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Another straight guy. Where are all the muscled gay guys? I miss -Nick German from NYC-large muscled German escort from years ago. He was big and muscular with a really large tallywacker, but he still loved to bottom. Gman

About 10 years ago I took an escort on a clipper ship from Seattle to Victoria, BC. When we arrived in Victoria, Canadian Customs separated us to ask us questions. As I recall, the questions weren't particularly invasive-well no more than asking what my purpose was in Victoria and how long I'd be staying. I can't remember asking the escort what they asked him, but I probably did. I've always wondered if we were singled out somehow for being two guys with an obvious age difference (I would have been around 45, the escort was in his early to mid 20's-old enough to drink) traveling together, or if they could have somehow determined that I was the one who paid for both tickets. Perhaps it was just a random screen. Gman

Too bad he's a straight top. Gman

@cany10011 was I'm sure talking about Mr. Draker. He used the term 'muscle from Brussels.' That epithet is commonly used for Jean Claude. So I added my comment. While I can't be sure, I'm assuming @LookingAround was also speaking of Mr. Draker. Gman

I never knew Jean-Claude Van Damme used to escort. Gman

They wouldn't be able to stop a US Citizen from returning home. I wonder if they can require a US Citizen to open their phone without strong suspicion of criminal activity. Gman

https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-on-miamihotguy-and-sandroxx-in-miami.118629/#post-1175409 Gman

That would be nice. But I think for the usual escort/client interaction you are setting the bar much too high. It's definitely possible to be a great kisser without feeling any attraction as my time with escorts has proven. Gman

Sometimes it works for me. Sometimes it doesn't. I use it on my iPhone. I find I often have more luck using it with the Opera Browser. Gman

One thing to keep in mind is that if the reviews were true, then at one time he pleased a lot of guys by performing as a Greek g-d in bed. I'm happy for those guys who had stellar times with him. I just wasn't one of them. Gman

Alrighty-I was going to mention this in my post. But I was just waking up, and I didn't feel like it. To the best of my recollection, I hired Steven for the first time in either 2003 or 2004. I had just started hiring. I thought it was going to be a wonderful time because all of his reviews on Hooboy at the time were stellar. I remember when setting up the visit, he wasn't the easiest person to make reservations for. I was having to fly him to my city. I think I actually had to send him the money for the flight or repay him as part of his fee when he arrived because he didn't want me to know his real name. We had a nice dinner. Then when we retired for the evening-I don't know. The magic I'd read about just wasn't there. He was very -matter of fact. He seemed to want to get the deed done and get to sleep as fast as possible. He was also very particular. Now I'm not saying someone who bottoms should put themselves in pain for the top. But hopefully it's a collaborative effort. This wasn't. So that wasn't a great evening. But over the next two years, he still had excellent reviews. I convinced myself that I hadn't had a great time due to my inexperience. We met again for the second overnight about two or three years later. I pick him up from the airport. We get back the the hotel. He's mildly affectionate. He's pleasant to talk to. We go out to dinner. We have a nice time. He's an interesting conversationalist. We get back to the hotel. He showers to get ready. It seems like he's in there over an hour. Now believe me I understand the need to be "clean". And maybe I was just impatient. But it seemed to take forever. Then when we get into bed. Again he's very demanding. He wants things his way. And he wants me to reach fruition almost immediately. Afterwards he curls up on his side of the bed. We go to sleep. In the morning we wake-no cuddling at all. We dress. I take him to the airport. Later I tried to understand why it was such a blah time with him when his reviews were all stellar. I go back and re-read the reviews. He probably had over 20. When I read them, I notice that either all, or all but one or two, hired him as a top. All the reviews mention what a great top he is. And in a lot of cases I think I remember the views mentioning he was on the dominant side. He did have a purty tallywacker. But the last thing I needed was a dominant top. I have no idea what the experience would have been like with Steven if I had been a passive bottom with a need to be dominated. Maybe it would have been as wonderful as his reviews implied. But with me as a top, it definitely wasn't. Gman

Speaking as one who hired him twice for overnights, you didn't miss much. Gman

Had you asked him prior to the meeting about kissing as he lists it in his ad? Gman

You just described Tony Serrano to a T. Gman

AJ Irons kissed me almost as soon as he entered my hotel room. It's been many, many years. But I still remember. Gman

Obviously Mike Gaite. Gman

There was a thread on the Message Center back in 2015 on throwing away porn. I didn't actually remember the title of the thread. But I knew I had answered a Message Center post with a story somewhat similar to yours. I was able to find my post in the aforementioned thread. The following is the pertinent excerpt from my reply. (Before I start-isn't it funny I could remember a post from 2015 almost immediately? But I might have trouble remembering what I had to eat three days ago) "The only other physical media I think I ever had was a DVD. If I remember correctly it was one of the Trunks series. I had had a weekend with porn star Trey Casteel for my birthday. He was in the film. He inscribed something on the case as a gift for my birthday. Years later I threw the DVD away but kept the inscribed case. After a while I forgot I had kept the case. When I was about to move several years later, I found the case and threw it away. I apparently didn't do a good job at throwing it away. My new job at the time was paying for my move, and I had gotten movers to pack me up. As they were leaving for the day, one of the packers stayed behind as asked to use my bathroom. Now this mover was married (had on a wedding ring) -earlier in the day he had told me how he had just trick-or-treated with his little girl for Halloween. Well he came out of the bathroom holding the DVD case and asked me whether he could have it. I didn't react well-while I'm closeted now-I was much more closeted then. Him having the DVD case just totally shocked me as I thought I had thrown it away before the movers arrived. I told him no he couldn't have it-that it had been given to me as joke. He looked embarrassed too. There we were two closeted guys not knowing how to react to one another. " Gman PS What kind of chicken were you cooking?

