SirBillybob

Tipping is not the custom in Montreal. You certainly do not tip a dancer for approaching you socially. Very rarely does the dancer performing on stage receive a cash tip during his show. You might tip if you want his attention, while slipping him a $20 on stage, for example, saying “let’s say hello later”, if you are fairly clear in your mind you want private dance time. Or buy him a drink.
 
If a dancer you like seems aloof and does not approach you or other customers, compared to other dancers who really work the room, it is likely because he does not want to make small talk over and over unless he is the one approached. If he is talking to friends and you are impatient waiting for him to bust a move, just go and politely interrupt, or ask a floor server to introduce you. The clique will likely disperse. They won’t cock-block you or cash-block the dancer.
 
There is no set choreography in private. Depends on his boundaries, your wallet, both your interpretations of the criminal code, and a house manager occasionally doing a walk-through monitoring.

Tipping is not the custom in Montreal. You certainly do not tip a dancer for approaching you socially. Very rarely does the dancer performing on stage receive a cash tip during his show. You might tip if you want his attention, while slipping him a $20 on stage, for example, saying “let’s say hello later”, if you are fairly clear in your mind you want private dance time. Or buy him a drink.
 
If a dancer you like seems aloof and does not approach you or other customers, compared to other dancers who really work the room, it is likely because he does not want to make small talk over and over unless he is the one approached. If he is talking to friends and you are impatient waiting for him to bust a move, just go and politely interrupt, or ask a floor server to introduce you. The clique will likely disperse. They won’t cock-block you or cash-block the dancer.
 
There is no set choreography in private. Depends on his boundaries, your wallet, both your interpretations of the criminal code, and a house manager occasionally doing a walk-through monitoring.

Tipping is not the custom in Montreal. You certainly do not tip a dancer for approaching you socially. Very rarely does the dancer performing on stage receive a cash tip during his show. You might tip if you want his attention, while slipping him a $20 on stage, for example, saying “let’s say hello later”, if you are fairly clear in your mind you want private dance time. Or buy him a drink.
 
If a dancer you like seems aloof and does not approach you or other customers, compared to other dancers who really work the room, it is likely because he does not want to make small talk over and over unless he is the one approached. If he is talking to friends and you are impatient waiting for him to bust a move, just go and politely interrupt, or ask a floor server to introduce you. The clique will likely disperse. They won’t cock-block you or cash-block the dancer.
 
There is no set choreography in private. Depends on his boundaries, your wallet, both your interpretations of the criminal code, and a house manager occasionally doing a walk-through monitoring.

It is hard to discern who is who and who knows what ... grammatical switching between 2 players in the third person point of view in the account. My sense (Asunçion) from one or more sentences is that the infidel already knows that the unicorn knows and that the scallywag has been given a reprieve until end of academic term.
 
In fact, it is very unclear who wrote and sent the letter, the infidel or the affairee.
 
I wish posters would carefully review long passages from the perspective of somebody who knows nothing of the story. They might realize the ambiguous parts that require editing.

It is hard to discern who is who and who knows what ... grammatical switching between 2 players in the third person point of view in the account. My sense (Asunçion) from one or more sentences is that the infidel already knows that the unicorn knows and that the scallywag has been given a reprieve until end of academic term.
 
In fact, it is very unclear who wrote and sent the letter, the infidel or the affairee.
 
I wish posters would carefully review long passages from the perspective of somebody who knows nothing of the story. They might realize the ambiguous parts that require editing.

Affairs are often, in part, a misguided attempt to adjust an imbalance in power and authority ... the younger migrant’s rather circumscribed stock value put to default use in the context of non-negotiable ultimatum ... herein alluded to by the disappointed author.
 
Non-condoned implicit or explicit breaches a cray-cray attempt to reconcile the upper-hand imposition as experienced by the young infidel, however logical and conventional those expectations are viewed by neutrals.
 
There is usually more involved that the typical trope from which emanates a relatively narrow view of practical handling this type of not uncommon scenario. Advice to retaliate with the extant superior resources, if taken, simply theoretically reinforces the notion of a flimsy house of cards toppled by a runaway train dynamic. The image that emerges for me is a snake swallowing it’s own tail.
 
And, sigh ... an identical reset after the tears are wiped away. After all, it was just an unfortunate choice of recruit into the bind.
 
God only knows why more mature well-heeled guys with resources to sponsor ‘desirables’ don’t seek adequate insight coaching prior to the sponsee’s trans to ‘despicable’.

