Jamie21

I’m a masseur. I’ve no problem with my client asking about sex. That’s part of my service so why shouldn’t they ask? They can ask anything they like, if it’s something I won’t or can’t do then I’ll simply tell them that. There’s no point in them booking only to find out their massage isn’t going to be what they want moments before they get on the table. That’s just going to make the experience disappointing and I want to make it memorable for them.
 
If my client asks for a half hour session or books a late night session with an hour’s notice that’s a tell tale sign they don’t want a massage they just want to get off. I don’t accept those kind of bookings. It’s minimum one hour, and you have to be sober / not under influence. Those requirements rule out the guys just looking for a quickie. No problem with that but it’s not my service.
 
If a masseur or escort has lots of rules and requirements, including needing pictures etc the it almost always means they are not in the job to satisfy their clients, they’re in it with the sole purpose of making money out of their sex life. Have that in mind when you attend your session.

I’m a masseur. I’ve no problem with my client asking about sex. That’s part of my service so why shouldn’t they ask? They can ask anything they like, if it’s something I won’t or can’t do then I’ll simply tell them that. There’s no point in them booking only to find out their massage isn’t going to be what they want moments before they get on the table. That’s just going to make the experience disappointing and I want to make it memorable for them.
 
If my client asks for a half hour session or books a late night session with an hour’s notice that’s a tell tale sign they don’t want a massage they just want to get off. I don’t accept those kind of bookings. It’s minimum one hour, and you have to be sober / not under influence. Those requirements rule out the guys just looking for a quickie. No problem with that but it’s not my service.
 
If a masseur or escort has lots of rules and requirements, including needing pictures etc the it almost always means they are not in the job to satisfy their clients, they’re in it with the sole purpose of making money out of their sex life. Have that in mind when you attend your session.

I’m a masseur. I’ve no problem with my client asking about sex. That’s part of my service so why shouldn’t they ask? They can ask anything they like, if it’s something I won’t or can’t do then I’ll simply tell them that. There’s no point in them booking only to find out their massage isn’t going to be what they want moments before they get on the table. That’s just going to make the experience disappointing and I want to make it memorable for them.
 
If my client asks for a half hour session or books a late night session with an hour’s notice that’s a tell tale sign they don’t want a massage they just want to get off. I don’t accept those kind of bookings. It’s minimum one hour, and you have to be sober / not under influence. Those requirements rule out the guys just looking for a quickie. No problem with that but it’s not my service.
 
If a masseur or escort has lots of rules and requirements, including needing pictures etc the it almost always means they are not in the job to satisfy their clients, they’re in it with the sole purpose of making money out of their sex life. Have that in mind when you attend your session.

I’m a masseur. I’ve no problem with my client asking about sex. That’s part of my service so why shouldn’t they ask? They can ask anything they like, if it’s something I won’t or can’t do then I’ll simply tell them that. There’s no point in them booking only to find out their massage isn’t going to be what they want moments before they get on the table. That’s just going to make the experience disappointing and I want to make it memorable for them.
 
If my client asks for a half hour session or books a late night session with an hour’s notice that’s a tell tale sign they don’t want a massage they just want to get off. I don’t accept those kind of bookings. It’s minimum one hour, and you have to be sober / not under influence. Those requirements rule out the guys just looking for a quickie. No problem with that but it’s not my service.
 
If a masseur or escort has lots of rules and requirements, including needing pictures etc the it almost always means they are not in the job to satisfy their clients, they’re in it with the sole purpose of making money out of their sex life. Have that in mind when you attend your session.

I’m 8 inches, it should fit in any hole. It’s not so much as me being too big, it’s more the client not being relaxed enough to take it. If that’s the case then I consider it’s more my problem than the clients’ because I should be able to relax him. It’s happened a few times when guys who’ve never bottomed before try to take me. They get too anxious and tighten up. Sometimes it takes a few visits to become relaxed enough to take it. Best to start with fingers and take things slowly.

You have a nice website and do a great job explaining the services you offer. If I was in London I wish definitely look you up

I’m 8 inches, it should fit in any hole. It’s not so much as me being too big, it’s more the client not being relaxed enough to take it. If that’s the case then I consider it’s more my problem than the clients’ because I should be able to relax him. It’s happened a few times when guys who’ve never bottomed before try to take me. They get too anxious and tighten up. Sometimes it takes a few visits to become relaxed enough to take it. Best to start with fingers and take things slowly.

I have a client who, when he pays me says “cash, only for my drug dealer, cleaner and masseur” as he hands over the cash. I reply “ I accept any hard currency as well as any hard cock”.
 
I’d say guys prefer to pay in cash because it’s anonymous. I take cards but clients who may be married worry that they’ll have an unexplained entry on their statement. Most clients pay in cash.

