KensingtonHomo

I only hire gay or bisexual. Never straight; they are not into it. 

Are you sure it's what he uses to brush his teeth with? He could be using an old toothbrush to clean the bathroom with..

My husband and I fell into hiring while on vacation in Spain. The short version is we went to a guy for sensual massages and the session turned into a full-on sex. We had been mostly monogamous up to that point and it was a revelation. So while still on vacation, we decided to hire an escort explicitly. And we had a great time. 
We're both busy professionals with hobbies, a large friend group, and lots of family nearby. So after returning from Spain, we decided to open up to having sex with other guys together. After a few months of frustration with the apps, we decided to give Rent.men a try. And it was great for all the reasons mentioned above. 
We're both attractive and in shape (though not muscle guys) and can find guys interested in us on the apps. However, there's all the frustration people have mentioned, we also tend to be hit up by guys MUCH younger than us (which isn't our taste), and there's not the return on investment. We can hire and set up a time that works for both of our schedules, vet the candidates to ensure compatibility, and, with a couple of mediocre exceptions, it's been great for us. 
In addition to having fun with new and different guys, it's also invigorated our non-hiring sex life. 

For me I like the no strings attachment aspect of hiring, also usually the hottest lads are usually escorts so there’s that too..but I enjoy being able to be very clear about my fantasy without feeling judged and someone doing their best to fulfill it..

My husband and I fell into hiring while on vacation in Spain. The short version is we went to a guy for sensual massages and the session turned into a full-on sex. We had been mostly monogamous up to that point and it was a revelation. So while still on vacation, we decided to hire an escort explicitly. And we had a great time. 
We're both busy professionals with hobbies, a large friend group, and lots of family nearby. So after returning from Spain, we decided to open up to having sex with other guys together. After a few months of frustration with the apps, we decided to give Rent.men a try. And it was great for all the reasons mentioned above. 
We're both attractive and in shape (though not muscle guys) and can find guys interested in us on the apps. However, there's all the frustration people have mentioned, we also tend to be hit up by guys MUCH younger than us (which isn't our taste), and there's not the return on investment. We can hire and set up a time that works for both of our schedules, vet the candidates to ensure compatibility, and, with a couple of mediocre exceptions, it's been great for us. 
In addition to having fun with new and different guys, it's also invigorated our non-hiring sex life. 

I tried the gay dating apps and it’s an exercise in extreme patience and frustration, time wasted and endless chats that lead to nowhere. Not to mention the endless flakes and crazies out there - I deleted all of them. While hiring is expensive, it’s significantly less frustrating and way easier to find your type guy. 

My husband and I fell into hiring while on vacation in Spain. The short version is we went to a guy for sensual massages and the session turned into a full-on sex. We had been mostly monogamous up to that point and it was a revelation. So while still on vacation, we decided to hire an escort explicitly. And we had a great time. 
We're both busy professionals with hobbies, a large friend group, and lots of family nearby. So after returning from Spain, we decided to open up to having sex with other guys together. After a few months of frustration with the apps, we decided to give Rent.men a try. And it was great for all the reasons mentioned above. 
We're both attractive and in shape (though not muscle guys) and can find guys interested in us on the apps. However, there's all the frustration people have mentioned, we also tend to be hit up by guys MUCH younger than us (which isn't our taste), and there's not the return on investment. We can hire and set up a time that works for both of our schedules, vet the candidates to ensure compatibility, and, with a couple of mediocre exceptions, it's been great for us. 
In addition to having fun with new and different guys, it's also invigorated our non-hiring sex life. 

No, I don't worry it at all. 

No, I don't worry it at all. 

My husband and I fell into hiring while on vacation in Spain. The short version is we went to a guy for sensual massages and the session turned into a full-on sex. We had been mostly monogamous up to that point and it was a revelation. So while still on vacation, we decided to hire an escort explicitly. And we had a great time. 
We're both busy professionals with hobbies, a large friend group, and lots of family nearby. So after returning from Spain, we decided to open up to having sex with other guys together. After a few months of frustration with the apps, we decided to give Rent.men a try. And it was great for all the reasons mentioned above. 
We're both attractive and in shape (though not muscle guys) and can find guys interested in us on the apps. However, there's all the frustration people have mentioned, we also tend to be hit up by guys MUCH younger than us (which isn't our taste), and there's not the return on investment. We can hire and set up a time that works for both of our schedules, vet the candidates to ensure compatibility, and, with a couple of mediocre exceptions, it's been great for us. 
In addition to having fun with new and different guys, it's also invigorated our non-hiring sex life. 

No, I don't worry it at all. 

My husband and I fell into hiring while on vacation in Spain. The short version is we went to a guy for sensual massages and the session turned into a full-on sex. We had been mostly monogamous up to that point and it was a revelation. So while still on vacation, we decided to hire an escort explicitly. And we had a great time. 
We're both busy professionals with hobbies, a large friend group, and lots of family nearby. So after returning from Spain, we decided to open up to having sex with other guys together. After a few months of frustration with the apps, we decided to give Rent.men a try. And it was great for all the reasons mentioned above. 
We're both attractive and in shape (though not muscle guys) and can find guys interested in us on the apps. However, there's all the frustration people have mentioned, we also tend to be hit up by guys MUCH younger than us (which isn't our taste), and there's not the return on investment. We can hire and set up a time that works for both of our schedules, vet the candidates to ensure compatibility, and, with a couple of mediocre exceptions, it's been great for us. 
In addition to having fun with new and different guys, it's also invigorated our non-hiring sex life. 

