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What?
Wow…Maybe escorts should remember that clients….are still humans?
The grace we afford an escort for doing what is bitched about as far as clients? The irony is rich…
I was decent, too. The point I’m making is that for all the righteous posturing about proper etiquette on approaching the holy of holies here, the rules of engagement don’t apply the other way. The guy is fine as far as I’m concerned. The point is that escorts will say that such a message from a potential client (“Hey 👋🏻“) wastes their time. It doesn’t take more than 3 seconds to fire off a response…
I’m still looking for the Miss Manners etiquette book that provides the exact verbiage required to contact an escort.

It’s not. My preference are set that way. I had never seen the guy til I looked at the ad.
I replied because unlike some folks, I find it impolite to just ignore other people. I’m not a jerk.

So you decided to ignore that when calling me sanctimonious? 

What?
Wow…Maybe escorts should remember that clients….are still humans?
The grace we afford an escort for doing what is bitched about as far as clients? The irony is rich…
I was decent, too. The point I’m making is that for all the righteous posturing about proper etiquette on approaching the holy of holies here, the rules of engagement don’t apply the other way. The guy is fine as far as I’m concerned. The point is that escorts will say that such a message from a potential client (“Hey 👋🏻“) wastes their time. It doesn’t take more than 3 seconds to fire off a response…
I’m still looking for the Miss Manners etiquette book that provides the exact verbiage required to contact an escort.

Why would you expect an answer to a rhetorical question?
I’m quite happy. I disagree with people here and they interpret that as complaining. I do see a lot of hypocrisy here as well, and I point it out. That’s not complaining. It’s just telling the truth.
I just had breakfast with a friend who told me I am one of the happiest people they know and I make them want to be a better person. So anyone’s impression of me as miserable is off target. Apparently I’m a joy to be around in person. Is it possible, rhetorically speaking, that because I have the temerity to point out how some people are wearing no clothes that it’s easier to write me off as miserable to save face? 🤔 

What?
Wow…Maybe escorts should remember that clients….are still humans?
The grace we afford an escort for doing what is bitched about as far as clients? The irony is rich…
I was decent, too. The point I’m making is that for all the righteous posturing about proper etiquette on approaching the holy of holies here, the rules of engagement don’t apply the other way. The guy is fine as far as I’m concerned. The point is that escorts will say that such a message from a potential client (“Hey 👋🏻“) wastes their time. It doesn’t take more than 3 seconds to fire off a response…
I’m still looking for the Miss Manners etiquette book that provides the exact verbiage required to contact an escort.

If we agree to 60 minutes and you want to keep it to that, fine. If we agree to 60 minutes and you stay over, that’s fine too. I will likely tip. If we agree to 60 minutes, we’re “done” in 50 minutes, and I say you don’t have to stay, that’s fine. If we agree to 60 minutes, we’re “done” in 50 minutes, and you start talking about leaving, that’s not fine.
 
If prep time and cleanup time are part of comp time, what’s left in an hour session?

No one pays me to shower before I go to work but it’s expected. Come to work ready to work.

Communicated with him via text. He wants $70 to talk 10 minutes on the phone to discuss arrangements.

Precisely. Well put. Concise.

It really is acceptable for clients to approach multiple providers. It’s also reasonable for everyone to expect decent, polite interaction whether you’re dealing with multiple clients/providers. They’re not mutually exclusive.
Why is it okay for a provider to ask me if I want to meet tonight because he’s trying to pin down timing with another guy if I can’t do the same with a provider from my perspective? What if I want to see two guys tonight? One right after the other…I may need to coordinate that scheduling. A provider shouldn’t feel that’s inappropriate. That’s my prerogative. 

And how are you to know? Like I said, I had two providers who wanted me to know they considered me friends as long as the gifts and money and trips kept coming. But when I went MIA because of my mom’s COVID situation and communication and favors dried up, the friendship evaporated. One even ghosted me…after I shared that my mother had died. The other seems more…uninterested now.
On the whole, I don’t call people friends because like I said, it means I consider myself devoted to them in a way I wouldn’t with just anyone. But if someone explicitly says to me they consider themselves my friend, that changes the calculus – or it has in the past at least.
As for escorts as friends – I’ve learned my lesson. Fool me once. Shame on you. Fool me twice. Shame on me. I’ve had escorts tell me they are my friends and it turned out they weren’t. I’m not letting that happen again. And so that may mean that I don’t consider any escort a friend. One rotten apple spoiled the bunch.
Add to that…I simply wouldn’t pay any friend, at this point, to fuck. If I’m paying someone to fuck me, then it’s business.

But do they advertise that?
I doubt women are looking for an escort nearly as much as men though.

I have to remind myself to think with my neural head when I see guys like this. So many red flags but the penile head wants to say, “How bad could it be?” Bad. It could be really bad.

That sort of behavior and willingness on the part of RM to support it really renders the reviews useless.

Well, then I won’t be able to submit reviews. I guess that’s one less thing I need to worry about. I’ve always given reviews for my sessions, but if I’ve got to pay to do that, I won’t be doing that. Not really bad for me, but bad for the providers I would potentially give positive reviews to.
I have noticed that some providers have no reviews, then have one or two, and then those reviews disappear. I’ve noticed this in particular with MatteoBlanco. I personally believe he’s using RM as a platform lure guys in to subscribing to his OF and has no intention to actually meet up. Question: do providers have the ability to delete reviews? I just don’t know how some of these reviews can be gone unless RM is curating them. Which really undermines the credibility of the whole review process on the site.

I wouldn’t pay $5 an hour for a “lady of the night.” 😂 But that’s a matter of taste. I prefer sausage to fish. 

I suppose if they don’t want the business, they won’t respond. If the pressure is high enough for business, they’ll respond. If they don’t need the work, they’ll be less motivated. Again…it’s just a matter of supply and demand.
I suppose it’s different when a provider sends a message on RM or to my phone asking if I want to hire tonight. I’m willing to bet I’m not the one client who’s getting those desperate pleas for business.

For $1800/night, you can hang out with him! 

Ain’t that true. I’ve paid top dollar for mediocre service more than once. I almost feel shameful what my best regular asks, but I tip.
I would never haggle as you say. But if a provider asks me what I’m willing to pay, then it sometimes turns into a bit of a back and forth. I’ve decided what my limit is because as you say, price doesn’t necessarily equate to quality. I haven’t really noticed a difference in quality above $1800/night. But maybe I just haven’t met the right provider asking for more than that.
 I also don’t really “buy” into paying for a name either. I know some guys like that, but more me, looking for a BFE, it’s more important that the connection be there than for me to know I’ve fucked some porn star. There are different things that motivate different guys. I suppose if I wanted to start notching my bedframe with porn star conquests, I could hire for an hour instead of an overnight, but that’s just not really what I like. I like pretending for a weekend I have a partner…That’s what I hire for.
#Idigress

Maybe you have a thought on providers who do behave that way? I doubt you’re ignorant of providers who are rude and expect too much. I know I have opinions about my colleagues who have unreal expectations.
That raises an interesting idea: do escorts see fellow escorts as “colleagues?”
 

Do escorts only work with one client at a time?
I find the idea or suggestion that clients should contact one provider at a time hypocritical if escorts aren’t limiting themselves to one client at a time. It’s part of the economics of it, for both supply side and demand side. Just because there’s a market doesn’t justify bad behavior.