SirBillybob

You can decide together. But for me, infrequent sexual activity would be the determining factor that would predispose me to on-demand pills as it could be as simple as remembering 3 times across 3 consecutive days a few times yearly as opposed to 6 injections spaced apart in a rigid time frame, or optionally a few one-week dose loading iterations annually, scheduled by smartphone alarm reminder. 6 scheduled shots added to routine HIV and STI testing annually, being financial stable with no work obligations, would really cramp my travel planning. However, I am more than happy to forego risky sex in favour of satisfying intimacy, without feeling deprived and frustrated, but that does not call for prophylaxis if an offer presents itself that cannot be turned down.

Not how my doctor, correctly as per guidelines, prescribes Truvada (& it’s generic formulation) in all cases, as less frequent time-planned risk activity will dictate a tailored uptake, and transitioning from on-demand to daily, however temporary or sustained, will consider the drug concentration loading conferred by the initial double dose, reducing the absolute 7-day imperative. I’m sexually active, forever, and we settled on not taking PrEP daily, though I may at times follow the one-week dose loading as anticipatory substitute for 2-dose lead in for more immediate activity. In which case I have aligned with the daily PrEP option but never “forever”, just a few days following the final sexual activity that truncates daily PrEP. I and others fall within sexual activity scenarios that counter the notion of what daily PrEP in reductionist terms means. The uptake two-model binary is artificial. As my doctor puts it, one size does not fit all. My doctor takes the time to evaluate my risk factors, sexual activity patterns, adherence capability (given that on-demand poses unique requirements), and integrate renal health considerations, reminding me also that supplementation with condom use is the ideal overall prophylaxis. The topic question did not distinguish among uptake protocols or oral PrEP medications chosen. But yes, the recommended 7-day lead-in applies to either Truvada or Descovy where sex can be deferred for a week. Descovy is not applicable for on-demand PrEP. If you absolutely cannot defer risk activity, say, on Day 3 of lead-in dosing where you can postpone a spontaneous activity offer for minimally 2 hours and your doctor never clarified that you should transition to on-demand with an added dose at that juncture you were shortchanged valuable information. Unfortunately, die-hard thumbs-downers regarding the on-demand option have led some to conflate an impromptu transition to on-demand as running afoul of clinical recommendations. Have that extra pill accessible for drug concentration enhancement. In such a case my doctor adds that it makes sense to load the additional dose if it’s Descovy, notwithstanding that only Truvada is prescribed for the on-demand protocol. The reality is that some folks commence PrEP based on anticipated opportune sexual activity with pressing immediacy.

Almost all participants in the Lenacapavir study acquired an STI at least once throughout their enrolment. Extremely high incidence buried in the supplementary data and not mentioned in the published NEJM central text. Your point is well taken because for oral PrEP routine HIV testing is usually packaged with CT, NG, and syphilis screening. Incidence rate about 80 per 100 person-years means that an STI would be expected to occur almost annually per individual particularly for unprotected receptive activity. Gonorrhea (40 per 100 person-yrs) alarmingly about twice per 5 years.

Not knocking PrEP. To be clear, though, efficacy in the research cohort of cis-gender MSM and gender diverse persons was 96%, with lower bound of confidence interval 82%, relative to background HIV incidence. No randomized control group as non-PrEP study arm assignment deemed unethical. The few infected had capsid resistance mutations; lenacapavir is a capsid inhibitor. Low but not zero chance of breakthrough infection. The 100% metric pertains to a study of cis-gender women.

I won’t have what he’s having.

Succession meets Billions on steroids. “He can’t cut us; he can only shave us.”

Roaming travel dates are set manually by the escort. It is not some kind of AI formula. I had wondered and then asked Rentmen admin because the locations seem so randomly listed. That part is irrefutable. They are probably no more than market research by the escort investigating client interest, how much is in it for the escort, etc. Otherwise the patterns don’t make sense. My assumption is that this guy, on a 6-month visitor visa, will earn enough to justify staying in the popular location cities, so far New York and Miami his first 6 weeks to date. He has yet to hit the west coast. His extensive travel history of two dozen countries is not peppered with lower-draw tourist locations within his broader destinations. He is a tourist first, earner second to support the first. I think his locations will be driven by conventional tourism choices. I would bet on California and Hawaii eventually while the visa is active. If he’s smart, the Rockies, but perhaps to check a bucket list item, not necessarily to work.