Yes I have, at least they said they were straight. I’m not sure a 100% straight guy would be curious enough to try though so I expect they were at least slightly bisexual or just in denial of their sexuality. Everyone is on a spectrum.
 
I see a lot of guys who want to explore their sexuality because visiting a sensual masseur is a safe way of testing things out. They can reassure themselves that they’re “just going for a massage” and that nothing sexual will happen if they don’t want it to. The least they’ll get is a nice massage. If they want to try out touching me that’s fine...they can do as much or as little as they like and I tell them this at the start.
 
Often they’ll say the areas they don’t want me to go at the start and that’s usually around their bum. Most don’t want anything internal (no fingers or cock in there) but are ok with external touch around their hole. I’d say they get blown away by rimming (usually no one has done that to them before). They also like being sucked because let’s face it, straight guys haven’t usually experienced professional sucking from a gay guy so it’s a whole next level of sucking they get, plus new cock massage techniques.
 
They are interested in touching me and playing with my cock but mostly I’d say they just enjoy me awakening their bodies. They’re usually not ready to suck me or kiss or anything “gay” like that in the first few massages. I think this is especially the case with guys who are from strict religious backgrounds or where there’s strong shame associated with being gay. It’s evident they want to explore but the religious programming has been so strong it prevents them from acting on those urges. It takes time for them to recover their humanity.
 
These ‘exploring’ clients usually book a few times and progress to wanting more each time. I’ve found that they experience a sort of sexual awakening and are eager to try out new things. Many are in marriages or relationships with women where there’s no sex of its boring so the visits to me allow them to release tension and be more relaxed. They can go at their own pace in a safe and reassuring environment. I think if you’re not sure about your sexuality it’s tough to explore this through meeting guys vis hookup apps because usually the other guy isn’t much focused on giving you a good time, he’s just looking for his own satisfaction whereas with a masseur they’re 100% focused on you.

I never ask for pics from clients and prefer not to receive them although sometimes they’ll send a dick pic or body pic when booking. Often it comes from guys who are anxious about their cock size or their body, as in “am I hot enough to book?”.
 
I’m professional, all I need to know is that they’re over age 21 and they’ve no health conditions that are contraindications for massage. I treat everyone the same regardless of their body shape or physical attributes. For me sometimes the main challenge in performing isn’t what they look like it’s how my client behaves. Behave like a dick and you’re not going to get much dick if you know what I mean. Behave with respect and we’re definitely going to have a good time.
 
I do think that if you’re in the business of escorting or erotic massage then you’re expected to be able to see all clients and give them all a great service. When you start vetting clients for attractiveness then you’re not really escorting you’re just getting paid to satisfy your own sexual appetite. It’s different and the client will be able to tell if he’s a 10 or a 7 when you draw the line at 5 if you know what I mean.

I never ask for pics from clients and prefer not to receive them although sometimes they’ll send a dick pic or body pic when booking. Often it comes from guys who are anxious about their cock size or their body, as in “am I hot enough to book?”.
 
I’m professional, all I need to know is that they’re over age 21 and they’ve no health conditions that are contraindications for massage. I treat everyone the same regardless of their body shape or physical attributes. For me sometimes the main challenge in performing isn’t what they look like it’s how my client behaves. Behave like a dick and you’re not going to get much dick if you know what I mean. Behave with respect and we’re definitely going to have a good time.
 
I do think that if you’re in the business of escorting or erotic massage then you’re expected to be able to see all clients and give them all a great service. When you start vetting clients for attractiveness then you’re not really escorting you’re just getting paid to satisfy your own sexual appetite. It’s different and the client will be able to tell if he’s a 10 or a 7 when you draw the line at 5 if you know what I mean.

95% of the time I top when working, even though I’m versatile. If I’m not working, or if I’m shooting porn then it’s more like 50% bottom 50% top.
 
I guess I attract bottom clients. I’m hung which brings all the bottoms to the playground. It’s fine with me, I don’t have a problem to get hard, it’s more hassle to get ready to bottom so I’m good with being mostly top.
 
I’ve a few mates who also escort (we sometimes work together) and they say there’s a lot of bottom escorts, especially younger guys, and it’s a tougher market. I think the combination of fewer top escorts and lots of bottom clients means that tops get more work.

95% of the time I top when working, even though I’m versatile. If I’m not working, or if I’m shooting porn then it’s more like 50% bottom 50% top.
 
I guess I attract bottom clients. I’m hung which brings all the bottoms to the playground. It’s fine with me, I don’t have a problem to get hard, it’s more hassle to get ready to bottom so I’m good with being mostly top.
 
I’ve a few mates who also escort (we sometimes work together) and they say there’s a lot of bottom escorts, especially younger guys, and it’s a tougher market. I think the combination of fewer top escorts and lots of bottom clients means that tops get more work.

