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10 hours ago, Mike_Scarn said:

Sorry!

m4m bodywork 717 8th ave

Male massage nyc 10 east 39th st

A google map search for the one on 39th leads to a guy named Pizh, who has been reviewed here several times. Lots of info found via the search function on this site using that name. 

1 minute ago, Mike_Scarn said:

Sorry if this has been covered but i just cant find it. Anyone have experience with the m4m massage spot on 8th ave and another on 39th??

 

dm me if anything. Thanks!

Cross streets would be helpful.
8th ave & ?
39th & ?

16 hours ago, Benhby said:

Hi everyone. I need some advice. 
I have two choices now for our third location. One is at east village. 7 th st.    One is at k town 33 st.   Which one you guys think is more convenient for travel ?  Thank you 💞💞💞

K Town is not that far away from your 27th St location and there are already at least 3-4 other spas in the area serving the same clientele. I would vote for the East Village over K Town. As for other neighborhoods, maybe the West Village? 

15 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said:

You seriously need to get over your narcissistic attitude.

Now I'm supposed to understand what you meant to say and not what you ACTUALLY typed? 🙄🙄🙄

The world doesn't revolve around you.

And just because YOU can't tell the difference between an actual bisexual and a gay4pay dude, doesn't mean they are the same.

Narcissistic? Well, if that isn't the pot calling the kettle black. lol 

How would I be able to tell if someone is actually bisexual or just gay4pay if I haven't met them???

I suppose you have trouble when someone accidentally types here/hear, their/they're/there or two/to/too? Life must be tough for you. Or is that "life must bee tough four ewe"? While weary and wary are not exactly homonyms like these examples, they are fairly close in spelling and pronunciation, and easy enough to figure out what was meant.

So, you have a couple of options - get over it or continue to be a dick. Your choice (You're choice?) Sew sorry two confuse U!

Buh-bye Bi!

I have only experienced bait and switch tactics when texting. I would ask who's available, they would send pics and I would choose someone. All of a sudden, that guy wasn't available. Happened twice. Luckily, I only wasted time texting and the switch didn't happen when I arrived. After the 2nd time, I gave up on trying them.

5 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Perhaps you should check the dictionary and look up the meaning of the word "weary".

Mea culpa. I meant "wary," as in "feeling or showing caution."  If anything, you could have gotten that from the context clues in my post. 🙄

On 5/18/2024 at 6:16 AM, MmM said:

The discount is only for the business. The masseur gets the same amount. I know this to be a fact. 

Yup, that's just what I thought. Thank you for confirming. 

9 hours ago, JohnJackNYC said:

What’s the 411 on New Yorkers Men’s Spa over at 6th ave? Not sure to trust google reviews. I heard it is better to get actual opinions here from the people that has actually experienced the service there.

Based on your recent posts, I would suggest you stay away from New Yorker. Especially if you like to tip $30. lol

12 hours ago, JohnJackNYC said:

Disgusting!!!! I would tip good or even ask for a price if I wanted something cause I know those are not free, but I didn’t, they kept offering HE. Sometimes, all I want is a very good massage the entire session BECAUSE I WANT TO release the tensions on my back. I just want to relax, but they think I want whatever they have all the time.

You're going to a place like TSMS just for a "very good massage"? Do you go to McDonald's and expect fine dining too? 

Most "men's spas" are good for one thing, and a legit massage is not it. These guys are providing a "special service" and going in expecting something else just disappoints both you and the masseur. lol 

17 hours ago, viewing ownly said:

I can't believe in this time and age that a place would have a "stamp card". I sure hope the masseurs aren't aware that they're working on your "freebie" day. Done this with a masseur once, and the "get one free" day sucked - in a bad way.

Stamp cards offer an avenue to encourage loyalty and repeat business. Most that I have encountered at spas offer a free 30 min massage, which I'm assuming is usually used by most people during a 60 or 90 min massage. The spa is still getting some money from the massage and the customer feels like they are getting something as a thanks for their continued business. I use mine to get a 90 min massage (i.e. pay for 60 min) and I tip based on the 90 min rate. Maybe I'm naive but I assume that the masseur is being paid the same from the spa for the massage and it's the spa that's taking the hit on the discount. 🤷‍♂️

And frankly, if you don't want to use it because you perceive that your masseur is being cheated out of their pay, then don't use the card! It's pretty simple.

7 hours ago, Danny-Darko said:

While I agree with you that ideally it would be nice to have sex with somebody that is attracted to guys, in reality at least in my case, it puts them in the same position as you mention the "bi" guys. Because most gay gays don't want to have sex with old out of shape men. So even if they are same sex attracted that doesn't help me any. So the bi/gay4pay thing is not an issue for me. 

Whether they are attracted to guys or not is not really the issue. Most providers are probably not attracted to many of their clients. However, there is still a basic interest in having sex with someone who is the same gender. Straight guys generally don't like to take a cock in the ass but a gay or bi bottom would pretty much always be able to do it regardless of attraction. I could advertise myself as a escort for women, but I would never be able to actually perform to any woman's satisfaction. 

21 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

No.

The way you worded your post did NOT make that clear.

You said you were tired of bisexuals because they are just gay for play and don't actually like sex with guys.

