutes ago, Simon Suraci said:

Yup. Best not to judge a book by its cover.

All kinds of people want service, including those with menacing gang tattoos, hard faces, or they’re in denial, or never had an experience like this before. Meet them where they’re at. They’re deciding to see you, which means they want to be there. Have an open mind. Use caution and good sense. Communicate when something is unclear. “Is this ok? Are you comfortable when I do xyz? Would you rather I do abc?”

Some clients are just weird. Not dangerous, just awkward. Some people are on a neuro-atypical spectrum. Some are just nervous. All of this is fine and normal. Take it in stride. Read the client and respond appropriately.

Protect yourself when necessary.

You are soo right , also I limit my availability as well I don’t take sessions late at night although I’m tempted but safety first.

Have any of you guys (providers) had a client that made you feel nervous or uncomfortable?. I have had this one client and I mean this guy was a tough guy tattooed everywhere including face (kinda Thug looking) big guy . He definitely kinda made me a bit nervous he kept telling me don’t be afraid, don’t be afraid. I went through with it turned out he turned out to be a sweet guy. So I guess I was judging a book but I was still being cautious.

Another guy I had was so much in denial he wanted a massage etc . But during the whole session he kept saying to his self I’m not gay I’m not gay and I was thinking is his denial going to make him flip out on me and possibly harm me so that one I politely told him I can’t follow through with the session because he was making me feel uncomfortable. I just wanted to share that with you guys ✌️

12 minutes ago, Jamie21 said:

There’s a similar feature on Rentmasseur, it tells me when people have viewed my profile and suggests “a premium Rentmasseur client has viewed your profile…he may be interested in you so consider contacting him etc”. I never do initiate contact because I think it’s up to them. 

Some of these premium Rentmasseur clients view my profile dozens of times. Maybe they’re rubbing one out to the pics, and that’s fine (if that’s you …I have a justforfans 😉) but I think it’s more likely they’re just thinking about it.

I reckon it takes a lot of intention to hire a sex worker because of the nature of the work and all the issues that surround it. If my clients have put a lot of thought into hiring me then that’s great. I want that. Clients who hire on a whim tend to be more flaky, treat you like you’re a commodity and don’t value the service. I don’t need that. Give me someone who’s thought long and hard about it, is invested in the decision and who has seen what I’m about and said “yes I’d like to meet him”. 

Long and hard seems like a good screen name too 😁😁 I’m just saying.

8 hours ago, Your Man in Arlington said:

Why elimate a potentially good customer based on an assumption?

I had looked at the profile of my current regular over the course of a year so, so many times before reaching out because I had just moved across the country, completely upended my life, and had to come to an agreement with my husband about our situation. When I told him how long I had waited to get in touch during the first time we got together and he told him what a great time I was having, he laughed it off with a "Why did you wait so long?" 🤷‍♂️

You are right I have that feeling like why am I blocking a potential client ? . Then sometimes a little frustration gets to me and it says block lol 😂 I’m quite sure I have lost a few potentials one never knows , which made me think if they are viewing my pix (“possibly”rubbing one out why not start a onlyfans also)  it would be difficult for me to manage a bunch of platforms guys have compensated me for custom videos and pix . So then again I may consider doing a onlyfans.

Hi I haven’t been posting for awhile as for me if you are viewing me over 10 times and I reach out to you and no reply back I’m definitely blocking you because obviously that person is just rubbing one out to pictures, but that’s just me 

8 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said:

If you don't want to use your credit card for privacy reasons buy a mastercard or visa gift credit card. Then you won't have anything showing up on your statement or having to enter your real info. 

8 hours ago, jtwalker said:

I've always used bitcoin.  You can buy bitcoin on Coinbase.com pretty easily using a bank account or debit card, then you "Withdraw" the amount RM indicates from Coinbase to the address that RM provides.

Once you do it a couple of times, it's really not that hard.

I like using bitcoin for the anonymity.

Thank you for the help 😊

I'm kinda stuck on this situation How do you use this  Bitcoin function to renew/purchase a membership on Rm?  I know I know I read the instructions but I still don't get it 

Is there a easier way to purchase bit coin I've never done this before I hear PayPal sells bitcoin ughhh idk 😶

On 3/2/2022 at 7:20 PM, DapperGent said:

I’d like to know who’s been in hired for a gangbang, hiring vs inviting horny men to a sex party are two different things I bet. Are you expected to be paid per hour or session, for the client perspective, is there a way to protect one from theft (having many men over). Also curious…. When you do participate in a gangbang is it hot (are you enjoying it) for you or is just another paying job?

