KensingtonHomo

No one is TOTALLY masculine. Masculinity is subjective and culturally defined. 
It sounds like you're unfamiliar with gay culture and gay men. There are lots of guys who code switch, meaning they're presenting more masculine in their day-to-day but can "queen out" when they're engaging in gay culture. 
Policing people's mannerisms for signs of femininity is a shitty way to live. Maybe talk to someone about why you're obsessed with whether gay men act like gay men. 🤣
That said, Wagner comes across as quite conventionally masculine in his voice and mannerisms. I don't know if he queens out watching Drag Race or seeing a musical because I've only seen him for massages. 

I recommend finding a masseur that appeals to you on one of the sites and then doing a search here to see reviews from others.
Generally speaking, experiences with sensual masseurs can sometimes vary by client or even by day. 
having said that, if they are reviewed highly here, your chances are much higher to enjoy your time. 
 
the rates you quoted seem on the high end but major cities often cost more. 
 
good luck. 

I’ve seen both and I agree with @KensingtonHomo: Wagner for the win. Way more connected and exciting experience. 

I've seen both of them and definitely prefer Wagner. I used to see Samgl, but after a couple of visits, I found him to be robotic and tuned out. Whereas Wagner is always very warm, gives me a big hug when I arrive, and before I leave. Wagner is also better at weaving the sensuality throughout the massage as opposed to the massage then HE. 

No one is TOTALLY masculine. Masculinity is subjective and culturally defined. 
It sounds like you're unfamiliar with gay culture and gay men. There are lots of guys who code switch, meaning they're presenting more masculine in their day-to-day but can "queen out" when they're engaging in gay culture. 
Policing people's mannerisms for signs of femininity is a shitty way to live. Maybe talk to someone about why you're obsessed with whether gay men act like gay men. 🤣
That said, Wagner comes across as quite conventionally masculine in his voice and mannerisms. I don't know if he queens out watching Drag Race or seeing a musical because I've only seen him for massages. 

I, too, would prefer their main city to be listed. I guess if someone travels regularly, you could note that. But it's easier to search for someone on here who is visiting your city by their handle than to wade through 30 posts only to discover that none of them are near you. 

This one cracked me up. We mostly hire guys 35 and over. Some of our favorite regular providers are in their 40s. 

You went to law school in Brazil and then came here to be an escort. I suspect you're quite aware of the economy, or you'd be doing legal work in your home country. Or you'd have come here to be a lawyer. 
Also, $100 per person or even a couple isn't a "cheap dinner." It's a fairly normal price for two people at a nice (not luxurious) restaurant in most parts of Brooklyn (assuming you don't drink). 
I sense that you (and some percentage of the younger guys in the business) do this because you want to live a luxurious lifestyle. You cannot afford that with entry-level legal work, so you turn to escorting. That's great if you can make it work, but in the time of a contracting economy, legal services may be essential, whereas sex work isn't. 

I'm all for people advocating for themselves and their profession, but you're moving into delusional territory. I suspect it's because you're young. But as the economy contracts and the cost of living rises, hiring is likely to be one of the first areas people will pull back on. We've cut back a bit, not just on hiring, but also in planning our vacations for this year. It's partly due to rising costs and partly because we want to remain debt-free (except for our mortgage). When fewer people are willing to purchase a service, providers either reduce prices or go out of business. This is particularly true of non-essential services. 
Plus, given how bad the job market is, particularly for people in their 20s, we will likely see more guys entering the market, which will increase supply. So, greater supply plus fewer customers (or less frequent customers) is a recipe for prices to drop.
In fact, today I got quoted $300 an hour from an extremely attractive, well-reviewed escort in NYC. 
Your allusions to people who don't want to pay $500 plus Uber rides, being "cheap" or "poor retirees," are obnoxious. People are making choices based on their interests. If my husband and I want to go on three vacations this year, we'll hire fewer providers. And if providers increase their rates, we'll hire even fewer.  And we're never paying for Ubers because we take the subway. We're happy to make a nominal deposit to prove we're real. 

I've seen both of them and definitely prefer Wagner. I used to see Samgl, but after a couple of visits, I found him to be robotic and tuned out. Whereas Wagner is always very warm, gives me a big hug when I arrive, and before I leave. Wagner is also better at weaving the sensuality throughout the massage as opposed to the massage then HE. 

No one is TOTALLY masculine. Masculinity is subjective and culturally defined. 
It sounds like you're unfamiliar with gay culture and gay men. There are lots of guys who code switch, meaning they're presenting more masculine in their day-to-day but can "queen out" when they're engaging in gay culture. 
Policing people's mannerisms for signs of femininity is a shitty way to live. Maybe talk to someone about why you're obsessed with whether gay men act like gay men. 🤣
That said, Wagner comes across as quite conventionally masculine in his voice and mannerisms. I don't know if he queens out watching Drag Race or seeing a musical because I've only seen him for massages. 

Since you're new to bottoming, you might be overdoing your prep. If you're on a high-fiber diet, take extra fiber (capsules or Metamucil), and douching should be minimal. This guy's videos are great: https://www.youtube.com/@BottomsDigest
Admittedly, I have a ton of experience. 😈 but since I came of age when everyone used condoms, prepping wasn't as much of a concern. So I've learned a lot in the past few years. And I've cut my prep to a minimum with no issues - like not even an odor. 
 

I've seen both of them and definitely prefer Wagner. I used to see Samgl, but after a couple of visits, I found him to be robotic and tuned out. Whereas Wagner is always very warm, gives me a big hug when I arrive, and before I leave. Wagner is also better at weaving the sensuality throughout the massage as opposed to the massage then HE. 

