Vin is the best! Super muscular, definitely one of the best if not the best with the whole muscle worship thing. He’ll give you the best bf experience ever.
Is anyone else into men's calves, or is that just me? Funny thing is, I never had the fetish for calves until I met my (now) husband. Calves are insanely hot during play time.
This guy seems to be a nightmare but threatening to call ICE on him, when you don't even know if he's undocumented, is wild. Would you call the Gestapo on a Jewish person who wronged you? @Austin Lewis was horribly victimized by this asshole, but he's in touch with law enforcement, which is the appropriate response and I hope he's caught.
Whether we providers genuinely enjoy the experience is irrelevant. The question is: did YOU enjoy the experience?
If so, pay the guy and see him often. He’s providing a high level of value to you. Reciprocate that value to him.
A client hired me for an overnight recently. Given, this was not for massage although he does like some massage time, but that’s beside the point. We have a good long time rapports going and it works because we both understand the transactional nature of the relationship, respect the boundaries, and yet have a great time together anyway. It’s possible to be genuine and still provide a professional service.
For example, while he was fucking me, he hit just the right spot and we stayed in that position for a while me riding him, and it gave me a non-ejaculatory orgasm lasting for a solid few minutes. I didn’t hold back at all. My voice, breath, expression, and demeanor matched the intensity of my feelings. It was amazing! I usually am the one fucking him for most or all of the session, and it was refreshing to switch roles for a bit. I wasn’t acting at all while I enjoyed myself in that moment. He told me later that it’s important to him that I am genuinely enjoying myself too and that he appreciated me sharing moments like that with him. For some clients, an important element of value we provide is to actually enjoy the experience, which in turn gratifies the client.
You can’t buy that on a hookup app.
Acting is part of the job. Once in a while, I truly have to ‘act’ and I don’t like it, but I do it. I can’t genuinely be in ecstasy at every moment with every client. That’s unrealistic. I may not even enjoy the experience at all, but who’s to say? Fortunately I have very few clients where that is 100% true. I like to play up the moments I am enjoying and play down the moments I don’t enjoy as much. That way, it’s more an augmentation of reality rather than a false reality. With most clients I find something about them and/or what we are doing together that I like and I focus on that. It’s often multiple things. In that way, it’s not acting as much as it is focusing. It takes an experienced savvy provider to walk this line well.
A while ago a client gave me one of the best blowjobs. Top 10, easy. And you don’t want to know how many BJs I’ve had from how many different men over my life. It would make us both blush. It’s difficult to find men who give truly excellent head. Plenty of so-so, decently proficient, and lots of really bad head out there. So when I come across a rare encounter with a truly skilled man, I relish the experience. I thought to myself in the moment, “I should be paying him!” And then I snapped out of it and remembered that everything about the experience is on his terms, for his benefit. We meet when he wants, do the things he likes, the way he wants, for as long as he wants, and I am not dictating any of it for my own pleasure. I’m doing everything for his ultimate gratification. My reward is monetary. Any pleasure I get out of it is incidental.
So whether your provider enjoys the session or not - and whether you CARE if he enjoys the session or not - he is giving you what you want. Passive or active, he is delivering value to you on your terms. And at the end of the day, if he genuinely likes it, wouldn’t this be a nice bonus for you both? And if he’s acting, wouldn’t you rather not know? Pay your professional providers. Tip them. Hire them frequently.
And please ….clients…. stop overthinking his level of enjoyment or lack thereof. Focus on YOURS!
Ok, for historians or inexperienced clients reading this, be reassured that this does not happen "a lot" (still can't believe that's not one word) and escorts likely won't embarrass you in public, or private. It's happened, it sucks. It does not happen a lot. Or often, barely infrequently.
The only thing that happens "a lot" is a good, not great, not bad, meeting that you may or may not (but come one, who are we kidding?, you may) repeat.
