hypothetically

Someone identified my apartment in a video I sold to a client as “custom content.” It is an incredibly small world and I was incredibly pissed.

There is no such thing as “behind a wall” or “protected” content once you have given others access to it. It is unethical unless you have permission. Please don’t.

HGH or testosterone is only indicated if there's a deficiency and symptoms. Otherwise it's risky.

Gay men don’t care, they want to be desirable. And gay docs are giving away prescriptions like free ice cream. It’s so not hard to get. Cosmetic dermatology isn’t covered by insurance. Self-pay.

All sexual activities have risk

 

 

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Yuck!!!! This is disgusting.....

 

However, I find it funny how people have such outrage from this infection from licking butts (which is curable and has minimal fatalities, if any)

But let someone mention the risks of barebacking, and the “sex positive” police comes out, and shames everyone for even mentioning “safe sex”

You’re doing a lot. who is outraged?

I harmlessly mentioned a parasite with its lovely mugshot as a huge number of gay men are unaware of the risk or have never even heard of the parasite, yet it is becoming increasingly common in NYC. There’s no harm in a mention. Why anyone would get butthurt (no pun intended) about a casual promotion of gays men’s health is beyond me lol. I didn’t tell anyone not to eat ass or that they were going to die. Wash your ass and ensure your provider is doing so also and you have nothing to worry about. Simple.

I wouldn't say NEVER, but it really is quite rare for a healthy man in the ages of 20 to 40 to go to the doctor.

Oh? Us 30-40 somethings are at the doctor like clockwork, albeit for aesthetic reasons, but with the rising popularity of cosmetic dermatology, teeth whitening, or older gay men who are seeking human growth hormone or testosterone therapy, I feel like gay men are ALWAYS at the doctor lol. That’s not even factoring in being tested every 3 months (or more) for those who escort.

AKA “Beaver Fever”

Loooool.

I assume we are all adults here and we are aware of the risks involved in the activities we decide to perform.

Most gay men (especially in their 30s) don’t even know what giardia is until they contract it, as it’s not something doctors or the CDC typically warn you about nor or you taught in sex ed. So while that’s excellent you are aware of the risks, an introduction for those who do not. Disregard.

Have none of you heard of giardia? Cute lil bugger, isn’t it?

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Am I wrong to say that it's common to pay an escort up front but not a masseur?

No, per my initial reply.

Not a good sign

Doesn’t matter now, he’s been inactive for over a year.

No matter what you’re feeling......They’re not interested.

 

Trust me.

Clairvoyant?

Kamagra chewables (active ingredient Sildenafil)

Kamagra oral gel (yogurt consistency and disgusting, no matter the flavor, but I get hard as a rock)

Sildenafil breath strips

Trimex (if you don’t spook easily)

All great, for me, but I realize dick pills and erections are also a mental game. And that’s usually the issue for most men, not the pills themselves.

I want my dermatologist in NYC so bad, and he knows it. He flirts back, as straight men who are secure in their masculinity do, not because it’s mutual (eyeroll).

My dermatologist in Paris could get it too, lol. I just stare at his mouth when he’s talking. His french accent sounds like a purr. Lol.

Instagram “models” and “fitness professionals” are going to be more inclined to get you to subscribe to their OnlyFans or have you fork up cash for “customized content” rather than meet you for a session. Instagram really isn’t the platform for that, nor is it welcomed, usually. These influencers with huge followings rack up a cute coin doing the bare minimum, alone, at home. One can’t be bothered with a one-on-one unless they really need it.

I can’t speak to anyone else’s experience but my own, but clients offering me the money upfront is a common occurrence. I politely say “it can wait,” but I would imagine if this is happening with other providers, who have rotten business practices, it is then anticipated, and eventually evolves into a demand.

I thought he was making a more serious point than that: looking like a bodybuilder and being shredded trumps any sense of realism (e.g., swimmer's body vs. Crossfit body) and has also reached an outer limit. Where do they go from there?

 

But yes, E. Alex Jung is notoriously a smartass, as a look at his Twitter will disclose.

Coming from a certified PT and someone who has lived in several very superficial cities, I wouldn’t consider any of the aforementioned actors in those specified roles to be “bodybuilders” or “shredded,” but rather “fit.” In a city like New York or Los Angeles, that aesthetic is the bare minimum for a gay or straight man that would like to have a sex or social life. No one in New York would flinch at the sight of Zac Efron’s body if it wasn’t on Zac Efron. It’s hard to read the author’s tone and the takeaway. Sounds resentful.

