hungry4darkmeat

I had an interesting situation a while back where my regular top buddy got upstaged by a provider I hired and took it so personally that he stopped seeing me. He was a decent top but the pro was a beast and he put it on me in front of my buddy so good that my buddy got insecure and basically got cucked.
anyone else ever have this happen? I felt kinda guilty about it but tbh he was lazy and after that he knew it 

It’s a risk with any threesome, isn’t it?

No judgments here - I have a lot of kinks. But I also have rejection issues, whether I'm the one being rejected or the one doing it. And cucking feels too close to rejection. 

It's been years, but I used to sometimes hire two tops at once. Even if I felt like one was doing better than the other, I tried very hard to make them feel equal appreciated. And usually in the trying, they both ended up being well-received, so to speak. 

All that said, there is a certain hotness to what unfolded. Just not for me. 

PS - I would like to add that I have had scenarios where both tops understood that one of the tops would be more or less taking the lead. But they both knew that going in and were both fine with it and no one was cucked. It was more than one was Batman and one was Robin, so to speak. 

I had an interesting situation a while back where my regular top buddy got upstaged by a provider I hired and took it so personally that he stopped seeing me. He was a decent top but the pro was a beast and he put it on me in front of my buddy so good that my buddy got insecure and basically got cucked.
anyone else ever have this happen? I felt kinda guilty about it but tbh he was lazy and after that he knew it 

Exactly!!! Glad im not alone lol. The lazy one was a long term fb who i met decades back and taught to be a good top who unfortunately got strung out on T and got very lazy. The provider actually held my legs open and invited him to get in on the action and he declined… then the provider topped me like a true bull for hours while lazy looked on and smoked. I would have been much happier had he jumped in and worked with the pro to use me up but he opted out and subsequently got out performed 

I had an interesting situation a while back where my regular top buddy got upstaged by a provider I hired and took it so personally that he stopped seeing me. He was a decent top but the pro was a beast and he put it on me in front of my buddy so good that my buddy got insecure and basically got cucked.
anyone else ever have this happen? I felt kinda guilty about it but tbh he was lazy and after that he knew it 

Exactly!!! Glad im not alone lol. The lazy one was a long term fb who i met decades back and taught to be a good top who unfortunately got strung out on T and got very lazy. The provider actually held my legs open and invited him to get in on the action and he declined… then the provider topped me like a true bull for hours while lazy looked on and smoked. I would have been much happier had he jumped in and worked with the pro to use me up but he opted out and subsequently got out performed 

Lol. Just had that occur with a good top and a lazy top. I don’t think the lazy top was cucked per se. He just was made clearly obsolete in the presence of someone who was actually attracted to guys and was romantic with me yet pounded me well.

Yes it works as an antiseptic and when used afterwards can help kill bacteria and prevent them from causing more serious infections like upper respiratory infections. 
 
its also helpful for when you have dry mouth - very helpful for extended oral sessions or when using enhancements that can make your mouth dry 

Omg thanks for mentioning this I thought I was the only one! Had a provider show up in one and was like wtf is this??? Didn’t much matter once it came off 

Omg thanks for mentioning this I thought I was the only one! Had a provider show up in one and was like wtf is this??? Didn’t much matter once it came off 

Yes it works as an antiseptic and when used afterwards can help kill bacteria and prevent them from causing more serious infections like upper respiratory infections. 
 
its also helpful for when you have dry mouth - very helpful for extended oral sessions or when using enhancements that can make your mouth dry 

I love having my regulars who I can rely on for consistency - I currently serve a young master who allows me to hire others but only if he’s there and gets paid more than them which makes it expensive.
I’ve “cheated” a few times but really only with other/former regulars. I really hate being disappointed and hate wasting time and money on disappointments so when I find someone who is ready, willing and able to meet my needs and meets or surpasses my expectations I will rehire them whenever I can and refer them to other clients.
Ive got a small crew of providers who have impressed me in the past who i typically hire to work together for group sessions when I can afford it. My master gets it for himself when im on a budget.

I'm relatively new to this game, but I find the hiring process stressful. I've tried to rehire one I was comfortable with, and that would be my standard MO. I don't enjoy working out the logistics and worrying if they are as advertised,  will show up, try and upset me, not like me, etc.  
Maybe some day I'll do this enough to get bored with someone, but I think I'd mix it up with a known provider first 

It all depends on what I’m looking for and how I’m feeling. 
 
I often rehire the same 3-4 guys but they all sort of fit different ways. I also can’t resist trying out new guys. If I know what I need and don’t want to risk a new guy being bad then I’ll go with my regular. But I like to switch things up and also have some consistency.

