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I've been asked my ethnicity a few times. My standard response is "I don't like being touched by people like you".

I've been asked my ethnicity a few times. My standard response is "I don't like being touched by people like you".

I tried him. He's a smart guy with solid massage skills. He looks exactly like his pictures and I was happy I'd taken a chance on a headless masseur.

I too think a lot of people take it this way, but I don’t think they necessarily should. YMMV can very well be about how the masseur is feeling at the particular day: (1) more or less sexual active at the time; (2) multiple clients in the same day; (3) current relationship status and current agreement with partner. Sure, personal chemistry and attraction is part of this but there are often variables completely unrelated to the client.
 
What I have found is that if you are respectful to the masseur and treat him well (let him lead with extras and mutual touch— please no groping), your mileage will generally go a very long way.

No prob,
 
Although we can get a bit out of hand on here (especially when we disagree), the contributors to these forums are a Gold-mine, and I truly appreciate having this resource

Massage4life, you nailed it
 
For me I get PM'ed. I don't like getting into details past the massage. Just because a masseur does something "extra" for me does NOT mean it will happen for everyone. I don't like to mention it so that person who asked doesn't come back to me and say hey didn't do that to me.
 
Alot of the extra stuff I would say depends on chemistry, personality etc
 
Hope that made sense.

Nobody can say with certainty about TODAY but Zappos certainly has a stellar reputation until now.

Can someone explain the context for the video in his ad? rough face f**k Is that a bath house? If I were the guy we see at the end of the clip I wouldn't be looking at my phone.

@BFM73 yes, near Santa Monica Blvd and Western in an area with parking.

Yes. Cute/handsome. Much better looking that the blurry pics had led me to expect. I think he's prudently guarding his privacy. I would do the same.

I wrote one of those reviews. I agree that quantity is often a warning sign with reviews, but I believe they're all genuine. It's an unusual massage and Dylan has a kind of personal magnetism.

Yes. Cute/handsome. Much better looking that the blurry pics had led me to expect. I think he's prudently guarding his privacy. I would do the same.

@BFM73 yes, near Santa Monica Blvd and Western in an area with parking.

Same here. I hired him many times over a period of years. Great guy. I like to imagine him happily married somewhere in the OC.

Never bothers me and I appreciate being treated like a valued customer.

Rent.men is using Cloudflare. One of the features of it is a "Browser Integrity Check". It's designed to check for bots (non-human/automated traffic) that is used to spam or do other malicious types of activities by checking HTTP headers, the browser's user agent, etc.
 
It's not something that was designed by Rent.men, but instead a feature of the CDN/DDoS provider they're using.

Not recommended. There have been discussions and mixed reviews under several previous identities.

@BFM73 yes, near Santa Monica Blvd and Western in an area with parking.

I've been asked these questions many times and never wondered why. Thank you for making me wonder, @ButchAtl !

Manners and respect are free to give and receive.

For some reason, I find incels strangely hot.

I tried to sign up for a premium rentmasseur client membership. I sent a question to their customer service address and the experience was so frustrating I gave up. I guess the clients aren't really their customer.

I'm really glad you are feeling better and I love all the responses here! The community really coming together! Being with a partner for 25 years and losing them is just a pain I cannot begin to imagine the loss, and I would ask if you feel you have mourned for them in a way you feel is sufficient? This "slutty" phase that you referred to earlier seems like an avoidance of sorts as well as a protective husk in a way. If you feel you can please a younger man in the prime of life (physically anyway) and feel they care for you then it eases the pain of loss as you have something new and shiny to look forward to.
 
I agree with the other posters that maybe doing more of a one hour - 3 hour stint of time, so you can enjoy yourself and feel some connection but not feel like a father figure making sure to take care of everything for your young charge.
This escort took advantage of your situation but in his head I can imagine him thinking that it's a win/ win for everyone! You get to spend time with him and have sex when you want at a discount, he gets a vacay and make some money on top of it and he gets to enjoy your lovely home to have even more destination sex. What someone that young may not understand however is that their beauty and prowess (sexual or otherwise) is not proportional to what they are taking from you.
 
I don't think this guy is a bad guy necessarily but he definitely did not take all of your feelings and needs into account. I'd also recommend going with an older escort next time as well. The difference between 18-23 and 28-33 emotionally is Gigantic but not much is lost in terms of looks etc. Most of the older escorts have better bodies also as they've been working on them longer and understand their career/ job at this point.
Best of luck to you and feel free to directly message me if you feel like you want to talk to someone.

I think he looks about 30. I like the natural body and more mature version of his face. Next time I'm in SD I'll try to schedule a meeting.

Thanks all - always take a tweak alert seriously