Racial sexual preference isn’t a crime

[+ Avalon]

https://www.gaystarnews.com/article/racial-sexual-preference-isnt-a-crime/#gs.mr9Tq6w

 

Of course people can a preference when it comes to sex partners just as they can with politics and food and everything else!

[samhexum]

Of course people can a preference

 

My preference is gorgeous & wealthy.

 

My reality is breathing and not indigent.

[Gadfly22]

Should have been published here:

 

https://www.facebook.com/NewEnglandJournalofDuh/

[thickornotatall]

https://www.gaystarnews.com/article/racial-sexual-preference-isnt-a-crime/#gs.mr9Tq6w

 

Of course people can a preference when it comes to sex partners just as they can with politics and food and everything else!

Big Cocks...I have no racial preference....it's all about the cock...8+ and thick...I've had Black..Brown...White...and Mulatto...The bigger the meat..the better looking they become...For the right cock I may overlook many flaws....and am willing to correct some of them...

[spider]

Big Cocks...I have no racial preference....it's all about the cock...8+ and thick...I've had Black..Brown...White...and Mulatto...The bigger the meat..the better looking they become...For the right cock I may overlook many flaws....and am willing to correct some of them...

 

So you discriminate against the unhung?

[thickornotatall]

Yes I do….We may be friends...but for certain....no sex...I am only interested in XXL cock....anyone?

[Rudynate]

https://www.gaystarnews.com/article/racial-sexual-preference-isnt-a-crime/#gs.mr9Tq6w

 

Of course people can a preference when it comes to sex partners just as they can with politics and food and everything else!

 

To me, when someone says, categorically, "I'm just not attracted to . . ." a particular ethnicity, that sounds to me more like a decision than a preference.

[+ tassojunior]

I can't get an erection for anyone with brown eyes. Never have. Tried many times but just nothing there. I'm an eye connect guy. Sort of racial but any race guy with blue or green eyes works.

[bigvalboy]

I'm attracted to nipples that are "hot wired." I don't particularly care who they are attached to...well that's not completely true, but you know where I'm going with this.

[tenderloin]

To me, when someone says, categorically, "I'm just not attracted to . . ." a particular ethnicity, that sounds to me more like a decision than a preference.

 

So you think you choose your attractions? Maybe you do, but I certainly never have. It makes absolutely no sense to me, when I think about the variety of shapes and sizes that attract me (and those that don't), but I certainly never made a conscious choice as to what gets my pecker hard. Life would have been easier if I could have LOL.

 

There is an implication in your statement that if I am not attracted to one ethnic group or the other that its one more thing I'm supposed to feel guilty about. Sorry, not buying.

[Rudynate]

Sorry, not buying.

 

Who said you had to?

[+ Kman]

Ok so if you find a guy on a dating app or wherever with what you would classify as a great body and good looks but then he tells you he is Latino and let’s say that isn’t an ethnicity you are attracted to and you turn him down because of that one thing isn’t that racist?

[+ Avalon]

Ok so if you find a guy on a dating app or wherever with what you would classify as a great body and good looks but then he tells you he is Latino and let’s say that isn’t an ethnicity you are attracted to and you turn him down because of that one thing isn’t that racist?

 

No it's not! When I was a boy my mother once had collard greens and whipped turnips for dinner. I hate both! But I initially mistook them for spinach and mashed potatoes which I do like. First bite I discovered my error and refused to eat any more.

 

I don't like coffee. I tried it once and that was enough. I don't like the taste of beer. Remembering my experience with the coffee and wanting to spit it out but I couldn't. On my 18th birthday I tried beer. I stood over the kitchen sink and took a sip and swished it around in my mouth and spit it out. That was enough! So I can say I tasted beer but never drank any.

 

Sexually some like to do some things and not other things. And that includes choice of sexual partners.

 

That said it might be different with escorts and porn models since it is a job that they are being paid for it.

