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There are those who get off by making fake appointments with the intention of causing financial losses to others. Providers refer to such as “Time Wasters”. 
 
I once asked such a time waster out of curiosity why they do what they do and he replied that it’s because it’s not fair for people like me to make so much money. A loss of $200 here, another $400 there, it soon adds up to real losses. 
 
Providers warn each other about such time wasters on a popular app that has already been mentioned on this forum. I find it to be a very useful tool and I use it in my day to day work. 
 
In the case of @Teddiec, he is flagged as a time waster and worse. He made an appointment with me in the past and canceled shortly before the session causing me a loss as there were others interested in that time slot. The first time he did this, he told me that his name is Peter. 
 
I have the chat history and will post them here should this guy deny anything that I am disclosing here. 
 
Last Thursday he messaged me asking for an appointment the next day. He also mentioned that his name is Ted. I have his number saved as Peter so that was another red flag, but I believe in second chances so I scheduled it for Friday, 6pm. 
 
That Friday, early in the day, I started getting several requests for treatment at 6, 6:30, and 7pm. I suspected that Peter/Ted, or whatever his name is, would try to cause me another loss so I sent him a message at 1pm asking him to confirm our appointment, but there was no response. So I messaged him again at 2pm, asking him to please confirm by 4pm as I have others who want the 6pm time slot. He didn’t respond, so at 4pm, I sent him a message saying that our appointment is canceled because he didn’t confirm. 
 
Indeed, I gave the time slot to another around 4:30. 
 
It seems that he didn’t like the fact that I didn’t allow him to cause me another loss so he is trying to cause me losses by other means. 
 
I would say that more than 96% of people who contact me and visit me are good people. They are very kind to me, but there are always some who have dark personalities. I will never give such people treatments. 
 
I always ask my clients how they feel after each session to make sure that each and everyone is happy or very happy with the experience, and so far 99.9% of clients have said that it was great, awesome, and used other words of praise. 
 
I am surprised that @BooBear and @dk582 were not happy with the experience, because it either means that they didn’t tell the truth when I asked them at the end of the session how they felt about it or they are not being truthful after the fact. Regardless of their reasons, I will be sending both of them a private DM shortly and offer each a 60-minute in-call treatment completely free of charge. 
 
I want to clarify that I don’t offer escort services. When creating the RM profile, it was required to include “Versatile”, or whatever, in order to create the profile. There was no other way. It was a required field that must be filled out, that could not be left blank. 
 
To the one who alerted me as to what’s happening on this forum, I look forward to seeing you soon! 
 
To those who defended me against these, I thank you. May you be blessed! I am very grateful to you. 
 
I wish you a good Labor Day weekend 💙

I recently had a massage with Rony. His breathing sound didn't bother me in the least. It was a very relaxing and sensual massage. He uses his hands and body. I had free range to touch him, and did so. By the time the massage was nearly over his uncut dick had thickened nicely. 

Ehh... you've seen one member, you've seen them all.

Maybe his name is Richard and he lives in Death Valley

Not sure if I should be posting these here or not. I am a big fan of underwear/gear and since you were looking for some pics I thought I’d share a few. I made sure there are some tighty whities in there for you guys. Hope it’s okay. 

Nice to see a clip where over half of the time is actual massage... not just 3 minutes turned into sucking/fucking...

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Because I can do math?
grin.
(I understand your point, I’m just being an ass.)

I think loyalty rewards are great…for big business that can build the discounts into their overhead. I think small business should set their cost and hold to it. I know that I wouldn’t want to do my job for less and I wouldn’t expect a provider to take less. It somehow would feel that I’m taking advantage and still expecting 100% from them. I’m happy to pay what they are worth. The more expensive, overpriced providers, I decide where my spending limit is and engage with guys within that limit

I think loyalty rewards are great…for big business that can build the discounts into their overhead. I think small business should set their cost and hold to it. I know that I wouldn’t want to do my job for less and I wouldn’t expect a provider to take less. It somehow would feel that I’m taking advantage and still expecting 100% from them. I’m happy to pay what they are worth. The more expensive, overpriced providers, I decide where my spending limit is and engage with guys within that limit

In my experience as soon as you start discounting (whether that’s offering reduced rates for regulars or students or whatever) the discounted rate becomes the new ‘floor’ for your standard hour rate. It bleeds to other clients and then becomes the expectation. So I have a simple rule: no discounts ever.  The rate is the rate, that’s it and it’s not a matter for discussion. The sooner the conversation moves from ‘how much’ to ‘this is what I like / want’ the better. I like to minimise the transactional nature of the meeting because it doesn’t help with creating the right atmosphere. 

