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On 1/23/2022 at 8:50 PM, Rick M said:

So far my maximum tolerance for being with a stranger, even a sexy one, is 1.5 to 2 hours. Beyond that I wonder: what is there to do? I'm shy to begin with, and I don't lead conversations well. (Keep asking me questions, and I may turn voluble.) The idea of sleeping overnight raises concerns... What if I toss and snore? I ask both providers and clients: how do you keep yourselves entertained for 6 to 8 hours?

Sleep.

On 1/23/2022 at 6:20 PM, Floridasexman said:

I have a general question about providers who are approaching the end of their career. Say an escort lives in a large city and lives the high life and perhaps he thinks he deserves to live this kind of life style. But say he is in his middle 30s now and the bloom is off the rose. It is a distinct possibility he has made no provisions for any sort of retirement due to life style choices.  What becomes of him when his client list dry up? Does he just fade into the sunset?

“High life” is relative and individual. Even individuals who are doing exceptionally well in a city like New York are not living the “high life.” But those who are struggling may say they are. Perspective. 

Many don’t peak until their 30’s (per your bloom comment). 

Someone not making provisions for any sort of retirement due to lifestyle choices is not exclusive to escorts, especially in this economy. 

..and “end of career” is such a spectrum of ages and many a factor go into someone retiring from the business - age is not at the top of the list, I assure you. 
 

1 hour ago, Cliff said:

A week ago we arranged a meeting, discussed details, confirmed twice in the ensuing days, and then he bailed on me shortly before our meeting, leaving me to scramble for a suitable replacement. Not going to hire him again. 

..and that’s fine. I think clients oftentimes forget the pandemic is ongoing, and while the severity of the situation is a stark contrast from what it was, I take my health and the health and well-being of my clients very seriously. I was very transparent per “the why” (congregating around the holidays, wasn’t feeling my best), to which I got an “oh man,” not a “feel better.” I could have allowed you to hire me and underperformed had you preferred? 
 

If I had to choose, I much prefer one not attempt to hire me again because they were mildly inconvenienced and not because I underperformed while ill. Choices. In any event, I hope you found a suitable replacement. x

I know what I posted and I know what I read. There’s more than enough examples out there about Canadian entry for me to not have to do extra work to explain.

 

DUI is not the only example. There’s plenty other reasons out there. And you even said it yourself:

 

 

 

So apparently you’re speaking of a PAST event. It doesn’t sound like you’ve been there lately. And then you say you haven’t had so much luck in other areas of Canada.

 

With both of those said, you can’t deny the fact that NO AMERICAN PERIOD is going to be prancing over to Canada without essential reasons anyway, at this point in time:

 

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cbc.ca/amp/1.5565959

 

It would be foolishly optimistic to think that not having a DUI or other conviction is a free pass into Canada. If you found yourself having previously gotten into Canada easy, it could be because you’re a New York resident (u like to pry into other people’s business, but you certainly don’t share much about yours...so I’m going to assume). New York and Canada may be accustomed to cross-border travel moreso than from other states.

 

And please, I’m just trying to have a conversation. No offense meant or taken You don’t have to bring up old, past stuff, when I’m just trying to be cordial.

I’m not reading this and I already know my point still stands based on your posting history. But “thank you” for your time.

? I already see I’m going to have to talk to you INDIRECTLY. I can’t quote anything you say because you go out of your way on being rude and disrespectful, just like the other one you was beefing with. Y’all should get along fine. Otherwise, don’t make assumptions. I’m very much a citizen and I don’t have anything felonious on my record, so don’t question my background ✋?

 

But...since you defer, here you go. Do your research. It’s true if more than 2 people are saying it.

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/australian-couple-denied-entry-into-canada-because-of-dwi-fine-in-australia.116760/

@Mocha , you said Americans have a difficult time getting into Canada and the link you provided is about an AUSTRALIAN couple not being able to get into Canada. Pay attention. Two “examples”? Hardly “evidence” babe lol.

And for the examples that followed. Idk, maybe don’t get a DUI?? Residual consequences of poor behavior.

There is no like. Why would I like it? We obviously disagree so why should you love it? To me the explanation would be the exact same or better coming from doctors writings because doctors always have to explain the entire procedure, all possible repercussions, and all other alternatives to their patients before surgery as well as care after surgery. Plus doctors are the ones trying to developing new techniques to make for a more realistic experience like determining if uterine transplant surgeries is a viable option. The only difference is it may just be easier to understand coming from the horses mouth. A more apt question to ask a trans-person would be: what does it feel like to be trans pre- and postoperative or why did they elect to do or not do the surgery?

“sure.”

I just read an article from the Journal of Virology from October 2011 concerning the development of a Coronavirus vaccine,. Yes 2011. In that article, it predicts the need for a vaccine and speaks to the difficulties in producing a vaccine. Much of the article is above my pay grade and might be beyond yours too. The main aspect of producing a coronavirus vaccine of which I was unaware, is antibody dependent enhancement (ADE). While some antibodies prevent the movement into the cells of the coVid virus through the main gateway, there are some coronaviruses that actually attach to the antibodies produced as a result of the vaccine and the antibody=virus complex finds a side door into the cells that the virus by itself cannot use. So that giving the vaccine actually allows the antibodies formed to facilitate further destruction by the virus. This is not true of all coronaviruses but it presents another hurdle to the manufacturing of a vaccine. Testing will need to be done not only to prove that a vaccine is beneficial,, but that it has to test that is not detrimental.

The fact that there has been work on a vaccine since 2011 is a double edged sword. Among the negatives are that they have not found one yet so 10 years of research has not done what we are being told will be accomplished in the next few months to a year and one half. The good news is that there has been a lot of ground work done and pitfalls have been recognized.