But I will say, it does feed one’s body dysmorphia and is maybe an aggressive visual for someone who isn’t submerged in gym culture.

I applaud anyone hiring porn actors selling their “services” as I imagine recreating bad porn is an immense task. Couldn’t be me. Enjoy, luv.

I think it's more he's highly popular and acts in preference to more lucrative appointments, leaving more ordinary customers in the lurch. That being said, he's always been prompt and frank in answering my emails trying to set up an hour appointment, but our schedules have never been able to match up.

I think this is important for clients to remember when it comes to higher profile escorts, it’s not personal. Niche escorts, niche clients.

Clients,

 

Sorry newbie question/comment here. And apologies in advance if there is already a thread or multiple ones on this.

 

We all want to be safe and be discreet. When scheduling clients from RM I try and get a sense of whether they are serious and will show up. If anyone has magic sauce on that please let me know. IMO it doesn't take lots of interaction to confirm an appt if you're serious about it.

 

I try and ask for phone number to text/call. New RM client profiles unwilling to provide any sort of contact information or no reviews of prior escorts also stand out to me. I just had a guy that wanted to book for multiple hours having never met me but not willing to provide any information or other escorts they have seen on how they can be reached is a red flag to me. When I emailed him on RM to call or text him whenever possible he just responded "Forget it". Maybe I lost out but I tend to think he was wasting my time and I would have just had a huge gap on my schedule that day. New client profiles with no reviews of prior escorts also stands out to me. Why hold all that time when I know they are just a fake.

 

Escorts, what makes you most comfortable to confirm time on your calendar for a date? I think we need more of us willing to help each other out and provide references if a client is safe to see. I know the girls do it often.

 

Clients, what do you need to lock it in on your end as I know there are frustrations with fakes and communication on our end too.

 

Thanks gents. Hope to see you soon. JC

Hooker intuition, it’ll come with time.

I have tried, in the past, to identify behaviors that I thought were not conducive to a legitimate booking but it’s pointless. I have had “the new profile” provide me with some of my highest transactions to date and I have had “the loyal reviewer” flake and inconvenience me innumerable times. This business has little trajectory and lacks consistency, but you learn to identity what works best for your individual business. You learn to take every transaction that did not come into fruition with stride. I listen to how my escort colleagues run their business and I find their practices to be so, well, impractical, but it works for them.

I was shocked that my favorite escort told me that he loved me during an overnighter. I have always maintained a professional relationship even though I have expressed my love for this guy in the past. Although it will not impact on our professional relationship, does the group feel this was a marketing tool?

Shitty marketing, but shitty marketing always grabs your attention, doesn’t it?

Ive noticed young men using it more frequently as a way to verbalize their appreciation. Context/tone are important. I would pray that’s not the best he can do, per marketing tool, and he just wanted to tell you how much he appreciates you. I wouldn’t start shopping tuxedos just yet.

I get random calls/texts at all times. Some people handle it differently but for me I would prefer saving my energy and time for clients.

Fascinating.

Im a little shy so I prefer 1 on 1 meet ups . I don't have random free sex on my off time... its been about 3 years now so if any 3somes or sex in general occurs its with a client . But even then 3somes rarely happen. But I have showed up to a clients place and a escort was already there and another time another escort showed up afterwards while me and the client were already together...I didnt know either time another person was gonna be there or show up and both times I did stay. I would prefer being told ahead of time so I have the option to decide versus being surprised.

“Free sex” is healthy.

I wonder then, would you or others assume or know possibly other guys coming too when it's door open and room number sent?....it was not explicitly stated as an anon/group scene....but with my experiences I knew there could be others there....am I just over assuming what is obvious to me to be to others as well?

Depends on how it was communicated to you. There are few rules/intricacies when someone is looking for a real anon scene, and those that gravitate towards that scene aren’t asking a ton of questions, obviously, hence the allure of said scene. Unless someone has specified it’s going to just be you and to “close the door behind you,” you should anticipate an “anything goes” scenario.

If there is others there already would you stay and join or leave.

Just curious.

If you were invited to an authentic anon scene, then you know going into it that another body (or bodies) in the room is a high probability. I’d stay.

“Casual enjoyment.”

“Mutual pleasure.”

....lol.