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On 9/10/2023 at 11:37 PM, Coolwave35 said:

I once had an escort tell me if I booked two hours the third one was free. I’ll see if next time he’ll let me tag you in just for that third hour. 

So...if you were a regular and you both got along well and had more than a great bedroom relationship, I could see this being a nice gesture.  Maybe you're looking to chat over a drink and you book like once a week religiously for a few hours and he wanted to give back somehow.  But a provider selling the 3rd hour free to a new client, yeah no.

If it is in a place where I deem "safe" to hold hands, etc and know I will know not one person, I might.  Like a gay cruise or private resort or something similar.  I've never had that asked of me in the time I was a provider. Most guys are in the same boat, it's a dl kinda deal 😎

On 8/23/2023 at 11:18 AM, Kman said:

This is a case with a dancer at an Adonis night: I had a few dances with him over the course of the night (2-3 songs a time) and he was fun of course…and by the end of the night he started calling me his boyfriend and I know it was a way for him to get more dances but he also said ‘you’re a nice guy, I like you’ in broken English…again it’s a gimmick to get more money from me but I also think it’s not a good business practice…someone may take that very seriously and make things weird..:I had not been to Adonis event in awhile so maybe this is a common thing?

Some of the imports have no idea how dumb they sound. "My boyfriend" 🙄   I would have told him, "baby, I'm single for life and just saw something over there to take for a private dance, if you'll excuse me". See how romantic he'll be after that slap of reality hits him.

Anyone?  

For those who have not yet tried it, Session Messenger is what I use for private comms since its release.  You can download it, create a Session ID and send it to whomever you're looking to communicate with and then either keep it or delete it and create a new one.

For example, Bob the client doesn't want to use his number nor burner apps, he creates a Session ID, sends it via RM messenger or on here to the provider, the provider adds the ID and you can text, send voice memos (I use this often) or a voice call (still in Beta, currently exposes IP). If the (in-person) session goes well, you can keep the ID, if the session was a dud and you don't want to ever talk to the provider again, you can delete your ID, create a new one and you're g2g. Costs nothing, highly decentralized/private and can be re-used (n))x

I use this in my business to maintain client privacy while giving open comms channels for everyone to chat in a group setting, and also for 1-on-1 chats. No phone number/area code, etc considerations required for this service. Global compatibility.

AMA in my DM's.  Happy to walk you through the tech/setup. 

Session | Send Messages, Not Metadata. | Private Messenger

WWW.GETSESSION.ORG

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Session is a private messenger that aims to remove any chance of metadata collection by routing all messages through an onion routing network.

Would the goal be a session over the phone aka phone sex or simply to hear a providers voice if that is a factor prior to hiring?

On 6/19/2023 at 5:28 PM, arnemgreeves said:

AI is dangerous so should be outlawed, ideally. 

 

So are the roughly 13,000 nuclear weapons on this planet. Start with that problem, as there are zero positive benefits from them other than deterrence theory (read MAD). 🙄

Yes and no.  You can create a contract with a "mediator" or can execute on timeouts, etc  The sky is the limit but I understand your perspective.  There are a multitude of ways to make it work, but in all honesty both parties' basic understanding of things like wallet management, etc for decentralized escrow contracts to work is the first step before ever creating a contract for them.  Definitely an uphill battle but humans apparently had the same issues with credit cards and the internet when both of those things came out (I wasn't around to see that struggle!).   Beyond that, good UI/UX and abstracting away the logic of SC's really is the key to this gaining popularity, especially with a simple contract.

On 3/23/2023 at 3:52 AM, Markmark said:

I’m curious, how does a public ledger system solve the deposit problem?

The programmability of smart contracts solves the deposit problem.  Creating an escrow SC that is programmed accordingly facilitates deposits, returns or release of funds to the provider/client if certain conditions are (or not) met is how it solves the problem.  A "public ledger system" is a very simplistic way of viewing blockchain and its capabilities.  Similar to referencing "the internet" in a general sense rather than diving into its nuanced capabilities (social media, cloud storage, etc) to solve real world problems.