Unicorn has had a much younger boyfriend from Latin America that he was going to marry.

 
 
1. Unicorn's Latin American boyfriend, whom he has been supporting and was planning to marry, had another lover that he was stringing along.
 
2. When the boyfriend was away with either Unicorn or his other lover, he would tell each he was seeing Paraguayan friends that he would not introduce the other to.
 
3. The other lover broke up with the boyfriend after finding some pictures of, I'm assuming, Unicorn (or something else salacious) on the boyfriend's phone by using the boyfriend's finger to unlock the phone when he was drunk.
 
4. The other lover sent mail to Unicorn's work address with pictures of the boyfriend's unfaithfulness along with supporting evidence of knowing Unicorn and the boyfriend's previous travel plans.
 
5. Unicorn's home was being used as a bordello when Unicorn was away at conferences.
 
6. Unicorn is about to go to a conference but will kick out the (now former) boyfriend when he returns home.
 
Gman

I am particularly adept at goofing up antecedents. I agree, I can’t figure out if the Beau has the Paraguayan friends or not.

It is hard to discern who is who and who knows what ... grammatical switching between 2 players in the third person point of view in the account. My sense (Asunçion) from one or more sentences is that the infidel already knows that the unicorn knows and that the scallywag has been given a reprieve until end of academic term.
 
In fact, it is very unclear who wrote and sent the letter, the infidel or the affairee.
 
I wish posters would carefully review long passages from the perspective of somebody who knows nothing of the story. They might realize the ambiguous parts that require editing.

If they do not specify "not a scort", one of two things is likely operating: they are hireable or they are too modest to insinuate they get repeated employment offers due to being hot.
 
Can you believe that when I travel and indicate "mature, generous, fit, love muscle physiques (sometimes adding the ATM and rose emoticons), have a thick wallet/billfold" I get inquiries about what that means!? How much more 'on the nose' can I be? I usually do not respond because they may be trying to snare me and report it. I do respond to those who reach out without the question 'what exactly are you suggesting?'
 
But these are in locations where providers tend to advertise with impunity, and the non-escort designation may be more frequent.
 
One time a hot-headed little asshole spontaneously suggested shooting me on sight, as if I were a pedophilic trafficker. He wouldn't have been able to catfish me for aggession entrapment if he wanted to. Better empty boiler-plate threats than Grindr HQ censure.

I suggest Google search “noelshack faux” ... various fora posts in slang-ish French but some red flags. May be a scam. You will need a translate program. Also odd that the ad is not on a typical platform.
 
However, the OP may have omitted other relevant data. Perhaps it is a legit escort posting photos on a third-party platform not specific to commercial sex trade.
 
I honestly don’t grasp what the OP is asking here.

Very true @SirBIllybob The last (male strippers for men) club I knew of in London closed about 18 years ago.

Europe is definitely not the place to go for male strip clubs. As already mentioned, nothing like the Montreal-style clubs exists there. I've never understood why. You will find go-go boys in numerous bars but no official strip clubs. Makes no sense to me...but that's the reality.

I have not met a provider in Canada (my home) that seems aware of our prostitution law. Technically, CD can advertise and sell himself, as buying is what is illegal. He cannot, however, offer procurement of a third party.
 
I also worked somewhat, vetting couples for Immigration. The whistleblowers tend to be family members or friends, but in this case the public profiles do call for extra discretion.
 
I also easily discovered “Alex’’ true identity. I met them briefly socially, unaware of their history at the time. Nice guys and they are also altruistic but, yes, naïve. I do not know if their advocacy for international gay rights has paradoxically lowered their guard. I doubt being transparent in commercial sex work is a statement of freedom assertion.

Just to be clear, your sentence in quotes is not a verbatim quote from Dane's ad, which is how I first read it. Rather your interpretation based on some assumptions, as you say. Anyway, agreed that discussion of his American bf being available is naive at this time in history, and risky.

Apart from the poorly edited ad, who but a bobble-head, notwithstanding looks and charm, would publicly broadcast one's American spouse's illegal escort trade here like it's a Pride parade float?
 
'Oh, my divine husband tag-teams me here if you are lucky ... we are funding his conjugal status sponsorship through our joint prostitution but not paying associated wage taxes while he seeks a legitimate work permit.' (assuming this is the case)
 
Way to use discretion and tact to legitimize your marriage with immigration authorities.
 
PASS.

