MiamiLooker

Outing clients? Never happened.

 

Proof please... I'll wait.

Maybe it was ok since he was a celebrity?

http://15minutesmore.com/blog/2005/08

"I got an email today from a friend who escorts in LA letting me know that a recent hourly appointment of his was none other than reality nudist Richard Hatch! Why was I not surprised? The last I heard from Hatch, he was skipping down the primrose path and headed for a long vacation at Club Fed, thanks to his recent tax-evasion scandal."

Awww. Pulling context from such a long time ago.

 

What a precious Fox News tactic

I don’t keep up with your blog, but if you’re no longer doing that or outing clients anymore, that’s a good thing. When did you make the change? Was including this kind of stuff in your blog helpful in promoting yourself?

What is disturbing to me is the level of this generations actual "trying" to act like women. It's one thing when a guy is slightly less masculine than others and that's fine. It is almost sweet in nature and who wants to be around a bunch of hairy smelly gross dudes all the time. But when you go out and see each one of them say "bitch" to each other every other word or refer to one as "she" it is off putting. Wearing make up and walking like one is walking down a run way in Milan is an erection killer for sure.

 

It's also just as weird when you see muscular, older hairy guys in porn hyper masculinizing themselves with their butch antics. "Oh...fuck yeah... of fuck....yeah" (all in a guttural groaning sort of way) then see them in person and the lisps are all over the place. Huh?

 

In the heterosexual world ones way of being is usually second nature to them. Not something to prove. Our culture on the other hand "tries" to be one way or another. A lack of self identity maybe?

Affectation

’m literally praising a member of this site who consistently speaks against ageism, racism, body fascism, judgment of sex workers, and other vile “ills”, that plague “gay world”, and youcall that “internal homophobia”?!?

So, he no longer posts blind items in his blog about which escorts are HIV+ or which escorts are barebacking with clients?

Do you really think moving to a different city is going to resolve the perpetual issues you seem to have?

Jon does indeed look great. I hired him many, many years ago. I'm thinking his age is the next thing to update in his profile.

A funny post from DataLounge in 2008 (https://www.datalounge.com/thread/7363914-jon-ramsey-escort):

Helen Keller could tell that mother fucker's not 35! Maybe 20 years ago...

—Anonymous

reply 4

12/29/2008

Saw this today for Orlando:

https://rent.men/TristanWaters

If his ad is real, he must be in dire need of quick money. That pic in his ad is about 15 years old and many, many, many pounds ago. He’s 41, not 28. Anyone considering hiring him should probably ask for a verifiable current pic.

I guess he finally decided to check the RM messages as I received a reply last night from the messages I sent last Friday. The messages indicated unread until last night and he also replied and not just viewed them.

 

I didn't ask questions that required a specific response like the amount/time quoted to you, but glad to know he answered your questions. Now I need to decide how to respond and determine how I want to proceed with meeting him in person after verifying it is actually Dawson of CF.

If you meet him, do you think he will live up to your expectations?

(the FLA cell number does give me pause, he's never lived there this I know.

He lived outside of Tampa for several years and sold his house there in 2014.

I'll have to remember that. I have heard of escorts charging double when they visit a couple. So, if they do, they are technically ripping me off since they are selling time, not selling services.

 

Thank you very much.

Wouldn't you discuss and mutually agree on the fee before you actually hired them?

I don't necessarily want him to lose, but I'd like to see the games be more competitive.

Hallo,

 

I am in conversations with an escort about getting together next week when I am visiting his city. I enquired about his rates and he responded "$xxx per hour for an outcall to a hotel, plus travel"

 

I'm not clear on what the plus travel means, and I don't want to seem like a complete idiot by asking him. Does "travel" mean his hourly rate for travelling to my hotel? Is it travel costs (like taxi or uber fees)? And, is it normal to charge "travel" for an outcall in the same city that the escort lives in?

 

Thanks,

 

OJ

The only one who can definitively answer what "plus travel" means is the escort. If his response makes you feel like a complete idiot, then you decide whether or not you still want to hire him.

I think we all know this is a lie.

Why do you think that was a lie?

Very first message.

What would have been an acceptable first question?

He seems to try very hard to come across as being human. Difficult to do with that mechanical smile.

Can such a relationship work?

Yes, if it's only for an hour or two.

Unfortunately all businesses have folks who are either flaky, shopping around for their best deal or who changed their mind at the last minute. I'm aware this flakiness has skyrocketed in the last years because of this buyers market and escorts on reputable sites have to deal with guys who used hire from CL... If rentmasseur gives you such a headache list yourself as an escort and don't advertise there. Most guys who call for an "erotic massage" just want get off with a good looking man like you but without paying an escort's rate.

 

Thank you again for your honest post!

By “reputable sites” do you mean the ones in which the advertisers use their real name, current pics, accurate stats, and provide the agreed upon service?

New(ish) to the forum. I’ve read a lot here about clients announcing providers who are ‘flakey’ or who ‘cancel last minute’ and the providers are subsequently shamed and poorly reviewed.

 

Fast-forward to today... I’ve been canceled on 3x (three!) in the last 12 hours (by members of this forum). While they may have semi-reasonable excuses, the info only came to light when pressed last-minute.

 

Why the difference in standards? We’re all human trying to move through this life comfortably. Please try to respect everyone’s time, no matter the dynamic.

This was in Las Vegas? Are you certain these were confirmed appointments? Three appointments and three last-minute cancellations seem like a lot for a twelve hour time frame on a Tuesday afternoon.

So then people will make an appointment to get to see the pics and then cancel or no show. How will you handle that?

He'll start another thread with another brilliant idea.

Why add the uber fee on top of the outcall rate?

Because they're confidant their client will pay it.

Without specifying where you're hiring from, to say there is a fee norm is misleading and inaccurate.

Anyone have success with DoubleList? Seems like a wasteland.

One of the hottest guys I've ever met in my many years of hiring was found on Doublelist.

Where? In the Resumes section? M4M Personals were removed from the site quite awhile ago.

They can be found in various CL categories, Resumes, Community, Services, Housing, etc.