Jamie21

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Here’s one I was in. It’s a 4 hands and includes me fucking the guy on the table. We’d planned that I shoot on his arse but as I was fucking him he asked me to shoot inside so I did, it’s just before the part where we kiss.
The whole vibe on that filming was hot. After we’d finished the camera man was so excited he needed to fuck me so I got a load in me as well.

All of this advice is great, especially about the high levels of professionalism required to do it properly. I’ve been doing sensual massage for 5 years now and am always learning new things about the work.
 
However the single most important tip I would give is to treat each client as if he is the most beautiful and sexy guy in the world for the time that he is with you. Give him your total focus, pay attention to how he reacts to your touch (everyone has different areas of their body that get them going - often unusual areas, so explore them) and treat him like he’s your hottest date regardless of any attraction you may or may not have. I learned that not every client is who I’d go for if it was a dating situation but there’s always something you can find that is attractive about him. Some of the most erotic and sexy massages have been with guys I’d not normally be attracted to.
 
You also need to decide what your limits are and stick to them. Only once did I have a client pressurise me into doing something I wasn’t happy doing and I decided after that to be really strict on what’s included and what isn’t. I do include fucking (as top) if the client wants it but I don’t charge extra for it because I say to them that it has to feel right for both of us. That way I’m not under pressure to perform if it’s the 4th client of the day for example. If they want me to bottom I do charge extra. I think it’s important to be clear in your offering what’s included (subject to any legal restrictions on what’s possible in your jurisdiction). And whilst the erotic and sexual parts of the massage are important don’t forget that you must give a great proper massage. Learn good effleurage strokes, learn head massage, have a speciality (head massage is good). Important to be a great masseur as well as able to bring a guy to climax.
 
Doing naked sensual massage is a fantastic job, meeting new people and helping them explore their sexuality. I’m glad I’ve been able to open up new experiences for my clients.

I don’t recognise them with their clothes on but I’m sure it wasn’t any of those guys...

The only thing that I can’t accept is poor hygiene. If a client isn’t fresh and clean then they simply don’t get my full service. There’s no excuse for bad hygiene.
Fortunately it’s rare, and I ask them to shower beforehand anyway. Aside from hygiene there’s nothing else that means a client is treated any differently. Of course being friendly and respectful are always good and help to make a meeting even more fun.
I’m sorry you had some bad hire experiences. You shouldn’t blame yourself, it’s more likely you hired a bad escort. They should make you feel fantastic, if they didn’t achieve that then that’s their failure not yours.

https://www.twinkvideos.com/videos/17744/two-white-guys-and-one-black-lad-are-having-a-3some/?utm_source=PBWeb&utm_medium=PBWeb&sub=100001
Here’s one I was in. It’s a 4 hands and includes me fucking the guy on the table. We’d planned that I shoot on his arse but as I was fucking him he asked me to shoot inside so I did, it’s just before the part where we kiss.
The whole vibe on that filming was hot. After we’d finished the camera man was so excited he needed to fuck me so I got a load in me as well.

The only thing that I can’t accept is poor hygiene. If a client isn’t fresh and clean then they simply don’t get my full service. There’s no excuse for bad hygiene.
Fortunately it’s rare, and I ask them to shower beforehand anyway. Aside from hygiene there’s nothing else that means a client is treated any differently. Of course being friendly and respectful are always good and help to make a meeting even more fun.
I’m sorry you had some bad hire experiences. You shouldn’t blame yourself, it’s more likely you hired a bad escort. They should make you feel fantastic, if they didn’t achieve that then that’s their failure not yours.

The only thing that I can’t accept is poor hygiene. If a client isn’t fresh and clean then they simply don’t get my full service. There’s no excuse for bad hygiene.
Fortunately it’s rare, and I ask them to shower beforehand anyway. Aside from hygiene there’s nothing else that means a client is treated any differently. Of course being friendly and respectful are always good and help to make a meeting even more fun.
I’m sorry you had some bad hire experiences. You shouldn’t blame yourself, it’s more likely you hired a bad escort. They should make you feel fantastic, if they didn’t achieve that then that’s their failure not yours.

Plenty of guys make $300 an hour. Anyway, they’re not just working for the hour they’re with you. An hours booking (in call) for me takes at least two hours out of my time. The cost also represents the time a provider puts in to prepare for your meeting, the time and money he spends on personal care (gym, wax, cosmetics etc), time taking pics and promoting himself. Then there’s taxes. Take all that into consideration and the $300 you refer to ends up as $150. If a client tips me I feel that I went beyond their expectations and am certainly going to make sure they get great service next time. For example if they book a time and I’m busy I’ll move things around to fit their schedule. I wouldn’t necessarily do that for someone who didn’t tip.

