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So sorry to hear. May he rest in peace.
Thank you Cooper for all the work you have done.

rest in peace, Daddy/Guy; and thank you for being the convener of this community

@Unicorn is a great contributor to this site in multiple ways. I apologize to him for making him feel criticized.

Update Friday, March 12th. I sent the social worker a few additional names of associates of daddy’s. Hopefully, these leads can turn up someone related to him or someone who might have POA. Thanks to those sending me this information.
 
Daddy’s condition remains the same. No change from Wednesday’s report.
 
It’s now over 2 weeks since the police found daddy on the floor of his home. Other than keeping him in our thoughts, prayers, or sending good karma, we just have to patiently wait for the healing/recovery process to kick in.
 
I truly appreciate all the concern and love you’ve shown for daddy/Guy Fawkes. He means a lot to us. I’ll do my best to keep you posted.
 
Cooper ❤️

Latest update: Called the hospital on Sunday, 3/7. Daddy is still in ICU. His most recent covid test came back negative. One more test is required to confirm. He remains sedated and on a ventilator. An attempt to wean him off the ventilator and wake him up was unsuccessful. I’ll keep you posted if anything changes.
 
I’ve heard from so many members expressing a concern for daddy and thanking me for helping out. Your kind & thoughtful words are most appreciated. Please keep daddy in your thoughts and prayers.
 
Cooper

I went to my one of my nephews college wrestling match many years ago. I eyed one of his teammates who didn’t even seem to try to hide his massive penis under his singlet. I mean...nothing left to the imagination. After the match I went up to my nephew who was talking to Mr big penis. He introduced me and with way too much luck on my side, the coached pulled my nephew away to chat about something so I was left alone with the teammate. We chatted and there was definite flirting back and forth. He asked to hang out in the future and I knew what he was alluding but said he had to run back to the locker room. I looked down and he was obviously was getting erect from our convo. I told him I would get his number from my nephew discretely so he could quickly leave to go hide his erection. After the match my nephew and I went out to eat and I made up some excuse to look at his cell phone to check out an app or something. I went into his contacts to get the teammates number playing this whole thing very cool. I texted the teammate that night and he came over to my place and we had two hours of sweaty amazing sex with his massive cock. It turned into a somewhat regular meet until he transferred to an out of state college. I asked him how he feels about his cock showing so visibly through his singlet. He told me at first he tried to do everything but even flaccid and constricted with tight underwear or compression shorts he was just too big and thick to really hide it convincingly so he gave up trying. He said he knows people look at his crotch at matches but just ignores it. Good times though.

Hey, @Lucky, Gung Hay Fat Choi!
(Since no one else wished me a happy new year!)

As a client I make clear when booking that I’d like us both to be nude and leave it up to the provider to choose when he disrobes. The guys in my regular rotation range from shorts and tee that slowly come off during the massage to answering the door in a towel fresh from the shower. All are good since variety is the spice of life

I enjoyed Gordon Merrick's novels; I read a fair amount of "An Idol For Others" in the department store's small book section, while my mother and sisters shopped for clothes. I think "The Great Urge Downward" was the one I liked most.

Posting this because I got 3 private messages this week.
 
ALL asked for my opinion and NONE provided a link
 
So if you are posting a public or private msg, please include a link.
 
Thanks

I do that too. My penis thinks it’s still 25. My anus still thinks it’s 18!

I didn't think of it as stalking to check a member's profile to find out more about them if I enjoyed their posts,
and suggested meeting with a couple of them on neutral turf just for a platonic get-to-know-you-better.
 
I think it would be an invasion of their privacy for me to name names without permission, but if they recognize themselves, I would be honored by their acknowledging it [and grant my blanket permission!]
 
Friend of Sheila suggested group coffee low key events in San Francisco that I would have attended had I not had conflicting musical obligations ...

I hope you all have a lovely evening and great 2021! I have a fun evening planned here at my house

Let’s not forget to send Daddy a card with a little gift inside. He maintains this sandbox for us and we should all think of him this time of year???

COVID gave me the incentive to quit my job in September. Also sold my house near Boston and moved to Portland OR. Almost sorry to have missed this week's snow storm. Totally enjoying being in a new part of the country.....and I just don't miss working

We all know 2020 sucked but what’s the best thing you were able to get accomplished or the best thing that has happened to you?
 
I’ll go first, I have been photographing people for a few years. I always had to work out of my home. Two days ago I closed on my first commercial lease. I now have a Modern Portrait Studio in Greenpoint.
 
Covid destroyed my businesses and my savings; But when life gives you lemons I choose to make lemonade. Covid also taught me how to be a better friend and have a life.

for me it's the resentment--those of us of a certain age are aware we have only so many good years left, and to have one, or maybe two, taken away from us is distressing; but then, this is where the discussion of resilience comes in.

I can understand and relate to what you say @Oliver.
 
I too am healthy and I’m considered fit, but my next ‘big‘ birthday will be 70. I travel overseas regularly in normal times, and so I resent not being able to travel. I won’t be able to avoid the Winter by visiting the Southern Hemisphere as usual, and so I’m not looking forward to that restriction.
 
I’m also conscious that there are older posters here. I bet they too have places they wish to visit, and things they’d like to do, while they still can.

I’m pretty sure I found it through Daddy’s. I don’t remember exactly.

Mid morning around 11- 11:30 or so is my preferred time.

Mid morning around 11- 11:30 or so is my preferred time.

Get a hair cut.

Very true and sad about HIV and the right wing agenda. COVID-19 has brought about a lot of anti Asian and anti Asian American racism. True is wasn't until "innocent" people or famous people were affected and died from HIV that we go more awareness.

Hey guys, I know it is all in good fun, and good for a laugh. But making fun or ridiculing a masseur's appearance, whatever it is .....body type, fat/skinny, unattractive, ugly, etc. is not cool. I know mocking comments are made as a joke....but let's not have our laughs at their expense. I have seen this alot in posts, and find it sad. As gay men most of us were mocked growing up, so we know what it's like. Let's not bring that into the Forum. Aaron is a good looking guy, and looks like a sweet kid. Would hate for him to see this post body shaming him for how skinny he is. It would be great if we could stop trying to get laughs by insulting a masseur's appearance.

Thank you to all of you showing empathy and humanity during this crisis. Definitely it is not time for judging and blacklisting anyone. Special thanks to @purplekow , who is not only fighting the novo-coronavirus in the trenches, but also coming here to show human empathy for everyone, and to confront the sex negativity of targeting only sex workers, when the people not following the guidelines for physical distancing are actually from all professional fields, and are doing it for many reasons besides fucking, like the good souls referenced before by [uSER=3916]@xafnndapp[/uSER] .
 
But talking about sex, this weekend closes my 4th week without hooking up. I am a slut and I am horny, and I may be weak and break my abstinence, but I am doing my best and so far successfully avoiding temptations. Shout out to me and to everyone who is working hard on doing the socially responsible thing.
 
If you are not following the isolation guidelines, I ask you please to reconsider whether you are a sex worker or not. If you are following the guidelines, and pointing and judging and labeling others because of their reaction to this specific crisis, I encourage you to review your attitude and your mindset.