SK in SD

Well having massage posted on my profile has brought in all types. However, I can tell you that the last 5+ responses from Grindr/Jack that were seeking massages were from guys under 30yo with nice bodies and faces. There are hot young men that are attracted to other than hot young men. I would be considered a Daddy (50+ years old) and a Bear (Chubby, Hairy, Belly).
 
Personally, I think that they all have the fantasy of being taken advantage of while being on the table. Young and old. Lots of DL/str8 types. With so many massage videos out there, they want the experience. I received an interesting response from a guy that I had massaged before. He has been really aggressive in trying to come back for a second session. He aggressiveness is a little off-putting, so I have told him that I am taking a break from giving sessions. He then responded : "That is too bad. I had been hoping to get together again and have you relax me, tie my wrists, and safely take what you want. If your situation changes, let me know." LOL. He is a 25yo Latino. Very cute with and avg body.

He also does massage;
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/r90028.shtml

Rob is a good guy and a great time. I found he was personable and "real", a great kisser and knows how to fuck. He is very intuitive, sensual, and in the moment. Funny thing, his profile doesn't have a face pix and he didn't send me one, but said I would not be disappointed and if I was disappointed I could leave, no problem. I normally would NEVER meet up with someone without face pix and some evidence that their body pix were actually them, but, Rob was right, he is very handsome (Hollywood, All American guy type) and has a great build, body and even better cock. Will definitely repeat.

True, but it happens. I have a few regular masseurs, that when we end with the massage the say... "would you like to fuck me...?" :-) But I am aware that I shouldn't expect that every time and they are not escorts, is more a spur of the moment kind of thing. I just tip generously when it happens.

If they tanked, I might burst from schadenfreude.

Done...bank says $$ will be credited back to my account in the next 12 hours. Since M4M is not answering any phone calls or emails there's no way they'll go through the paperwork to dispute my claim that they charged my card on June 21 while shutting down my profile and having no intentions of providing their service or fixing their site. And even if they did, it would be an exercise in futility for them as the bank would still side with me. Understanding the strength of the original Visa and MasterCard agreements, especially in the world of online business, is crucial when talking to the bank rep - but ultimately if you articulate the problem well enough they'll understand and it's pretty easy from there.

I have spent a lot of time in the middle east and Doha is a bit less liberal than Dubai. Get a massage only from the licensed masseur who works at your hotel, don't take chances in any outside spas. Most of the international hotels have bars, if you make eye contact have a drink with another patron and get to know him better but in NO CASES ever be aggressive. Your best bet is to meet another Non local, forgot the local muslim guys, they would flip and call the police in a NY minute !!! If you go to Dubai, lots more choices there like the bar in the Le Meridian hotel near the airport which has quite a large gay following but again just be conservative, never do anything out in public you don't want to be held accountable for by the authorities. Everything goes fine until it doesn't. !!!

Have you tried Adam?
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/20519/
 
I haven’t tried him but from reviews it sounds like that’s his specialty.

A piece of advice. Never, ever, go into a massage expecting anything more then a "massage." You are setting yourself up to be disappointed. I have an ex who did massages on the side and
this is what he said "how sensual/sexual/erotic the massage will be is dependent on the person lying on the table." I took that to mean if he ain't into you, he ain't gonna be into...you!" Terp

BTW - I don't charge. I do this as a hobbyist. One of my past masseurs said that I had received so many massages that he encouraged me to give some as well. He said that I would get more out of my massages, if I knew what it was like giving one. He also said that touch is reciprocal. That it can be as enjoyable to touch as it is being touched. I have found this to be true.
 
The sessions tend to be about an hour. Some have been massage trades so they have gone a lot longer. I don't offer a HE...as my agenda is focused on the massage. The session tends to be on the sensual side as I don't shy aware from the naughty bits (but don't grab them either) and I tend to give lots of body contact. I have had a couple of guys finish themselves. Additionally...because of mutual attraction...some have progressed to [much] more after the massage session is over.
 
I don't ask stats. That's typically already in their profile since it's Grindr. If they came from somewhere else like Craigslist or Doublelist (I have placed and ad once or twice), then I may ask for some stats. What I try to do is see if they are truly interested in massage or if they are just looking for a hookup or a flake. Therefore, I ask questions like: What is your experience with massage? What do you hope to get out of the session? When was your last massage session and what did you like about it? The guys that are looking for sex tend to quickly reveal their agenda...and the flakes tend not to want to spend the time answering the questions. They are just trying to get your pictures or address.
 
