CuriousByNature

As long as he shares his fries with me, I would be okay with it. LOL To bring things back to the original question, and the apparent drop in donation amounts. Last night I found myself in a situation where a very desirable (to me) provider, PAID ME for my time. It was amazing. Such a connection. And it seemed to last for hours and hours. But then I woke up.

It looks like this Noel could certainly keep you warm on a cold winter's night that was so deep.

Sadly we don't have any record about what the ghosts of his mother and dog called him during those seances...

Also any guy named Rex.

When God was handing out beauty, it seems he was particularly generous with Mr. Rockham.

As long as he doesn't smell like Durian God... 🤣

Some people are more complicated than others. There are facets to most people that never see the light of day, and therefore they manage to escape scrutiny. For others, not so much.

I wrote that it 'might' be a good thing. Some will agree, and others will not. I still find it odd when I see a thread for a 'NEW' provider that has 7 pages of replies, and the OP has been deceased for some time already. BTW, we don't have to agree or convince each other of anything.

None of us are perfect

I don't think the question posed by @cbaby deserves this kind of response. Perhaps a bit of overreaction on your part?

Hence my words, "Not a big issue". It isn't 'needed', and nor did I suggest it was.

Not a big issue, but it might be good to avoid adding 'NEW' to a thread title, unless you also happen to add the month and year. There are threads from 5 years ago that still indicate a provider as being 'new'.

He might be a fan of Mozambique's flag.

I suppose as a Canadian I would be able to claim back the tax by filing a US tax return, but I don't currently live close enough to the border to make a trip across the line worth it for a 1 in 290 million chance at winning.

This is a situation where he should capitalize the 'r' in his profile. Bi people are not gross. LOL

I'm more concerned that she noticed his body temperature at a time that her toe was being crushed. Glad it was just one toe. It's a good thing.

What??? When did that change? LOL

Maybe some turn back into pumpkins, mice or newts after midnight, like in Cinderella?

No need to thank me at all - feelings are feelings, and they hit each of us differently. Only you yourself know the amount of preparation you invested, and none of us have a right to judge you on that or diminish what that means for you. And it doesn't sound like @GordyLex judges you on that either. Perhaps the DMs on this forum could be a place for the two of you to come to an understanding, separate from the observations and comments of all of us onlookers? Just a thought, anyway. You both sound like reasonable guys, and it would be a shame to miss an opportunity to soothe the soreness each of you might be feeling.

Sorry to hear this happened to you @savantsav - each of us responds to things like this in different ways. It evidently caused you hurt, and for whatever reason, it is still affecting you. As an objective bystander, I believe the texts that @GordyLex sent you indicate a deep regret for what happened. He clearly wants to take responsibility for this, which says a lot. No excuses were given, but he provided an explanation that is completely plausible. I hope his words ring true to you and that you can move past this. @GordyLex sounds like he is a pretty thoughtful and self-aware guy, which can be rare to find in today's society. I'm sure I would have been extremely disappointed not to meet him as well, if that had been me, but I think we always need to make room for grace, and to extend that grace even when we feel we've been slighted. Just my thoughts for what they might be worth.

I'll never understand comments that have the sole purpose of yucking someone else's yum. Such comments only serve to demean people who have a different view.

6-inches? I could carry you in my shirt pocket - do you live in Lilliput?

So why bother announcing that? I have an extra nipple, but I'm keeping that to myself.

I resolve to start removing the paper bag from my head when I leave the house. I'll use a large ziplock instead. That resolution will leave me breathless.