I spent 18 months going through a series of experiments.  I generally hire 2-3 times/month for travel and weekends - never less than overnight and usually 2-3 nights.  So connection matters.   After suffering through a few dramas and disappointments over a pool of about 20-30 guys, I’m focused on 5 who are mature, intelligent, and sober.    Might I experiment with others?   Maybe.  But I don’t need to change a good thing with the ones I have 
Edited to add:  one or two is not enough.  One side or the other risks excessive dependency - either emotional, financial, or both 

Each person has their own preferences and so one approach isn't better than the other.
Some people want only the constantly new... some want only the comfort of someone they know and who know them (on whatever level)... and some like a mix of the two.
Personally, I enjoy regulars and the occasional new hire. For me, the more I see someone and get to know them... I get more attracted to them (to a point). So much so that just knowing I'm going to see them again arouses me greatly. With my regulars, usually the experiences I have have always been just as good or better than the previous time we met.
I hire new providers because sometimes someone comes along I find hella attractive whom I've never met. Also i hire new because over time regulars retire or don't travel as often to my area. So I am filling the gap so to speak.
 

Both. Even when it gets very good with a long time regular it can also sometimes get repetitive, which can happen in relationships too. So i gotta change things up and keep it fresh after a while. So when i was hiring more actively i had regulars i loved seeing repeatedly. They'd get about 60% of my spending. 20% would go to trying new guys on my own. And the other 20% would go to a mix where me and my regulars who like group fun would find new guys to try together, usually either friends/colleagues of theirs or guys i found on RentMen.
There would sometimes be overlap there where i'd send him some guys RM link and he's like "oh i know him/worked with him before" or he sends me some guy and it ends up being someone who was already on my wishlist.

Doxy is your friend! It has been fantastic to be able to just take a round of it without having to get a new script and it seems to ward off most of the bugs that could cause infections not just stis but also strep and other bacterial infections that can be transmitted sexually 

I’ll add something here since I’ve met with him very recently.  It was easy to book with him, pleasant exchange, clear with his services. No surprises.  Reasonable with his rate current with the market. He arrived a bit later than the agreed time by Uber.  He is in his early to mid 40's at least but stunningly handsome.  Tall, Lithe, extremely muscular and ripped in fantastic shape with a slight beard and a deep raspy, sexy voice.  He gave a decent massage, and knew how to actually give one.  It was relaxing until he dangled a beautiful thick and pulsating 9.5 inches in my face. The rest was a delightful scene with me exercising all my preferences and fantasies. He did not need to use his phone.  It is big, so know that in advance because he will want to use it.  I always have plenty of lube on hand. We went several rounds. Anything negative mentioned about him in comments several years old is passe and inaccurate in as much as my experience.  I would book him again.

https://rent.men/Roxas_caelum Both long and surprisingly thick (in that it's broad) around the middle. Gets very hard with good technique.

On My list:
https://rent.men/phatrabbitkiller  (Unfortuantely doesn't get out of the US much.)
https://rent.men/Luccas_paulo (aka Luccas Toblerone. I had a really good text conversation with him but then he flaked on our appointment. Next time.)
https://rent.men/FullmetalTwunk  (He's not great at making future reservations but he visits Paris quite often. Still trying.).

Not RM:
https://garotocomlocal.com.br/acompanhante-masculino/peuops-ramos/ (usually in São Paulo. Texted back and forth but we kept missing each other. Getting more popular. Some pretty good videos out there where he brutalizes Felipinho Souza. https://justthegays.com/video/275221-novinho26cm-peuops-ramos-fucks-felipinho-souza-102524/
https://garotocomlocal.com.br/acompanhante-masculino/rick-28cm/  (Good luck in trying to get a hold of him. Still trying.)
https://garotocomlocal.com.br/acompanhante-masculino/rodrigo-26cm-2/  (Been on TimTales a bit. https://www.timtales.com/the-men/rodrigo/ A known crook who will probably try to cheat you but damn that was a nice cock!)
 

If we’re talking biggest + thickest (as in you feel the weight, not just length) - from my own experience:
BigRansom — Big-heavy baseline + natural rhythm. https://rent.men/BigRansom
KingRichieRich — Weight-class thick; steady, controlled pressure. https://rent.men/KingRichieRich
HUNGFOOTLONG — Long + broad; raw, feral dominance that hits deep. https://rent.men/HUNGFOOTLONG
PrimeMeat — Next-door vibe; surprisingly thick and heavy; faster pace. https://rent.men/Primemeat
TylerLONG — Long and imposing; strict, controlled; size still solid. https://rent.men/TylerLONG
If anyone wants detailed notes beyond size (pacing, energy, fit), happy to share.

I met Kingstonblaze! He has an amazing body. He has a huge dick and knows how to use it!!!