95% of the time I top when working, even though I’m versatile. If I’m not working, or if I’m shooting porn then it’s more like 50% bottom 50% top.
 
I guess I attract bottom clients. I’m hung which brings all the bottoms to the playground. It’s fine with me, I don’t have a problem to get hard, it’s more hassle to get ready to bottom so I’m good with being mostly top.
 
I’ve a few mates who also escort (we sometimes work together) and they say there’s a lot of bottom escorts, especially younger guys, and it’s a tougher market. I think the combination of fewer top escorts and lots of bottom clients means that tops get more work.

I’m a provider. Times are indeed tough, my income has reduced significantly but I’d never consider asking a client for payment in advance. I don’t know his circumstances but can say for myself that I put away money to cover periods when my business might fall away so I’m glad of that now. Doing work like this isn’t like getting a regular pay check so it’s important to build up a good buffer to smooth out the lean times.
If you pay him in advance I agree with others who have said it will change the dynamic. He could view your booking as an obligation rather than one entered into willingly with the expectation of payment after. For me it’s important that my client pays after the service and feels that they received a service that is well worth what they paid.
It might be different if you’ve booked for next week and he asks for part payment in advance but to ask for money on account for services yet to be arranged is a step too far. There’s too many opportunities for things to go wrong.

I’m a provider. Times are indeed tough, my income has reduced significantly but I’d never consider asking a client for payment in advance. I don’t know his circumstances but can say for myself that I put away money to cover periods when my business might fall away so I’m glad of that now. Doing work like this isn’t like getting a regular pay check so it’s important to build up a good buffer to smooth out the lean times.
If you pay him in advance I agree with others who have said it will change the dynamic. He could view your booking as an obligation rather than one entered into willingly with the expectation of payment after. For me it’s important that my client pays after the service and feels that they received a service that is well worth what they paid.
It might be different if you’ve booked for next week and he asks for part payment in advance but to ask for money on account for services yet to be arranged is a step too far. There’s too many opportunities for things to go wrong.

I’m a provider. Times are indeed tough, my income has reduced significantly but I’d never consider asking a client for payment in advance. I don’t know his circumstances but can say for myself that I put away money to cover periods when my business might fall away so I’m glad of that now. Doing work like this isn’t like getting a regular pay check so it’s important to build up a good buffer to smooth out the lean times.
If you pay him in advance I agree with others who have said it will change the dynamic. He could view your booking as an obligation rather than one entered into willingly with the expectation of payment after. For me it’s important that my client pays after the service and feels that they received a service that is well worth what they paid.
It might be different if you’ve booked for next week and he asks for part payment in advance but to ask for money on account for services yet to be arranged is a step too far. There’s too many opportunities for things to go wrong.

I’m a provider. Times are indeed tough, my income has reduced significantly but I’d never consider asking a client for payment in advance. I don’t know his circumstances but can say for myself that I put away money to cover periods when my business might fall away so I’m glad of that now. Doing work like this isn’t like getting a regular pay check so it’s important to build up a good buffer to smooth out the lean times.
If you pay him in advance I agree with others who have said it will change the dynamic. He could view your booking as an obligation rather than one entered into willingly with the expectation of payment after. For me it’s important that my client pays after the service and feels that they received a service that is well worth what they paid.
It might be different if you’ve booked for next week and he asks for part payment in advance but to ask for money on account for services yet to be arranged is a step too far. There’s too many opportunities for things to go wrong.

I’m a provider. Times are indeed tough, my income has reduced significantly but I’d never consider asking a client for payment in advance. I don’t know his circumstances but can say for myself that I put away money to cover periods when my business might fall away so I’m glad of that now. Doing work like this isn’t like getting a regular pay check so it’s important to build up a good buffer to smooth out the lean times.
If you pay him in advance I agree with others who have said it will change the dynamic. He could view your booking as an obligation rather than one entered into willingly with the expectation of payment after. For me it’s important that my client pays after the service and feels that they received a service that is well worth what they paid.
It might be different if you’ve booked for next week and he asks for part payment in advance but to ask for money on account for services yet to be arranged is a step too far. There’s too many opportunities for things to go wrong.

I’m a provider. Times are indeed tough, my income has reduced significantly but I’d never consider asking a client for payment in advance. I don’t know his circumstances but can say for myself that I put away money to cover periods when my business might fall away so I’m glad of that now. Doing work like this isn’t like getting a regular pay check so it’s important to build up a good buffer to smooth out the lean times.
If you pay him in advance I agree with others who have said it will change the dynamic. He could view your booking as an obligation rather than one entered into willingly with the expectation of payment after. For me it’s important that my client pays after the service and feels that they received a service that is well worth what they paid.
It might be different if you’ve booked for next week and he asks for part payment in advance but to ask for money on account for services yet to be arranged is a step too far. There’s too many opportunities for things to go wrong.

