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I would NEVER let a masseuse sit on my face. 🤢 🤮
But a massuer... Have a seat!

If my guy reached out this morning, I'd make myself available for this afternoon! It's just smart business on the providers end.

I don’t know @Jamie21…the slip and slide always sounds like a fun idea, until I actually try it!  The operative phrase is “consenting adults with insurance”! 🤭

I’ve a client who I’ve seen a few times who asks me to keep my shorts on during the massage, and he asks that his groin / bum stay draped.
I was surprised at the request first time I saw him. I said “you know this is sensual massage? It can include genitals, and climax if you want?”. I thought perhaps he’d misunderstood the nature of my massage (despite having seen my website which I think is quite clear about what can happen 😂). 
But he said “no I totally understand Jamie, and I’d love to have all of that but my religion says I must not. I just want a great massage. You can touch me there through the towel and if you’re ok I might feel you through your shorts but please don’t take them off or remove the towel”. I had to check with him if he was 100% sure because sometimes clients start with one intention and then during the massage they ask me to go further. 
But no, he was adamant that nothing beyond touching through fabric would happen. And so it turned out. I kind of found it a little challenging to end the massage…there being no natural climax and slow down so to speak but otherwise it was incredibly erotic. I could see he was hard, and so was I, but nothing happened. Afterwards he was so grateful for the session. 
Even more extraordinary was that he subsequently booked a 4 hands session with me and another masseur (a friend of mine who I absolutely adore and who I’ve filmed with). I had to tell my friend about the rules for the session; massage, touching, shorts stay on, no climax.
On the day of the 4 hands the client again briefed us on what he wanted (and didn’t want!) and I could see the surprise on my friend’s face. I asked the client if he was ok if we, the masseurs, got naked and interacted during the session. Often a 4 hands develops into a sex session and I was kind of hoping he’d say he was happy to watch me and my friend play.
But the client said that the religious rules meant he could not see another guys cock so we could kiss etc but must not remove our shorts. He was very insistent on this so I had to put some underwear on beneath my shorts because otherwise my cock would have poked out the leg hole (these were short shorts 😉).
At this point the client went to shower before we started and my friend said to me “is this for real or is it a role play scenario and he’ll want to get DP’d after 15 minutes?”. I should add at this point the client has a wonderful bubble bum, which my friend had clearly noticed as the client walked in his underwear to the shower. 
“Wishful thinking” I replied “he’s definite about staying covered and no climax or anything, for him or for us”. Make it as sexy as possible but there’s a red line we must not cross”. 
So we proceeded to give our client the most erotic and intimate 4 hands no climax massage I’ve ever been part of. The sexual tension that could not be released made it all the more heightened. It’s fantastic to explore parts of the body in an erotic way without ever going to the genitals directly. I had to admire the client’s discipline, and appreciate the different perspective on erotic massage it gave me, even though I can’t understand the religious beliefs that he held. 
I should add that he paid us the normal rate for a sensual 4 hands session, and he was absolutely satisfied and happy with the massage because we’d respected his restrictions. It made me appreciate how having boundaries can enable what happens within them to be explored to its maximum potential. 
Sorry for the long response but I think it worth sharing because it was one of the most interesting massages I’ve ever done. 


 

 

One of my first massages I got and the first one at my place.  After the guy set up his table and I was getting on he told me to lay on my back first.  He started off getting near my erogenous zones and within 5 minutes had me fully hard.  Soon as that happened it was in his mouth...I think I gasped, lol.  It wasn't long before he hopped up on the table and was riding it until I came.  I thought, "well, that was fun but a quick 15 minutes".
After he came back from the bathroom and I started to get dressed, he said "oh no, that was the intro, we need to finish the massage."  And he did, for the full hour.
Afterwards, he told me he doesn't do that often (mm, ok), but that it's a great way to start things off.  I had to agree.
(possibly I've told this story before, but I couldn't find the post)

Had my first appointment with a handsome, sexy, fit masseur here in Dallas about a year ago. Although he's been here for a while and has great reviews, I didn't have the inclination to hire him until last spring. I finally scheduled a session and went to his place (nice setup). I always look for a great deep tissue massage first and the erotic second but didn't know what to expect since I found him on Masseurfinder. He said I could undress to my comfort level, so I shucked my clothes and hopped up on his table face-down.
The massage was fantastic; even though he's average height, he's pretty muscular with a great set of hands and could really work out the knots, especially in my back. After he finished, he had me flip over and resumed the massage -- calves, feet, thighs, torso, etc. He also lightly worked my groin area (and I immediately got hard), but I kept my hands to myself since he had given no indication of how I should respond. Toward the end of the massage, before I knew it, he leaned over and started giving me a fantastic blow job, then took off his shorts and revealed a monster cock -- thick, meaty, and heavy, with low hangers. I blew my load pretty quickly, and he swallowed it all. I've been back twice (took a break to get fully vaccinated), and both sessions were the same -- except that's he added an electronic massager to work over my shaft and sack. Yowza! 

