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LJNYC83

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    LJNYC83 got a reaction from Sensualsmooth in Client can’t get it up   
    As long as they aren’t blaming me, I wouldn’t say anything and would hope the client enjoyed themselves either way.
     
    I was in a situation like that once that went for hours and the guy (who was drunk and high) blamed me. That was awful.
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    LJNYC83 got a reaction from HotWhiteThirties in Timing your contact   
    I love advanced bookings and I don’t really have a time that’s too advanced, if the person will follow through. Someone who is a regular that I’ve built trust with could book me months in advance and I’d trust that it will happen (unless something life related comes up).
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    LJNYC83 got a reaction from GTMike in Timing your contact   
    I love advanced bookings and I don’t really have a time that’s too advanced, if the person will follow through. Someone who is a regular that I’ve built trust with could book me months in advance and I’d trust that it will happen (unless something life related comes up).
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    LJNYC83 got a reaction from GTMike in "Boyfriend Experience"   
    I made this joke to a friend recently too. Told him I was going to start offering the “Three Years In Boyfriend Experience” that involves no sex but two chore related arguments and an hour of figuring out what to order for dinner.
     
    But I don’t think it would be a best seller...
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    LJNYC83 got a reaction from + bashful in "Boyfriend Experience"   
    I made this joke to a friend recently too. Told him I was going to start offering the “Three Years In Boyfriend Experience” that involves no sex but two chore related arguments and an hour of figuring out what to order for dinner.
     
    But I don’t think it would be a best seller...
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    LJNYC83 got a reaction from + honcho in "Boyfriend Experience"   
    I made this joke to a friend recently too. Told him I was going to start offering the “Three Years In Boyfriend Experience” that involves no sex but two chore related arguments and an hour of figuring out what to order for dinner.
     
    But I don’t think it would be a best seller...
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    LJNYC83 got a reaction from + VictorPowers in Are clients responsible for air tickets?   
    I had a client recently who wanted to see me enough to offer to cover my airfare but didn’t want an overnight, so he understood I’d get my own hotel (that I paid for) and see other clients. That was pretty cool. But all discussed beforehand.
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    LJNYC83 reacted to hypothetically in Are clients responsible for air tickets?   
    All these details and reward programs aside (which I feel have complicated a very simple question), the answer is yes.
     
    Frustrations arise on both ends when you complicate the process.
     
    If a client reaches out to me and he is not local my first question is “do you intend to visit” or “are you interested in having me travel to where you are?”
     
    If the client is interested in having me travel to where he is... I am not paying, period. While many of you have rewards (as do I) and that’s a kind gesture to utilize points, miles, etc. Why?
     
    If a client is new to sending for an escort (i.e the OP of the thread), I usually negotiate my rate, as pricing can be a tough pill to swallow for newcomers who don’t realize they must cover airfare also, but I mean 90% of my out of town clients understand that they’re paying for convenience and must cover airfare and make the arrangements quickly.
     
    Being on a budget and trying to send for someone is not realistic. Search locally if it’s not in your price range.
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    LJNYC83 reacted to hypothetically in Provider off line   
    I’d relax. While I empathize for the eager and horny (eye roll), I’d be a little pissed if I really was having a situation and hadn’t been online and you were texting me again to schedule an arrangement. While we, the providers, are advertising and I know it’s hard to look past cock on a screen...we are human and we do have shit going on.
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    LJNYC83 reacted to + Eric Hassan in Content removed   
    If you're a regular that I would consider offering a "freebie" (or any discount), I'm very aware and don't need a punch card.
     
    Also, freebies come in all different forms
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    LJNYC83 reacted to + Eric Hassan in Content removed   
    If you're a regular that I would consider offering a "freebie" (or any discount), I'm very aware and don't need a punch card.
     
    Also, freebies come in all different forms
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    LJNYC83 reacted to Kevin Slater in Are clients responsible for air tickets?   
    Why are you asking us and not him?
     
    Kevin Slater
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    LJNYC83 reacted to Kevin Slater in Are clients responsible for air tickets?   
    Why are you asking us and not him?
     
    Kevin Slater
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    LJNYC83 got a reaction from HotWhiteThirties in Provider off line   
    That’s why I asked when he last heard. If it had been a day, I think you leave it alone because maybe the situation hasn’t sorted itself out yet. If it’s been a week or two, a follow up check in text is totally valid.
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    LJNYC83 got a reaction from rvwnsd in Provider off line   
    That’s why I asked when he last heard. If it had been a day, I think you leave it alone because maybe the situation hasn’t sorted itself out yet. If it’s been a week or two, a follow up check in text is totally valid.
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    LJNYC83 reacted to + oldNbusted in Provider off line   
    How would you feel if you told a guy you had a family situation and you would get back in touch with them and they kept messaging you? I say be cool and do nothing.
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    LJNYC83 got a reaction from Populist Fury in Buddy listed   
    I don’t believe so. I know at least one person who has me on their buddy list (he’s shown me his list) but I don’t recall ever getting a notification that I had been added. I think it’s similar to “favoriting” someone on Grindr.
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    LJNYC83 got a reaction from RyanDean in Buddy listed   
    I don’t believe so. I know at least one person who has me on their buddy list (he’s shown me his list) but I don’t recall ever getting a notification that I had been added. I think it’s similar to “favoriting” someone on Grindr.
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    LJNYC83 reacted to FilmGeek in Who's going to Sundance this year?   
    I'm just booking my tickets for Sundance this year at the end of January. Last year was a blast with some amazing escorts and experiences. I was wondering who's planning on going this year.
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    LJNYC83 reacted to + Keith30309 in I took you sucker.   
    I’ve loaned money to three escorts to whom I had gotten close and it turned out badly two times. I still see the third guy, 23, and he was vigilant about reminding me of his debt the next time we met.
     
    I’ve loaned money to a few Seekingarrangement guys and it’s gone ok but that’s a different situation.
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    LJNYC83 got a reaction from + Tarte Gogo in Timing your contact   
    I love advanced bookings and I don’t really have a time that’s too advanced, if the person will follow through. Someone who is a regular that I’ve built trust with could book me months in advance and I’d trust that it will happen (unless something life related comes up).
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    LJNYC83 got a reaction from myophile in Timing your contact   
    I love advanced bookings and I don’t really have a time that’s too advanced, if the person will follow through. Someone who is a regular that I’ve built trust with could book me months in advance and I’d trust that it will happen (unless something life related comes up).
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    LJNYC83 got a reaction from TruthBTold in In bed booking   
    I just spent two days with a wonderful client, first time booking. I took the advice from this thread. At one point I excused myself for a phone call, and the rest of the time I only looked at my phone and answered personal texts when he was using his phone.
     
    It went great and he’s already booked me for another two days next month, this time out of town!
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    LJNYC83 got a reaction from big-n-tall in In bed booking   
    I just spent two days with a wonderful client, first time booking. I took the advice from this thread. At one point I excused myself for a phone call, and the rest of the time I only looked at my phone and answered personal texts when he was using his phone.
     
    It went great and he’s already booked me for another two days next month, this time out of town!
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    LJNYC83 got a reaction from + oldNbusted in In bed booking   
    I just spent two days with a wonderful client, first time booking. I took the advice from this thread. At one point I excused myself for a phone call, and the rest of the time I only looked at my phone and answered personal texts when he was using his phone.
     
    It went great and he’s already booked me for another two days next month, this time out of town!
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