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As someone who works on cars (me), me selling a workable hard d**k, personality, and clean upscale location complete with wine, porno and music going...versus selling a used car with miles and miles of PARTS that have a mind of their own, can’t be put in the same category. For example: I just had my starter replaced in February. And now yesterday and today, my car didn’t want to start. Thank goodness I took some clients last week, else I’d be fucked every which way from Sunday. I only used the drunk driver comparison as a way to remove the villainization aspect of someone. But ironically, even bartenders are out of business right now...despite the thousands of drunk driving accidents and deaths that occur yearly. BUT...you can still buy alcohol. So clearly, alcohol isn’t truly to blame. So sex shouldn’t be to blame either, for this pandemic (which again, isn’t even sexually transmitted ??‍♂️ So clearly it’s not the bartender’s fault if someone drives off a cliff, And clearly it’s not the sex workers fault if someone contracts corona.

Not the same. I’ve been touring Arizona and Palm Springs for years. Mostly Arizona. Despite them both being desert communities, they’re different. You can’t do in Tucson, what you can do in Palm Springs. The gay resorts, etc. It’s also less expensive in Tucson. Climate/Geography wise, Palm Springs can be similar...but one of my resident Phoenix friends says Palm Springs has a more refreshing nighttime feel than Phoenix. All the cities in the mountain west are the same difference, so to speak. Las Vegas isn’t Palm Springs, Palm Springs isn’t Phoenix. That said, Scottsdale is unique in that it’s a bit on a higher elevation than Phoenix, so you get more of the Saguaro Cactus ? growing in that area. Makes for a nice, upscale rustic feel. On my last visit to the area in October-November, I felt more at home in Tucson...whereas Phoenix seems to have become a suburb of LA (similar to how some say Milwaukee is a “suburb” of Chicago).

I get what you're saying. Trust me. You mentioned earlier that you weren't referring to moral aspects, but rather social responsibility. So therefore you can't use "karma" to dictate the outcome of what 2 consenting adults CHOOSE to do. They can choose to be in hiatus, or choose to meet up. But, the point I'm making, is that all those points you mention can be NORMALLY applied to all other forms of sex, which isn't between a married man and woman. Maybe we should all "do the right thing" and not have sex with married men who may be our clients, because that's karma. We shouldn't get paid period because, that's bad karma too perhaps. And no bareback or oral without a condom, because that's bad karma because one could potentially get an std from doing that. Do you think, your average bible thumper would agree that it's okay to be meeting a man for naked massages (lead me not to temptation), or sex, much less having it bareback, much less getting paid for it...while his wife or partner is not around? Would they suggest to just "watch porn" instead of have real sex? So how can we judge others, for doing the very things we're judged of? I'll leave it here: I'm not encouraging anyone to go out and have sex. One of my repeat clients recently told me he can't meet me because COVID will likely kill his wife. Did I go knocking on his door, demanding him to pay and have sex with me? No. I said I understand, and referred him to my JFF page. What I am advocating: don't judge or put shame on someone who is having sex. One may not agree with it (legalize), but that doesn't mean one should blacklist or criticize (decriminalize) a person's decisions to do what is necessary to get thru this.

“Little” risk: bad gonorreah infection, which is curable...but can lead to infertility and cancer. “Big” risk: COVID My thing is too: we don’t even know how long this is going to last. No time line is being given. It’s already been a month since the first case was reported in Florida. Not to mention, there’s so much emphasis on COVID and not on the “regular” cold and flu virus. What happened to those, is COVID so powerful that it just gobbled those up? Don’t we all get a cold once or twice a year? Unless COVID is a hybrid of a cold ? and a flu ?, with a sprinkle of ? bat stew ? Something just doesn’t seem right...but, I’m sure there’s enough info across the web to discuss that.

But I’m not comparing big risk/little risk. I’m comparing actions as a whole. You just said I shouldn’t be having meets if I’m not having these conversations. I’m saying people are having these conversations, but it means nothing as far as hookups are concerned. I never ask someone if they are negative, last been tested, or “clean”. Means nothing. They could have been tested today, fucked someone on the way to me, and give me something. Instead, I will check them and I will check myself. And I get tested.

