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I was in Chicago for a few days this past week when it hit 100 degrees for the first time in 25 years with a heat index of 118.  While some men are extremely hot in the physical runway department where every other guy wants a career in modeling or is in modeling with little side hustles here on our RM sites.
I have been thinking of several  experiences within 24 hours  having resulted from initial inquiries and I became amazed, hurt, angry, argumentative and most of all perplexed. I had conclusions but now after considerable reflection I may have a different viewpoint.
TrevorCHI on RentMasseur
RENTMASSEUR.COM View my profile on RentMasseur.com ...exceptional experience with Trevor...gorgeous, skilled, talented, communicated very professional with humor while messaging to set up the appointment.
 Thank God because what follows is how my jaunt to the windy city began. If only Trevor had been available first.  
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/1634/
Royce has noted on his profile on masseur finder that he is out of town currently and that may be due a lace filled tirad I had for him when he requested a pic, a request I honored, only to be told I am not his type and too heavy for him so he'll pass. 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/44742/
Toby of rentmasseur responded pronto upon my text arrival asking if he were available to which he asked for my stats and pic. I reluctantly obliged. He responded what happened to you? I responded, "cancer."  Gentlemen I would rather experience chemotherapy than ever experience another exchange with this man as the situation escalated.
Kingmidas on RentMasseur
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King Midas practically conducts an interview.....initial response from him as I questioned his rate informed me he desired to know....my age, stats, and ethnicity.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/39699/
Max stated he only offers massage and nothing at all sexual. At this point I had only asked if he were still in town and available? I explained I was not looking for sex but a little mutual touch I would welcome to which he texted moments later, "how old are you?"
Jxcktherapy - Male Escort, Gay massage - Chicago | Rent.Men
RENT.MEN Jxcktherapy Gay Escort in Chicago, Illinois, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men Another one that really got me was jocktherapy who has since left town. My experience was not through text, but rather a live voice call. I told him I was looking for a nice encounter with body contact, good conversation, and not a session where within minutes of entering the room nothing transpires other than sexual aggressive behavior. He informed me how he appreciated  how I put that as opposed to being asked if he fucks or gets fucked. He is tired of the tacky queens who apply for erotic sessions without decorum. Immediately he asked if I were hung? Now gentlemen, what was this about sexual decorum? lol. I told him I was average and he said that would not work. And for some reason that damn Verizon tower on Lake Shore Blvd evidently faltered as the conversation abruptly halted. 
Finally for the most bizarre. And frightening. 
Mr_BIG on RentMasseur
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Mr. Big. Oh my god he is gorgeous which surprises me as his genetic linkage dates back to the beginning of time with direct connection to Satan.
We made our appointment for 2pm Thursday. This was set up after very little effort Wednesday evening at 9pm. He texted me once again to tell me he would keep the appointment but not to bother confirming as he had an overnight client and would sleep until 1:45. Now who hires someone with these boundaries. I told him I didn't want a massage from someone who woke up 15 minutes ago. And how is he going to get from the Hyatt on Wacker to my boutique hotel on Brompton by two pm? I told him I was hesitant. I was actually angry at myself that I allowed these perimeters but he looked so damn gorgeous and from the other incidents I shared above, who the hell else was there? 
I did call Mr. Big that morning at 11 to confirm. Straight to voice mail. I called again at 12:15.  Straight to voice mail (giving me more ammunition to despise the word straight). At 1:45 I texted. No response. At 2pm I left on foot to head to a fabulous restaurant called Calo. Omg. So good. The gnocchi gorgonzalo is to die for.  Then Walgreens was on the agenda for all the pepto bismal on display due to the 100 heat  temp with an index of 118. After walking 3/4 of a mile I was about ten pounds lighter upon my turning of the corner to my hotel and I saw a man with the hottest legs I have ever seen. As I was descending closer and closer to my hotel the vision became more focused and it was Mr. Big sitting on the wrought iron bench outside the hotel. I kept walking past him totally forgetting I had told described myself the night before so he would recognize me to be let in to the hotel as outsiders without keys are not welcome. He approached me demanding 300 dollars for my not being there upon his arrival and another 30 for the uber which brought him and another 30 for the uber to exit his ass from my frayed nerves. I just kept walking and hurried my pace. He blocked me from the hotel entrance. I was becoming tense with fear. I asked him to leave me alone. I eventually took off running. Literally running. He is 40 years younger than me but what could I do. He did not run as I glanced back. It would probably have made him look guilty. I found myself at a restaurant called Pancake. Half a mile away. 20 minutes later he walked by the front windows looking frantic. I went into the bathroom stall and stayed there at Pancake. The management probably thought the heat had affected  me as I stayed in that bathroom for twenty minutes. Never saw Mr. Big again.
Gentleman is cock worth all this?
I thought the requests for a clients stats and pics bordered discrimination. The more I have thought about it, they really do have the right to do that. Though it is disappointing. 

