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I was the only white kid in my junior high and high schools - so I saw a lot of black dick during my formative pre adolescence. I also experienced a sexual assault where I was forced to blow two classmates. It was hot and horrible at the same time.
I dated black girls before I moved on to guys- and to this day I have never been with a white guy. I live to serve black kings - I wonder where that came from lol 

I was the only white kid in my junior high and high schools - so I saw a lot of black dick during my formative pre adolescence. I also experienced a sexual assault where I was forced to blow two classmates. It was hot and horrible at the same time.
I dated black girls before I moved on to guys- and to this day I have never been with a white guy. I live to serve black kings - I wonder where that came from lol 

That is indeed one big danger with having a duo over to your house. My biggest rule when hosting at home is I never let a provider be alone in a room other than the bathroom. But when there are two much harder to keep both in your line of sight at all times.

Met him once he’s a really sweet nice guy and he has dedicated his time after the pros to serving the LGBTQ community particularly those of color.
He definitely gets my thoughts and prayers ❤️

I just came back from a week trip to NYC, where I had multiple people visit me in my room each day (either hookups or I hired).  Most of them I met outside the hotel and we walked in together.  Some were waiting for me in the lobby.  I never had an issue with the hotel.  I was given 3 sets of towels a day which was satisfactory.  Last year I spent 2 weeks at the same hotel and hired more aggressively, so I occasionally asked for extra towels and the request was honored. 
Only twice have I had an issue bringing an escort to my room,  one in Barcelona and one in Zurich.  Both cases were after 11pm when the lobby doors were locked.  In Barcelona, they merely wanted to see the ID of my escort friend who was accompanying me to the room.  In Zurich, they would not admit my escort friend because I had only paid city taxes for 1 person in the room instead of for 2. That is why now I always make the reservation for 2 people.  I had no problem bringing a guest to that same hotel the next day before they closed the lobby doors at 11pm.

I work in a hotel in NYC and we get a fair share of escorts staying and trust me we don’t really care, as long as no problems arise, and usually don’t. So don’t be too concerned to meet escorts at their hotel.

I live in LA and had the good fortune to get in early with a gay-owned Medical practice at the forefront of latest treatments, was in clinical trials thru them for 3 different Protease Inhibitors before the first was approved. Early intervention is key, and genotyping continues to improve, and insurance-covered access probably depends on the commitment of your doctor to turn a blood draw into a plan of attack after a couple of tests confirm presence of the virus. 

On behalf those of us old tarts remaining, who were still unabashed in our pleasure-pursuits in the early 80's we salute the scientists and activists and caregivers who fought an uphill battle to keep us alive.
Prevention is still best. 
 
 

Even though you had the misfortune to have become positive, you have a remarkable attitude about it. 
It was in 1995 that the medications became available to keep HIV positive people from dying.  My two friends who died did so in 1995, just two months before the cocktail was released that kept HIV victims alive.   If nature had just a little patience,  my two friends might still be here.  
As to funding, J. F. K. Junior is in charge of America's health system.  However, he is not a physician and has had no medical training.  He already announced that he is going to cut the funding for research into HIV (and other diseases) and stop further research for vaccines.     
Forgetting Kennedy, if anyone is interested in taking that HIV resistance test, many labs offer the test.  You can check the internet for labs in your area.  
 

Well he has a review from Sobrante so I think he’s legit 

He’s a grown up and he has to navigate the ups and downs of life. Let him worry about his life. Not your problem.

He’s a grown up and he has to navigate the ups and downs of life. Let him worry about his life. Not your problem.

I am ready, willing and able to pay top dollar for top escorts. But I am very picky. The way I afford this hobby is by picking only guys who flake on me, change travel plans abruptly, or, my favorite, don't respond to me at all. I haven't closed a deal in years. I save a lot of money that way. 🙂

I think the short, and maybe uncomfortable answer is that there are a lot of people out there who make (and have) a lot of money. Supply and demand is what it is. There are enough of those people out there that rates are what they are. I think that for many who hire, it's not much of a sacrifice financially. Time is the more limited resource for them.

Yeah I’m feeling it too. I used to be able to hire a provider every week or two but now I have to be more thoughtful and plan more efficient sessions like choosing one provider rather than two which was always my preference when possible, or booking a short stay rather than a whole night at a hotel. I’m lucky to have a preferred provider who gives me a good rate and charges by the session rather than by the hour who I see most frequently. That helps keep my expenses down but it still hurts my pockets pretty hard when all is said and done, especially since I do enjoy some peruvian enhancements as part of my freak sessions. I recently hired a second provider who was fantastic and I definitely got the living hell pounded out of me in exactly the way I wanted but I’m still short on cash a week later. I make good money and have a relatively inexpensive lifestyle having a rent regulated apartment and a relatively high salary but it adds up especially when providers are charging so much more.
 I have found that being upfront about budget and being strategic about hiring - particularly if i can find a provider who hosts- helps to keep the overall cost from getting out of hand.
 I can recommend some NYC providers who are more reasonable and still deliver a great experience- feel free to dm me. Also being a repeat/regular customer, posting positive reviews every time and referring others (like I’m doing here lol) makes it more likely that a provider will consider lowering their standard rate for you or at least offering to extend the session beyond an hour without charging more for it .
I’ve also found that providers on sites like RM who have extensive experience and established reputations tend to charge more than those on ADAM or other cruising sites like Sniffies and Grindr. You might not get the level of service that you would from a truly experienced long time professional but you might find a young diamond in the rough like I did with Savv and end up with a regular provider who is motivated to deliver and satisfy to grow their client list and establish an online reputation that allows them to incrementally raise their rates.
 I stay clear of anyone with the hustler mentality who wants to get high with me, charges bargain basement prices or insists on a deposit for a first session. I tend to lean towards those who can host and who are flexible and have the right attitude. Having been around the block several times i can usually tell the difference between an established true pro, an up and coming newbie who will eventually be a true pro and a hustler who just wants to get into my pockets for the least amount of work or effort because they don’t plan on seeing me ever again. Be wary of those who don’t think they are worthy of asking for enough to make you think twice about hiring them - those tend to be the ones who really deliver the goods.
My general rule of thumb is that “good dick aint cheap and cheap dick aint good”.

