DC_mystro

No, it doesn’t involve a sex act. “Serving cake” can just mean having a great ass. If I am walking around the neighborhood in tight shorts that make my ass look really good, I am “serving cake.“
”Serving” is drag slang. To “serve” is to present oneself in an intentional way. “Serving butch” means being intentionally masculine. “Serving fish” means being convincingly feminine. It’s really spun off into a lot of fun directions, but it’s not a sex act. It’s just presentation. 

it appears the deeper your emotions got the more problems he encountered. exclusive but still at a parallel time. fortunately i learned a long long time ago that giving to someone means the other is taking. if that person doesnt become a giver in time... there will be a problem. when giving i always make sure the other person is doing something of value for the gift. men just respect that sort of situation. the former to most men shows a weakness and vulnerability that for the most part tends to make them take advantage of the person and situation.
hell even most women know they need to get a $200 dinner and wine before opening up their pussy. lol

I've found it increasingly hard to find good bodybuilders who are into muscle worship.  Many now rely on OnlyFans and fin dom, the latter I find a complete turn off.
For me the perfect provider for muscle worship is someone who can read you and can take control of the session.  There have been some guys where I've had to direct them for virtually the whole hour.
 

I was walking back home from the gym and I was passing by Bloomingdale’s in Manhattan in the rain, it was summer of 2000. I noticed a tall hot Latin guy under his umbrella looking at me as I passed by. He smiled and I stopped to talk to him. I ended up bringing him back to my apartment on the Upper East Side for a little fun. He told me he was an escort and also did porn. He gave me his real name, and then his porn star name, Max Grand. Those were the days!
 

if you think this never-resolvable topic deserves to be discussed more, create your own thread!........or use the search function to find the dozens of others threads trying to reconcile what providers request......hours of fun!

I'm "usually very hot," too, here in the desert.

Pavel Novotny, please.

The designer should be located and publicly flogged (here, in the fetish forum).  😆

If I read between the lines here (and only from my experience with this type) he doesnt want creepers all over him and states only what he will do with anyone.
That being said a good guy, good hygiene that doesnt get all wierd and grabby from minute one, who takes his time and has the money to do so (I would bet his fees come down considerably if he likes you and you treat him with respect) can get pretty darn far with this uber hot stud.
Again... this is just mho

I had no idea Henry Cavill was in Florida…

Life being what it is, I half-expected to see that he was strict top in his profile.

There are plenty of sub-par providers out there, and there are many who are very good to exceptional.   Like many things in life, your mileage may vary.....and can be vastly improved if you are willing to study, learn and do some work.   This site is full of pointers on how to vet and screen providers, there are many entire threads just on this topic.   IMHO most ppl who enjoy this hobby have developed a system for vetting, and as a result are having largely positive experiences.  Good luck!

Yeah I've been going back and forth with him, think I will try and meet him tomorrow. He seems genuine from what I gather and has been pretty upfront about everything. I would be very surprised if he was fake given my experience with fakes.

Not the guy in the photos but still hella hot! We had a great time together. Should give him a try if you haven't yet.

This will be my first reply here! I'm inclined to do so because I actually met Allen about a week ago. He is a super sweet guy but yes communication was questionable before our meet up. We had a good time together though so I would encourage letting it go and reaching out next time he is near you. He delivers!

This will be my first reply here! I'm inclined to do so because I actually met Allen about a week ago. He is a super sweet guy but yes communication was questionable before our meet up. We had a good time together though so I would encourage letting it go and reaching out next time he is near you. He delivers!