The only thing that I can’t accept is poor hygiene. If a client isn’t fresh and clean then they simply don’t get my full service. There’s no excuse for bad hygiene.
Fortunately it’s rare, and I ask them to shower beforehand anyway. Aside from hygiene there’s nothing else that means a client is treated any differently. Of course being friendly and respectful are always good and help to make a meeting even more fun.
I’m sorry you had some bad hire experiences. You shouldn’t blame yourself, it’s more likely you hired a bad escort. They should make you feel fantastic, if they didn’t achieve that then that’s their failure not yours.

I think discussing charges for “extras” during the massage is awkward. I don’t charge for anything extra, it’s all included in my standard massage rate (which Isn’t cheap) except for me bottoming and if they want that it has to be agreed before the massage, and the rate for that is extra.
 
Because there’s no extra charge or any cause to discuss the charge during the massage it can proceed naturally, uninterrupted and it feels less transactional for the client.
 
I once had a spa massage where the masseur tried to upsell to me during the massage. I’d already paid for the massage at the spa desk. Half way through the massage I could feel through his shorts that his cock was hard as it pressed against my hand while he leant over the table. I was laying on my front with a towel over my bum so he couldn’t see whether I was hard or not.
 
He said to me “I can do relief for you, I get naked and wank you, it’s just £50 extra”. I was quite surprised because this was a high end spa. He was hot but I didn’t want a happy ending as my boyfriend at the time was staying at the spa with me and we’d been having sex all afternoon. I just wanted the relaxing massage. So I said no thanks, which seemed to annoy him. He said “ok just £40, you can get the cash now”. I really didn’t want to get off the table to go and get cash so I said “no thanks I’m fine” again. He then said “ok how much?” which really surprised me because now he was in negotiating mode and the price wasn’t my issue.
 
If he hadn’t been so insistent about it I might have agreed (although the requirement to get cash to pay him during the massage really pissed me off). So I just said to him “no I’m not looking for extras, sorry”.
 
Unfortunately he seemed to take this personally and the massage became much less attentive. I felt in a mischievous mood so when he asked me to turn over I made sure I was hard under the towel to see what he’d do. If he’d have removed the towel, and his shorts and given me a happy ending then I’d have paid him the extra money afterwards but he didn’t go near my hard on atall. He just avoided the area completely and finished the massage in a perfunctory style.
 
It was a shame because he was hot and, up to the point of the upsell discussion, he’d done a great massage. I had no problem with him cashing in on the side but he was doing it in a really poor way that was confrontational and inconvenient.
 
I gave him a good rating afterwards though because it was a nice massage and I’m sure he’d have been hot to play with. He just should have been more subtle and trusting to accept cash afterwards.

I think discussing charges for “extras” during the massage is awkward. I don’t charge for anything extra, it’s all included in my standard massage rate (which Isn’t cheap) except for me bottoming and if they want that it has to be agreed before the massage, and the rate for that is extra.
 
Because there’s no extra charge or any cause to discuss the charge during the massage it can proceed naturally, uninterrupted and it feels less transactional for the client.
 
I once had a spa massage where the masseur tried to upsell to me during the massage. I’d already paid for the massage at the spa desk. Half way through the massage I could feel through his shorts that his cock was hard as it pressed against my hand while he leant over the table. I was laying on my front with a towel over my bum so he couldn’t see whether I was hard or not.
 
He said to me “I can do relief for you, I get naked and wank you, it’s just £50 extra”. I was quite surprised because this was a high end spa. He was hot but I didn’t want a happy ending as my boyfriend at the time was staying at the spa with me and we’d been having sex all afternoon. I just wanted the relaxing massage. So I said no thanks, which seemed to annoy him. He said “ok just £40, you can get the cash now”. I really didn’t want to get off the table to go and get cash so I said “no thanks I’m fine” again. He then said “ok how much?” which really surprised me because now he was in negotiating mode and the price wasn’t my issue.
 
If he hadn’t been so insistent about it I might have agreed (although the requirement to get cash to pay him during the massage really pissed me off). So I just said to him “no I’m not looking for extras, sorry”.
 
Unfortunately he seemed to take this personally and the massage became much less attentive. I felt in a mischievous mood so when he asked me to turn over I made sure I was hard under the towel to see what he’d do. If he’d have removed the towel, and his shorts and given me a happy ending then I’d have paid him the extra money afterwards but he didn’t go near my hard on atall. He just avoided the area completely and finished the massage in a perfunctory style.
 
It was a shame because he was hot and, up to the point of the upsell discussion, he’d done a great massage. I had no problem with him cashing in on the side but he was doing it in a really poor way that was confrontational and inconvenient.
 
