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Exactly! This is so true. Sometimes you just don't fancy somebody's physic. That can always happen. But when you meet, and you find something that you actually like... its damn hot.

Don't do it. It can be an expensive habit that never pays off.

Anyone has experienced this?
 
The last scort I hired took my breath away. I sent him a message the day after and he never responded. That broke my little silly heart.

Yes they are. What I mean is, not attracted to a client because they’re not the type of guy you’d hookup with in a non work situation but you find something you really like about the client (there’s always something, his cock, smile, nipples, voice etc) and give him a great time as if he’s your most attractive date. They’d not know that in a non work situation you probably wouldn’t have hooked up.
 
It’s a good thing to do generally actually because it opens your mind (in a non escort situation) to the innate sexuality and attraction of all sorts of different guys. I’ve had clients who if I saw them in a bar I wouldn’t be attracted but then during the client’s session it turned out they were fantastic and the session was explosive.

oh btw, twinks, bears, whatever.... there are always clients that like one of these types. I am a super normal guy that happens to have a fat dick. And even when I was in London -pre-covid-era- I had so-many-messages! Anywhere I go. And then I see all these super sexy muscle hunks. But still I was mega busy. Deff shouldn't be too worried if there is a ''market'' for you.

Definitely agree with Jarrod. I never understand it. I’ll get a text asking if I’m available for a massage on x date /time. I reply quickly with details of my availability and then.....nothing. No response not even a message saying “I changed my mind”. Why do that??
I’m professional, I have a website, I take my work seriously, I prepare for clients, I make myself available, I cancel personal appointments all to accommodate a client’s request....then as happened today my client who booked yesterday messaged an hour before the time to cancel.
 
I understand things happen, but an hour before the time? I believe in a lot of these situations the client has just changed their mind or got cold feet. It’s very disappointing.
 
Other times I’ve had a client book a couple of weeks in advance. Lots of messages went back and forth to make the booking. Including details of what he wanted. I messaged him the day before to confirm (as I always do) and he replies by saying “oh sorry I forgot mate, I’ve got something else booked now”. So I guess had I not checked he’d have just not turned up and I’d be waiting with everything ready. Why book it if you then aren’t so interested that you even note it in your diary?
 
Even worse, I had a request for a 4 hands with a masseuse and me. The client had specific requests which I was able to meet by contacting one of the masseuses I work with. She made arrangements for the date, so did I. It took a lot of time to schedule it and find the right masseuse. Then, the day before the client cancelled because of “issues at home”. Fortunately he did agree to pay to cover the costs my masseuse incurred (she was travelling a long way for the session) which was decent of him. But the worse thing is all the time wasted.
 
I think there’s an attitude that sex workers time is unimportant and we can be treated with disregard. If something better comes up they choose to either cancel at short notice or just not turn up. I definitely value my clients who book and do turn up, they get great service. I’ve learned the signs that indicate whether someone is unlikely to turn up. If they book and don’t show up I’ll never book them again. If they cancel last minute without genuine reason they’ll also never get a booking again.

I agree with you BuffaloKyle. When I was on grindr/scruff, some conversations looked promising but then when I ask to meetup somehow there's always a reason they can't or they ask for more photos or they just ghost me. This is why I much prefer going to a bar and the old school way of picking up guys or hire a masseur.

If you can't get him horny then he will fake it. So hire when you are horny which is a lot more satisfying for you. Of course, if you are one of those guys who is not satisfied until he is satisfied, tell him that and tell him to bring a load with him. No guarantee there, but it your best shot and likely his too.

I will say this - I hate the notion some guys have of “hire him as the first session of the day; that way he’s fresh and hasn’t cum yet”. The amount of guys trying to hire me for 7am appointments makes me laugh.
 
as everyone else has said, everyone is different. But me? I’m horniest after the gym. And I go to the gym in the morning. All the testosterone is flowing. Take that how you will.

I've escorted off and on for more than 20 years. When I started I was at the upper age range of twink/twunk, and now I'm firmly in the Daddy category.
 
When I was younger, I'd say 90% of the time the client wanted me to bottom. Now being older, it's completely flipped so that I am the top nearly every time.
 
Perhaps those who have chimed in who like twinks can let us know if they prefer the escort to be bottom or top.
 
For staying hard, there is no shame in using Viagra or similar. As a professional, your job is to show up ready to go, and doing what you need to so that you're hard is part of being professional and showing consideration for your client. You want him to have a good time, and if you're confident your dick will stay hard it will allow you to have a good time too.

You should be clear with clients about your role though. I think they’ll be reluctant to book if you say you’re a bottom but will top. Be a clear bottom or clear top. If you’re uncertain about whether you can top in a professional capacity maybe try it with non client partners first. I’d say also that ideally you need to be above average size if you’re going to top. Most clients go for big boys lol.

haha, completely agree with you.

Actually I am not rich at all but always flying business or first class. Just saving miles/points. Americans know everything about that. Most people in business class dont pay for it either. Mostly business people and miles savers.

I am an escort and it all depends. My rate is not that low and I do that on purpose. To attract decent people and people that want something else than a quick 10 minute suck for 15 euro. Like, I went to Hunqz and there the people only offer 15 euro for 30 minutes or so.
 
What I see is that all of my clients just want to have a really good time. And that is where they pay for. Some of my clients ofc are super rich and fly me over to the other side of the world for 2 nights. but thats a small percentage.

haha, completely agree with you.

With my small business, I am in it more for the fun of something to do. But I have a slightly higher rate just to deter the cheapskates. I don't care to deal with them.

Actually I am not rich at all but always flying business or first class. Just saving miles/points. Americans know everything about that. Most people in business class dont pay for it either. Mostly business people and miles savers.

haha, completely agree with you.

I am an escort and it all depends. My rate is not that low and I do that on purpose. To attract decent people and people that want something else than a quick 10 minute suck for 15 euro. Like, I went to Hunqz and there the people only offer 15 euro for 30 minutes or so.
 
What I see is that all of my clients just want to have a really good time. And that is where they pay for. Some of my clients ofc are super rich and fly me over to the other side of the world for 2 nights. but thats a small percentage.

hehe, its so sweet to read all these positive messages about me! Always thought I am invisible between all these muscle porn guys in PRG.

I am an escort and it all depends. My rate is not that low and I do that on purpose. To attract decent people and people that want something else than a quick 10 minute suck for 15 euro. Like, I went to Hunqz and there the people only offer 15 euro for 30 minutes or so.
 
What I see is that all of my clients just want to have a really good time. And that is where they pay for. Some of my clients ofc are super rich and fly me over to the other side of the world for 2 nights. but thats a small percentage.

haha, completely agree with you.

hehe, its so sweet to read all these positive messages about me! Always thought I am invisible between all these muscle porn guys in PRG.

hehe, its so sweet to read all these positive messages about me! Always thought I am invisible between all these muscle porn guys in PRG.

When I got to an age/aize where normal plane seats were extremely uncomfortable for me, I started paying for a first class seat and traveling less often. Now I am someone who "only flies first class" but I can tell you for sure I am not in the same financial class as most of the people I am seated with.