That’ll mean as much as an application between 2 men about to have bareback sex: Are you on prep? Yes When have you last been tested? March Do you wear condoms often? Yes Are you Negative? Yes Great, based on your response, you’ve been approved! Let’s fuck raw ? Talk is cheap. If having bareback sex is going to likely kill me by the end of the week, I will make my own decisions, not based on the answers of another. Likewise, if COVID is a big risk factor for someone, they may want to make their own decisions accordingly as well.

There’s no karma to be had lol. Spiritual or otherwise. In your example, the escort would be asymptomatic. There’s no way to prove the escort picked up the virus from the supermarket, or that the client didn’t get it thru some other means. Even with that @hypothetically given context ? But idk, I can’t tell people what to do. I’m not here to do that. Obviously you want to abide by your local restrictions, to be on the good side of law and health. Trust me: when I’m sick, I don’t even want to look at porn. Let alone be concerned with me trying to have sex But at the end of the day, people are making up scenarios in their head, and then spreading them around as being “gospel”. That’s why the Bible has been so grossly misinterpreted over the centuries, because people took something that was written, and misinterpreted as being a “law” and breaking it is “bad”. There’s no mandates saying to wear a mask in public, no mandates saying you can’t meet your partner for sex, no mandates saying you could be held directly responsible for giving someone COVID.

I have a few jerk off videos and recently played with a toy up my *** on video the other week as well. But guess what? Clients still want real life visits.

Nope. I was born in 1987. Only heard of HIV. Actually...I’m wrong: isn’t aids the thing kids used to tease about? “if your index finger is shortler/longer than your ring finger, you’ve got aids”. “If your 2nd toe is shorter than your big toe, you’ve got aids”. I feel bad for the new generation of kids after this pandemic. Lots of kids are going to be falsely diagnosed with COVID. Very hard to litigate though. I’m on Facebook and follow a few bartenders I’ve known over the years. Non of the bars have closed or bartenders have been arrested, because some guy couldn’t handle his liquor, and wrecked his car and died. And it’s going to be much harder to claim a client died of COVID, because he visited an escort. Especially considering the number of cases going around.

Speculative. And that can apply to escorts too. What makes an onlyfans model more resourceful than a masseur or escort? Because they never had to meet anyone in person to make tons? Maybe I actually enjoy the real life aspect of making someone feel good. Not to mention, there’s a lot of bareback going on thru onlyfans. But WAIT! That’s on video, no in person meets are needed. It’s “different”, you say. That should answer your AIDS question.

Not my fault. He logged online. He texted me. He came over. The escort likely wasn’t aware of existing respiratory issues and even if he did, he didn’t point a gun at his head. Ditto with the drunk driver. He drove, he ordered drinks, he overdid it. Then killed himself or someone else. Not the bartender’s fault. I’m not saying the client is at fault or the drunk driver is merely a “he deserved it” situation, because Lord knows, we weren’t created to be doomed. But...it’s not fair to directly put the person who was asked to perform a task, at responsibility for something that really is inevitable.

I was really hearing you out, up until this part...it still insinuates a guy having sex lacks self restraint and is careless. It still puts them as being “at fault” and labels them “sex addicts”. Do you know that my last 2 clients haven’t had sex in a long time? Going back to the bartender and drunk driver. Bartender serves a drink, someone ends up dead. But it’s not because of the bartender serving a drink. The same bartender may have sold drinks to many people who arrived home just fine. He can’t be to blame for the one who ran a red light. In this case, it’s not the gay guy wanting to have sex who’s the blame. It’s the ones who manifested this....I’ll stop there because it’s going to get political and I don’t want to quote nothing that I can’t back up with references. But, I will reference this article which I think is helpful in defining the whole social distancing issue: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseases/coronavirus/coronavirus-social-distancing-and-self-quarantine%3famp=true

Fair enough, but the thing is...people are injecting moral responsibility into it. The tone is clear. People are making it out like it’s a big contagious ?, airborne STD. No. You are just as likely to get it from the cashier or postal worker, or place you ordered food from (and I know ALOT of gay men don’t like to cook...I have to wonder how they are getting by) who has seen dozens of customers at close range 8 hours or more a day, than you are from the 1 lone escort who hasn’t had a client all week....and could probably REALLY use the money because of what’s going on. So to hear people chastise sex workers for working, and blacklisting them, irritates my soul.