On 7/9/2023 at 12:35 AM, MCR said:

I'm such a lonely person with no one in my life. I've once paid someone $100/wk to text every day. Someone I wouldn't normally get to talk to me.  

Have you considered many of the emerging AI tools to give you some back and forth conversation?  Something as simple as chatGPT can hold conversations with zero fees and is always available. You can essentially train the AI to be whomever you want them to be.

Providers:  Is anyone interested in having an NFT-gated membership site for content and/or session sales built?  If there is any interest, DM me as I'm working on this for a few providers and thought I'd gauge interest.

Briefly, it looks like this

• NFT-gated membership platform, with NFT's paid via traditional CC processor or cryptocurrency, client's choice.
• NFT's can be associated with anything, from irl sessions to exclusive content ala OF.  This circumvents any trouble with traditional payment processors who can withhold payments to the performer.  With an NFT sale, the performer would have the option to withdraw funds in fiat currency or hold/convert/withdraw a crypto payment into whichever currency they like.
• NFT's could have limited mints, thereby introducing scarcity and a manageable campaign if they're looking to test this method of rev gen over a larger initial campaign.
• NFT's could be programmed to reflect royalties on any resale on the secondary market, thereby introducing a passive revenue stream.  This would also introduce game theory based on a client now holding an NFT, looking to resell it or hold it and reap the various benefits for doing both, for the provider and client.
• Gain global exposure to the crypto-savvy client via managed marketing initiatives or existing regular clients who are looking to support you via CC payment for their NFT.
• FOR THE CLIENT: CC payments do not reflect any explicit adult-related activities, simply an NFT mint. Crypto payment would be even more anonymous than traditional payment rails.

Feel free to DM me if there is interest and we can go from there. 🥂

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On 6/30/2022 at 4:19 PM, jeezifonly said:

If you are a “rarely” cannabis-user you should use solo time with a strain ahead of incorporation into a first-time encounter. Know whether it makes you feel engaged, observant, and happy, or just sad or sleepy. If you experience paranoia, definitely do not use it with a date.
Everyone has different levels of tolerance. (For years now, my urine samples have had seeds and stems in them, so  I’m pretty aware of my levels.) 😎

This!  If you've had some exposure to various sativa/indica/hybrid strains, you might be ok to skip this step given what you may know about them and how your body reacts to it, but for those new to cannabis (especially if consuming in a social setting) yes this would be solid advice.

On 3/11/2023 at 1:13 AM, Rod Hagen said:

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I'm using a Graston as well.  

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On 9/5/2022 at 9:55 PM, handiacefailure said:

There is a facebook group called edibles 420 that has a lot of recipes that look good

There was a show on netflix called cooking on high that was a reality show where the contestants made food with pot.   The host was hot (Josh Levya) and worth watching it just for him.

I'd like to try making edibles since that's the only way I will induce weed but sounds like you have to make the butter and I don't want to stink up my condo and I only do 20 mg of edibles once every few weeks so really doesn't pay me to make my own.

You can buy small infusion machines like the LEVO line which don't give off any scent when infusing and might work well given that you consume small quantities.  

"Cooking on High" was alright, I like the "Cooked with Cannabis" a bit more due to the more complex cooking and end results.

Apologies if this has been touched on already but has anyone explored the option of selling premium Snap subscriptions? Not Onlyfans, Snap.  Essentially getting a "deposit" and keeping the account PG.  Depending on how open the provider is to showing themselves on social, this could be a way to engage with new/existing clients while securing a deposit of sorts, rebilling monthly.  So instead of asking upfront for a deposit, the premium Snap sub gets the provider $ while also engaging with these clients.  No endless 1-on-1 DM's, direct to audience engagement.  If they opt for the sub, that amount can go towards the session.  If not, money stays in your pocket. Ideally crypto in the event a client tries to dispute a charge (depends on how you take payment).

As @Jamie21 mentioned, I would be careful to jump to deposit talk with an inexperienced/nervous client genuinely inquiring about a session. The clients that continue unnecessary chat (sex line) would be a prime candidate, imo, for a deposit talk. 