I’m a provider. Times are indeed tough, my income has reduced significantly but I’d never consider asking a client for payment in advance. I don’t know his circumstances but can say for myself that I put away money to cover periods when my business might fall away so I’m glad of that now. Doing work like this isn’t like getting a regular pay check so it’s important to build up a good buffer to smooth out the lean times.
If you pay him in advance I agree with others who have said it will change the dynamic. He could view your booking as an obligation rather than one entered into willingly with the expectation of payment after. For me it’s important that my client pays after the service and feels that they received a service that is well worth what they paid.
It might be different if you’ve booked for next week and he asks for part payment in advance but to ask for money on account for services yet to be arranged is a step too far. There’s too many opportunities for things to go wrong.

I’m a provider. Times are indeed tough, my income has reduced significantly but I’d never consider asking a client for payment in advance. I don’t know his circumstances but can say for myself that I put away money to cover periods when my business might fall away so I’m glad of that now. Doing work like this isn’t like getting a regular pay check so it’s important to build up a good buffer to smooth out the lean times.
If you pay him in advance I agree with others who have said it will change the dynamic. He could view your booking as an obligation rather than one entered into willingly with the expectation of payment after. For me it’s important that my client pays after the service and feels that they received a service that is well worth what they paid.
It might be different if you’ve booked for next week and he asks for part payment in advance but to ask for money on account for services yet to be arranged is a step too far. There’s too many opportunities for things to go wrong.

I’m a provider. Times are indeed tough, my income has reduced significantly but I’d never consider asking a client for payment in advance. I don’t know his circumstances but can say for myself that I put away money to cover periods when my business might fall away so I’m glad of that now. Doing work like this isn’t like getting a regular pay check so it’s important to build up a good buffer to smooth out the lean times.
If you pay him in advance I agree with others who have said it will change the dynamic. He could view your booking as an obligation rather than one entered into willingly with the expectation of payment after. For me it’s important that my client pays after the service and feels that they received a service that is well worth what they paid.
It might be different if you’ve booked for next week and he asks for part payment in advance but to ask for money on account for services yet to be arranged is a step too far. There’s too many opportunities for things to go wrong.

I’m a provider. Times are indeed tough, my income has reduced significantly but I’d never consider asking a client for payment in advance. I don’t know his circumstances but can say for myself that I put away money to cover periods when my business might fall away so I’m glad of that now. Doing work like this isn’t like getting a regular pay check so it’s important to build up a good buffer to smooth out the lean times.
If you pay him in advance I agree with others who have said it will change the dynamic. He could view your booking as an obligation rather than one entered into willingly with the expectation of payment after. For me it’s important that my client pays after the service and feels that they received a service that is well worth what they paid.
It might be different if you’ve booked for next week and he asks for part payment in advance but to ask for money on account for services yet to be arranged is a step too far. There’s too many opportunities for things to go wrong.

Yes I have, at least they said they were straight. I’m not sure a 100% straight guy would be curious enough to try though so I expect they were at least slightly bisexual or just in denial of their sexuality. Everyone is on a spectrum.
 
I see a lot of guys who want to explore their sexuality because visiting a sensual masseur is a safe way of testing things out. They can reassure themselves that they’re “just going for a massage” and that nothing sexual will happen if they don’t want it to. The least they’ll get is a nice massage. If they want to try out touching me that’s fine...they can do as much or as little as they like and I tell them this at the start.
 
Often they’ll say the areas they don’t want me to go at the start and that’s usually around their bum. Most don’t want anything internal (no fingers or cock in there) but are ok with external touch around their hole. I’d say they get blown away by rimming (usually no one has done that to them before). They also like being sucked because let’s face it, straight guys haven’t usually experienced professional sucking from a gay guy so it’s a whole next level of sucking they get, plus new cock massage techniques.
 
They are interested in touching me and playing with my cock but mostly I’d say they just enjoy me awakening their bodies. They’re usually not ready to suck me or kiss or anything “gay” like that in the first few massages. I think this is especially the case with guys who are from strict religious backgrounds or where there’s strong shame associated with being gay. It’s evident they want to explore but the religious programming has been so strong it prevents them from acting on those urges. It takes time for them to recover their humanity.
 
These ‘exploring’ clients usually book a few times and progress to wanting more each time. I’ve found that they experience a sort of sexual awakening and are eager to try out new things. Many are in marriages or relationships with women where there’s no sex of its boring so the visits to me allow them to release tension and be more relaxed. They can go at their own pace in a safe and reassuring environment. I think if you’re not sure about your sexuality it’s tough to explore this through meeting guys vis hookup apps because usually the other guy isn’t much focused on giving you a good time, he’s just looking for his own satisfaction whereas with a masseur they’re 100% focused on you.