I think they should have a little card like subway used to offer, you put the stamps on it per purchase.  Fill up the card and get a free 12 incher.

Here's my NYC/NJ masseur collection post. It's been a while since my last posting. I added which quarter of 2023 I saw them to provide some "freshness" or "good by this date"  Again as I have mentioned before these are MY massage experiences and may likely be different for you when you get to see them. My photo in my avatar is me since I get asked that question a lot in my DMs and if you look at my profile, you'll see MORE of me. But looks and body type are just one of the many variables that come into play when one sees a massage therapist. So not all sessions, even with the same therapist and client, are alike. I also don't ask anything prior to any session, no expectations except for a massage, then the magic happens...   MT=mutual touch; HE=happy ending; YMMV=your mileage may vary (one cannot guarantee that the extras I received will also happen to you). Feel free to DM me if you need any more info. I have other postings from my many visits to Chicago, Fort Lauderdale and LA. Just need the time to write them.
Nik (Q1 2023)
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/17974/
https://rentmasseur.com/coltmassage
Nik is a wonderful, sweet guy. I first saw him at that massage place on 14th street. Then afterwards at his place in the UWS. He looks like his photos. He has a table set up in his studio apartment and there is a shower available with a clean bathroom. Nik is quite slim, lanky and tall and his technique is very good with evidence of training. He uses long gliding strokes during the session with occasional stretching. He massages in his underwear during the session. He adds sensual elements throughout. And you know what they say about thin tall men - they have BIG…FEET! I will be back. MT/HE and of course YMMV
Ron (Q1 2023)
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/43658/
https://rentmasseur.com/RonMasseur
Ron, originally from Costa Rica, is very nice. He has his table set up in his small bedroom which was ok but leaves him not much. room to maneuver. He’s quite good with his massage strokes and really places a lot of pressure despite his thin frame. Not so sure that he has formal training but it did feel quite good. He uses a combo of lotion/oil. I would definitely repeat. MT/HE and of course YMMV
Anton (Q1 2023)
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/28165/
Anton is such a quiet guy. Hairy, cute slim guy who lives in a clean apartment in Brooklyn. He definitely looks like his photos. He works on a table in a separate room that also doubles as a bedroom. He is very hairy and I found it very stimulating as he massaged my body. He was naked throughout using Swedish strokes. It was a good massage and he adds sensual elements throughout. Not sure I’ll be coming back soon. MT/HE
Ken (Q/Q2 2023)
https://rentmasseur.com/Ken_NYC
Ken has been talked about in several posts. Don’t be discouraged that there are no face photos. I have seen him several times including early in the post pandemic period and just recently as last month. He has certainly shed his excess weight and rocking those abs again and his body is definitely firmer. He has a tiny sliver of an apartment in Hell’s Kitchen. You’re literally in the kitchen but don’t let that disturb you. He has to work closer to the table and those errant hands have to land somewhere He is also such a sweetie and I have definitely been a repeat offender (sorry customer). MT/HE and of course YMMV
Dmitry (Q2 2023)
https://rentmasseur.com/dmitrynyc
Dmitry is a nice guy who works on the UES close to 96th street subway station. He (again!) has a relatively slim and lanky frame. It’s clean and he has a designated area for the massage. He is very sweet but his massage techniques leaves something to be desired. I felt I was “lightly touched” the entire time. He has several price points for what you may want from the massage. Since I am primarily looking for a massage, I may not come back. He also gives you a small parting gift at the end which was sweet. MT/HE
Carlos (Q2 2023)
https://rentmasseur.com/CarlosUES
I know he has been discussed in here. And I do agree that he looks better in person. He lives in an apartment in UES with a table. Clean and tidy. He has very good massage skills (which other posters have mentioned he has worked or continue to work in a spa before). He uses long gliding strokes but also incorporates kneading techniques. I appreciate the fact that he knows his way around a person’s body highlighting his training. He also incorporates sensual elements into his session. I will definitely be back. That massive mirror next to the massage table came into good use! MT/HE and of course YMMV
Jhonny (Q2 2023)
https://rentmasseur.com/Jhonny
I believe I talked about this guy before. I find him really really cute. His smile melts me! I saw him once before and he has shed his COVOD weight. He is much trimmer and defined. He greeted my in his skivvies in an AirBNB in midtown. He has a table set-up and as always, starts with a hug and kisses to your back and ass cheeks which to me is very ’tiltillating” LOL He has nice massage technique, no training but at least he knows his muscles. He has a very smooth body and uses it on you once while on your back and again while facing up. I found that very sexual especially his tiny kisses along the way. Overall it was a sensual experience and definitely will come again! MT/HE and of course YMMV
Rosario (Q2 2023)
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/43288/
I find Rosario to be a handsome guy. He looks like his photos on the site. His place is all the way uptown - way uptown! It’s unfortunate since his place is nice, airy and also clean. He has a massage table placed close to the window and was comfortable. He massages with his clothes on and magically disappears at some point when you turn around He uses Swedish strokes and you can tell he does have training. I will definitely be back. MT/HE and of course YMMV
Nick (Q2 2023)
https://rentmasseur.com/Nick_Massage
I saw him in NJ when I was around the area. He lives in a. House and ha s a large bedroom for his massage. He is very professional and lets you know what is going to happen next. I respect that. He uses Swedish strokes coupled with some targeted deep tissue. He also uses his entire body on to you. He was wearing shorts which again magically disappeared afterwards. He has a tight defined body which was evident from his pictures on his ad. The session was passionate and he really likes what he’s doing as per his ad. I would surely be a repeat. Just need to get my ass to NJ. MT/HE and of course YMMV
Marko (Q2 2023)
https://rentmasseur.com/MarkoMassuer
https://rentmen.eu/Markoship
This guy is SEXY! With a hard rocking’ body and a killer smile. He’s new and he has quite limited English proficiency. He’s Colombian but said he lived in Argentina for 10 years. What he lacks verbally, he surely make sup physically :D. He uses baby oil (not my preference) really, and massages on a bed (claims to have a broken table). Massage on the bed was OK and was also a bit awkward because his bed is also quite small. He was wearing underwear during the session. It was quite a session. We were both exhausted afterwards I know he escorts but I only paid for the massage and I think I got a bonus! Definitely would repeat! MT/HE and of course YMMV
 