I gave him a good rating afterwards though because it was a nice massage and I’m sure he’d have been hot to play with. He just should have been more subtle and trusting to accept cash afterwards.

https://www.twinkvideos.com/videos/17744/two-white-guys-and-one-black-lad-are-having-a-3some/?utm_source=PBWeb&utm_medium=PBWeb&sub=100001
Here’s one I was in. It’s a 4 hands and includes me fucking the guy on the table. We’d planned that I shoot on his arse but as I was fucking him he asked me to shoot inside so I did, it’s just before the part where we kiss.
The whole vibe on that filming was hot. After we’d finished the camera man was so excited he needed to fuck me so I got a load in me as well.

I think discussing charges for “extras” during the massage is awkward. I don’t charge for anything extra, it’s all included in my standard massage rate (which Isn’t cheap) except for me bottoming and if they want that it has to be agreed before the massage, and the rate for that is extra.
 
Because there’s no extra charge or any cause to discuss the charge during the massage it can proceed naturally, uninterrupted and it feels less transactional for the client.
 
I once had a spa massage where the masseur tried to upsell to me during the massage. I’d already paid for the massage at the spa desk. Half way through the massage I could feel through his shorts that his cock was hard as it pressed against my hand while he leant over the table. I was laying on my front with a towel over my bum so he couldn’t see whether I was hard or not.
 
He said to me “I can do relief for you, I get naked and wank you, it’s just £50 extra”. I was quite surprised because this was a high end spa. He was hot but I didn’t want a happy ending as my boyfriend at the time was staying at the spa with me and we’d been having sex all afternoon. I just wanted the relaxing massage. So I said no thanks, which seemed to annoy him. He said “ok just £40, you can get the cash now”. I really didn’t want to get off the table to go and get cash so I said “no thanks I’m fine” again. He then said “ok how much?” which really surprised me because now he was in negotiating mode and the price wasn’t my issue.
 
If he hadn’t been so insistent about it I might have agreed (although the requirement to get cash to pay him during the massage really pissed me off). So I just said to him “no I’m not looking for extras, sorry”.
 
Unfortunately he seemed to take this personally and the massage became much less attentive. I felt in a mischievous mood so when he asked me to turn over I made sure I was hard under the towel to see what he’d do. If he’d have removed the towel, and his shorts and given me a happy ending then I’d have paid him the extra money afterwards but he didn’t go near my hard on atall. He just avoided the area completely and finished the massage in a perfunctory style.
 
It was a shame because he was hot and, up to the point of the upsell discussion, he’d done a great massage. I had no problem with him cashing in on the side but he was doing it in a really poor way that was confrontational and inconvenient.
 
I gave him a good rating afterwards though because it was a nice massage and I’m sure he’d have been hot to play with. He just should have been more subtle and trusting to accept cash afterwards.

Plenty of guys make $300 an hour. Anyway, they’re not just working for the hour they’re with you. An hours booking (in call) for me takes at least two hours out of my time. The cost also represents the time a provider puts in to prepare for your meeting, the time and money he spends on personal care (gym, wax, cosmetics etc), time taking pics and promoting himself. Then there’s taxes. Take all that into consideration and the $300 you refer to ends up as $150. If a client tips me I feel that I went beyond their expectations and am certainly going to make sure they get great service next time. For example if they book a time and I’m busy I’ll move things around to fit their schedule. I wouldn’t necessarily do that for someone who didn’t tip.

I think discussing charges for “extras” during the massage is awkward. I don’t charge for anything extra, it’s all included in my standard massage rate (which Isn’t cheap) except for me bottoming and if they want that it has to be agreed before the massage, and the rate for that is extra.
 
Because there’s no extra charge or any cause to discuss the charge during the massage it can proceed naturally, uninterrupted and it feels less transactional for the client.
 
I once had a spa massage where the masseur tried to upsell to me during the massage. I’d already paid for the massage at the spa desk. Half way through the massage I could feel through his shorts that his cock was hard as it pressed against my hand while he leant over the table. I was laying on my front with a towel over my bum so he couldn’t see whether I was hard or not.
 
He said to me “I can do relief for you, I get naked and wank you, it’s just £50 extra”. I was quite surprised because this was a high end spa. He was hot but I didn’t want a happy ending as my boyfriend at the time was staying at the spa with me and we’d been having sex all afternoon. I just wanted the relaxing massage. So I said no thanks, which seemed to annoy him. He said “ok just £40, you can get the cash now”. I really didn’t want to get off the table to go and get cash so I said “no thanks I’m fine” again. He then said “ok how much?” which really surprised me because now he was in negotiating mode and the price wasn’t my issue.
 
If he hadn’t been so insistent about it I might have agreed (although the requirement to get cash to pay him during the massage really pissed me off). So I just said to him “no I’m not looking for extras, sorry”.
 
Unfortunately he seemed to take this personally and the massage became much less attentive. I felt in a mischievous mood so when he asked me to turn over I made sure I was hard under the towel to see what he’d do. If he’d have removed the towel, and his shorts and given me a happy ending then I’d have paid him the extra money afterwards but he didn’t go near my hard on atall. He just avoided the area completely and finished the massage in a perfunctory style.
 
