SirBillybob

That's the main problem with most of the fansonly/justforfans sites. There are not enough updates to justify the ongoing monthly membership cost. I find the best strategy is to sign-up for a one month non-recurring membership. Check-out all the archived content and then the new content for that month and then let the membership lapse at the end of the month. Join again in 12 months and repeat.

Sounds really hot, but not as safe as if you were to blow each other...
 
...kisses from across the room. ??
 
Comes back to Risk/benefit ! !
And don’t forget to factor risk to family or roommates you live with, if they assume you are abiding by guidelines.
Please stay well!

Arghh ... Yet a free reign to be maliciously rude and accusatory to any individual caught in the crossfire of a bad day, and to do the heavy lifting on behalf of one’s symbolic figurehead.

Arghh ... Yet a free reign to be maliciously rude and accusatory to any individual caught in the crossfire of a bad day, and to do the heavy lifting on behalf of one’s symbolic figurehead.

Got me ... the research papers related to gratitude expressivity customs in Brazil and elsewhere do not exist, and I have never peer-review published on help-seeking dynamics.

Not possible.

I get what you might be trying to convey here, but it is not really an accurate depiction of how modern young brasileiros interact with and respond to each other and others they are familiar with. Also, it comes across as a distant academic assessment from someone who hasn’t spent much time interacting with or observing BrazilIan men in their own element (i.e., away from turistas and gringos, and not in a hotel room or a suite in a sauna).
 
They do say “thank you” to other BrazilIans and others whom they are socially familiar with ALL THE TIME. To suggest that young brasileiros do not commonly say “thank you” is “cultural” would be straight-up offensive to BrazilIans and is veering into xenophobia territory — in addition to it just being a false observation / conclusion.
 
Casual tourists and non-locals wouldn’t be expected to know this, but modern brasileiros don’t often use “obrigado” with each other. They use “valeu” or the often shortened sound of “bri-ga “ which is shortened from “brigado” which was shortened from “obrigado” (the “verbal” thanks that you post about in your cigarette or pizza slice “favour” example above). And on the “connective” side that you also bring up, they have handshakes (which vary by region) that they only do with those brasileiros with whom they are already familiar and friendly —- not very likely to be an older sauna tourist client who is not a regular conversationalist in BrazilIan Portuguese and not “in the mix”.
 
I also have to add here that although these are things you may hear, see, or pick up on, they are very casual and informal between familiar brasileiros — and as an outsider, you (yes, that means you, reader) should never be so presumptuous or familiar to say or do them with other brasileiros.
 
I’m not trying to be mean or troll you here, just being direct, hoping that readers will better understand this than academic treatises.

“Not trying to be mean or ... troll”.
 
Sounds much more humble than other forum contributors bent on critical appraisal that blames, shames, maims with memes.

It would be nice if there was a “subscription package” for the OF/JFF performers so that you can pay a nominal fee per month for access to more than one page. The market was saturated before the pandemic, it’s even more so now.
 
I recently subscribed to two, Griffin Barrows and Tyler and Ace. Both have great content, I haven’t been hit-up for up-sells, and it’s not just teasers. I’ve actually DM’d with Griffin a few times and found him to be very friendly and engaging.
 
I also took a chance on another one last week. I follow the performer on Twitter and he was offering a special ($4.88 for 30 days if you signed up by the end of that day). He had some hot content, mostly teasers, and within one day I had two direct messages, which I’m sure were auto-generated, offering explicit photos ($3.99) and a video of him jacking off ($19.95). I immediately cancelled my subscription.

Yeah another famous IG fitness guy/model (1 million followers) Mike Chabot, signed up an OF last week. In pretty much all of these cases, especially with the surge of new members during this lockdown, these guys know they can get $$$$$$ doing the bare minimum due to their huge following. Also, as Mike indicated in a recent post, he has sponsorships with brands etc so doing nude and explicit content would ruin that.
 
Just be smart when it comes to OnlyFans subs. I only sub to guys who actually have great sexual content and under $9.99 a month. Also a lot of guys are doing promos so I'll wait for that before I subscribe, but again only for content creators with good stuff.
 