Damn, had you met him earlier you could have pursued a career in basketball.

Yeah, he’s definitely not 6’3 as claimed. I’m only 6 and I was taller than him still. Then I guess that makes me 6’7. 

Met him about 3 weeks ago..... This guy is a complete scam. He has a great profile online, but it's all thanks to Photoshop. In-person, his actual physique is much less defined than the photos on the profile suggested. I should have read these reviews before visiting him. He was definitely sassy in person and didn't provide the services as promised in his profile. Definitely in for the money and could care less about the client's relaxation. Poor massage technique/skills and poor communication. 
Take your business to someone else. 

welp. Nice smile. nice chest and I'm a sucker for tall guys and he's 6'3" but once again this forum and comments and reviews have saved me from an unfulfilling experience. 
it's not just the money (though these days it IS the money) it's getting your hopes up that a winning smile isn't so winning after all. 

Same experience I had.  I met him in Jan 2021.  He sent me to the wrong hotel-even after I confirmed twice the name and location.  Later apologized saying his English isn't great, but then wanted to only give me 30 minutes since I was "late".  The massage was lame.  The pics are accurate but somewhat dated.  A definite no repeat from me.  

Just some oral, and he cum.  its $240.

Guess it's an extra $50 for the protein shake!😛

I have.  Just ok 

I agree.  No repeats. Bit of a slacker.   Money n run 

I met Mr_big 2 weeks ago in Los Angeles, actually he was traveling with Johny_bravo and shared the same hotel room. He looked nice but physiquely not as toned as in his profile pix. His massage skill was weak, I took the upgraded service which was fine but not impressive. I liked his easy going personality, but will not repeat b/c of his pricey rate.

I saw him last night for a 2 hour outcall session.  He's amazing.  So handsome, friendly, and sweet.  He was a touch shy at first, which was very endearing.  🥰  He gave me a wonderfully sensual/erotic massage and took good care of me.  I will definitely repeat again.  DM me for more details.  

I saw him last night for a 2 hour outcall session.  He's amazing.  So handsome, friendly, and sweet.  He was a touch shy at first, which was very endearing.  🥰  He gave me a wonderfully sensual/erotic massage and took good care of me.  I will definitely repeat again.  DM me for more details.  

I am scheduled to meet with him this Sunday for a few hours.  I'm expressed my interest and my commitment in meeting him and we agreed on a time.  I will keep everyone posted.

I am scheduled to meet with him this Sunday for a few hours.  I'm expressed my interest and my commitment in meeting him and we agreed on a time.  I will keep everyone posted.

I am scheduled to meet with him this Sunday for a few hours.  I'm expressed my interest and my commitment in meeting him and we agreed on a time.  I will keep everyone posted.

I had a great time with him.  He was really fun to talk with and he was really cordial and friendly as he was really just being himself when we were chatting over refreshments and munchies.  He was really personable and was really fun to talk to.  He's incredibly sexy and handsome and looks just as amazing as his pics.  I initially hired him for 2 hours but ended up hiring him for 4 hours because he was such lovely company.  I hope to hire him again in the future.  Feel free to DM me if you have any questions.  

