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Ummm.....you left out the part where young men were dying.
 
It’s kind of an important part of the narrative.

I have a small bag that I carry with me normally anyways, so I just take anything valuable out of it (I know it's a bit paranoid but hey you never know) and then carry lube + condoms in it just in case. The client almost always has everything though, but I feel like it'd be a bit unprofessional if I didn't have them on me. I feel like it's pretty bare minimum of what I could bring going into a booking.

Technically our spines and back muscles haven't yet fully evolved to deal with humans walking upright. Who knows, this could have something to do with evolution slowly correcting that.

How gays see height

It’s a process. You may can start by contacting some photographers and see what they can offer, as not having pro pics already may not stand out amongst the masses.
 
They’re not even an escort site, and they’ve had their fair share of changes over nude pics.

You were born for this, awesome!

maybe I'm crazy but I haven't really ever seen like, serious "top-shaming" or "bottom-shaming" at all...
I advertise as vers/bottom and I don't think it's false advertising, but it's definitely a lot harder for me top than it is to bottom, and I think it'd really depend on the client.
 
I have the opposite of the weird intimacy thing that everyone seems to have lol. I'm generally only all that comfortable topping with guys I'm in serious, committed relationships with.

Not to sound somehow patronizing but I like, very very rarely actually douche.
It's all about diet, exercise, regularity and knowing your body
 
I've only had a mishap once and that was with an ex and we were drunk and he didn't want to listen..... lol

To be fair I'm more of a bottom in general lol. For some reason topping feels like, more intimate to me than bottoming I guess. idk why. I think for most guys it's the other way around lol.

maybe I'm crazy but I haven't really ever seen like, serious "top-shaming" or "bottom-shaming" at all...
I advertise as vers/bottom and I don't think it's false advertising, but it's definitely a lot harder for me top than it is to bottom, and I think it'd really depend on the client.
 
I have the opposite of the weird intimacy thing that everyone seems to have lol. I'm generally only all that comfortable topping with guys I'm in serious, committed relationships with.

To be fair I'm more of a bottom in general lol. For some reason topping feels like, more intimate to me than bottoming I guess. idk why. I think for most guys it's the other way around lol.

Hi..!
(well ok maybe not like crazy masc)

maybe I'm crazy but I haven't really ever seen like, serious "top-shaming" or "bottom-shaming" at all...
I advertise as vers/bottom and I don't think it's false advertising, but it's definitely a lot harder for me top than it is to bottom, and I think it'd really depend on the client.
 
I have the opposite of the weird intimacy thing that everyone seems to have lol. I'm generally only all that comfortable topping with guys I'm in serious, committed relationships with.

Yeah, definitely don't pay up front. I'd actually be a little confused and maybe a little bit worried if a client were to pay me up front like that.

I’m sorry about your bad experiences.
 
Hire well-reviewed escorts from the review site or this board - I’m going to presume that you did not do this, if you did, my apologies
 
I am NOT shocked to hear story after story (here and privately) about guys having bad experiences with the guys they hire. DO NOT put up with some hot guy’s bullshit - yes his body is amazing, yes he starred in some porn, but NO he cannot stand you up multiple times / fail to deliver the promised services / disrespect you.
 
/rant

Welcome to the Sandbox.
 
1) Do your homework and only hire well reviewed escorts.
 
2) Never pay upfront.
 
That will solve 95% of your problems.....now for the rest....
 
End a session immediately if the provider is not keeping his end of the deal.
Once you realize you are being scammed....it NEVER gets better. Trust me. End it.
 
They know full well they are trying to scam you and they are counting on you
backing down and "paying them to leave". They also know when the fish has jumped
off the hook. If they're a scammer...this isn't the first time it's happened to them.
 
Your safety comes first....but I've never had an escort get violent when I've called
them out on their deceptions. I generally do pay a small "showing up /taxi fee" if
we get beyond "meet and greet" phase before it becomes clear I'm being scammed.
We're talking less than $50. Most take the token payment and run for the hills.
 
Be firm. Be direct. Be polite. Don't blink.
 
It helps if you're a New Yorker....if you're not....now is the time to FAKE IT!
 
Remember, escorts scammers don't want security/police called any more than you do.

I think blunt is the only thing you can do. "Hey, as Sunday approaches I realize that I'm confused and am not sure what we're doing? Is this an appt? a friendly get-together? I've missed something and don't want to make any assumptions. Apologies if I'm just being dense." Good luck!

Holy fuck that's way hotter than I expected! I'm still not 100% on the spitting or not. It's hot in theory but idk if I'd be actually into it, lol.
but WOW I wish I had a hot guy to slap me around like that while pounding me and I hadn't really thought about slapping like that before lol.

There is a video of Michael Lucas slapping and spitting on Jake Lyons.
 
At Pornhub there is a video called
 
TWINK GETS SLAPPED AND FUCKED HARD

haha I definitely do this, although purposefully. I think it's a good trick.

My theory is that a lot of guys will show you what they like done to them by what they try to do to turn you on. For example, a guy whose nipples are hotwired tends to assume his partner will like the same and at least try that out. No response, try the next thing. That theory has worked well for me.

Yeah. I mean, everyone else in my area seems to have a face pic right as their main photo, so eh.. what the hell, might as well just use them It might be a little uncomfortable if people saw but, I'm not ashamed or embarrassed about it. Besides, at the risk of sounding a bit arrogant, I think it's probably one of my best features haha.
I've never been on the client side, but I would think that if I saw someone I was interested in, I would just reach out and ask for a face pic. If I were a client I don't think I would want to book anyone without seeing face first. Then again, if everyone else has face pics up, I can understand how easy it would be to just ignore the few without faces, especially since you'd have to wait for them to hear back from you, etc. I know for me, face matters a lot when it comes to who I'm physically attracted to, so I imagine if I were a client it'd matter a lot to me as well.

Hi! I sorta recently started. I'm openly gay, not worried about being 'discreet', and I don't find anything shameful at all about this even though a lot of people out there do. I'm not really worried about anyone I know finding out because, well A) I'm not ashamed of it and B) Anyone that manages to find an ad is likely looking for someone to hire anyways
However, I'd rather not have everything just completely out in the open and obvious? I mean I'm not afraid of being found out per say.. and I'm happy to provide a face picture if someone asks?
That definitely got a lot longer than I intended haha.. Anyways, is it THAT big of a deal to clients if you don't have a picture showing your face anywhere in your ads? I do worry a little bit about it because most of the other guys in my area seem to have face pics all over the place. Is it something that would make someone normally completely pass you over?

I'm fairly new, but so far in my experience it's like... the guys that are creepy/impolite will chat with you all day but rarely end up booking anything.

I'm fairly new, but so far in my experience it's like... the guys that are creepy/impolite will chat with you all day but rarely end up booking anything.