Emmy immunity for Ellie it is, then.

Not that visibility ever mattered as private dances were years ago at tables in general seating and a lot could nevertheless creatively occur, prior to the current obsession of recording everything for visual posts, at Campus some time ago the plexiglass barrier was frosted with staggered opaque horizontal stripes. Cue the besides the point entry of the no camera rule. My point is simply a historical context for one’s assessment of privacy. I’m not the least bit exhibitionist but in those days it was a venial if not mortal sin to not offer one’s lap on which a hot guy could deposit self his perfect behind. One just suppressed overt expressions that typically accompany orgasm.

If people opine that you are the reason for good things in your life it’s a judgement. It doesn’t seem judgemental because the implication is that you are laudable. If a chatroom member spontaneously posts success the response is typically that it’s deserved and it emanates from positives and strengths. You may blush but not discount the source (me, myself, I) that drove the outcome. It isn’t pathologically narcissistic to concede that you are the author of your success. Yet you won’t drill down too much to give credit to external factors unrelated to you. In contrast, any response containing the notion that you are the reason for a problem or deficit in life quality will seem judgemental, can sting and seem questionable. An entry about the lack of success is polarizing because attributing to you the reason for failure does seem judgemental. You split the response range, at risk of continuum oversimplification here, into harsh versus soothingly supportive. The latter has only been useful because it suggests you are worth the success (cliché encouragement). However, that alone doesn’t consider the ways in which one, consciously or not, is contributing to failure. The tendency is to externalize the variables impeding success. It isn’t without secondary gain as resentment may compromise function less so than sadness. The idea of personal deficits is naturally depressogenic. If you hadn’t been exposed to a set of ideas about how failure is what you sow then perhaps you yourself should have directed such notions to yourself. Even then, many would protest that you are being too hard on yourself. So why wouldn’t you label critique about your world view as inhospitable (rhetorical). Well-meaning holding back judgement is the current you must swim against. There may be value in criticism that comes across as harsh because it should be no more rejectable than salutations. Red-faced with hackles up paradoxically challenges the concept of owning your fate. It’s as narcissistic as what pats on the back stimulate. Think about the contradiction. It’s remarkable how we’re hotwired to react. By this I mean the universal commonality of narcissism as opposed to clinically disordered.

Back to the ask. It could be worth it to exchange in kind for sexual intimacy as a model for sexual self-actualization. It’s only framed as fraudulent because people erroneously think the work can only be soul-crushing and the connection no more than artificial. Primary attachment relationships are not obligatory. Half of the folks who assert going solo is an inferior model end up in failed relationships anyway and rush for serial do-overs out of confirmation bias. There’s no rule that truly legitimately argues one over the other. That’s value systems for you. How you juggle family, friends, libido, and genital play dates is up to you. Just do you and own it. If you and your team proclaim your glass is half empty owing to external deprivation by others, that can mess up the type of worldview that might otherwise guide you well.

He’s as representative of the humanizing as any non-hire. Not an outlier within his domain yet good people in genpop are the majority. Again, he offered the value add of meeting the precondition and of heterosexuality (?) that amped up the flattering validation. His disservice was unwittingly castigating those who haven’t found and appreciated you. Maybe he’s dating the therapist. You masturbate, right? Not a wild assumption. What is the fantasy, the script? How long is the session? That usually shapes expectations and a more controlled experience of hiring will dovetail right in, supplemented with a bit of pillow talk usually absent from autosexual narrative. The recent feelings are an artefact of what you manufacture coming to life as facsimile. You can’t print out the real world and it’s pointless to rail against it. If you’re objectively hot that will end. Lacking the prop in which external locus of control prosecutes others you are set up for unhappiness. You will need internal self-soothing and equanimity to survive being less visible. That’s not something any relationship can confer other than with self.