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Hi guys am a Carribean alpha gay top I enjoy sub bottom worshipping my Anaconda uncut mandingo while I make your sexy manpussy squirt more than once with pleasure. I’m a Rimmer that can make you moan so loud I like to dominate and pound so hard and deep, my fat thick uncut Anaconda cock has a mind of it's own I precum alot and I nut multiple times. I'm on here for serious minded people.. hit me up if you’re ready to host 

Rule number one of a free market is that goods and services are worth whatever people will pay for them. Luxury goods and services- like the services we’re talking about - are the best example. 
that being said I still believe that “good dick usually aint cheap and cheap dick usually aint good”.
I don’t pay more than $300 per provider per session, although I stick with providers who don’t watch the clock or who charge by the session rather than by the hour. Since I sometimes like two at a time, plus I get a hotel room and party favors, I negotiate to keep it to a max of 250 per provider per session. I end up spending the same amount as some of the higher priced providers and getting twice the dick. 
There is one provider who gives me deep discounts on our sessions but then hits me up for money when he’s in a jam - I help him out and then he makes it up to me when he’s in town. I end up paying about $300 for those sessions but I don’t need to get a room and he doesn’t care how long the session is so I consider it a win (plus he’s a legit porn star who throws dick like a God so no complaints)
 

Ok I just had another fantastic experience with him. I have been around the block many times and I’m not easily impressed but I wouldn’t post about him if it wasn’t true. Sweet personality tight body and the perfect piece that he uses exceptionally well. Highly recommend once again.

My spouse never hired providers, because for him, sex was only satisfying if it was the result of mutual attraction. My reason for hiring providers was much more mechanical: for me, sex was satisfying if it was the result of the person having the right tools, and using them with proficiency. 

My husband and I could “cook” for ourselves or we can go out for a fabulous meal. We could have built our house or we could have hired a great architect. We could pick out our own clothes or we could hire a colorist/fashion consultant. Likewise why wouldn’t we hire professional courtesans who can strive to meet our every sexual desires?

For me, a provider is like having a GPS for dating—always reliable and almost never lost in the woods of awkwardness.
 
Going on a date without a provider is like trying to assemble IKEA furniture without instructions—fun and exciting at first, but soon you’re questioning your life choices and wondering if you’ll ever escape the maze of flatpack chaos. Many people have forgotten how to converse, turning a nice dinner into a therapy session where I’m the therapist, the waiter, and the bill payer. And let’s not forget the manners—or lack thereof—that can turn a rock-hard erection into a limp noodle faster than you can say “table manners.”
 
A provider, on the other hand, is that steady guide, keeping everyone entertained and comfortable. They know exactly what I expect, which is usually a good time and maybe a little dinner—though I often find myself making a meal out of the provider instead. 
That’s why. 

There are sex clubs around that still allow that kind of bargain basement sexual encounter.  Here in PS there are at least two of which I am aware and I have only been living here a short time.  I expect when the Eagle opens here in a few months, there will be an uptick in available leather guys and bears.  

I am waiting for my retirement to become a public advocate for sex work in all its wonderful diversity.

You want 10-12 providers at one time!? Instead of one big orgy, for the same cost I'd rather do a few 3-4 provider orgies. But if you got the money and the fantasy I'm not here to judge. Like @demetriuentipat said keep us updated if you get this lined up.

Hear here! Exactly!
 
I’ve always been ready willing and able to find some dick, and never minded paying (a reasonable fee) for it in order to avoid all the bullshit generally related to cruising and picking up dates.
Just going straight to a professional or at least a hustler who knows and understands the terms and conditions of the situation skips all the wasted time and energy and ensures the desired outcome. No drama! no falling in love. no false impressions or misunderstandings. It’s a commercial arrangement and if you’re clear upfront about what it is then you can enjoy yourself without having to worry about whether you’re going to get robbed, blackmailed or stalked by someone with whom you just wanted to have a mutually beneficial quid-pro-quo client-provider relationship.
With an experienced professional you  can get exactly what you’re looking for in an experience specifically tailored to meet your needs and desires. Concern over mutual satisfaction, fear of being judged for kinks or preferences and basic lack of skills, ability or the proper equipment can also be frustrating outcomes of hooking up with with randoms or through the apps.