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I think when people, especially people here, refer to "drugs" as bad we're talking about the big offenders of badness: Meth, GHB, fent/morphine/opiods like cocaine. These are the ones that'll most likely cause sudden erratic behavior. Alcohol takes time, weed doesn't, aspirin??caffeine? nobody is referring to those.

Sensual usually means "the least amount of things I need to do to get this client off the table while having them paying the most".

I recently had a massage guy in LA who would charge escort rates and we did some side play at the end of the massage, all good no problem. Until one time there was no side play after and I still paid escort rate and left... a week later he texts me asking if I wanted to book and I told him that while enjoy the massage the previous time there was no side play and... he went off on me saying that he brings ENERGY and his SELF to the whole session and he shouldn't feel PRESSURED to do things he didn't want to do. I said "OK Understood" and didn't book again.

In the gay community mostly Meth and GHB. Cocaine too. I don't book anyone with PNP on their profile.

If I see someone with 'PNP' on their profile I won't book. When I've asked about this they either refer to Meth, or GHB. The whole "I have PNP in case my clients use, but I don't" is... sus.

Check their ads for any keywords. PNP, Party, random G or K capital letters, clouds, smoke, crystal emojis or party hat emojis. “Long sessions” can also mean drug usage

I mean you're literally being rude and offensive to all Jewish people. I think he might've dodged a bullet there.

TBH I would prefer if they're that direct that they wouldn't be able to perform. Whether that's an age, weight, disability thing I rather they tell me so we don't waste each other's time.

A second phone always for initial contact. Remember that providers can rate you using Mr Number.

and others will take advantage of that so they don't have to do the work.

Nope. In LA.

I remember telling him that I understood and if he wasn’t feeling it it wasn’t a problem I can pay for a therapeutic rate and he doubled down “I am also bringing my ENERGY to this and my ENERGY is what you’re paying. You are being reductionist by making it about sex and money” I had never met a worker in this business that wasn’t comfortable talking about business like him.

All the time:

Depends on what are you talking about "extras": If it's side play during a massage (e.g oral and/or jo) it should be part of the 'Erotic' massage rate. You should've asked if they provide an erotic massage. If you're wanting full on escort/sex, you ask them if they provide "full service". Nobody should be getting offended by being asked this, especially if it's someone you met on say rentmasseur. I can share that I had an awful interaction with a massage guy who had a great massage technique and we would have some side play to finish. He was charging escort rates but I didn't mind much because it was a good massage/side play and I'd see him every weekend for about 2 months UNTIL one day he didn't engage on the erotic side nor he say anything about why was it missing so I paid and left. A week later he asked me if I wanted to book and I said that I would, but for his rate I would always expect erotic play. He then went off on me saying that if he wasn't feeling it he wasn't feeling it and that I shouldn't be coercing him to do any thing, because it's his body and what not. I said it wasn't gonna work for me because at that rate I'm not going to be for 40 minutes on that table wondering if it's gonna happen or not that time, the whole point is for me to relax. I thanked him and he blocked me 🤷‍♂️ If you're a provider and you're not feeling it I totally get it, you should set your ad to 'not available' until you're feeling it, otherwise is just scamming people.

The majority of my people don't take it as a job or business where you have to be professional so they care little if they scam you or fuck you over because there'll be plenty of others. I do know one in NY (that advertises as Colombian) and one in LA (that says they're Latino but not Venezuelan) that do take it seriously and are good, but I would AVOID any Venezuelan twink/twunk like guy.

Flexspa in LA has a gym and you could get a room there too and invite any guy but know the gym is a public space even if you can be naked

I'm from Venezuela and we do use the metric system ha. What I'll say is, I've met and know a lot of the Venezuelan providers on RM and would stay away from about 90% of them. In fact, some of the ones I would recommend post they're from Colombia or Brazil.

You folks need to say where you are. I know a couple of them but they're in LA, though working out naked would be limited to one that has a home gym, you won't be able to do that at 24hrs fitness haha

Haha I kinda have a "tier" system: Hookup with Benefits: 1hr bookings usually from people new or visiting town. Friends with Extra Benefits: 2hr+ bookings with guys I've had good fun/chemistry with. About 3 guys on rotation. Boyfriend with Benefits: 3+hrs, overnights, travel. Keep 1 guy usually and is sort of the one I move my calendar around, fly around, travel, etc. Recently "broke up" with my latest BWB after almost two years as he was not performing as well as he used to. So been testing the waters around.

If you're thinking Wilton Manors I actually recently stayed at https://wiltonsuites.com/ and they were great. Close walk to Wilton Dr and the bars/scene, full kitchen, parking, next door to a grocery store, pool and fully self check in. You get a code for the front door and another for your apartment door so you can let in doordash/hookups easily

Nope. That’s why is not listed. He’ll fuck your brains out for sure but no kissing

If I'm not mistaken this place is now ran by @Oliver... I've not been yet, I have a reservation for the PS Weekend there but hopefully it has been updated as the last time it definitely was very much a dump

I've met him a few times, if you're looking for like a BF experience with making out and romance well, forget about it haha. He's a sexy hot guy who'll fuck your brains out with that thick hot dick of his and he's super skilled at that.

He’s a heavy drug user. Like heavy. I see his profile all the time on sniffies with the common drug emojis and writing on the public channel about smoking and fucking.

I've paid 500/hr with a min of 2 hours before to someone who IS Top quality. He was a total professional for the most part, great body, dick and personality. Talking 4k overnights, 8k weekends where I would fly him around and put him up in 5 star hotels. Unfortunately they started slacking and after a while they performed less and less... so I booked less and less and nowadays I don't book him at all. His loss.