You seem to have a strange understanding of the word bisexual.

 

I'm so sorry that you seem to have trouble with reading comprehension. Or maybe you just get so triggered around the subject of bisexuality and you just jump into attack mode? I don't know.

This is what I said: "I'm always weary about bi guys when it comes to hiring. In my experience, it has been more "gay for pay" (bi for pay? lol) and I want someone who actually likes sex with guys."

Nowhere in that statement mentions anything about me being "tired of bisexuals" or that bisexuals are really gay4pay nor did I say that bisexuals "don't actually like sex with guys." I literally said the opposite - instead of getting bisexuals who do like sex with guys, most of the providers I have hired who claim to be bisexual are in fact gay4pay and don't like sex with guys; they are just doing the bare minimum (if even) to earn some money. 

Reading (comprehension) is fundamental! 

21 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Bisexuals like sex with guys.

That's the DEFINITION of bisexual.

Don't mistake gay4pay for "bisexual".

 

 

Sensitive much? I think I was pretty clear that my experience with providers who CLAIM to be bi has turned out to be more gay4pay and therefore lacked in the enthusiasm required for the job. I'm not "mistaking" gay4pay for bisexual. I'm saying the providers in my experience have left a lot to be desired in their claims to be into men or gay sex in general. Outside of hiring, bi is not an issue. 

I'm always weary about bi guys when it comes to hiring. In my experience, it has been more "gay for pay" (bi for pay? lol) and I want someone who actually likes sex with guys. I would probably only hire a bi guy if he has good reviews over a lengthy time period (not just 3 reviews in 1 week).

Outside of hiring, wouldn't think twice. If we're going to hook up and no money is involved, there's no issue.

Are you sure? I mean, he just joined rentmasseur two days ago and he already has two positive reviews! How could he possibly be fake! 🤣🤣🤣

Anyone with experience with AlexxT?

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On 5/3/2024 at 9:12 PM, Tcre78 said:

Can anyone tell me how you know who you are getting at Energy, Grandee or any other spa other than HK and 27? Grandee has "Masseur A, B, C, D" online but who are you getting. I am new to this spas (other than HK and 27), had a bad experience and looking to branch out. But rather know what the guy will look like prior to walking in. Do I just look through this message board for the time being?

I love that HK and 27MS post their schedules. Shangrila sort of does that too, but you have to start the booking process to see names. 

I find recommendations on this site and then call/text the spa and ask if they are working on the day I want to go. I may not know what they look like, but I usually have an idea from the recommendation. 

Wow, so many newbies coming out of nowhere to sing Chuck's praises! It's a miracle!!! 🙄

3 hours ago, EVdude said:

So Kenbodymassage is mapping to Paris Men and he refers to himself as Chuck giving spa sessions. Been on RM since 2018. Only one thread asking about him under the Ken banner. Can’t see the private pics, but not believing the 1st public pic.

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I wonder if Chuck (or Ken?) is the same Chuck from 27MS. I haven't seen his name on 27MS's roster in the last few weeks. I thought he was taller than 5'10" though.

13 hours ago, Tonal said:

Chuck at Paris Spa is a very professional masseuse. I know him for some time and his massages are consistently good and well worth a visit. His deep tissue massage is very energetic, your body feels the energy, the whole body relaxes and relieves fatigue. I'll make another appointment with Chuck

New construction at the spa offers enhanced privacy. I recommend Chuck and Paris spa 

Hi Chuck! 🙄🙄🙄

You should absolutely tell them. Part of the whole idea behind hiring an independent masseur, either for an in call or an out call, is the sense of privacy as opposed to going to a spa with others around. As a client, I always go to the masseur's place. I've had a few times when the masseur had company. One time, it was the sister of the masseur and another was a guy who hid in the bathroom except I needed to use the bathroom before the session. Very awkward. Another time, the masseur informed me ahead of time that his landlord was in the house (he rented a bedroom) and he said he told the landlord that I was just a Grindr hook up, not a client. He didn't want him to know what he did for work. I never saw the first two masseurs again because the surprise was just too weird, and frankly, disrespectful. I should not have been put in that position. 

I can only imagine that the masseur in your situation felt similar. The surprise of finding another person there probably made him nervous. Was this a sting? Was he going to be robbed or beaten up? At least give them a heads up and let them make a decision for themself. 

22 hours ago, aquariaman said:

The new Chris at Shangrila is definitely NOT the Chris that used to work there, unfortunately. 

 

Hmmm, that's probably why they never responded. 😢

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On 4/15/2024 at 7:07 PM, NYC_massage said:

Does anyone know if the Chris that is back on the schedule at Shangrila is the Chris that used to work there? Any insights? His massages were fantastic!!

You've gotten my hopes up! I just sent them an email asking if it's him. I only had one massage with him before he left and he was great. I hope it is him! haha If they reply, I'll let you know.

On 4/2/2024 at 8:51 PM, Namenamename said:

Has anyone seen Noah at 27 men’s/ HK spa?

I wasn't impressed. He jumped fairly quickly into "extras" mode and he liked to flex for his own pleasure while staring at himself in the mirror. He gave a mediocre massage.