Dallas Jayson

Same here. Luckily in the Bay Area it’s not “controversial” to show proof of vaccination so the few I’ve seen are happy to trade proof. 

I really think you should invite someone you know, or  have recently met socially, to enjoy a dinner with you.
All of the scenarios you pose are possible and honestly probable.  I hire for sex - enjoying a young hard body and stamina. I go to dinner with friends and clients - never with an escort. In my experience, most escorts, while polite, are not very good at much past pleasantries. It's just a matter of age, experience, education, exposure, and opportunity.
If you're in Dallas, drop a note, I will be happy to enjoy dinner - with my cell in the car.

I really think you should invite someone you know, or  have recently met socially, to enjoy a dinner with you.
All of the scenarios you pose are possible and honestly probable.  I hire for sex - enjoying a young hard body and stamina. I go to dinner with friends and clients - never with an escort. In my experience, most escorts, while polite, are not very good at much past pleasantries. It's just a matter of age, experience, education, exposure, and opportunity.
If you're in Dallas, drop a note, I will be happy to enjoy dinner - with my cell in the car.

Here's what you said last month....
I agree, Tin Room is the best.  I haven't been since March 2020, so I don't have a name to provide

That's why the ones that are and fully understand social- not just sexual- lubrication, can be very, very successful.

I really think you should invite someone you know, or  have recently met socially, to enjoy a dinner with you.
All of the scenarios you pose are possible and honestly probable.  I hire for sex - enjoying a young hard body and stamina. I go to dinner with friends and clients - never with an escort. In my experience, most escorts, while polite, are not very good at much past pleasantries. It's just a matter of age, experience, education, exposure, and opportunity.
If you're in Dallas, drop a note, I will be happy to enjoy dinner - with my cell in the car.

I really think you should invite someone you know, or  have recently met socially, to enjoy a dinner with you.
All of the scenarios you pose are possible and honestly probable.  I hire for sex - enjoying a young hard body and stamina. I go to dinner with friends and clients - never with an escort. In my experience, most escorts, while polite, are not very good at much past pleasantries. It's just a matter of age, experience, education, exposure, and opportunity.
If you're in Dallas, drop a note, I will be happy to enjoy dinner - with my cell in the car.

Sex is the simple part. 
Being a great social companion is where actual talent and intellect come into play.  
Make smart decisions about your company. 
 

There are a lot of sexy guys in the world that I would love to have in my bed, but would never want to be seen in public with.  This has nothing to do with "discretion," but rather whether or not the guy is presentable in terms of dress, manners, and education. Maybe invite him to your house for coffee and cake on Sunday afternoon first.

@nycmanI am with you.
A  high-pressure, language-challenging expensive dinner date for the first meeting?
I am not a judgmental person. But that is some freaky-ass shit. 
😂
 

While all that is good advice, don't down-play the ability of an escort to be a companion in any social setting. Not all of them can do it, but many can and will. If you think it through, hiring a man to go to dinner or the opera with you is no different to hiring one to fuck you. There is a risk that they can't do what you want. You choose the man who can carry off that scene. It requires you to firmly accept the mind set that you are paying for their time, not for what they will do with (or to) you. Ask them. If you've met them before, build on that. Some escorts in this very forum talk about travel, film, theatre and music. And sex, saunas and bathhouses. I would be confident hiring such a man in any setting.

Sorry, Dallas, I wasn't dismissing your comments, they were good points. I was adding to them (I hope). I acknowledge one has to pick the right escort but they are out there.

I suppose I should try to see the world from Adam's POV. He is after all an independent business provider who could identify with the part of the Republican party that wants to keep business unregulated and government out of his private life as a gay man. As a liberal Democrat I am prone to conflating right wing politics with evangelical -- e.g. anti-gay -- politics. Though they often overlap, they are conceptually distinct. I guess Mary Cheney would be the poster child -- gay and pro gay marriage but otherwise very conservative.

MuscleVIP is smoking hot, handsome, and uber well endowed, yet probably the #1 flakiest escort in NYC. I’ve seen him 4 times but that’s out of about 10 scheduled and confirmed appointments that I’ve made with him over the past few years. It’s always a different reason/excuse. And then he apologizes and the cycle continues. I finally gave up on him which has opened my eyes to other raging hot and dependable escorts out there. P.S. the last time I tried to book him on a Saturday he told me “I don’t work weekends.” In hindsight, that BS saved me the aggravation.

Yes, sadly my regular masseur retired so now I have to find a new provider... I am up for the challenge! 😉
 

Yes!

He and Bill Clinton have something in common. They don’t think oral is sex.

With the exception of the two or three pictures where he is clean shaven, the guy looks about a step away from homlessness.  But will he play in Peoria?

I think he is the one that is going to need a bank loan. I doubt anyone would be desperate enough to give him $1000 for anything.  

https://rent.men/Omeezey
If you’re in the Peoria, IL area you can scoop up this guy at bargain basement prices (heavy sarcasm intended).  His reply to my text states the following rates:
$300 for massage
$500 to give him oral
$1,000 for sex
 
 

circuit is sex + music + a shit ton of drugs.  Ok that was my circuit party days experience anyways. 😉 Maybe things have changed but I doubt it. Circuit boys love their umm..energy helpers. 😉
 

If they end a sentence with a preposition. Instant block.
Kevin Slater

Whenever I hire a massage therapist I go in with the attitude that it’s just a massage. 
If more happens, great. If not, cool. That way I’m never disappointed. Frustrated?
Oh maybe, just a little, on occasion but not really. If getting off is really that important 
to me then I just hire an escort. And as we all know, even that can be hit or miss. 
Am I likely to rehire a massage therapist who advertises as sensual or erotic and never 
disrobes and never touches my cock? No, but that’s his loss and I’m sure he’s already 
done the math on that one. I just chalk it up to experience and move on. 

An often repeated mantra of mine, on the subject. I've read way too many comments about being disappointed by the lack of sexuality when hiring a masseur. Although plenty of escorts disguise themselves as body workers, you can't just assume that's what you're hiring and go for the full service portion when it's NOT on the menu !

I think the only clear misrepresentations occur when a masseur advertises an erotic massage and then remains fully clothed and doesn't do anything outside of what a therapeutic masseur would do.  Beyond that, if you want to know what an erotic massage from a specific provider is going to entail then ask.  As others have written, however, consider it a bonus if a masseur wants to have sex with you beyond giving you a happy ending with his hand.  Hire an escort at escort rates if you want more.