Would not be detected on my radar ... need a sandwich as much as are a sandwich.

I don't disagree that it is poor, but I do not see much change over the past 10+ years, just little ups and downs. I rarely take a private there. However, there still are non-holiday weekends where all the available seating is taken.
 
Customers purchasing dances drive the business. This is not a classic management issue. A few days ago there were a few attractive fit dancers making no money. That is not a management deficit. The dancers make nothing if the club is full of drinkers/watchers. The customers are essentially the management team. I am equally to blame, but I do not waste their time.
 
I think that my perspective is different because the true differential was about 12 years ago when dances jumped from $10 to $20. That created a huge dip in all clubs and recent dips pale in comparison. From 2001-mid2000s the clubs were jammed on weekends. Many guys were cleaning up and also rotating thru The Gaiety some weekends.
 
I don't know where the concept "reject" originates. The migration is bidirectional, guys trying a change to inflate their income. I would say my top favourites have been distributed fairly equally between Campus and Stock.
 
I starting coming to Montreal, years before moving here, in 1980, when Apollon in the west-central end of town was the peeler bar. They had a lot of flak from the straight bar patrons in the district but I went too infrequently to witness it.

The honest answer is that it comes down to management balancing risk. Police being concerned could effect their liquor licence. What can they get away with; or what will provoke the police to intervene. Nothing makes a dance with curtains or without more or less legal.

I DMd OceanTraveller to request a report.

I think that one slang there for dick is “peru” translated turkey, if I am not mistaken?
 
Enjoy going south on your Thanksgiving dinners, a marriage of NoAmer and SoAmer!

I am opening an early thread because I cannot wait, and this helps me cope with anxiety. I already opened a thread also in Boytoy, as the rules over there are less strict and I can post full nudes and talk openly about prostitution.
 
Two others friends from here are joining me. I am not sure whether or not they want to share their whereabouts, so I let to them to step up and identify themselves. Considering how much fun I had by myself, I am expecting an epic experience as a group.
 
We rented a 4 BRs Airbnb in Copacabana, just two blocks away from the place I rented last July, close to Posto 5. The description of the apartment states that parties are allowed. You all can imagine where my imagination is going.
 
If anyone is going to be around, it would be great to connect. Or if anybody has any tips about things going on in Rio that week, we will be thankful for any suggestions.
 
The other two sisters are into hiking and site sighting from the heights. I am into swimming and going to the beach. They are planning hike expeditions, I am planning days in the beach and orgies. I hope we have more than one key, because it seems that we will be apart during the day and have our rendezvous at the saunas.

Perhaps over-eagerness to cleverly use the shrug emoticon lead to a semantic lapse. But the general tone is offputting ... better to convey if it works great we both have agency and fit each other, not if it does not dovetail there is some deficiency out of my control

Anyway, what this discussion on drugs and manage style has nothing to do with is this ...
 
Physique competitor Chris was back last night after a year off. He is 6’3 mixed race, hot AF, and made me very happy . He trains wisely, has packed on muscle mass slowly patiently and steadily age 19-22. Great fun in private.

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I think that there are a lot of factors at play, not the least of which is perspective.
 
I live here, have gone to Campus for nigh on 20 years, and have never experienced enough afternoon selection or quality to take a private during the early evening shift. I think, though, the inventory has dwindled overall both shifts.
 
Like I said, song/dong rates doubled during great econ times just prior to the Sept 2008 market plummet, a little less exaggerated than the new film Hustlers, but the change was palpable.
 
I do not find assertions of more recent very marked decline particularly relatable. I have for decades witnessed the contrast between off days and big crowds, without any clear explanation.
 
I do note that there is a manifold increase in appealing RM ads the last few years, when in the past just a handful. The cost of an escort hire can fall short of the rapidly escalating song tally in a club private. That may be a factor.
 
Dancers can be spirited away ... I did so myself with a guy for 4 years.
 
Also, I think that a higher proportion of gym guys are actual competitors and they find the hours do not fit well with their rigorous training routines.
 
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Le Bourbon Condos will be completed next year and should bring in at least 200 residents. That may lift the energy a little. However, its commercial space may not do well. People just really like to shop on StC West, in my area, where the big brand names are. It is getting too big for its britches. There are several immense residential towers going up. A total of 200 stories just steps from my place and hundreds more within 5-10 minutes walking. The immense underground retail will thrive and draw more shoppers away from The Village. The Village offers niche shopping, nice for visitors but not so convenient for city dwellers.