Well said! A proper massage is important and needs to be done by someone who recognises that massage is an art. It’s not just rubbing your baby oiled hand up and down his back to kill time while you check your phone for insta  likes and the mirror for your abs.
A masseur knows that sensual massage is a seduction, to be savoured by his client. He knows it’s to  enable him to learn about his client’s body and what turns him on so that when the time comes for his client’s climax he can press all the right buttons to get the desired response. 
Hire a masseur, because the journey is at least as important as the destination. 

 

Had a fun experience at a spa in downtown NYC. This was prob 4 years ago. Masseur was prob mid 20s and a very good looking guy from China. Had been to see him a few times and had chatted w him a bunch so kind of knew him and felt very comfortable with him. Started withhis normal great massage experience - he was skilled and I was very relaxed. Was on my stomach and he was working on my shoulders and upper back - a mix of standing at my head and straddling my head to get to my lower back and butt - and out of the blue I started to feel something warm and slightly wet on my head and neck. I raised my head to investigate and saw that the masseur had removed his clothes and had a semi. We made eye contact and he could see my surprise (and delight). He had a very nice body and his piece was very meaty, uncut and perfect. Lots of pre dripping and I couldn't resist having it all over my face and body as he continued to massage me. Loved having it leak all over me as were both very clearly turned on. We both finished. Was one of the most sensual experiences I've ever had (and I've had a few). Was so sexy feeling the warmth of his body and meat all over my face and body. Loved his smell - was a mix of a man who was working hard and sweating and peppermint soap. Was a total intimate connection with another man who was beautiful and sexy but pretty much a stranger. We exchanged numbers afterward and went to dinner a few times. Sadly he moved away from NYC and haven't seen him in a few years. 

I’m so glad I work in a country where it’s legal to do sex work. It’s simply so much easier for me to discuss with clients what they want, and for them to ask.
There’s none of this trying to decipher whether I’ll go further than a hand job from clues in my advert or asking coy questions and trying to guess! My clients can ask for exactly what they want, without worry that there’s any legal lines crossed or that I’ll get offended. 

Also, I really don’t think up-selling during the massage is a good idea because it interrupts the flow and is awkward. So I prefer to agree what’s included beforehand, and basically anything can be included.
I don’t think there should be a hard line between massage work and escorting because it’s just different degrees of basically the same thing. The price will usually be the best indicator of where the service will be on the continuum from therapeutic only massage all the way through to escorting with full bareback sex. In my massage work I’ve worked along that whole range. 
 

Similar to the above but I keep 3 $20s in my wallet.

No tip: time shorters, basic rub and tug etc
$20: meets expectations 
$40: sweet guy, good massage, enthusiastic, doesn’t watch the clock
$60: great massage, great extras

Since I use both venmo and cash, I typically will tip between 10% to 25% of the session cost and will make my decision depending on how good the massage and overall experience was. And what do you know, it ends up being pretty similar to what WVChris mentioned with either a $20 or $40 tip lol.  
For the masseurs that give you a short massage, lasting between 30 to 45 mins and then give you a release, I don't bother tipping them. I would much rather tip the "rockstar" masseurs that give you full 60 or 90 mins you requested plus a release afterward. 

Just my opinion, and others may differ: If it's your first time seeing the guy, suggest you have 2 twenties on hand. If the massage is amazing, give him both as tip. If merely average, a $20 tip should suffice.

. . . Or ride your horse?

He could bang my gong anytime!

Cross posting, great find from @Firestarter!
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I could only hope someone would objectify me!

Just to clarify, this string is not seeking input about the hardest part of the provider, correct? 

Here that is for those who are curious: OFS - The Beach House Series - Max Konnor & Serg Shepard - BoyFriendTV.com

Well...he ain't no body builder....so.... ( and it doesn't mean bed and breakfast. )