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My favorite client is one who 'if they can't make a session due to anything and they reimburse you for your time' , because I don't ask for a deposit for any of my sessions . But mostly all bottoms are my favorites , I just don't like it when you first see me you treat me like a buffet ...whoa slow down Mister 😊...but then again lol 😈

Well as for me I really stop getting up in arms about cancellations or flakes I don't expect much unless they are actually on the road or have given me some legit confirmation. And besides that I know certain keywords that send red flags to me that signals flaking or bsing so really they aren't waisting my time only theirs sometimes I play the game with them sometimes I don't and just happily block . Luckily it's good to save money just in case you get some low days and have plenty of things to do outside of the game . The main thing I learned is don't count on clients 

1 hour ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

It's arbitrary and something that the owners of RM do for 'friends of' the site.

It would be nice if they'd at least demand updated photos from their 'exclusives,' considering many are several years old.

Thank you for clarifying that for me 😘

What is Rm Exclusive I see it on some of the providers ads and how can I get that on my page ? 

Ughhh yes I hate that too I definitely have a good package 

One request I had to decline was a kidnapping scenario in public . I mean this was some movie type of scenario too. He could have been kidding but one never knows 

Well I try to carry a positive optimistic friendly cautious attitude when I'm going on outcalls, but mostly I carry condoms,lube,smell goods,phone charger,mints,sometimes massage oils 

2 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

I get some from clients googling for sensual/erotic massage and finding my website; sensualtouchco.com.

I get around 20k visitors a year to it and it’s growing. I’ve got videos on there, frequently asked questions, my location etc so that they can see what’s on offer and I don’t have to answer too many questions.

I think it gives clients confidence I’m professional about things and it’s a great way to promote yourself. I’d definitely recommend setting up a website if you are currently just relying on advertising platforms. 

I was meaning to ask someone on this site about starting a website. Any suggestions on getting the website setup and website companies? 

Mines varies from Friendboy,to Rm, to Rent masseur I use to post on megapersonals but to me it’s pretty trash a lot of scoundrels posting because it’s free I’d rather pay for my Ads . 

1 hour ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

Just curious, not trying to player-hate on anyone’s game. But this is a Question for clients and providers alike.

 

I don’t often cruise ads of other providers, but I do log onto RentMen nearly daily to check my messages/pics/updates. One thing I notice, it’s often a select few guys who are always “available now”. Whether they actually are available or not is one thing, but to me I wonder if there’s any real benefit to doing so. Or even more so, slightly suspicious looking.

I personally only occasionally post “available now”. In reality, I’m rarely ever available now, and even if I am: it’s not how I prefer to arrange appointments. Not to mention, many guys looking in the moment don’t want to wait or expect unrealistic arrival times. How much luck of a draw is it, to think one can text/call a masseur/escort out the blue with no advanced planning, and expect them to arrive/be able to host in 20-30 minutes? Can one actually expect to get a provider who’s in their best, out of that? 
 

So idk, it makes me wonder. I may post available now, but I still require a 1 to 2 hour minimum notice. I wish RentMen would have it as “available today” versus “available now”, to avoid any unrealistic expectations. Not to mention the most obvious thing: I hardly get any texts or calls looking to meet now; when I post available now, anyway. So it’s really pointless to do so most days. 

So it makes me wonder why certain guys are always “available now” round the clock, to begin with. 

Well it’s also weird to me , because when I switch to not available I tend to get more calls (rentmen) than if I switch to available. But I also have a cut off point to me accepting clients at a certain time (mainly late at night). I had my ad not available for 3 days ( just to get my focus back etc) and one client told me that I always have mine unavailable so I think some clients do look for your availability I also sometimes turn my massage ad off sometimes to give my wrists a break I sometimes go by this “absence makes the heart grow fonder “

😌😌😌😌😌

11 hours ago, lonely_john said:

I was about to book a provider when I asked if he was a Power Top and he said: "that would be $100 more".

I was shocked and I obviously didn't hire but at the same time the proceeded to explain that he would charge more because of the physical stress and that he would be the top basically doing all the work, which I must admit, but it was a big turn-off.

I just told him that I would keep him in mind and let him know.