I actually made an OnlyFans thread in this forum to prevent people from waisting their money. Now more than ever you'll get a lot of these IG models and influencers trying to cash in by being as PG-13 as possible. In fact, a lot of these guys contact each other on Instagram to find out how to make money without showing anything.
 
Be smart. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/the-onlyfans-justfor-fans-4my-fans-thread.144573/

Brall, this is a very sad story. Absent the thank you you deserve, please try to take solace, and maybe after that some happiness, that you helped some men who are currently faced with terrible scarcity.

A good policy is to give from the heart without any expectations. As a wise woman told me years ago, “expectations create disappointments”. A corollary to that policy is to give only as much as you can afford to lose.
 
If it brings you joy to send $150 USD to 6 different BrazilIan garotos de programa through Western Union — knowing that doing so won’t make your relationship with any of them any closer or any more intimate or special than the ones they have with clients that do not — and it doesn’t cause you any financial pain or discomfort, then do it to your heart’s content.

I know who the photos belong to. Fairly prominent UK physique model, quite handsome, very British accent, father Nigerian. The age matches, but when I looked up his stats I could find only one record, listing height as 5'10" (not 6'5") ... error or 'fly in the ointment'? Stage pose does not show a competitor towering over his peers.

Oh, do try to take a photo or get the IG account of Edward ScizzorMyFaceWithYourPowerfulGams. It does not incriminate him because his role there is simply hairstylist and he may like the exposure for that business anyway. And perhaps creative with creamy hair pompade. LOL

There are indeed some very nice guys. More extreme muscles than I expected. Even Junior the owner is extreme beef. I think my two were a military guy and a foreign student. The best looker with the best body was the tatooed barber. Strange a barbershop there. The shower is barely ok and so many narrow steps everywhere for the geriatric clients.

Working boys pay only half of that money. One of my ways to tip the guys that are super nice making me company and/or introducing me to other guys, when I am not interested in a programa with them, is paying the 40R of their ticket.

There is a Banco Santander at Rua da Glória, #318, right at the Gloria Metro access, and a few minutes walk to Clube 117. I am a creature of habit and I have used it many times without a glitch.

I have had two non-mesh inguinal hernia procedures: one at Shouldice Hernia Hospital in Thornhill just north of Toronto a few years ago for left side, with good results; and very recently the Desarda method at Ufirst Health in Fort Myers, right side, from which I expect to have good recovery. UFirst took me on a few days notice and that was the main impetus, as I would have been content to return to Shouldice (but 3 month wait was impossible this occasion).
 
Some patients come from abroad to either of the two options. Many Americans zip up to Toronto.
 
Sexual intimacy with the guy riding me on top of my mid-section is something I don’t allow at my now older age. To me, it is impractical and inviting problems. It might work fine for others with abdominal wall weaknesses and/or repair history, but I just don’t want to chance it. Most men of older age have existing inguinal hernia reality below the threshold of visible bulge or physical discomfort.
 
Sorry I cannot be more specific about recovery time. Certainly walking is easy within days but I really take it easy with other more strenuous activity and proceed with getting back into cardio and resistance training very gingerly.

I have had two non-mesh inguinal hernia procedures: one at Shouldice Hernia Hospital in Thornhill just north of Toronto a few years ago for left side, with good results; and very recently the Desarda method at Ufirst Health in Fort Myers, right side, from which I expect to have good recovery. UFirst took me on a few days notice and that was the main impetus, as I would have been content to return to Shouldice (but 3 month wait was impossible this occasion).
 
Some patients come from abroad to either of the two options. Many Americans zip up to Toronto.
 
Sexual intimacy with the guy riding me on top of my mid-section is something I don’t allow at my now older age. To me, it is impractical and inviting problems. It might work fine for others with abdominal wall weaknesses and/or repair history, but I just don’t want to chance it. Most men of older age have existing inguinal hernia reality below the threshold of visible bulge or physical discomfort.
 