Hi I kinda started a topic about this ,  usually I give one flat rate for a session usually the session would take place late at night and sometimes last a couple of days  I could go home and relax and get called back into the session again.. lolol usually I would have to be the motivator of all the session because new workers wouldn't be motivated. Majority of the workers was attracted to me and I would get blown etc etc it is fun  it was one escort there and omg he couldn't keep his mouth off of me  talk about me being good to the last drop lol but I do like to put on a show lol now as far as theft goes sometimes I would have to keep a eye on other workers so I kinda wore alot of hats being security, recruiter , escort etc by Monday morning I'm exhausted mentally and physically . But in a nutshell it can be fun but it takes alot of energy .

Yes I've even gotten into a situation where the other escort thought the client was paying me more than him sheesh I think this occured a few times ughhh .

Hi I haven't been posting for a while, but anyway . I've noticed I get turned off from time to time when would ask me do I have a extra friend it makes me think one provider is not enough for the client especially when they ask this during the session. It really takes time to find a extra provider . I have worked other providers in the past but I feel like I can be myself working alone . I've had situations where the client didn't like the other provider  ("friend" )maybe because he wasn't his type or ?? Either way I had to tell the provider that the client isn't interested and you have to go home .. Another instance was when I hooked a client up with a provider which he was a cool guy we would often work together with the client a few times . So I showed up to the clients home and started the session he then asked me to call my friend over .  The provider told me that him and the client had some kinda fallout drama and he's not coming (not sure was it a payment issue.. because every providers rate is different) . Either way I just don't like to be caught between the mess . I just like to work alone  It's less hassle for me .

Not for me either I like the rush I get doing this , Also I don't want to be anyone's or take on anyone's baggage. I did that once and it worked out well supported me etc etc, but in the end the compatibility disappeared  Because I still wanted to chase that rush again , But we are still good friends I've moved out living on my own not under a contract or agreement I like it this way but that's just me.

1 hour ago, nysouthpaw said:

I found him he changed his profile to THE_INK.  You know for me to meet men is to find comfort. He was making excuses that his cat ran away, then somebody robbed his apartment. . I have waited for 4 hours and he kept stating he was coming. I requested my  money and he blocked me. I was  annoyed by rentmen. they took like "oh so sorry to hear that" and yet he is still there. 

Well he's in Philly as we speak he doesn't look hot at all nothing unique about him just a few homemade tattoos Imo 😂😂 https://rentmen.eu/THE_INK/#platinum

3 hours ago, RJD said:

The Adonis was a shit hole when I went there over 20 years ago.  I can't imagine what it's like now.  The floor in the first floor bathroom literally sagged from water damage. The patrons were hit and miss....more miss than hit, but when it was a hit, it was good.  Usually closeted college jocks from one of the local universities looking to get off. I'm surprised they're still open.  

I'm sure it got worse I think now a bunch of homeless guys camp out there  . I like club philly but it is kinda expensive . The last time I went was one Friday night ... And wow it was Twink city in there lol day time is more mature guys I definitely like the basement dungeon set up and the saunas . I think they have some sort of maze there  too at least there you can get a locker and a private room some rooms have slings in them and tvs too I'm sure it's extra tho . Lol but that Adonis definitely a shithole 😂

Haven't been to any for a long long time  but I've heard form friends that Some people are still afraid to go due to covid . I particularly don't like BH just a bit too sleazy for me and here in Philadelphia they are pretty sleazy a lot of unsavory characters lurking in those places in Philadelphia BH, Well we do have a pretty good one called clubphilly but the rest of them Adonis etc etc sleazy and I carry myself pretty well but even I'm afraid lol 

My God I thought this topic was dead already.

I kinda like same day appointments more than planning, because planning gives the client a chance to search more or change his mind I've had clients wanting to book a session 2-3 months in advance which I don't know what I would be doing in 2-3 months. Granted there are some clients from overseas that wants to plan ahead and I can work with that,but if you're living a few miles from me and you want to plan a session 2-3 months come on really?.

That's why some ads say "call/text when you are ready", but same days can get overwhelming because a few times two clients wanted to come at the same time frame . Also same day appointments can burn you out too , but I learned how to adapt and adjust through all of it .