So, when you face a client who wants more or it's a bit demanding (not me!) and asks you for things such as:

• Roleplay / Verbal,
• Rimming,
• Wrestling,
• Bondage,
• Kissing,
• Leather,
• Toys,
• Fisting,

Do you charge more for those services?

Well I usually don’t but if they ask for certain fetish play that’s going to require me to clean up my place then yes but I wouldn’t  charge anything extra for all the basics  kissing,role play ,leather wrestling etc that just comes with the package 

You guys make this hype about not hiring without a face pic there are tons of guys who don’t have face pix and some guys post fake pix up it’s a chance you take in this .  Some clients act like they are obligated to stay or that the escort is going to hold them hostage . I’m just trying to weed out the weirdos who want to collect pix and do tributes to my pix or just plain window shop . And even if there was a face pic up it still wouldn’t suffice for some, they want you to take a face pic stand on your head bend over backwards hold a sign up write the alphabet backwards etc etc nah not doing all of that . Too many hoops to jump through when ultimately the client had no intention of booking a session, as before I’m not going to outright send you a face pic I need a solid form of communication and even then it’s not even guaranteed that the client will book and it’s also not guaranteed that the scort will send a valid face pic . I’ve done it this way for awhile so this works for me . It’s a chance you take I’ve heard clients tell me stories about they met Scorts and how they robbed them ran off with money etc etc . It’s a risk you take I’ve even worked in the field before and it’s a risk I took getting into other peoples cars not knowing what they could do to me , where they could take me or anything . A face pic is not a guarantee I’ve had my pix stolen and posted on other sites and cities that I’m not even in. I don’t have time to watermark pix and edit pix and all that . I can say this once a client shows up without a face pic they are very pleased and satisfied and didn’t have any disappointments, I’m just saying.

Heh I always stay hard in condoms I just like magnums because I can be comfortable and creative. 

Oh myy am I giving these kinds of vibes off to  clients??  I’m good in the front but most clients are interested in my behind,I don’t mind you grabbing it or whatever but my God seems I’ve been meeting tops lately 

1 hour ago, Jamie21 said:

Definitely this. Polite requests from genuine clients get a face pic. If the first question is “face pic” then the answer is “no”.

It’s part of my filtering process to deter and remove the time wasters, picture collectors, fantasists and bottom end clients who will ask for a discount.

Genuinely interested clients will have seen my website, asked a few relevant questions and then if they want a face pic they’ll get one. I don’t want anyone coming to see me to have any misconceptions about who they’re meeting as that’s a poor way to start off. I want them to feel happy and comfortable when they walk through my door, and even more happy when they leave. 

Well I was kind of brutal but I started to slowly make exceptions. But I’m not doing it right out to bat ,I have to feel if the correspondence is strong enough for me to send it and if I send it and I get ghosted hey I take it with a grain of salt. But I just had some bad situations with my pix . I really want to thank you guys for giving me some feedback/pointers.😊😊 

1 hour ago, topunderachiever said:

You should NEVER get out while the getting is good.

You get out when the getting starts getting bad.  

Play it out optimistically and see what happens. 

 

Looks like it’s fizzing out that’s cool for me 

I just have this thing that I don’t send face pix out if a client request them . Im definitely not unattractive but as far as my face pix it’s just for my privacy. In the beginning I would do that , But I started to think some are just collecting to make their own personal portfolio. Some would say they don’t want to travel (incall) X-amount of miles without seeing a face pic but others have no problem doing this .Which I can see that’s valid because I would feel the same way. Sometimes I think it’s hurting my business but most times I just chalk it up . But my face pic is something I just want to hold onto for myself, family and friends. I’ve seen tons of ads where they don’t show their face just their body maybe they have the same problems with face pic request that I do maybe not .  It’s just that I feel if you want a face pic it’s really dipping into my personal life . It’s already enough that I’m naked/ half naked on these Ads also some request more and more pix (right there I know it’s Bs) . Also whenever I switch my Ad to Not available I seem to get more calls/views but when I’m available it’s  so minimal it’s kinda backwards with that. 

12 minutes ago, BuffaloKyle said:

Read this thread:

 

That is very insightful..I think I better get out while the getting is good 😌 

I’m going to keep it really short.  I kinda fell for a client I went against the professional aspect of client/escort (I guess rules) what should I do ?