Time is money. Hiring an escort cuts to the chase at your convenience

No, I don't worry it at all. 

An escort I met said he's having success finding older clients by playing pickle ball. lol 

I didn't want to be gay.  When I finally faced up to the fact at about age 26 or 27 that I was never going to become attracted to women (I'm stubborn and a slow learner), I made a promise to myself that I was never going to act on being gay. I had never done anything with guys up to that point -and the most I had ever done on the few dates with women I had had -in high school (about 2) and after high school (about 5)- was a quick peck on the lips with not even trying to get to any bases. 
 
So there I was at 26 to 27-a total virgin who had never even French kissed anyone (and to be frank-that sounded gross to me-someone sticking their tongue in my mouth or me sticking my tongue in theirs-gross!!). 
 
But over the years it ate at me more and more that I wasn't having sex-even beggars in third world countries were having sex. Even my nephew who was college age-there was a good chance he was having sex. And the older I got-I still didn't want to be gay-but even if I had wanted to act on it-how embarrassing to be a virgin in my 30's. I actually thought there was a good chance I'd die a virgin-not because of being a virgin-just that I'd never be able to bring myself to have sex before I died. 
 
But I used to torture myself by looking at the escort sites like Rentboy, the classified section of Frontiers magazine, the old Escorts 4 You site, Hooboy's Review Site-and others that I've forgotten it was so long ago. I looked at these sites pretty much on a daily basis.  
 
But I continued to be a virgin. Years passed. In my very late or early 40's I lived in Cincinnati for a few years. A reasonably short drive away in Indianapolis was a gay strip club called the Unicorn Club. It was a small place. But after the boys would do their dance, they would come off the stage. The majority of the patrons would be lined up along the back wall and sides. The dancers would start at one end of the line still pretty much undressed except for their shorts. You could touch their shoulders and chests -or even slip your hands 'lower'. Of course for the privilege, you were stuffing dollars down their pants. And the more you gave the longer they stayed with you before moving to the next guy. Of course if you weren't interested in the guy, you didn't have to pay him or only give him a few dollars, so he'd move on to the guy next to you. 
 
Seeing these handsome boys (and most of them were boys-in their early  to mid 20's) I finally decided I had to hire and have sex. By this time I was 41. I was seeing a psychiatrist at the time. I'm pretty sure I had told him I was a virgin. I either told him directly or hinted at it-my recollection is that he gave me tacit approval. But it was 23 years ago. And I can't remember for sure. 
 
So I had my first real sexual experience at the age of 41 with an escort. He was very kind. He even had to teach me how to kiss. 
 
At the time I had a good career and could afford to hire. But I was a fat bald 41 year old guy -and I still didn't want to be gay. And even if I had wanted to be gay, I figured no one would be particularly interested in me, so I continued to hire.  I think the first time I really met up with someone not an escort I was about 47. But I continued to hire until I lost a career and couldn't afford it anymore. 

The forum is keeping it real with KevinKeepsItReal.
I’ll let myself out. 

I think he's hot but I get the sense that he doesn't wear deodorant. Lots of talk about his "musky pits." I'm very sensitive to scents and BO makes me gag (in a bad way). 

I generally prefer a trimmed but natural crotch and butt. Completely hairless crotches are a turn off.
Since I’m mostly a bottom, I keep my dick and balls trim, but since my butt is only lightly furry I’ve never touched it. I felt like if I started shaving, waxing, etc it would grow in thicker. 
I’ve had a few very uncomfortable instances of hairy men who had shaved and had significant stubble. It’s like having sexy with a porcupine. 

Well, I’m on the au naturel end of the spectrum these days.  And you’re absolutely right!  You can’t know without testing.
I’m in New York all weekend.  And available for connoisseurs to test.  😏 

I would love to see the results, and offer my feedback. Some men have beautiful ass crack hair. Hair also absorbs more scent, and the scent is a bit different when compared to fully shaved. In the end, all of it needs to be tested by a connoisseur to know for sure.

I generally prefer a trimmed but natural crotch and butt. Completely hairless crotches are a turn off.
Since I’m mostly a bottom, I keep my dick and balls trim, but since my butt is only lightly furry I’ve never touched it. I felt like if I started shaving, waxing, etc it would grow in thicker. 
I’ve had a few very uncomfortable instances of hairy men who had shaved and had significant stubble. It’s like having sexy with a porcupine. 

We’ve seen him. He’s great. You can read more in the linked discussion above. 

I think some hair is preferable, especially when eating.  In my opinion, it’s difficult to have too much.  It’s not a deal-breaker, but I have never been a big fan of hairlessness down there on men or  pre-prubescent twinkishness.  But I am usually not a top.

You’ll definitely get different answers to this, as you know. Speaking as a bottom, I’ve tried it all—but I stick with sugaring now because I feel it’s the nicest all around. I’m smooth, but I’ve had a few regulars over the years, interestingly enough, mention they wouldn’t mind if I grew it out. At the end of the day, tastes vary. What matters most is working with what you have, feeling confident, and above all, enjoying the connection with your partner. The hair (or lack thereof) is just one detail. It’s the moment you create together that counts.