I had a great time with him.  He was really fun to talk with and he was really cordial and friendly as he was really just being himself when we were chatting over refreshments and munchies.  He was really personable and was really fun to talk to.  He's incredibly sexy and handsome and looks just as amazing as his pics.  I initially hired him for 2 hours but ended up hiring him for 4 hours because he was such lovely company.  I hope to hire him again in the future.  Feel free to DM me if you have any questions.  

Caesar's spa Qua is now looking a little old. It's not the biggest or best in LA anymore.
 
If you want intimate, but beautiful with great service: Mandarin Oriental.
Large, but great facilities and well-trained therapists: Encore at Wynn Spa.
A fun Korean-inspired adventure, just off the strip: Imperial Health Spa.

I think I would head in his direction. 

Nice enough guy. Very generic massage. HE, some mutual touch, but definitely not very erotic. Oh, and if you go to his place... he has several roommates that you'll pass as you head upstairs.

Also to give you an idea about what this might look like when we're done...  this is a mockup I've made of how I think this is going to turn out when finished.  
All of the item info would be on the left hand side... such as Contact Info, Personal Info, etc.  The reviews themselves would be on the right side.  

For the new review site, I need to start thinking about what info we want to collect.  I have taken the data from Daddy's site and have reworked it somewhat to fit into our new system.
Going forward, we will have a database of "items" (escorts, masseurs, strip clubs, spas, restaurants, bars, etc).  For each item category, we can have different sets of questions.  These should be things that describe the item (in this case the escort).  This info would be stuff about the PERSON, not about the encounter such as height, weight, hair color, build, etc.  
Once an item is added to the database, reviews can be associated to it.  This would be where we post about the encounter itself.  Such as where did it take place, how long, how much was paid, if the person matched their description, and if the person delivered on the promised experience.  
Below are the fields that I have so far for the escort category...  am I missing anything critical?
ITEM FIELDS
Name
Location
Contact Info
Ad URL Phone Email Website Physical Info
Age  Ethnicity Height Weight Body Build Style Smoking Piercings Tattoos Eye Color Hair
Hair Color Hair Length Facial Hair Body Hair Premium (NOTE: This field may or may not be included.  I'm trying to figure out if this will become a "premium" field for subscribers or if it will be member only, etc.  It under no circumstances will be available to guests not logged in.)
Penis Length Penis Girth Preferences Position Orientation Kissing Frot Oral Anal REVIEW FIELDS
Location Date Session Type (In, Out, etc) Session Length Rate Paid Would You Hire Again?  (Rate 1-5 stars) Match Description?  (Rate 1-5 stars) Lived Up to Expectations?  (Rate 1-5 stars) You'll notice most of the fields are associated with the item, which is entered only once.  When adding a review, you don't have to re-enter all of the info since we already have it.  Instead you simply just give us the details about your specific encounter with that person.  My hope is this makes it easier submitting a review!  
Also...  we don't want to ask TOO many questions!  Each question means more info we're trying to collect and adds more friction to getting someone to actually complete it!  If it's too hard to fill out or it feels like you're doing your taxes, people won't submit things!  So please don't be upset if not all suggestions make their way into the final version.  It's not personal...  I promise!   

I met Cuca and had him over to my home. He was a very nice and pleasant gentleman. He was very warm and cordial and we had great conversation during our time together. He was incredibly professional, had a great sense of humor, and looked just like his pics. The only surprise, was that his dick was alarmingly bigger than in his pics. There were no problems or issues during his visit. Wonderful kisser and a great cuddler. Needless to say, my jewelry, diamond rings, and gold krugerrands sitting out on my kitchen counter and nightstand we’re all still there after he left. . I do hope to see him again next time he’s in town.

Does anyone have experience or intel on this CMT named Dave?  
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/44816/
I searched but couldn't find anything.