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  1. 2003. I was about 38, and in a long-term relationship that had gone sexless. Problem was that I still loved the guy. So I convinced myself that hiring a scort could help me scratch the itch without the risk of it turning into a competing relationship.

     

    My first hire was this adorable latino named Kenno from Rentboy, located in a large shared apartment in Queens. He was probably 20, with a beautiful body, smooth dark skin, and sweet demeanor - my ultimate fantasy. I was so nervous I was almost shaking. I filled three condoms that afternoon lol. Funny enough, newly-emboldened me soon found another adorable latino on rentboy and decided to give him a shag. Turns out he lived in the same apartment, in a neighboring room. I asked him if we could get kenno to join us, but he said that they were friends and didn't have sex with each other. Oh what might have been.....

  2. This is pure speculation on my part, but I suspect there are escorts who will rim some clients but not others. To illustrate my point, you might find lots of escorts willing to rim the first ass shown below but no escorts willing to rim the second one.

     

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    Yes, but Congress rims that ass every day
  3. Based in New York, and have used to pro section a few times. At the risk of generalizing, I find it a bit sketchier and less reliable than RM. I'd say my experience ran as follows: about 1/3 did what they advertised and were good. 1/3 did not quite match their pics or backed away from some of the things they said they did (ie, kissing, bottoming, etc.) but I muddled through, and 1/3 were scams (nothing like their pics, tried to get money up front, seemed high or threatening or both, etc.). So, use more than your usual caution

  4. Grew up in the '70s. Robbie Benson, Donny Osmond, and Eddie Albert Jr. (see Midway, 1976) were all masturbatory obsessionshttps://www.bing.com/images/search?view=detailV2&ccid=pohqK4cW&id=3F5997DABA89039C92A0783BB3EE4659BEF22EFF&thid=OIP.pohqK4cWYe8Fs7qFBJjrJQHaFj&mediaurl=https%3a%2f%2fs-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com%2f736x%2f96%2f8b%2f57%2f968b57ecefdf17a179f37d701b09938b.jpg&exph=552&expw=736&q=robbie+benson+shirtless&simid=608032004633329965&ck=329ECA7BF457EC26622F658333AB737D&selectedIndex=8&ajaxhist=0

  5. Not a fan. Too many pitfalls. And I'm afraid the dynamic of any future booking may be off; people often tend to engage in obligations for which they've already been paid begrudgingly, like they're doing you a favor by upholding their end.

     

    I understand that this guy needs some help. That's when he should look to friends and family, but not clients.

     

    Kevin Slater

     

    Very insightful, Kevin. I had a situation like that with a regular provider who asked for "an advance" that he would work off later. Those later sessions played out just the way you describe, and it ended the relationship.

  6. I had a bunch of days coming up where circumstances would have allowed me to host and I was working on a quite a line up. I had squirreled away a little pile of cash and had all sorts of decadence planned. In light of recent developments (and the incubation period of this damned thing) I am going to abstain and put the slutfest on hold. It kills me to do it, but then again I don't want to get killed doing it.....

  7. Sexual chemistry is crucial to me. Few things worse than being with a guy who isn't into it. I would rather know that in advance and not have to deal with the disappointing appointment. If he gets my pic and declines, I just think "how awful would it have been to be lying next to him watching him try to get hard....?"

  8. Hi guys ITS ME!!! first off THAkS SO MUCH for the interest and Attention. I truly am grateful even to Parker Copper For Starting this thread Even though I’ve never met him or even spoken too him on the phone . Parker I am sorry if Im wrong about you being a scammer. I have Gotten several scam messages of people are trying to steal credit card info.

     

    How nice to see folks behaving like mature adults on this site! A misunderstanding followed by an apology. It's a shame that it is so rare, but nice to see it. Good for you, Monty.

  9. I have not been a client of his, but happen coincidently to know him in a completely different setting (I don't know if he knows that I know.....). I can say that, in a non-escort setting, he is a friendly and warm person. I am surprised to see the descriptions of his behavior noted above, but perhaps he was going through a bad patch. I would actually love to hire him, but because of the existing social relationship it would be, to say the least, awkward.

  10. Sounds a little too accommodating. I would do two things -

    1. Get some verification of his photos (use the old two-finger selfie approach, or skype, or something like that) so you can be sure he is who he says he is.

    2. Tell him that you need him to quote you a specific amount that he would expect

  11. I have met him a few times. Truly as luscious as his pics suggest, and a very sweet and friendly guy. A little bit shy at first -- methinks he has a girlfriend and may be genuinely bi -- but he does all the m4m stuff like a champ. Heartily recommended.

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    There is a difference between negotiation of a transaction and seeking an opinion. Given your record of posting in this forum one couldn't expect you to understand that.

  13. One, no judgement occurred. I presented a question, not a judgment.

     

    Two, kinks (i.e Piss play, spanking and nipple play) are hardly the same as racial fetishization. Racial undertones are not “fantasy,” “role play,” or “pretend.”

     

    Three, you are not a person of color, so to communicate to me, a person of color, that my experience is potentially invalid because it is foreign to your own and it is something that you will never come to understand or experience in the compacity that I have...well, that just doesn’t make any sense.

     

    Four, this is not the political sub forum, I am not James Baldwin and while you are entitled to your opinion, I am entitled to not fully entertain it, because historically, once we start going down that path, it leads to a locked thread, and for good reason.

    Don't ask for opinions if you only want to hear things you agree with.

  14. On Rentmen or Mint?

     

    Gman

    Mint. Rentmen were more responsive, but as I was outside of central Boston, the outcall rates were pretty insane. I thought I might find cheaper and more local fare on Mintboys, but like I said rarely even got a response.

  15. I recently visited Boston. In advance of the trip, I reached our to 18 (yes, 18) providers via text AND email, in most cases twice. Eventually heard back from 4, hired 1 who barely delivered.

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