Kinky Boyfriend

Seconding @honcho re: drugs impairing one's ability to judge when damage occurs.
 
Some don't carry out scenes if any party involved has a drop of alcohol in them.
 
 
General guidelines for kink/BDSM play:
Keep everything
- Safe
- Sane
- Consensual
 
Incorporating drug use into a scene ticks none of those boxes.
 
That being said, many of those who seek a rougher playstyle / have more "intense" fetishes also often use drugs as a way to either distract from pain or to tap into the darker/intense headspace.
 
 
I find it preferable when people are able to tap into those spaces without the use of drugs, not to mention the safety/health/legal aspects.

Grrr, I love doing this to a guy. Already got him moanin' and groanin' while I'm poundin' him and then if the mood strikes, to grab one of his feet and start licking and sucking and kissing and worshipping (while also using that grabbing hand to massage at the same time) while continuing to nail him...just...new heights of pleasure for him and me. The ultimate.
 
Ya gotta clip those toenails, though. Hard on my teeth and mouth, otherwise. Not into that kind of punishment, heh.

Personally, I come down on the side of no-drugs because when a player is having chemically induced europhoria, it may impair his ability to judge when damage is going to occur, and certainly questions the issues of consent and sanity.
 
But that being said, I know that there are a fair number of leather players who use while playing; you can see guys "getting cloudy" while being fisted somesimes even on cam4.

Skilled

Hey @zatchoo - I'm based in Atlanta and open to role-play scenarios - quite enjoy crafting them actually.

To me, when someone says, categorically, "I'm just not attracted to . . ." a particular ethnicity, that sounds to me more like a decision than a preference.

Wouldn't this post be better suited in the "Lounge" section? Or perhaps "Fetishes" - eavesdropping could definitely be considered a kink
 
(Unless I'm missing its relevancy)

Can we calm down on the “meth freak” talk?
 
I know it’s a popular trope, but meth is a pretty nasty drug that is HIGHLY reinforcing (4x dopamine release of cocaine - highly rewarding and motivating) - it can ensnare the brightest and most beautiful, and unlikely people can fall prey. I think addiction is a symptom of people lacking connection (rat park experiment) or running on the hedonic treadmill (not being grateful and in the present moment)
Addicts deserve compassion, not labels that belittle. We should thank our stars that any pain we have ever felt has not led us down that path.
https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/meth/body/
 
I’m sorry I’ve been a dick lately, sometimes (usually) I handle stress poorly. All these suicides, school shootings, etc are making me a little crazy (and sometimes going a little crazy on threads about these same topics...) xoxo

I think I have one pic in my rentmen ad in which I’m wearing a cockring and it’s because I’m in leather and you can barely see the cockring. With rare exceptions (cause we are all human) I don’t have issues with erections, but a cockring does give the hard as a rock, vein popping hard-on that doesn’t happen naturally.

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Wuff! *wag*
 
It is pretty common for pups to play together.

I remember my first review on the Wall of the Big Stall in the Shower Room Toilet at the Fayetteville Union 76 Truck Stop === I took a PIC --- Mom was SO Proud!

D'aw shucks, thank you @Keith30309
I think kissing is essential to experiencing chemistry

@JudasKane (AKA KinkyBoyfriend) in Atlanta is both a sweet and passionate kisser :D:D

Happily renewed kudos for Judas!

I've never thought of this as a fetish, but that describes me perfectly. I always linked it in my mind with being somewhat on the sub side of things (to use another fetish/kink as an example). Part of why I enjoy escorting is because I genuinely like making others feel good, especially folks who are considered "less than" because they're not conventionally attractive, able bodied, or whatever.

Does an "authentic" str8 guy get converted to "authentic" bi guy once he has sex with a dude, or downgraded to "inauthentic" str8 guy?

This is one of my favorite things to do!

Yes please... one-way spitting is fun on it's own, but when the saliva swapping gets mutual it really brings out some kinda animalistic part of me.
 
Tho I have to say that cigar-infused saliva has got to be just about the only kind that I really don't like. Such a pity, because the visual of a hot man smoking a cigar is a real turn on... ‍♂️

Actually I like a big muscle bear who moans a lot. Grrr.

This is one of my favorite things to do!

Just recieved an email this morning from the Rentmen webmaster, stating
 
"We would like to inform you that due to some recently introduced legal requirements in your region, your About Me text was reviewed and may be modified.
 
Be aware, that any text that promotes escort services or other services that may be interpreted as providing sexual acts in exchange for compensation is strictly forbidden, including information about rates or donations. It is not allowed to publish phone numbers, email addresses or external links, except personal websites.
 
If you need any clarifications, please contact us!
Thank you for your understanding!
 
Your RentMen team"
 
They removed some text that was a quote from a client making reference to "being inside him" and also a reference to "being comfortable with whatever the clients safety preference is". They still allow me to list my website, which is all I really care about, as I ultimately prefer that clients reach out to me through there. I'm sure if you haven't recieved a similar message from them, and your text contains anything objectionable, you will soon.

I think the second time you had to wake him up and he didn't acknowledge anything would have been a good time to stop and check in with him. It's possible he is narcoleptic and doesn't know it, or didn't share it with you because he's usually fine with his meds but right now he's not. It sounds like there may have been some health issues going on here, aside from the customer service/performance issues. You're paying for an experience that you weren't getting, and it was possibly because this guy was in some sort of crisis - how to deal with this is to stop what you're doing and TALK.
 
This is for everyone - if you're with someone and they seem like they might be sick or in danger, TALK to them. Please don't carry on and hope things will be OK.