I wear a t-shirt and shorts (commando). I instruct the "clients" to undress to their level of comfort. I do add that most go fully nude and that I do the same when on the table. I have had two that have kept their underwear on...but they eventually took them off. One of those did ask for towel draping when he flipped over, but then took it off. He was a bit modest and shy. A funny aside for him is that he spontaneously orgasmed as I was massaging his legs.
 
If you care to read about my experiences of giving massages, I have detailed some of them on another website:
 
https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7113475/
 
https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7153618/
 
https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7196342/
 
https://www.lpsg.com/posts/7198414/

Esejuven is now JACE
 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/24637/
 
I wonder why the name change...
 


Massage by Jace
(213) 587-0293
 
Visiting Palm Springs, CA; soon to San Diego
 
In-studio & mobile services
 
Starting at $140

I do it frequently. I have it listed on my Grindr and Jackd profiles that "I like m@ssage. Both giving and receiving. I have a table" (notice the "@" sign so that it doesn't get flagged). Since adding that to my profile, I have connected with hotter guys that I was before. I get hit up so frequently that I have to turn them away or I would be giving or receiving a couple of them every day.
 
I have a screening process to see to make sure that they are truly looking for massage activities. Sometimes it goes beyond massage if there is a mutual attraction...but that is saved for after the massage session is over.

+1
 
Having attended, what's most surprising is how nice and cordial everyone is. Online personas tend to melt away, and what is left are a bunch of gentlemen that are as courteous and accommodating as anyone could possibly imagine.
 
My two cents...

I had an amazing experience with Karl yesterday. I can echo everything that has been said here - great balance of technical skill with truly sensual elements sprinkled throughout. He is adorable to look at and his body is rock hard. Loved admiring his beautiful abs But he also seems like a kind and thoughtful soul. His spa experience is evident in that he takes care with small little touches that one doesn't often encounter when visiting these solo practitioners. When I arrived, he had a basket and towel set up on the table. He explained I should place my clothes in the basket and the towel was for me to use when I showered after the massage. Post massage, I came out of the shower to find Karl folding my clothes and laying each item on the massage table for me. I was charmed, obviously.
 
I also wanted to comment, or rather thank you guys for making this forum so valuable. I've used Daddy's reviews for years to vet escorts and usually been happy with the results. I never ventured over to this forum section and have found a treasure trove, which in some ways, seems more helpful than the reviews section (with all due respect).
 
You guys are great! Thank you!

I guess this line of work isn't for everyone. And the masseurs who treat everyone the same really stand apart from the pack.

He's awesome. Nude mt and he. PM me for details

Don’t we all think this Discussion is totally farsical—to use an al michael’s term. The masseur pulled down his pants with no underwear on under some stupid pretense. He gives HE. He did it nude. Dude he wants to play!!!! There’s no mystery here. He’s probably super turned on by your naïveté or totally annoyed because you are too scared to pick up on his moves.

OR just pick a masseur off rentmasseur.com and you won't need signals. :-)

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/14098/
 
Not quite sure if he's been discussed before there were some reviews back in 2017. Any info on this dad?
Thanks!

I have been getting therapeutic massages every week or two from Orion. Especially working on hip and back...stretching and relax. He is an excellent general masseur and is fully trained and certified. He also is a certified yoga instructor. He is serious about his work. Not always punctual. He is open to doing erotic massage if he has some chemistry with the client.

Took one for the team and booked an incall with Ross https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/32792/
 
The Good: His pics are real and current. The man is sexy, af. He looks younger and even better in person. The body is tight. He has no problem showing you or letting you touch for yourself.
The Not So Good: Massage (on a bed) isn't memorable, but in all honesty I didn't care (this time) because did I mention, he's sexy as fuck? Apartment style is messy str8 boy chic w/ dogs.
 
Assessment: The session was not what I expected, but that doesn't mean it was bad. I left there happy and content. He looks like a bad boy; but he was actually a nice guy, easy to talk to. I found him super sexy and masculine. Not sure of his orientation, but it's not an issue. He's comfortable around naked gay men. I'd hire again for the extras, just not for the massage alone.

I am getting that shit put on a throwpillow. Hilarious shit right there.

Listen, if he puts his tongue in my butt, he can put his tongue in my mouth, but that's just me;)! Terp

Agree with @IntuitiveTactile - if and when I am lucky enough to click with a masseur, I truly enjoy kisses, be they wonderful deep welcoming kisses or just light brushes on my back, my ass, or my abs/pecs or my ears, my NECK, etc. I find it a MAJOR extreme turn on because if initiated by the masseur it means more than if I initiated it and he just goes along.
 
Those who are offended, just close your mouth and turn your head, murmur sorry. Those who are receptive, go for it, albeit respectfully, and let it simply develop.

I've seen him, too. Had a good time, would repeat. He can get kind of verbal in a hot way if you want.