It was a shame because he was hot and, up to the point of the upsell discussion, he’d done a great massage. I had no problem with him cashing in on the side but he was doing it in a really poor way that was confrontational and inconvenient.
 
I gave him a good rating afterwards though because it was a nice massage and I’m sure he’d have been hot to play with. He just should have been more subtle and trusting to accept cash afterwards.

Wow great video!! Thanks!

https://www.twinkvideos.com/videos/17744/two-white-guys-and-one-black-lad-are-having-a-3some/?utm_source=PBWeb&utm_medium=PBWeb&sub=100001
Here’s one I was in. It’s a 4 hands and includes me fucking the guy on the table. We’d planned that I shoot on his arse but as I was fucking him he asked me to shoot inside so I did, it’s just before the part where we kiss.
The whole vibe on that filming was hot. After we’d finished the camera man was so excited he needed to fuck me so I got a load in me as well.

https://www.twinkvideos.com/videos/17744/two-white-guys-and-one-black-lad-are-having-a-3some/?utm_source=PBWeb&utm_medium=PBWeb&sub=100001
Here’s one I was in. It’s a 4 hands and includes me fucking the guy on the table. We’d planned that I shoot on his arse but as I was fucking him he asked me to shoot inside so I did, it’s just before the part where we kiss.
The whole vibe on that filming was hot. After we’d finished the camera man was so excited he needed to fuck me so I got a load in me as well.

https://www.twinkvideos.com/videos/17744/two-white-guys-and-one-black-lad-are-having-a-3some/?utm_source=PBWeb&utm_medium=PBWeb&sub=100001
Here’s one I was in. It’s a 4 hands and includes me fucking the guy on the table. We’d planned that I shoot on his arse but as I was fucking him he asked me to shoot inside so I did, it’s just before the part where we kiss.
The whole vibe on that filming was hot. After we’d finished the camera man was so excited he needed to fuck me so I got a load in me as well.

https://www.twinkvideos.com/videos/17744/two-white-guys-and-one-black-lad-are-having-a-3some/?utm_source=PBWeb&utm_medium=PBWeb&sub=100001
Here’s one I was in. It’s a 4 hands and includes me fucking the guy on the table. We’d planned that I shoot on his arse but as I was fucking him he asked me to shoot inside so I did, it’s just before the part where we kiss.
The whole vibe on that filming was hot. After we’d finished the camera man was so excited he needed to fuck me so I got a load in me as well.

Oh I know. A couple years ago Julio Cesar was the goal keeper. In his career beginning he played for my Brazilian club, Flamengo.

Sucking is definitely a learned skill. Don’t go down completely at first, tease the head with some flicks of your tongue, lick down and up the underside of his shaft.
I like to give my clients the choice about where to cum so I’ll ask if they want to cum in my mouth, or elsewhere. If they choose mouth then I take the mouthful to their lips for kissing but it’s surprising how many guys decline to kiss because they don’t like their own cum. I saw a client recently who shot in my mouth but when I signalled to him to kiss and share the cum he said “no way!”. Even later once he was showered and dressed and we kissed goodbye he said he could taste the cum on my lips so it was just a quick peck.
I think it’s mainly a dislike of their own cum that puts guys off because if I cum in their mouth most guys are very happy to kiss me and share it back with me.

I use lingam massage techniques in my massage. The whole idea of sensual massage is to prolong the arousal and try to induce orgasm that doesn’t involve ejaculation because this retains the energy in the body. If you are skilled at the techniques you can keep a guy close to orgasm without him reaching ejaculation. The sensation feels like a continuous orgasm.
 
If a guy thinks he may not be able to hold back for the whole massage time then sometimes I start the massage with an ejaculation (in the first 5 minutes) and then he can relax and build up again more slowly through the massage to a non ejaculation orgasm, or another ejaculation orgasm
 
Most guys do want to orgasm and ejaculate as part of the massage however because they’re not practised at non ejaculatory orgasms. It takes a lot of practice and self control.
 
I’ve got some lingam demo videos on my Twitter timeline @sensualtouchco

The first time I faced an issue like that was after a hot guy rimmed me, then came up for the kiss. I had to make a fast decision! (Yes, I kissed!)

https://www.twinkvideos.com/videos/17744/two-white-guys-and-one-black-lad-are-having-a-3some/?utm_source=PBWeb&utm_medium=PBWeb&sub=100001
Here’s one I was in. It’s a 4 hands and includes me fucking the guy on the table. We’d planned that I shoot on his arse but as I was fucking him he asked me to shoot inside so I did, it’s just before the part where we kiss.
The whole vibe on that filming was hot. After we’d finished the camera man was so excited he needed to fuck me so I got a load in me as well.