Edited July 3, 2018 by Avalon

[+ Kman]

No it's not! When I was a boy my mother once had collard greens and whipped turnips for dinner. I hate both! But I initially mistook them for spinach and mashed potatoes which I do like. First bite I discovered my error and refused to eat any more.

 

Ok, food and people are not the same.

[GBoi]

So you think you choose your attractions? Maybe you do, but I certainly never have. It makes absolutely no sense to me, when I think about the variety of shapes and sizes that attract me (and those that don't), but I certainly never made a conscious choice as to what gets my pecker hard. Life would have been easier if I could have LOL.

 

There is an implication in your statement that if I am not attracted to one ethnic group or the other that its one more thing I'm supposed to feel guilty about. Sorry, not buying.

 

Yes, you do choose your attractions. You are a product of the environment in which you were raised. Does that make you racist because you categorically dismiss one ethnic group? Yes. Should you feel guilty about it? Up to you.

[+ Avalon]

Ok, food and people are not the same.

 

Right but there again a preference, a choice is neither right nor wrong. "Different strokes for different folks". I've said in another thread I didn't like algebra but I did like geometry. When I was a boy I had a dog. But my father was a cat person. People choose one political party over another. Life is full of choices and preferences. I like the Belami models but others don't.

[Rudynate]

No it's not! When I was a boy my mother once had collard greens and whipped turnips for dinner. I hate both! But I initially mistook them for spinach and mashed potatoes which I do like. First bite I discovered my error and refused to eat any more.

 

I don't like coffee. I tried it once and that was enough. I don't like the taste of beer. Remembering my experience with the coffee and wanting to spit it out but I couldn't. On my 18th birthday I tried beer. I stood over the kitchen sink and took a sip and swished it around in my mouth and spit it out. That was enough! So I can say I tasted beer but never drank any.

 

Sexually some like to do some things and not other things. And that includes choice of sexual partners.

 

That said it might be different with escorts and porn models since it is a job that they are being paid for it.

 

But we're talking about a guy who would have been a good partner until he found out the guys ethnic background. That one piece of information changed everything.

[+ Avalon]

But we're talking about a guy who would have been a good partner until he found out the guys ethnic background. That one piece of information changed everything.

 

Still it was his choice. I think that tattoos are a turn-off. If I were hiring I would exclude a person with tattoos.

[+ Kman]

Still it was his choice. I think that tattoos are a turn-off. If I were hiring I would exclude a person with tattoos.

 

I still don’t understand where you coming from...no one is born with tattoos you are born with your ethnicity and you can’t change that...so to rule out a potential hook up/date ect solely based on their ethnicity is racist.

[+ Avalon]

I'm saying that a person can reject a potential sexual partner for any reason or no reason and should not be judged or criticized for it.

[+ Kman]

Yes, you do choose your attractions. You are a product of the environment in which you were raised. Does that make you racist because you categorically dismiss one ethnic group? Yes. Should you feel guilty about it? Up to you.

 

You do have that right, yes. But if it’s based on race you have to own that.

[Rudynate]

Still it was his choice. I think that tattoos are a turn-off. If I were hiring I would exclude a person with tattoos.

 

 

Tatts are a behavioral choice. They don't have anything to do with a fundamental fact of a person's being over which they have no control.

[+ Avalon]

You do have that right, yes. But if it’s based on race you have to own that.

 

Still there is no affirmative action in the hiring of escorts.

[+ Kman]

Still there is no affirmative action in the hiring of escorts.

 

you are hiring an escort or not hiring an escort based on their race...that is affirmative action

[Rudynate]

Still there is no affirmative action in the hiring of escorts.

 

What does affirmative action have to do with anything? Affirmative action is a legal remedy for institutionalized racism. Individual racism in personal relationships isn't subject to that type of legal control. The only remedy for racism at the personal level is to recognize that it's not how you want to be and to stop it.