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As a client I think that since we  live in one of the largest markets we should have our own events for providers and also for both clients and providers. I’ve produced thousands of events and would be happy to work with anyone else here to create something to help organize our respective communities and give them an opportunity to meet and interact with their peers and for both groups to meet and interact with each other in person.
If there’s anyone who would like to collab with me on this please let me know- I prefer to be collaborative on projects like this so a few volunteers and we could be chatting in person before the holidays.

This is a great point. I tell providers that I need them to be on time- I’m not made of time or money so when I get a chance to get out, get the room sorted, get myself all cleaned up and do all the preparation only to have the provider either not show up at all or message me that they’re running really late and to wait or  keep coming up with excuses for the delay or worse yet just ghost me altogether.
it’s happened multiple times and there was one time that I didn’t even end up getting any action at all even though I had a great room for the whole night. So disappointing.
If a provider can host I am honestly more likely to follow through and also pay more since I don’t have to pay for a room.

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Agree. I’ve declined other clients in the past because I’ve got a booking and I’ve made a commitment. I’ve travelled to the clients hotel, or place, spent time preparing, making myself mentally and physically ready to see him….and then I either get ‘oh I changed my mind’ or some what sounds like a lame excuse or worse just complete ghosting. I feel like a fool for having taken someone seriously. I’ve lost business and wasted my time. But I’ve learned and now I can tell with 95% confidence who is a flake. 
What I do agree with some clients comments is when unscrupulous and unprofessional providers accept bookings, even deposits and then flake on the client. That’s totally unacceptable. But my advice to clients is to book with your head, not your dick. If he responds lackadaisically, wants a deposit without good justification, seems too good to be true, is evasive with details, has few reviews or they are too unrealistic, or he’s suddenly appeared on platforms, then use your common sense. Good providers will be professional in all their dealings with you. You won’t see any of these red flags if you book a good guy. 
 

I agree with others that the annoyance of dealing with flakes cuts both ways, but to me it's obviously worse for the provider. As when a client flakes on them they are losing money, which they obviously use to pay their bills and rent. A flaking client at the wrong time could mean a missed rent payment or other bill for the provider. For us clients, a flaking provider just means "ugh i got ready to bottom for nothing" (even though you could just go get on Grindr/Sniffies or go wake your husband up) or "ugh, i'm still horny, i guess i just have to get myself off tonight instead". They run a business and we're just having fun. So this is worse for one party than the other, it doesn't cut both ways equally.

Same here.  I think it's worse for the party that's planning to bottom -- all of that prep for a no show is irritating.  Not that it isn't irritating anyway, but to have spent time preparing to bottom only to be ghosted is so frustrating.

I have had several providers flake on me as well so it cuts both ways 

I have had several providers flake on me as well so it cuts both ways 

I have had several providers flake on me as well so it cuts both ways 

This is a great point. I tell providers that I need them to be on time- I’m not made of time or money so when I get a chance to get out, get the room sorted, get myself all cleaned up and do all the preparation only to have the provider either not show up at all or message me that they’re running really late and to wait or  keep coming up with excuses for the delay or worse yet just ghost me altogether.
it’s happened multiple times and there was one time that I didn’t even end up getting any action at all even though I had a great room for the whole night. So disappointing.
If a provider can host I am honestly more likely to follow through and also pay more since I don’t have to pay for a room.

This is a great point. I tell providers that I need them to be on time- I’m not made of time or money so when I get a chance to get out, get the room sorted, get myself all cleaned up and do all the preparation only to have the provider either not show up at all or message me that they’re running really late and to wait or  keep coming up with excuses for the delay or worse yet just ghost me altogether.
it’s happened multiple times and there was one time that I didn’t even end up getting any action at all even though I had a great room for the whole night. So disappointing.
If a provider can host I am honestly more likely to follow through and also pay more since I don’t have to pay for a room.

I have had several providers flake on me as well so it cuts both ways 

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This is a great point. I tell providers that I need them to be on time- I’m not made of time or money so when I get a chance to get out, get the room sorted, get myself all cleaned up and do all the preparation only to have the provider either not show up at all or message me that they’re running really late and to wait or  keep coming up with excuses for the delay or worse yet just ghost me altogether.
it’s happened multiple times and there was one time that I didn’t even end up getting any action at all even though I had a great room for the whole night. So disappointing.
If a provider can host I am honestly more likely to follow through and also pay more since I don’t have to pay for a room.

I have had several providers flake on me as well so it cuts both ways 

I have had several providers flake on me as well so it cuts both ways 

You’re not wrong. I’m a pretty reliable regular client but freely admit to having flaked on many dates both professional and not- and feel terrible about it. I’m not actually an asshole (which is what an asshole would say right) but do have some relativrly serious health issues plus I’m married and discreet so it’s not always easy for me to make everything work despite my best intentions.
I’m known for sending providers a generous cancellation fee but it’s still fucked up. No excuses definitely doing better now but it’s been a long road. 
I probably flaked on someone here and many more  out there in the universe, and sincerely apologize for being that guy.  In fact let me apologize for all the other flaky clients who  probably never intended  to disrespect you, waste your time or lead you on, but end up doing exactly that. 
karma sorts it all out - having personally paid karmically and financially for my past violations, and having made substantial progress in not being flaky by being honest and upfront about my situation with potential providers and making all plans a couple days in advance (which some providers seem to hate but works better for me). When I book a date a couple days beforehand it gives me the time to get myself together without having to rush, and since my dates usually involve me getting a room,  can take a couple hours to get myself ready. It’s just easier for me with a few days notice.
Btw If more providers could host in the city it would be a game changer but back to the topic.
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anyway sorry to all the providers for the punks like me who talk you up and then leave you hanging. Don’t take it personal cause it’s not - they feel bad but if it’s not gonna work then there’s no arguing with the truth. I’ve flaked on providers before and then subsequently hired them for multiple sessions and tipped them well for being patient or forgiving, so you never really know. Just something to consider.

I have had several providers flake on me as well so it cuts both ways 

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I have had several providers flake on me as well so it cuts both ways