MiamiLooker

Bottom line is the escort got $500 for looking like his pictures.

I want to hire a guy who lives in the suburbs of a big city I'm visiting, but if he asks that I pay extra for his uber or parking, should I? I know some of you will say that if I want to see him bad enough, I should. But while he's my first choice, I wonder if commuting time/fees is part of his cost of business, or mine? Any insight is appreciated.

Let him know where you're staying and ask him what his fee is to come to you.

Agree but "Unlikely" was not good enough to bring him to my house or even a hotel.

 

Either he or another escort that night did it. They never found the other and couldn't prove which one did it. Too risky for me, even though he's drop-dead good-looking.

Today's his birthday.

"Conversations" shouldn't be considered private.

They like me for my brain LOL.

Seriously??? Have you verified anything at all about this "client"? All your communication has been via email???

No need to make a personal comment - it says more about you than him!!!!

 

By all means think it but please no need to say it

I’ve never been concerned how others may view me based on my posts (check out my posts from 2015). I hope forum members aren’t dissuaded from posting their opinion simply because other members disagree with them.

*I just got an award b/c someone liked my post. Thank you!*

 

I have been a gay man for 56 years. Took me 50 to tell my family. So, last Jan 2017, I decided to get my very first massage ever for my birthday as I broke my ankle and left leg in May 2016 and was out of the boot and walking on my own. I found him on MF.com. Was very close to alameda where I live and we emailed and talked on the phone. I thought we were on the same page. Well, the don’t touch my lower left leg flew right out the window, as did stop, you are hurting me comments. Apparently I am not a Man because I was told to take it. And his very very very thick 9. I didn’t know what to do. I was pinned down. And left ASAP.

 

A year later, I want to try again and I am not using MF ever again. The Rent sites appear safer and if I am a fool tell me right now.

 

I’m seeking advice from clients and providers. How do I handle similar situations and if you have had this experience, what did you do/

 

I live in Alameda, CA. Across the Bay in San Francisco.

 

 

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You weren't expecting sex and he tried to rape you? Or, you were expecting sex, and he was too rough?

The ship doesn't return to port in Ft Lauderdale until Saturday, 1/27. If visiting San Juan, PR, and Haiti didn't already put a damper on the cruise, I wonder if Joel's death will.

Joel Taylor dead from suspected drug overdose and several passengers arrested for possession of drugs...

http://www.tmz.com/2018/01/24/storm-chaser-star-joel-taylor-drug-overdose-od-died-dead-cruise-ship/

I suggest prioritizing your concerns and include any dealbreakers in your first communication. For example, I only want an appointment at my home, so I always ask if they do outcalls to my area in my first communication. Are you texting because this is the escort's preference? If not his preference, I'd suggest using email if you're not yet ready to commit to an appointment.

Sounds like money well spent...

I normally wouldn't hire so often, but I have a lot of regulars that I try to accommodate when they request an appointment.

Can you imagine Berdorff’s pulling the shades down

on their windows because someone “looked”at them too many times?

Sounds like a business decision Mocha would make.

About $1,000/month at about $80 per session

You fail to consider all the situations in which this could have happen. You are assuming intentionality. You are assuming the renter has a business model you approve or share or understand. We do not have enough information to answer the question.

Why am I still checking this thread? Bye.

Are you sure you're not Sarah Huckabee Sanders? Diversion without specifics.

my RM profile is generous with information -- text and otherwise -- about me... i have been blocked by some guys because i went back to book them the day after i looked at their profile.

 

i feel the better that i did not hire someone so sketchy as to do such a thing!

Even if an escort isn’t interested in a particular client’s business, the escort has no idea how influential that client might be to other potential clients or to the escort’s business. I fail to see how pissing off someone, potential client or not, is a smart business practice.

Thanks.

My profile is fairly blank.

I know there's no real answer that anybody except the guy himself can provide. I guess I just posted in a moment of frustration. A couple of presumed answers were better than no answer at all.

If nothing else, Kevin Slater's answer gave me a chuckle.

Does the escort's action make you more or less likely to hire him? I've never hired from RM. What is the benefit to logging in vs not logging in (other than the reason you gave in your original post)?

Perhaps he prefers more assertive clients. Perhaps he's looking to local versus traveling gigs. Perhaps he simply doesn't like the cut of the OP's jib.

 

Kevin Slater

How does the viewing of the ad affect any of these?

The possible explanations are countless.

Such as?

I don't hire very often. I treat myself 2-3 times a year. As such, and because I am very shy, I will peruse the ads for a week or two before I decide who to hire. (It's usually when I'm traveling.)

So after a week of glancing through ads I finally decide who I think I want to contact; and he's blocked me on RM. Most times I go through ads not logged in, but when I'm close to deciding I'm looking through them logged in... because sometimes they'll reach out to me and it's easier on my shyness. So I had his ad pulled up, thought maybe I would reach out, logged in... and blocked. Ad will not display if I am logged in. I had never contacted him before. He doesn't know me. I had probably pulled up his ad 5-6 times over the past 2 weeks. (logged in, so he saw me) I don't get it.

 

I know. Move on. yada yada yada I will. But I just don't understand.

Maybe he's just an idiot.

On my first email, I state what I am into...

+1

I would never hire a contractor without first discussing what the job entails.

http://68.media.tumblr.com/9f685867317f1fe653f7bff64b8e99ff/tumblr_oefj64HcJE1rgy2n2o1_1280.jpg

He escorted in South Florida 20 years ago before his incarceration.

So I met with a provider last week I saw before. Our first session was...great. We met in the morning. He was in a mood saying he’s not a morning person. His mood was off the entire session, like everything was bothering him - my beard, pinching his nipples, etc. Then during our session we had to stop 3 Times so he could, well, clean up. Then he said he could not finish and could we end “another Way”. This whole session was, well, kind of a downer. Still I paid him in full and even a small tip. Now he plans to visit my city next week and proposes to get together again. If a repeat of session 1 I would say yes. If a repeat of session 2 I would say no. But what I’m really thinking is I did not get the full experience from our last session and there should be some sort of “do over”. But there is no such thing in the offing. Discuss.....

Why did you think he deserved a tip?

You are probably right. The question is How do I respond to the counter offer email in a way that is polite and respectful???

The fee is just one of many factors involved in negotiating. Ask him if he has a preference for date/time of the appointment.

I was awoken the other night after 12 am from a friend who has been told repeatedly that midnight is not an appropriate hour to call someone. The phone rang and I saw his name, I answered and said, "Someone better have died", He laughed and said "well no", and I said, "then enjoy the rest of your evening", and I hung up.

You fell asleep at Boardwalk again? I hope it wasn't during a lap dance.

2 years ago, I had some computer dude set up my computer. He works out of his house. I needed some work done, and I called him at exactly 9 PM to ask about his availability. He ripped me a new one and chewed me out on how "inappropriate" it was to call him at that hour. At first I apologized and asked if he wanted me to call him back tomorrow, but he kept going on on how amazed he was that I couldn't see how "outrageous" my call was. I don't know anyone who goes to bed at 9 PM (and I don't think he was asleep). Needless to say, I'll never hire him again. But this man was really outraged, and kept going on and on. Who was more off-base, him or me? He must be doing pretty good business if he can chew off customers like that. I have patients who do some pretty funky stuff, but at least I try to be diplomatic about it. Maybe he was on drugs?

Is 9:00 PM within his normal business hours? If not, then you should have waited and called the next day. However, as a business, he should have a separate number for business calls that directs calls to voicemail when he's unavailable.