Look at any two members that represent the dyads you see as relatively successful. You would need to view both, not just one, as worthy of the response the other gives based on physical attraction. Cultivate the habit of doing this analysis regularly. If you were to discount either, let alone both within the pair, as worth your erotic interest you haven’t transcended the central impediment to faith in broad-based compatibility. It’s absolutely fine to rate poor compatibility with the hookups that were superficially meeting precondition criteria but were otherwise poor matches . That said, your fundamental interest template constrains the pool of men you draw upon.

But you shopped for somebody that met a certain precondition. You may have screened out hundreds. That appearance precondition having been met, you were open to the emotional that might occur meaningfully between any two people you’d have screened out based on the rigidified precondition. Dollars to donuts (pastry again!) you squirm upon amorous affection directed your way if preconditions not met. That’s fine if you own and accept your template. It approximates mine. I decided to forego the conventional model of intimacy, wherein many people would say it’s refusing to try for an upgrade and at one’s expense. Now in my 70’s, I exclusively hire. No regrets.

Not a bad thing, but escorts unconditionally love you for your money and otherwise conditionally love you. That’s not the dynamic for their boyfriends. Paradox: higher pastry fee, less flaky pastry. BTW, your unpaid are saying you don’t need to pay, without saying it. It would be weird for a hook-up to comment upon leaving y’know you strike me as somebody that doesn’t need to pay. Myself, I find it best to always go with it’s not them; it’s me.

I was going with Papineau actually. All last 3 letters should be silenced as o would do. But speaking of pronunciation and confusingly silent letters was it Am-irst, Aw-mairst, Am-ersed, Am-hears’d, … ? I think Enry Iggins proposed the new name.

Sometimes the right ikea is new furniture.

I take it not one of the Saint rues. Photos … Loyalist to him <~> Patriotic Duty to us 0 sum

Welp, that’s all rather harsh. On your knees and ‘pologize. My Movie 20.mov

Climbing gym, where much of what has just been recommended should be accompanying you.

So the prostitutes in legally exempt counties, upon retirement, tend to settle in Washoe County, say, Reno, as no longer needing to reside in locations where not running afoul of the law?

Actually, unlike for Canada, Quebec deviates from celebrating Victoria Day as a statutory holiday but has long established National Patriots Day exclusively for the province to coincide with the same Monday. It’s too complicated a history to explain; you will likely wonder why the term national when it’s not federal, but it acknowledges history that precedes 1867 Confederation (when Canada established) by a few decades. As many will know Quebecers also more inclined to resist monarchist association. Campus was packed Saturday but that may reflect Memorial Day weekend influx from USA. Also, the neighborhood generally comes more alive with the seasonal terraces. However, it’s been 21 years since I met a dancer that interests me sufficiently to migrate from the back private room to my home nearby on a scheduled basis.

I am fawn of, in venison with, the pay-per-lay playbook, as is my Aunt Lorraine.

I thought it was code for ankles in the assumed position in missionary work.

You guys. Leave this lad tf alone. By that I mean, sure, accommodate his unambiguous and circumscribed ask if you will, that consists of his modest little paper cash register for donations that you might supply while being circumspect about his context. He has wordsmithed his signage narrative just enough to legitimize requesting $ but falls short of asking to be rescued. He is not asking to be the face of any societal problem. 1 in 100 Canadian men are diagnosed with schizophrenia and the majority can “present” well. A higher proportion than 100% of general population have some form of illness within the realm of psychosis. If a cluster of men, however numbered, were to descend on him and convey knowledge of his background and he is mentally vulnerable his response may be no less predisposed to a triggered effect of paranoia than it might be coloured with appreciation of the crowdsourcing implicit in the well-intentioned story entered here. As has been suggested there is no lack of professional resources including street outreach services in the downtown Toronto district. I fail to understand assumptions you might have about the degree to which he is genuinely disenfranchised relative to the collective unhoused genpop, or what it is some of you think you can offer to make his connectivity to resources stick if indeed his plight is blockage to assistance access that you imagine you can transcend on his behalf. Good to be alert to the reality of those less fortunate. Perhaps a donation to Covenant House would satisfy the call to altruism.