hungry4darkmeat

With Content Creators, the rate you are quoted factors in time lost to shoot content with someone they actually want to create nakedtime with. The escort-escort comparison is pointless when your real competition is ongoing passive income from symmetrical attraction. 
A client's personal chemistry with the provider should not be compared to the on-screen portrayal of chemistry. It may be better, or maybe not.
Sometimes it's absolutely worth it when they ask more than you budget. If you decide to book, I hope it is!
 

I think the plethora of new talent has driven prices down a bit, but I always say “good dick aint cheap and cheap dick usually aint that good.” I have spent up to $300 for an hour and that was for the top rated most reviewed legends of rent men. While they’re on my list, I haven’t managed to have the pleasure of playing with some of the most well known players like KeptSecret, Bastian Sass, Max Konnor XG Chase or PRK yet, it’s only because they charge so much and I know how to get so much more for my money. While I’m sure they are all worth every penny they charge, im just fine helping another upcoming king climb the ladder while learning the ropes from someone who has been hiring since the late 80s

Agreed - I often chat with other clients on RM and other forums about their experiences and compare notes on the providers we’ve worked with.
My best advice across the board is to first be honest with yourself and then be upfront with potential providers about exactly what you want from the experience.
Finding others with similar tastes and preferences and makes it so much easier to avoid disappointments. That’s one reason I love this site! I actually met another member with the same predilections as me and we’ve had a few fantastic group sessions together and I’ve discussed doing the same with others here as well. We were just saying how nice it is to have peers in this space.

Agreed - I often chat with other clients on RM and other forums about their experiences and compare notes on the providers we’ve worked with.
My best advice across the board is to first be honest with yourself and then be upfront with potential providers about exactly what you want from the experience.
Finding others with similar tastes and preferences and makes it so much easier to avoid disappointments. That’s one reason I love this site! I actually met another member with the same predilections as me and we’ve had a few fantastic group sessions together and I’ve discussed doing the same with others here as well. We were just saying how nice it is to have peers in this space.

Agreed - I often chat with other clients on RM and other forums about their experiences and compare notes on the providers we’ve worked with.
My best advice across the board is to first be honest with yourself and then be upfront with potential providers about exactly what you want from the experience.
Finding others with similar tastes and preferences and makes it so much easier to avoid disappointments. That’s one reason I love this site! I actually met another member with the same predilections as me and we’ve had a few fantastic group sessions together and I’ve discussed doing the same with others here as well. We were just saying how nice it is to have peers in this space.

Agreed - I often chat with other clients on RM and other forums about their experiences and compare notes on the providers we’ve worked with.
My best advice across the board is to first be honest with yourself and then be upfront with potential providers about exactly what you want from the experience.
Finding others with similar tastes and preferences and makes it so much easier to avoid disappointments. That’s one reason I love this site! I actually met another member with the same predilections as me and we’ve had a few fantastic group sessions together and I’ve discussed doing the same with others here as well. We were just saying how nice it is to have peers in this space.

I tend to observe who in this Company recommends the same providers as I've enjoyed; then, see who else they recommend because we have similar tastes and expectations of a good time.

One man’s garbage is another man’s treasure.
Also, it takes two to tango…and to do it well

Very true. While I’ve found reviews to be helpful, I’ve had several profoundly different experiences from others, more often better but sometimes worse. We each have different appearances, perceptions, personalities and preferences and it’s only natural that we would have different experiences. My tip is to find a reviewer that you consistently have similar experiences and follow him. Conversely, I’ve tended to discount those that my experiences have been much different. I have a limited appetite for taking one for the team and look closely at reviews, here and elsewhere. 

It is totally OK for you to miss a phone call.  It happens to all of us.  He should not have reacted to you the way he did.  Move on!
He is not all that hot anyway.  You got better options in NYC.

i know, but my regulars are away.  And sometimes you just need BBC

I agree with @BaronArtz there are better options in NYC for BBC

Since you're new to bottoming, you might be overdoing your prep. If you're on a high-fiber diet, take extra fiber (capsules or Metamucil), and douching should be minimal. This guy's videos are great: https://www.youtube.com/@BottomsDigest
Admittedly, I have a ton of experience. 😈 but since I came of age when everyone used condoms, prepping wasn't as much of a concern. So I've learned a lot in the past few years. And I've cut my prep to a minimum with no issues - like not even an odor. 
 

Go ahead with it and tell him your preparation hasn’t been fully successful. Most guys won’t mind and will have all sorts of other things you can do together that are fun if you really don’t feel comfortable to bottom. Decent providers will understand and may be ok to proceed with caution so that you can bottom anyway. Or at least you could ask him to go in and stay in until he (or you) finishes. That’s usually ok. I find it’s more difficult to keep changing positions and stop and start when the issues with mess can be a problem. If you stay in to the end it’s fine. 
I’ve seen clients who tell me they might not be ready and I say to them ‘I’m ok to try if you want to’. Let’s be clear; anyone who’s experienced at gay sex will have come across accidents sometimes. It’s an occupational hazard. I just clean up and carry on usually if he wants to, otherwise we do other stuff. No big deal.  No one should make you feel bad if you’re not totally clean. 
 

There are plenty of options in the city if you are willing to sacrifice either quality or stay outside of central manhattan. I can recommend my favorite spots f you dm me.

Agreed 💯 $300/hr is the max I would pay and even that’s on the higher end. I’ve paid less to have four great guys work me over for two plus hours.

There are plenty of options in the city if you are willing to sacrifice either quality or stay outside of central manhattan. I can recommend my favorite spots f you dm me.

If you're not picky, you can try hoteltonight app on the day of or day before. Most nyc hotels on there give heavy discounts as they try to unload any available inventory that day.

I remember first going there in 1982 when a friend introduced me to me to it. I was too young to be a John but just a tad too old to be trade. So I just observed the action and had a drink. 
When I went back a number of years later I hired a young Black guy in chinos and a Lacoste sports shirt. Took him back to my hotel and I remember paying him$150 to top me. Oh yeah, the hotel was the Marriott on Times Square. Easy to take an escort back there with the setup they had there. 

Agreed 💯 which is why I now only hire those who clearly care about actually making their clients happy, building their stable and continually upping their game. I’m so impressed with my current master and how he has realized his original commitment to continuous improvement over the past few years which is why I stick with him consistently now and am grateful to have him.

Agreed 💯 $300/hr is the max I would pay and even that’s on the higher end. I’ve paid less to have four great guys work me over for two plus hours.

Shows that he’s not taking it seriously