Sorry I cannot be more specific about recovery time. Certainly walking is easy within days but I really take it easy with other more strenuous activity and proceed with getting back into cardio and resistance training very gingerly.

Once within the past year went to an in-call, 260 CDN. My world was not rocked, but I did not feel cheated.
 
Also have witnessed him dance once at a gay strip club.
 
As you know, hint hint, many macho straight guys have to concentrate to top you properly.
 
He comes across more African American than Caribbean Canadian. I did not sense any diva 'tude.
 
My one reservation occurs with lack of neck-up photos, hell, any photos ... Face and smile fit a fantasy such as "hot built cop" mid-30s just fine. I was very relieved at first glance in person.
 
Note: I am prepared to course-correct if this is too "review-y", but I hire from web ads merely once every 4-5 years and do not have a Hx of formal reviews.

I can only do it from my laptop. Right now Imam using a tablet and not posting images or pictures.

For those interested, I am starting to post the reports of my trip in Boytoy. I am traveling with @LoveNDino and @azdr0710 , hopefuly they would add their impressions.

I am doing it for the Mercosur.
http://www.pensandoamericas.com/sites/default/files/blogs_imagenes/1-5194-a042c.jpg

What an interesting place - I would definitely go again!
 
as described- it’s convenient to the Zurich Haptbanhof - maybe less than 10 min walk. It is on the second floor - no or little street front signage, and you have to buzz to get in, but it all works easily.
inside, you get a locker key and towel when you get in. They have a bar with snacks and sandwiches, and coffee, etc. you can smoke at the bar, and a number of people were, but a little bit away from there you can’t smell any smoke.
The club is on 2 floors - with stairs in between. The level you enter has the lockers, the bar area, toilets, showers, sauna, and steam room. The upstairs has mostly private cabins, some with gloryholes, a sling, and a tanning bed (!??).
 
The clientele is very bimodal. I was there maybe between 2-4pm on a Monday afternoon. There was 40-50 guys there the whole time - and about 50% are 50+ in age, and the rest at probably under 30 and ‘working’. The working guys hang around at one side of the bar area near the steps. They are not shy about propositioning you, and speak some of a number of languages - they all had enough English for me.....if you head upstairs or into the steam room, someone will follow you, and ask if you want a massage or sex. There was a really great range of (really) hung and willing guys to pick from....and they all know the basic words - and often lead with ’hey - what do you like? I’m versatile’. That said, I didn’t find them pushy, and was able to decline without any problems. But it was a lot of fun (and ego boosting) to have such a range of guys ‘asking’ or suggesting, or propositioning.....
 
The going rate is 100 CHF, and you can pretty much get whatever you want for it. The guys were mostly Spanish and eastern European (Romanian), with a smattering of Asian and middle eastern. While I was there, they tended to be on the thin side (which I like) but there were a few who were more jock to guy next door.
 
I met 2 cute blond Romanians (and I would happily do so again.....). I didn’t know it at the time but they room together (presumably are traveling together) and offered me a ‘trio’ but having just paid each of them singly, I declined.....had I only known!
 
And, as you might expect in Switzerland, very clean, and well maintained and well run.
 
On my list to go back for sure!

Tipping is not the custom in Montreal. You certainly do not tip a dancer for approaching you socially. Very rarely does the dancer performing on stage receive a cash tip during his show. You might tip if you want his attention, while slipping him a $20 on stage, for example, saying “let’s say hello later”, if you are fairly clear in your mind you want private dance time. Or buy him a drink.
 
If a dancer you like seems aloof and does not approach you or other customers, compared to other dancers who really work the room, it is likely because he does not want to make small talk over and over unless he is the one approached. If he is talking to friends and you are impatient waiting for him to bust a move, just go and politely interrupt, or ask a floor server to introduce you. The clique will likely disperse. They won’t cock-block you or cash-block the dancer.
 
There is no set choreography in private. Depends on his boundaries, your wallet, both your interpretations of the criminal code, and a house manager occasionally doing a walk-through monitoring.