hypothetically

Just an update. Some of you may remember that in the start of the year, I was about to hire someone while I was down in LA. I asked him to wash off any deodorant or antiperspirants, at which time he told me it would be extra if I wanted to lick his pits, so I told him to forget about the session. Well, the guy send me both a lovey-dovey text on Valentine's Day and another text on Presidents' Day. I'm guessing this guy does too much PNP or something....

...I don’t see how the two correlate (an escort trying to hustle you + following up and “pnp”), but if it helps you sleep better at night.

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i really do, by text, just before to meet

Be stern, you are dealing with hustlers, after all. I’m sure that’s difficult as the providers are older/bigger than you but set boundaries. It’s okay to say “this isn’t working out,” or “that’s not what was discussed.”

I’m young, almost 26, but I’m used to meet a lot of escorts, only bodybuilders/very muscled latino in general, though. I meet around 2 escorts per month. Sometimes, for muscleworship only and sometimes for sex, I’m bottom.

And each time, I met two kinds of escorts :

 

- Escorts who don’t care about me, who are hurry and think only on money. Once I meet them, they ask me to pay money first before doing anything. Then they are hurry, lay down on the bed and do nothing, or almost nothing. Some of them, just masturbate me very quickly until I cum, then it’s finished. So here, I pay the hour rate for only 10 or 15 minutes. Generally those escorts are brazilians, but not always. Even if they are very sexy and hot haha!

 

- The second kind of escorts I met are those who force me to fuck me, while I asked them for only muscle worship, for example. Or, when I want to be fucked, those who fuck me like they are fucking the Lincoln Tunnel, very hard, and don’t care if they hurt me, even if I ask them to stop.

For those escorts, all of them said to me, as soon as we met, that I have very beautiful ass...

Probably because I have an arched lay back and I’m only 1m70, 52kg...!

 

I probably met like only 2 escorts who were honest and exactly did what I wanted.

Be clear in your expectations when hiring and these things will happen less frequently.

There are quite a few in NYC, no?

There are quite a few in NYC, no?

I prefer text as I’m usually on the go and unable to chat discreetly or in a quiet enough setting. It doesn’t have to be “back n forth” if the individual seeking a provider is clear and thorough in his wants.

I prefer text as I’m usually on the go and unable to chat discreetly or in a quiet enough setting. It doesn’t have to be “back n forth” if the individual seeking a provider is clear and thorough in his wants.

I have to be honest, when I look for an escort I much rather see 10 five star reviews and a couple of negatives than all thirty reviews with 5 stars

Shows the escort is areal human and not a Fucking giving pleasure robot

I totally hate to judge on reviews alone

We all have encountered that certain person that as much as we try we just don’t click

What do you guys think???

All reviews should be taken with a grain of salt and shouldn’t heavily influence your decision to hire. Thankfully this forum exist and verified members can vouch for escorts in question.

I have to be honest, when I look for an escort I much rather see 10 five star reviews and a couple of negatives than all thirty reviews with 5 stars

Shows the escort is areal human and not a Fucking giving pleasure robot

I totally hate to judge on reviews alone

We all have encountered that certain person that as much as we try we just don’t click

What do you guys think???

All reviews should be taken with a grain of salt and shouldn’t heavily influence your decision to hire. Thankfully this forum exist and verified members can vouch for escorts in question.

That would be much easier if both were in the business, but when someone you’re trying to build a relationship with is in the business and you’re not, it’s a tough pill to swallow (no pun intended) when he’s entertaining clients and you’re left alone. Logic and emotions are often mutually exclusive.

I agree. I've tried. It's very difficult.

What makes such a relationship difficult?

Escorting long term doesn’t exactly benefit one’s mental health. It skewers one’s perspective of what sex, money, love and interpersonal relationships mean. I think the fact that my partner having sex with other men for work is the least of my worries, as most escorts do a phenomenal job of disassociating and keeping personal and work completely separate. The mental anguish and wear and tear of working in such an industry, however, is a bit more difficult to overcome for two individuals trying to build something together.

In the gay porn industry it's common for pornstars to date each other, especially at Helix. How common is this in the escort community?

