Ryan Roman

Does menstruation feel good? ?‍♂️ I do have sensitive nipples to, and it drives me wild when guys just go to town on them.

 

I used to be so conscious about my moaning and groaning, but after a few providers have told me how they got really turned on and just wanted to bust when they hear me, I guess it is fine that I can't help myself from expressing my sexual gratification that way.

My nipples are strictly ornamental. They've never been sensitive.

@Merboy sure isn't... he didn't even know who Sheena Easton is!

#theloverinme

If I can get vaccinated in time...

By the day, just like an airbnb, and possibly using the airbnb platform to handle the reservations. I would not want local guys to use it.

Totally agree. We have a third floor "apartment" (doesn't meet code because it lacks an exterior fire escape, and it's just prohibitive to install one that meets code) that we used to run as an AirBnB. The two times we let locals use the AirBnB it was clear never to do that again. It's now my office + where I make video content ?.

Why the last opportunity??? Are you leaving the biz? Say it isn't so.

As much as I still enjoy the biz - and I still do - since mid-March, I've only had a couple of clients, as I need to to think about the health and safety of others in my life. So, I'm not sure what that marketplace's response will be when it's safer to see patrons again. Hopefully there will be some pent-up demand (? if you will), but it's possible the marketplace may have shifted.

I never felt a question of age regarding the event. Basically it was organized for Forum members to meet each other after having known each other through their writings and picture postings during the year. I have never felt I was going to pick up other Forum members. Except after having met other members occasionally you lay the framework of meeting each other elsewhere to keep the Weekend relationship going. Of course, as mentioned elsewhere, there are escorts who attend but if you have a connection and come to an agreement to get together age generally has no bearing on whether you can get together. If age is a factor in those circumstances there would not be an agreement to begin with. I have found that the workers who come do not have much of a problem with age and actually are drawn toward more mature gentlemen (for whatever reason). I have also found the organizers of the event wisely try to mix all the groups up so that everyone gets to talk to each other and then decide for themselves who they want to hang around.

I don't want to speak for others, but for me, my patrons typically are 20+ years older than me. I've only had a few patrons in the last 5 years that were younger than me. Moreover, as a provider, I've always felt there wasn't a place for ageism, and I suspect many other escorts are of a similar mindset (IMO).

Participation in this hobby is what ties attendees at this event together more than any other factor. I've enjoyed talking to gentlemen nearly 25 years my senior as well as 25 years younger at the pool party.

FWIW, I know my patron base is typically 25 years older than me, so if it's safe to go and you'd like to spend the weekend in PS with like minded individuals, you should go.

The thought of traveling makes me anxious, but being outside in the sun with y'all would be a scenario I'm comfortable with. If it seems safe and enough are y'all are going, count me in!

Likewise for me as well...

I’ve actually only been one Forum Weekend. Since I was arriving on Friday, I didn’t necessarily want to have dinner alone so I made prior arrangements for a companion. We had a very nice dinner and a little treat for dessert! The rest of the weekend I travelled solo. But, that doesn’t mean that short commerce wasn’t made at the various events. However you decide to do it, you’ll have a great time.

I suspect many companions will come to PS without any prior commitments, so I suspect many will be happy to make arrangements even during the weekend.

I realize that this is way early but since a question regarding places to stay has already been asked I decided to go ahead and post some gay hotel/resort options for guys who are considering attending The Palm Springs Weekend for the first time in 2021. If you are even just considering the possibility of attending I strongly recommend that you make reservation ASAP. Our weekend event takes place at the same time as the Coachella Music Festival thus rooms go quickly. You can always cancel a reservation if you decide at a later date not to attend. To the best of my knowledge all of the listed sites are clothing optional.

 

Warm Sands Area – The main advantage to resorts in this area is location, location, location. They are all very central to downtown Palm Springs’ restaurants, bars, and casino. It is also quite close to the restaurant where the Saturday Evening Dinner is held, the Sunday Pool Party at Oliver’s condo and the Sunday evening dinner.

 

All Worlds Resorts https://allworlds.com/

Desert Paradise Gay Men’s Resort https://desertparadise.com/

El Mirasol Villas https://www.elmirasol.com/

INNdulge https://inndulge.com

If I were staying in a resort it would be this one. Very popular with many of our attendees

The Hacienda at Warm Sands https://thehacienda.com

Probably the most beautiful of all the resorts but also the most expensive

Vista Grande https://vistagranderesort.com

 

San Lorenzo Road Area – These resorts are located in a very nice area BUT are rather distant from the Palm Springs City action.

 

Desert Sun Resort https://www.desertsunresort.com (This facility now appears to be coed)

Escape https://www.escapepalmsprings.com (I understand this resort is now closed)

La Dolce Vita Resort & Spa https://www.ladolcevitaresort.com

Santiago https://santiagoresort.com

Motel like but very popular with many gays. It is nearly as expensive at

The Hacienda.

Tortuga Del Sol https://tortugadelsol.com/

Triangle Inn Palm Springs http://www.triangle-inn.com/

 

On Palm Canyon Drive

 

The Canyon Club https://www.canyonclubhotel.com/

A bit “rustic” but very popular with many of our attendees.

 

Hope this helps and I look forward to seeing you all April, 10 & 11

Thanks for the list and break down. Last time I was in PS I got a house via AirBNB, but it would make more sense to be around everyone else.