I saw him today. He’s absolutely wonderful. His massage was strong, sensual and engaging. He’s very sweet and as far as extras go, they were well incorporated and unique. Some of the massage positions particularly with my legs and butt were novel to me. For me, the best sensual/erotic masseurs manage to seamlessly incorporate the erotic elements into the massage itself. Wagner really excels at that. 
He looks as good or better than his photos. If you like thick, muscular, and furry guys, you’ll love him.
I did 60 minutes but next time I see him, I’ll go for 90. 

No one is TOTALLY masculine. Masculinity is subjective and culturally defined. 
It sounds like you're unfamiliar with gay culture and gay men. There are lots of guys who code switch, meaning they're presenting more masculine in their day-to-day but can "queen out" when they're engaging in gay culture. 
Policing people's mannerisms for signs of femininity is a shitty way to live. Maybe talk to someone about why you're obsessed with whether gay men act like gay men. 🤣
That said, Wagner comes across as quite conventionally masculine in his voice and mannerisms. I don't know if he queens out watching Drag Race or seeing a musical because I've only seen him for massages. 

I've seen both of them and definitely prefer Wagner. I used to see Samgl, but after a couple of visits, I found him to be robotic and tuned out. Whereas Wagner is always very warm, gives me a big hug when I arrive, and before I leave. Wagner is also better at weaving the sensuality throughout the massage as opposed to the massage then HE. 

No one is TOTALLY masculine. Masculinity is subjective and culturally defined. 
It sounds like you're unfamiliar with gay culture and gay men. There are lots of guys who code switch, meaning they're presenting more masculine in their day-to-day but can "queen out" when they're engaging in gay culture. 
Policing people's mannerisms for signs of femininity is a shitty way to live. Maybe talk to someone about why you're obsessed with whether gay men act like gay men. 🤣
That said, Wagner comes across as quite conventionally masculine in his voice and mannerisms. I don't know if he queens out watching Drag Race or seeing a musical because I've only seen him for massages. 

Neither me nor any of my hot friends have decamped from NYC to Florida or California. Massachusetts passed a 4% income surtax which raised $5.6 billion with no significant fleeing of the wealthy. 
Data shows Mass. is home to more millionaires despite new surtax, according to advocates
WWW.NBCBOSTON.COM Surtax supporters released data Monday that they said pokes holes in the argument that the state’s new tax on high earners is... I do not understand how any queer person is moving to states where their rights are negated or are being eroded. And if you’re a cis gay man who’s moving to states that are attacking trans people, destroying their public health systems, gutting their disaster responses, etc, that lower cost of living may turn out to be very expensive. 

Since you're new to bottoming, you might be overdoing your prep. If you're on a high-fiber diet, take extra fiber (capsules or Metamucil), and douching should be minimal. This guy's videos are great: https://www.youtube.com/@BottomsDigest
Admittedly, I have a ton of experience. 😈 but since I came of age when everyone used condoms, prepping wasn't as much of a concern. So I've learned a lot in the past few years. And I've cut my prep to a minimum with no issues - like not even an odor. 
 

My husband and I started hiring in 2019. Our first time was in Spain. I believe the rate was 150 euros. After COVID, when it was safe to hire again, we were getting $300-$350/hour. Now, it's not uncommon to come across relatively new guys (with recent profiles and no reviews) asking for $500/hour. That's a 40% increase in rates in about 4 years. Over the same period, cumulative inflation is about 25%. And that inflation affects clients and providers alike. 
It's not for me to say how much a provider charges, but it's not surprising that some clients are turning their noses up at such a steep rate increase. It's definitely deterring us from trying new guys. First, because our regulars have kept their prices consistent. Second, because a lame $500 appointment feels worse than a lame $300 appointment. 

I think he took exception to you inferring that providers are disposable as opposed to human beings who have good days and bad days. I’ve had providers struggle to maintain and erection as have I. A good seasoned provider will offer options to get you off. Toys, fingers, rimming.
the only time a provider really annoyed me was when he pretended he wasn’t having an issue, by lying on his stomach the whole time. It was me and my husband looking over him at each other like 🤷🏼‍♂️. He’d been to a brunch and had some drinks - which are known to fuck with performance. So it just felt irresponsible. 
 

Since you're new to bottoming, you might be overdoing your prep. If you're on a high-fiber diet, take extra fiber (capsules or Metamucil), and douching should be minimal. This guy's videos are great: https://www.youtube.com/@BottomsDigest
Admittedly, I have a ton of experience. 😈 but since I came of age when everyone used condoms, prepping wasn't as much of a concern. So I've learned a lot in the past few years. And I've cut my prep to a minimum with no issues - like not even an odor. 
 

Since you're new to bottoming, you might be overdoing your prep. If you're on a high-fiber diet, take extra fiber (capsules or Metamucil), and douching should be minimal. This guy's videos are great: https://www.youtube.com/@BottomsDigest
Admittedly, I have a ton of experience. 😈 but since I came of age when everyone used condoms, prepping wasn't as much of a concern. So I've learned a lot in the past few years. And I've cut my prep to a minimum with no issues - like not even an odor. 
 

Despite being in NYC, which has a pretty big market, 15-20 percent has some appeal to me. As @NYXboy noted, I'm generally into older providers (30s and 40s). I'm not into twinks or guys who are selling their muscles as opposed to their skills, personality and emotional intelligence. I have a preference (though exceptions are made) for men who are 6' and taller. So that does lead to using filters and having to go through a lot of guys to find ones that really appeal to me. 

This is a standard fantasy. You should be able to find a bunch of providers willing to engage in your fantasy. I would encourage you to read through their reviews and see if anyone here has seen them. That's partly for security, but also to ensure they have a record of delivering for their clients. I can send you some guys if you're interested.