hypothetically

Bingo.

Bingo.

Sad day. Such an icon.

Sad day. Such an icon.

PLOT TWIST: Clients do the same.

I’m an escort who gets checked like clockwork, I assure you, I don’t need the education. lol. I just think it’s interesting how comments are made, similar to that of @studchaser insinuating having unprotected sex with a sex worker is “Looney Toons” (I assume he means high risk). Having sex with ANYONE is high risk. If anything, the sex workers, at least in the cities I work in are the ones prioritizing their health, getting tested regularly, are aware of their statuses, etc. Cities are even adapting programs specifically for escorts to ensure they are squared away in these areas.
 
It is the irresponsible client who is not taking responsibility for his own health. An escort takes more risk sleeping with a client who is not tested regularly than a client does sleeping with an escort who is. I detest that this always fall on the escort. When the situation is usually a client asking us “are you on PrEP,” not because he is also, but because he wants safety in verbalization, only. It is irresponsible, as are statements placing the blame on us, while refusing to take accountability for one’s own high risk decisions. And it happens all the time.
 
“But I have a wife.” (Women carry STI’s also, and what it your wife is doing what you’re doing?)
“My other provider was tested recently.” (But were you?)
“Had sex recently but we didn’t finish.”
“I don’t do this often, we’re good.”
“Are you clean?” (Clean should never be used in a sexual context, it insinuates that persons living with HIV are dirty)
Etc., etc.
 
The most blatant ignorance I face on a day-to-day basis comes from the mouth of clients, not other escorts.

Amazes me that porn blogs like to gossip about porn actors’ shortcomings, stints with the law and untimely deaths yet there’s still no dialogue happening about gay men’s mental health.

Ask a good mate you trust and smack a good one on them, they’ll tell you. If someone has never told you you’re a phenomenal kisser, you probably are not.
 
Truthfully, I loveee a transparent and honest client. Clients are so afraid to say I’m not good at x, y, z to an escort. You’re not getting paid to be good at anything you do, we are. I would much rather a client say, “how’s my kissing?” Or “how was that?” Or “I’m not sure I’m the best kisser” and I aid you in your “technique” rather than aggressively having my face eaten and being turned off. Really. Speak up.

I had it listed in my profile, admittedly, rather frivolously..and boy, did I get my ass beat in Berlin one time.
 
Never. Again.

Fact. Imagine the animosity between black escorts dealing with internalized racism, it’s a blood bath.
 

 
Counterintuitive validation from someone who is very likely not viewing him as an equal, but ironically, as a prize also.

Now infamously dubbed as #TheMethGala

I wholeheartedly understand where one’s frustrations and skepticism stem from when making such a request to an escort and I don’t think the request is an unreasonable one but consider how many times we are contacted per day by providers who have no intention of booking and simply want to engage and then ghost. This makes up more than half of people who contact us.
 
I decline this request, not because I am a fraud (there are gentlemen on the forum who have met me and I would happily slide anyone the reference) but when I have 30 or so photos and 3 videos readily available for a client to review and they text me “pic?”’ or “send me a five finger whatever,” the answer is “absolutely not.” It’s not my responsibility to reassure someone of my credibility. It’s the client’s responsibility to be resourceful. And I mean this with all due respect, trust me. We have no way of confirming you are not an axe murderer or that you will be at the provided address, so why should we go out of our way?
 
And your argument can’t be “because there are a lot of fake ads.” My counter argument is “well, there are a lot of fake clients.” And here we are.
 
Edit: I’d like to reassert that I mean no harm, I think a healthy debate/conversation between client and provider are important..for perspective, if anything at all.

Instagram “models” and “fitness professionals” are going to be more inclined to get you to subscribe to their OnlyFans or have you fork up cash for “customized content” rather than meet you for a session. Instagram really isn’t the platform for that, nor is it welcomed, usually. These influencers with huge followings rack up a cute coin doing the bare minimum, alone, at home. One can’t be bothered with a one-on-one unless they really need it.

Instagram “models” and “fitness professionals” are going to be more inclined to get you to subscribe to their OnlyFans or have you fork up cash for “customized content” rather than meet you for a session. Instagram really isn’t the platform for that, nor is it welcomed, usually. These influencers with huge followings rack up a cute coin doing the bare minimum, alone, at home. One can’t be bothered with a one-on-one unless they really need it.

Yes Olivia Pope. Yes.

Both. Do both.

I mean considering 8 is usually a hard 7 since the boys like to round up. I guess?

Instagram “models” and “fitness professionals” are going to be more inclined to get you to subscribe to their OnlyFans or have you fork up cash for “customized content” rather than meet you for a session. Instagram really isn’t the platform for that, nor is it welcomed, usually. These influencers with huge followings rack up a cute coin doing the bare minimum, alone, at home. One can’t be bothered with a one-on-one unless they really need it.

You’re doing a lot. who is outraged?
I harmlessly mentioned a parasite with its lovely mugshot as a huge number of gay men are unaware of the risk or have never even heard of the parasite, yet it is becoming increasingly common in NYC. There’s no harm in a mention. Why anyone would get butthurt (no pun intended) about a casual promotion of gays men’s health is beyond me lol. I didn’t tell anyone not to eat ass or that they were going to die. Wash your ass and ensure your provider is doing so also and you have nothing to worry about. Simple.

UFFFFFF.

To my bedroom, where this is a laptop and bottle of Swiss Navy.

“sure.”

That is untrue. Are you a felon? Illegal?

About as safe as using a hose long term to douche pre-anal.

Antibiotic-resistant strains of “super Gonorrhea” and syph. Unless you want “cute” accessories to go along with HIV.