Thankyou. By no means am I disagreeing with you, but just inviting you to look at the bigger picture: And that liquid relief is doing what good for the body, exactly? Just quoting what you’re saying. And porn...isn’t that like the new drug? That leads to child rape, sex trafficking, erectile dysfunction, and trains people to see sex and human bodies as objects. Doesn’t sound safe to me. (I’m being very facetious here, but just playing the role of anti-porn activist.) Onlyfans is usually going to involve what? MEETING another human being, and having sex. And trust me, there’s 150,000 guys out here with an onlyfans page trying to make money jerking off. I don’t have time to be waiting around for someone to send me $10 a month, when I’ve got 2 cars due for maintenance YESTERDAY. Believe it or not, I can much quicker find $250/$300 from 1 client, than it is to find 1 person to pay $9.99 to subscribe to onlyfans. Not everybody can sell content. Not everybody can sell themselves. I choose to do what I can do. So if someone is going to judge or criticize what I do...regardless of the reason, don’t forget that there’s plenty of people who would condemn us just as much.

So basically what you're saying is: It's irresponsible and insulting to be available to the clients who have look us up, and contacted us prior, during and after the inception of this pandemic, because we provided them with a welcome escape from reality for a mere hour or 2 of time? Last time I checked, I thought what we did with our bodies was between 2 or more consenting adults? It's akin to saying how dare someone become a bartender and serve drinks...that's irresponsible and insulting to all the people who have been killed due to drunk drivers and overdoses. It must be extremely insulting considering liquor stores are still operating as essential businesses right now. It would be like me condemning the makers of Jameson Irish Whisky, or the car manufacturer Infiniti for a crash that took my friend’s life away a couple years ago: Everybody has a right to free will and choice. 2 people who choose to hookup and have sex in the privacy of their own home, is not going to make or break the fate of society. If that was the case, people would be practicing abstinence loooong before this, considering the abundance of STD and infectious diseases that have been around.

Both cities in my opinion, have changed. Nashville tends to be busy in the summer, but can be hit or miss at other times. I ended up having to drop a repeat client of mine who I’ve known for years. He reached out the 1st day I arrived, and seemed eager to meet. But then retracted because he lived by the BNA airport, which was more convenient to him. I had spent 10 hours traveling due to the “hurricane of pandemics” closures in Florida. From the airport to my place on the evening it was, would have just been 5 exits away and 20 minutes drive. So I basically had to say so long, ?? it was nice knowing ya. I love Wisconsin, it’s like my second home. But Milwaukee has changed business wise too. I spend most of my time going to the smaller towns around Wisconsin and the Capitol. Not sure when baseball will return, but in the summer, Milwaukee hotels are next to impossible to “score” due to the brewers and cubs games. So I try to factor that in. Plus summer itself tends to have a lot of other events on going as well.

It’s for that reason I stopped offering a 1 menu option awhile ago. I have a tier level system for my bookings. I personally don’t want to do an all out 300 session every time I meet a client. And sometimes a lower priced introductory session, can turn into a couple longer sessions down the line.

I’ve actually been toying with the new messenger, and gained a few clients from it so far. I think it does kinda satisfy the “Grindr” urge, in guys. Some guys like to just chat on the messenger platform first. But similar to Grindr, you don’t want to be pissing away time either. So I try to give it to them, but I been using auto-response to give details, versus getting trapped in a ping pong game of “hi”, “sup”, “available”, “rates”. If they can agree to the auto-reply and converse with a desire to arrange a session, then we can carry on via the app. I even talked with the webmaster last week about it, they extended the characters in their auto-reply. So they’re working on it, I think it’s innovative...but I keep it short and to the point. Anyone not following directions and keep asking questions, may get blocked.