In a nutshell, members of the forum and various escorts get together for a meet and greet, breakfast/lunch/dinners, and a pool party in Palm Springs. People go to be with like minded men to have some camaraderie and enjoy whatever may happen. I think it usually happens the same weekend of Coachella.

 

There is also a version of the gathering held in DC during the MAL convention/showcase on MLK weekend. Although, I don't the DC version attracts as many revelers.

While I've been to MAL and enjoyed it, I never made the connection to MAL and the Palm Springs event until now.

I'd like to attend this year if it's safe to do so... This may be my last opportunity to go ?

After a multi-year break, I was re-admitted to my PhD program. When I "timed out" I had 3 of 5 chapters accepted. I've started back up where I left off, and a section from one of my chapters will appear in a professional publication in the next year or so. That, and I've made more JFF videos ?...

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Wendy Williams... how U doin...

We know

Who told you ???

There is a thread pinned above about the Palm Springs Weekend. It has lots of hotel information.

Thanks!

There is a thread pinned above about the Palm Springs Weekend. It has lots of hotel information.

Thanks!

Apologies in advance if this is the wrong forum to post this question... With that said, I have a couple of buddies who coincidentally are both headed to Palm Springs in the next 5 days (1 for an interview, the other for the winter). Both are encouraging me to go as well, and as I'm working from home, it's doable. Needless to say, I'm seriously considering it. For those of you familiar with lodging in PS (or the adjacent towns), do you have any suggestions on lodging (it can be off the beaten path) that's inexpensive (for PS/adjacent communities) and clean... In advance, thanks, and again, apologies of this is the wrong forum.

I’m a screamer. LOL

Seriously though i moan, groan, grunt, growl and am very verbal. But I can be quiet if need be. My husband on the other hand is quiet. I like feedback. I’ll be very explicit like stroke my cock slower and looser or tighter, etc

 

total turn on when someone is verbal and a moaner, etc

I'm known for being verbals and live when I have someone just as verbal... As for when I climax... I've been told I sound like I growl ?...

I love getting feedback from clients. Moans, groans, using words!

Occasionally though i am not sure if it is a good moan or a bad moan, and will ask to make sure I'm not hurting him.

Same here... I love hearing moans and browns... I love it when a client is verbal and articulates what he's thinking or feeling with words. And, I'll ask if I'm not sure if it's a good moan or bad...

I’m not interested in a provider who wants over $1000 for an ON under 12 hrs. I’ve had one prospective provider insist an ON was 6 hrs for all providers. I didn’t know anything about escorting when I insisted it’s at least 12 hrs. He also wanted $2500 for 6 hrs ?

For most of us, $2500 would be 3-4 days...

Some of us didn’t start having m4m fun until our mid-20s or later, and don’t we deserve to make up for what we missed?

Absolutely... Make up for anytime you lost as frequently as possible ?

I had lived a mostly straight life until acknowledging my gay side a few years ago, so I still feel young in this side of life despite being in my 50’s. A couple of years ago, I hired a handsome escort in San Francisco who claimed to prefer older men. From the way he treated me I’d say that was true. When I was about to leave he gave me a hesitant look as I hadn’t yet paid him. I did what I often do and slipped the money into his underwear right next to his beautiful big dick. He smiled and said “You bad daddy”. That’s the first time anyone had said that to me and I took it as a compliment.

Most of my clients tend to be older than me, so I inevitably default to sir or daddy (I still have a thing for daddies myself). Not everyone wants to be called daddy, though, so I'll ask in advance what do they prefer. When working with men in their 20s or early 30s, I love when they call me daddy during more intimate times. Ultimately, go with what you feel comfortable with, but I am fully aware I've reached daddy status and am glad we're in an era where daddies are in demand.

If you search overnight, you'll see a plethora of this exact question, asked and answered (and argued).

 

Bottom line, overnights are a block of time that's yours to manage. I wouldn't recommend asking a group of random, faceless internet posters... Talk with your escort about your needs, wants, fantasies and what his own experiences have been like in an overnight situation. What you're really not going to find here is the end-all, definitive answer as to what an overnight constitutes.

 

The only thing I can say with some certainty is that in terms of time, an overnight is usually in the 12-15 hour range.

 

This should definitely be a dialogue between the two of you. Good luck out there!

Agree on all points made... And for me, an overnight is usually between 12-14 hours... Maybe longer if it's going really well.

Apologies at the outset if this is the wrong place for this discussion…

 

Who here has had a positive experience on an Atlantis cruise? Who here has had a disappointing experience on an Atlantis cruise? Is it worth it? Is there any way to get around paying the kings ransom that the website shows it costs?

 

I’ve thought about engaging an escort to accompany me for an Atlantis cruise, but the cost is so very expensive, particularly given that I would also have to compensate the provider and cover everything for him. Of course there’s the option of any run-of-the-mill cruise, but the Atlantis cruise has always held a certain appeal to me for obvious reasons.

 

What say you?

Personally, I had a good time with Atlantis but had an even better time on inaugural VACAYA cruise to P-Town in 8/2019. I liked the wider range of men on the VACAYA cruise than you might find on an Atlantis cruise (in my experience), and loved the fact that VACAYA established a dedicated "red-light" district on the ship between 10pm and 5am (something that didn't happen on the March 2019 Atlantis cruise). I had fun on both, but the VACAYA cruise had a different vibe than the Atlantis cruise. And if you're going on a cruise with a bf, don't make a joke about possibly seeing clients - it'll go over like a lead balloon ???