Meaning of "Mt" please? Gman

I'm not understanding? Do you cum so violently that you'll tear the paper towels at the division during the moment of Le Petit Mort? Also I'm pretty sure that even the smaller division would be more than enough to handle me both from a tallywacker size and ejaculate amount if I didn't traditionally jack off into the porcelain god. Gman

I think Brendon needs to update his pictures. Sorry for the change in subject. Gman

(Note: I'm not trying to be frivolous with this posting. I know the majority of you have had much longer/deeper relationships with loss than I have ever had. But you can only go with what you know. And unfortunately as little as this was compared to what most of you have experienced, this has been my deepest-or at least my second deepest relationship. I have nothing else to compare it to. ) I was in (for me) a deep f-ckbuddy relationship for a year or a little more with Thom (a nom-de-f*ck) before I moved back home 17 months ago. It was easily the 2nd most intense relationship I've ever had ( the 1st occurred about 25 years ago in my 30's with someone who lived with me intermittently but with whom I never had sex because #1 he was (probably) straight, and #2 I had made a vow 8 years before in my early 20's when I realized I was never going to develop feelings for women that I was never going to act on being gay). My fbuddy relationship with Thom wasn't perfect. He lived 47 miles away. He was married (to a man) but in an open relationship. It sounded to me like they didn't have sex much or at all. (I was a bit leery but still jumped in because I really liked the guy. I felt a lot better when I found his partner's profile on a hookup app, so I knew Thom hadn't lied about the open relationship). But we didn't meet that often for sex because neither of us could host. We did see each other usually at least every other week or so-we'd go driving around together. And towards the end we became suckbuddies more than f-ckbuddies. When we first got together he informed me that he was staying with his spouse-a guy much older than him-and had no intention of leaving him. They had been together over 10 years. That was fine with me. I wasn't looking for a husband. I wanted a good friend and sex. Then I moved away. We emailed and texted at first. But it was frustrating as I knew it would be difficult for us to ever see each other again. He did have family in the area. So I thought he might occasionally visit. Finally around the end of December I messaged him but he never returned it. On top of that physically I felt like cr-p for most of December and January due to my myasthenia gravis. I constantly felt as if I had an elephant sitting on my chest making it difficult to breathe. And along with that I was having trouble chewing because my jaws were so weak and trouble swallowing due to a weak tongue. I almost went to the Emergency Department three times. And if I had been just a bit worse, I would have. Because I felt so bad, emailing Thom was one of the last things on my mind. So I didn't try extremely hard to reconnect until just recently. Since then I've occasionally sent a message to see how things were going with him. When he didn't answer I thought-ok he's mad because I didn't send more messages earlier-or he's just, naturally due to the circumstances, moved on. But it bugged me because I thought we had meant more to each other than that. He had seen me thru the death of a parent, cancer surgery, and development of myasthenia gravis all within the space of 12 months (I guess you could call it an "interesting" year for me). Before the move even when we weren't seeing each other in person, we texted all the time. Recently he's sent two short emails in reply to mine. He said things were crazy at work, so he hadn't had much time to email. I thought ok. Then two days ago he emailed me that he and his husband (with whom he had at least a 10 year relationship ) had broken up. And he's in a new monogamous relationship. He said he hadn't been responding to emails because he didn't know how to tell me. I have to admit when I read that-it took the wind out of my sails. I mean I'm happy if he's found someone he loves. But it hurts. Although while we were great at being buddies, I'm pretty sure an actual boyfriend relationship wouldn't have worked. There were areas we weren't compatible at all. But even as fbuds, we cared for each other a lot (unless I totally misread the situation. But I don't think I did). In any case with my move, I knew we would never have the same relationship we had before. (I had assumed he would find a new fbuddy in my place, (but I wasn't expecting him to divorce his husband) I had thought there was a vague chance he might visit occasionally because of his nearby relative, and we could see each other-maybe have sex-or not. But I like this guy. And if he visited I wanted to introduce him (as a friend) to my family. Now I guess I'm a sort-of ex. I've never been one before. And in this case we weren't separated due to the relationship running its course, but due to external circumstances of me moving 1500 miles away. Again I knew we'd never have a real relationship again. And he's obviously moved on. But it's affecting me more than I thought it might. With Thom telling me that his new relationship is monogamous, I'm thinking that he's letting me know that we can't continue to email. I'm not sure how I'd feel if I found out my boyfriend was still emailing an ex. But I'll have to feel this out. And obviously I'll need to not mention anything suggestive if we do continue which may be difficult as some of our best moments together revolves around the physical. I actually never thought I'd ever have a relationship deep enough to be an ex. I guess I should thank Providence that it happened once. As lightning doesn't strike twice (yes, I know that's a fallacy), I doubt it will happen again. And I am glad for Thom. I'm just melancholic over our former relationship. I miss him. Gman

Did success ever spoil him? Gman

Yes, but it was apparently a well-known secret-at least in his later years that he was gay. Are you claiming the same for Romani?? In any case-neither gay nor (especially) straight total tops interest me either. Gman

He could have charms until the cows come home -and he is handsome-but straight guys don't interest me. Gman

I don't know-it just struck me as funny. Gman