Right. And it is good practice to have a backup plan. However, I feel every since this pandemic has arisen, there's been an aura of judgement in the air towards sex workers, occasionally from other sex workers and even people like @jjkrkwood who’s supposed to be a supporter. This isn't directed at any one here, but I just don't like the hypocritical factor. It doesn't make sense to condemn those who choose to see clients during this time, yet the same ones condemning, are willing to take the same risks I’m taking to their health at any other time ? I think we all; as gay men who have sex with other men, sometimes with no condom, sometimes for money, sometimes anonymously in a bathhouse, or from the internet...should all be understanding of one another's individual circumstances, not pointing the finger. If I wanted to hear that, I'd go to gay pride and hangout with these guys:

Is this woman diagnosed with COVID? If so, did she contract it from sleeping with another man? (I know it sounds silly to ask, but I’m just being factual). That said, regardless of my history of flare ups (which have not been recent, in fact), I have the medications on hand if and when something does come up. And my most recent hospital visit wasn’t due to asthma or COVID, but rather a weird infection I likely got after being pricked by something on the beach (no pun intended). But like I’ve said, even before this new wave of COVID surfaced (note the list from 2003 I posted, which shows that another variant of COVID was around at that time), I know what to do if something comes up.

Who mandated what, to stop whom from doing what reckless behavior? There is, in my current state...and in ALL states, absolutely NO mandate saying that I am not allowed to meet another man and have sex. PERIOD. Last time I checked, we did not revert back to 1940s Germany, Saudi Arabia, or the police who would patrol the parks and set up gay men trying to pick up other gay men. The mandates you refer to are for places that generally host large numbers of people in 1 place, such as beaches, theme parks and movie theaters. And in some cases, these were not mandates, but precautionary measures taken by businesses themselves. The non-essential business clause eventually came into play as well, but again that’s establishments. It’s not selfish to do what needs to be done to survive as an individual. Even if that means meeting someone, or going out for food and water. It’s selfish to judge and criticize the decisions of someone trying to survive as an individual.

Are you a resident of France or New York? Because the stimulus checks apply to all under $99,000 and the unemployment is being extended to gig and independent contractors, who are typically not eligible for unemployment: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.nytimes.com/article/coronavirus-stimulus-package-questions-answers.amp.html

I posted that to simply show that I am doing what I can, to monitor myself. That’s what the White House did last month: they turned away a reporter because his temp was too high: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.foxnews.com/media/reporter-turned-away-temperature-white-house-coronavirus.amp Asymptomatic or not, I’m still going to check my temperature so I am in the know..one of the signs is a fever, so I’m going to do my part.

So what you’re saying is, all the people out of work right now...should have had an exit strategy or back up plan as well? Every person I know is out of work right now, except for factory/industrial type workers. Some can work from home, others are just wealthy by portfolio or other means. But I met a guy the other day who is a wedding planner. He saved over $300,000 in 10 years. He’s out of work and all his biz is being moved. I can’t even get a haircut because they shut the hair salons down. The vitamin shops are closed. It’s touching everyone, and like I said: only things weathering this is sex, liquor, and drugs (medications included) People I know who have had 2 and 3 jobs are also out of work. I don’t consider myself “stuck” in the business. I consider myself grateful to be able to still have a demand, that’s not determined by an employer’s need to lay-off or an order pertaining to large groups of people. Society right now has not taken into consideration the fact that there’s many people who were quasi-homeless prior to this situation. Where do people think all the people who lived in their car, or lived on the road traveling most of the month, or had no “permanent” address? Did they just vanish into thin air? Or are hotels opening their doors with free rooms and food to help people “stay in”? Not so. People need to realize you can’t plan for everything. Hind-sighting at guys who use escorting as their sole and reliable income, is a false sense of security. When I was in the hospital for 5 days last month, the only people who helped me out were 3 clients. 1 came to visit, 2 sent deposits for future sessions. If I were working a “side” job, I may or may not have even gotten sick pay, since this has been an issue even prior to COVID. I don’t consider relying on escorting to be a disadvantage. I feel it’s a valuable resource I’d like to hang on to for as long as I’m able to. I remember I had a client couple years ago in Orlando who suggested I get into the Vacation business. In order to “secure a better future for myself.” Well guess what. All that’s dead right now. All of Orlando and Las Vegas is dead right now because both economies rely heavily on tourism. What’s happening now is likely more than anyone could have truly planned for.

Bravo ?? . And now, for 1 of my favorite verses in the book (though it didn’t merely refer to physical ailments, but spiritual renewal): Exactly. And if I lived in a place like this, I’d be MORE than happy to stay inside for as long as I feel ?