Have you tried hiring from an actual cuddling website?  I've heard success stories of some clients frequenting pro cuddlers while also enjoying their "escort proper" provider for all things non-cuddle when that itch needs to be scratched.

Ideally it would be one escort providing it all, but finding different providers to satisfy various needs might be an alternative.

13 hours ago, EZEtoGRU said:

I've never had decent Key Lime Pie outside of South Florida.  I'm sure it exists somewhere but I've never found it.  You must have key limes to make it or it won't be as good as it should be.  I lived in Miami during most of the 1990's so I had ample opportunity to enjoy excellent Key Lime Pie.  Joe's Sone Crab was my favorite.  We still order the KLP from Joe's.  It ships overnight via Fedex and is packed in dry ice.  So good.  

Joe's! My fave. I miss that place. Went there religiously as a kid during winter break 🤤

You ever make homemade banana ice cream (non dairy) and mix it in with something like the So Delicious? Next level!

Cool, yeah I do tinctures with Spirytus 76 and made a kick ass Limoncello which was a party fave.  Never made anything with butter or sugar yet...only alcohol and MCT oil based. 

Who here makes their own?

On 7/2/2022 at 8:43 PM, jtwalker said:

I am currently investing in crypto.  It has been around since 2009, has a huge following, and has a very positive track record.  Bitcoin is up around 70% over the past 3 years even with the recent crash.  It swings wild, but if you don't panic there is real money to be made here.

I got out after the last crash and noticed a trend.  When Bitcoin crashes, it tends to drop by 75-80%, then it tends to come back at 4x its previous high.  Right now, it has fallen approximately 72% from its last high.  I primarily invest in Bitcoin and Etherium and I use a hardware wallet to stay away from the exchange volatility.  I see it as a 2-5 year play and I'm investing slowly over time.

Investing 101 is buy low and sell high.  Real Estate is high right now (it won't stay there), Stocks are just starting their downward trend IMHO, Crypto is much closer to a potential bottom and buy point.  Can't predict the exact bottom, but that is where dollar-cost averaging comes in, and when it peaks again it won't matter that much if I bought at the true bottom.

This guy "cryptos" 😉

@jtwalker I agree with your overall observation, but this bear is a bit different with fundamentals unlike any bear in the past. War, economy, unsustainable lending practices, etc.  Also protocols that don't ship well audited code that becomes susceptible to hacks/exploits (a few $B in 2021 I believe, doesn't help new user adoption). A bit different but I see too many institutional dollars at play to forecast a disaster scenario.  Peter Schiff would think differently, however! 😆

Yes, CeFi is a bit of a gamble.  I ejected from the Hindenburg disaster that was Celsius months ago.  Currently enjoying sustainable yield with Nexo, however that in itself is a bit of a gamble, even with Antoni and his partner Kalin doing AMA's and real-time Armanio audits, etc etc.

Out of all the failing projects, I think Nexo will come out on top and with bank licenses, overcollateralization, the audits as mentioned it seems like the least risk among CeFi.  Have you any experience with lend/borrow platforms in the past?
And HW's are a must, love the piece of mind they give 👍

I've always wondered about this destination.  A while back I was invited by a regular to accompany him but had other commitments and it never worked out.  Is it still a hotspot destination in the summer months?

22 hours ago, jeezopete said:

Have you thought about traveling to where he is? That way you're responsible for your travel fare, hotel room & expenses. Then you can hire him for as little or as long as you want to host him in your room. On the plus side, you'll end up saving money and get to explore a new area in your free time.

This!!

I can't imagine being in a client's position, looking to jump in head first into an overnight situation with a provider who you've never met.  While spontaneity is great, it might bite you in the ass with a bad experience.  All my most memorable overnights started with a single appointment and grew out from there. My 0.2 satoshis would be not to rush an extended encounter before a first encounter.

Playing devil's advocate, perhaps the provider had a previous experience that didn't work out and is pre-emptively looking to mitigate any future issues.  Who knows!  Best way to know is to meet him and get an irl vibe so you know if he's genuine or looking to play you.