Definitely the masseur is not my type, but the other guy's cock DEFINITELY is! Very hot video.

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I always say:
Thanks, but that's out of my budget.
Very often providers will ask me what I was looking to spend. But I tell them I would never ask them to work for less than they feel they are worth and leave it at that.
No one is going to work for less without providing less. So it's pointless to haggle
 

In many cases, the difference is about $100…

Those are usually hot to me too. I hate clips that jump from fully clothed to fully naked. The buildup is sometimes the hottest part of the action.

I like a slow reveal. T-shirt &/or just shorts to start, with the shirt hopefully off by the time I turn over. And since I respect that I'm paying for a massage and not an escort session, any dropping of the shorts is at his discretion. In which case my discretion goes out the window. 

Hey man I’m fine with anything haha
 
who else is out there?

May we assume you're asking about stretching limbs and joints rather than orifices?
😉

I hear this. Clients differ though. Some would be disappointed in the lack of effort. Others have ED, prostate issues, or anxiety, or, like you, just aren’t feeling it. Some clients release without even being hard (not that uncommon). Some clients are very relaxed from the massage and aren’t hard, but get hard with some attention, and want it.
Damned if you do. “Read the room, man”
Damned if you don’t. “I’m disappointed he didn’t even try”

Massage vids are my fave! Great thread!

Yeah.  And I want to be adopted by Jeff Bezos.

Swedish massage is for lonely people and ladies.
If you want "therapy" you don't book a "Swedish Massage".