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bnm73 Veteran

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What do you do when a client can’t get it up?

 

Escorting doesn't HAVE to be all about getting the client to ejaculate, and there's all sorts of reasons where a client might be having ... problems ... getting or maintaining an erection.

 

Several medical conditions (often involving poor circulation in the extremities) can cause issues like that. So can uncontrolled blood pressure.

 

On the other hand, the might be so drunk/high/tweeking that it's just not possible.

 

Just be sensitive, as this is often a cause of embarrassment for men. "How can I help?" "Is there something else you'd like to do?"

 

In the end, though, you might be sucking on or rubbing against a limp noodle for an hour. Take your fee and don't be unkind.

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I’m the client lol

 

Well, then what would you like to do with the escort? Escorting doesn't have to be all about sex.

 

Communication is the important thing. Tell any potential hires what you want and what you are incapable of. So long as everyone is on the same page, there is no reason why two consenting adults can't have a good time in a variety of different ways.

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Maybe what I really wanted to ask was if escorts are turned off by clients who couldn’t get it up.

Ah! A different question altogether!

 

It's unusual, but not unique....or at least it was when I was escorting back in the day. I always appreciated a "heads up" (no pun intended) if there were any physical issues I needed to take into account. That way I wouldn't spend 45 minutes of the hour trying to get the client hard if it were not possible.

 

Or sometimes the client wanted to do nothing but blow me or ride my dick and not have me touch them at all....in all earnestness, it's all up to what you want to do and what you and the escort agree on. It doesn't have to be all about your dick if you would rather focus on other avenues.

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Ah! A different question altogether!

 

It's unusual, but not unique....or at least it was when I was escorting back in the day. I always appreciated a "heads up" (no pun intended) if there were any physical issues I needed to take into account. That way I wouldn't spend 45 minutes of the hour trying to get the client hard if it were not possible.

 

Or sometimes the client wanted to do nothing but blow me or ride my dick and not have me touch them at all....in all earnestness, it's all up to what you want to do and what you and the escort agree on. It doesn't have to be all about your dick if you would rather focus on other avenues.

 

Agreed completely. As I’ve saud before, I’ve been booked literally just to spar with some guys because they’re into the boxing thing. No sex at all. It’s all good.

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Maybe what I really wanted to ask was if escorts are turned off by clients who couldn’t get it up.

For medical reasons before I found trimix, I hardly ever got hard but I still came from a hot blowjob. Sometimes when I did not get hard or did not cum, I very much enjoyed the oral treatment any ways. Know that I have found trimix, assholes beware. :) I always informed the escort that I may not get hard. I never said anything about cuming till the end. The efforts the put into the blowjob to get me to cum is always exciting especially when they say I will get you to cum. The next 30 minutes of sucking is usually awesome. lol once in a while they prove me wrong but I love every minute.

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The efforts the put into the blowjob to get me to cum is always exciting especially when they say I will get you to cum. The next 30 minutes of sucking is usually awesome. lol once in a whole they prove me wrong but I love every minute.

 

 

Looks like I’ve been missing out on the hiring experience. I very seldom meet escorts who initiate oral on me. Even when I ask for it, most say they don’t do oral. I just think it’s because I couldn’t get it up.

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Well, try to cut the mentality of "if I dont get hard its not sex/fun/worthit" unless is really important to YOU

 

I don't care about cum or get hard, but I still fell bad if the guy dont get hard or cum :(, so if he dont make a big deal of it(even if he lying)it helps

 

Luckily I can orgasm while soft lol

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Looks like I’ve been missing out on the hiring experience. I very seldom meet escorts who initiate oral on me. Even when I ask for it, most say they don’t do oral. I just think it’s because I couldn’t get it up.

I always ask upfront do you deep french kiss, do you do oral and do you rimm. Kissing and oral a must. I do not even look at RM ads that do not have kissing checked. Kissing should not be negotiated. lol

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Looks like I’ve been missing out on the hiring experience. I very seldom meet escorts who initiate oral on me. Even when I ask for it, most say they don’t do oral. I just think it’s because I couldn’t get it up.

 

Or maybe you've just been meeting lousy escorts.

 

Good escorts know that they are in a service industry. They provide a service for which they receive payment.

 

Bad escorts consider it nothing more than "getting paid for getting laid." It's all about THEM instead of the client.

 

There's a BIG difference.

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I often do not get hard, but I can ejaculate and have a orgasm when soft. I am also an oral and anal bottom. As long as I enjoy myself I'm good.

 

Funny story: I was with a guy and did not get hard AT ALL. However, I went to town on him like there was no tomorrow. After we both had huge orgasms I said something like "even though I didn't get hard I really enjoyed myself." He said "yes, I know" as he wiped the cum off my leg, the carpet, and his leg.

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Maybe what I really wanted to ask was if escorts are turned off by clients who couldn’t get it up.

 

I'm sure they're not turn off... but they wonder if they're doing something wrong or what can they do to turn you on. I'm glad to hear you can cum while your cock is soft. Just tell them that the fact that you can't get it up doesn't affect how much you enjoy sex with men.

 

I take Viagra every single time I hire. Never had a problem :)

 

Looks like I’ve been missing out on the hiring experience. I very seldom meet escorts who initiate oral on me. Even when I ask for it, most say they don’t do oral. I just think it’s because I couldn’t get it up.

 

Escorts are the best cocksuckers! Sometimes you have to ask for someone to do something ;)

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