Quite common, although I feel these relationships are a ticking time bomb. Its great to have someone who understands your experience in contrast to dating someone who does not understand the intricacies of escorting, which is a slippery slope from the beginning. However, I do feel escorts come with a lot of internal conflict that they need to work out before trying to date another human being. Speaking personally, and from colleagues I know who date within the community, the relationships are never prosperous nor lengthy as this kind of work doesn’t warrant a relationship to ever have a healthy foundation.

I was traveling in south Asia recently and hired a few masseurs. I noticed that many of them had dark brown/black marks on the chest and body including the groin area. They are easy to miss in the dim light but were very clear in normal light.

 

My google research indicates scabies, since fungal or bacterial infections have different characteristics. Does anyone in the forum know exactly what type of skin issue is related to this and how is it treated and prevented ? Is there a way to tell if the infection is contagious or simply a scar from prior occurrence ?

 

Thanks.

That’s a very worst case scenario conclusion to jump to. It is likely hyperpigmentation, prevalent in Asian and African American skin types. Especially if shaving has occurred in that area.

Like god forbid someone actually enjoys you in 2020. ...count your blessings.

Last night annoying AF. Provider (who I met one time before) was VERY eager and was a little too into me (not to sound vain). It was hot until he (bottom) climaxed all over me then we had to take a break for 20mins until he was ready again. Then I was finally "finished" and he hung out for an extra 20 mins and would not leave. I think he enjoyed it more than me he was just toooo much. What should I have done? He was VERY selfish.

You realize you are voicing a “complaint” that the majority of the forum would LOVE to encounter, right?

I feel no more unsafe on the subway/metro than I do above ground. And that applies to both the U.S. and abroad. Something could happen at any time and I think it’s important one is always aware of their surroundings.

Deposits aren’t uncommon and the client is usually the initiator. I think asking someone for a deposit for a brief meeting is ambitious, or a scam. The only time deposits should be discussed is when things like a booking for a weekend away are being negotiated between a client and a provider.

Goodbody has other priorities in his life which makes him an undependable escort. Good thing there are loads of unbelievably hot escorts in NYC for us all to enjoy.

Black? Muscluar? Handsome? Intelligent? Hung?

......name them and I'll gladly go see an optometrist.

There are very few within this niche market, hence why the same names keep popping up in the "press" regardless of how "undependable" they are.

You could always just, idk, ask him.

Do escorts work NYE?

Of course they do.

I am not sure those countries would be safe based on how conservative they are

Define “safe.” It’s not the Middle East we’re talking about here.

Of course, Rentmen simply sent me a note saying my payment was rejected, not saying something useful like PayPal has blocked them. Typical of their customer service.

Of course. I was on the phone for an hour and went a little something like:

Rentmen: your bank blocked it

PayPal: your merchant blocked it

Rentmen: no, your blank blocked it

PayPal: no, your merchant blocked it

..until PayPal decided they didn’t want to read a script anymore.

For any users who use PayPal MasterCard or PayPal Cash Card as a discreet way to control payments between you and RM Media, good for you to know that the company has blocked RentMen as a merchant for “fraudulent activity.”

Those were opinions (which you are entitled to), but opinions.... Shady AF opinions, nonetheless... ?

 

it’s all good though Regina.... ?

His age is in his profile. lol.

From what I read about him. He is very self-centered and not charitable and does not “give back” to society. Yes, it was my value judgment based on that he does not “give back”. I could put up with his poor taste (my opinion) but not with his lack of altruism toward society.

 

Not reading Vogue, I can only imagine the types of people to whom you refer and I do put them in the same category of “tacky” with the over-the-top lifestyles promoted in similar magazines (Departures, Sunday NY Times magazine, etc).

 

To point out the materialism on display by JS (and the over-the-top lifestyle magazines) is not fundamentally uncivil. Like Trump’s Fifth Avenue condo done in Louis XIV on steroids, the JS house is a sign of the rot in our society of self-centered people.

 

Full disclosure: I can forgive the over-the-top homes IF the owner has a charitable side and “gives back.” An example is Joan Rivers whose condo, like Trump, was done in Louis XIV and gold gilt was everywhere; however, she was always charitable and helped others.

You spend money on escorts. Some consider that excessive. Are you charitable? Do you help others?

..Will we ever know? Should we care?

No. You can apply this sentiment to your feelings about JS.