The take home message from this: a vaccine is not a new idea, it has not been developed over a decade of work, it might make things worse in some cases, but at least we are not starting from ground zero.

can you share the article?

But it’s still somewhat hard for Americans to get into Canada.

That is untrue. Are you a felon? Illegal?

Not really it is just a basic biological/ medical question that anyone can really find the answer to online in any medical journal or healthcare website.

..I’m sure a post-op trans woman could tell him better than WebMD, but if you like it, I “love” it.

People still go to that?

If used for deep throat and anal sex over a long period of time, isn't it equivalent to ingesting it or send it right into the blood stream through the intestines' mucous lining?

 

About as safe as using a hose long term to douche pre-anal.

The longer I'm locked up the more inclined I am to sign up for one or even some Only Fan sites. Is there a way to preview them before committing? I have seen lots of Rhyheim Shabbaz on other sites and would take a chance on his. Am I unaware of means of sampling? Thanks

OnlyFans is a scam in my humble opinion. The general consensus is disappoint because of the bait and switch. The content is usually not much better than the teasers advertised. Most of the shit leaks and can be found on Twitter if you’re resourceful.

Out of curiosity only: if a guy with a penis gets transformed into a person with a vagina, will this person have sexual pleasure when she has receptive vagina sex with a dude having a penis? I am trying to make this clear as gender and sex can be pretty fuzzy nowadays. I am just trying to understand if a man-made vagina gives the woman sexual pleasure.

...this is a question for a trans woman, not a forum full of cis men who have watched Pose on FX and an episode of Ricky Lake.

Outside of NYC and Los Angeles. Which city have you had the most success in getting clients and repeat customers?

Kind of relative considering certain aesthetics have more weight in some cities than others. Nonetheless, to answer your question, I always did exceptionally (and surprisingly) well in Toronto, so much so that it was a staple in my travels for awhile. Others, not so much luck there. Internationally, Paris.

I've enjoyed reading your posts. I hope the step-back doesn't keep you from continuing to grace us with your forum presence. Best wishes for whatever course you take.

I appreciate that. I’ll be here

I'm not sure he is currently available?

 

@hypothetically

 

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Thank you @dcman and @oldNbusted. I took a step back from the business (indefinitely) end of last year, with little to no intent to resume hiring.

Argentine porn star Ian Frost was skewered online when semi-nude images of himself and his friends apparently at a New York City house party Friday night surfaced on social media. This was after he’d pontificated piously about life in lockdown.

 

Frost was forced to apologize Saturday.

 

Frost’s faux pas was pounced on because he said he was isolating at home, cooking healthy food and using video conferencing to get a “reprieve” from the rigors of quarantine in a recent interview.

 

“This situation that we are living is showing a completely new face of everyone, including myself,” he told DNA magazine. ” I love anthropology and physiology and I personally think that’s a great opportunity for introspection.”

 

Frost apparently needed a reprieve from all that introspection but now regrets it.

 

“I’ve learned some hard lessons the last few days and I appreciate those of you who have held me accountable during a rough time for all,” Frost wrote on Twitter. “I love attending parties with my friends, but my timing and my decision-making couldn’t have been worse.”

 

 

 

Now infamously dubbed as #TheMethGala

During this COVID-19 scare I've been really careful and abstaining from all sex. I don't know how much longer I can last. Today I was chatting with a guy on Grindr and he offered to service my cock. I thought about it and it seems to be relatively low risk. I would wear a mask and have limited contact other than his mouth and hands on my dick and balls. I'd walk in with him keeping a distance and I'd stand the entire time so not to touch anything in his apartment. I'd unzip and take my dick out. I'd watch him wash his hands then kneeling before me. He'd touch only my cock and balls with his hands and mouth. When I get home I'd immediately shower and wash the clothes I was wearing.

 

Sound safe enough or too risky?

Someone willing to risk their WHOLE life just to have their penis in someone’s mouth for 15 min (or vice versa) is easily the BIGGEST erection killer I can think of at the present time.....BY FAR. IMAGINE having to be put on a respirator because you just had to get your dick sucked. Whew, what a time to be alive. Worms for brain contingency in full effect.

Has anybody met with him ?

“Tim” lives in Barcelona, and seldom (if ever) in the states. This would be a question for the Euro scene portion of the forum.

This pitch caught my eye this morning. Service provider whose ad now leads with "fact" that he's had the virus, and is past it.

 

https://rentmen.eu/HotMedPro/#platinum

 

First thoughts:

1) Admire his entreprenurial spirit. Think he's identifying a new market, i.e. people who haven't had sex or otherwise been touched for weeks eager to hook up with someone who is allegedly safe/safer.

2) We'll see more of this, the shape of things to come.

3) Ad would be more effective if he posted when he had it.

..even if he is indeed being “honest,” and has a health declaration to back up his claim, an antibodies test (if that’s what he’s even insinuating) doesn’t guarantee immunity and he could potentially contract Covid again...if he “had” it.

Is the same

They are not, one I've met.

It's going on 2 months now and I'm beginning to look the way I did in the '70's (if you're a millenial, please inquire for elucidation ). My barber called before my last scheduled appointment to make sure I knew his salon was closed, and he mentioned I could reach him at the number he was calling from. Yesterday I the light bulb went off and I said to myself "maybe he is doing private appointments." So I called. Alas, he is not. Doing it myself is not an option; I know I'd make a mess of it. Ideas?

..it’ll grow back by the time things return to “normal.” Why not, who is going to see it? It’s Chewbacca or DIY at this point.

By the time the stay at home orders are lifted and gyms are reopened, most of the escorts and masseurs will not have seen a gym since they closed and will have been very limited in their working out, if they've done anything at all. If you're expecting them to match their pics, might need to wait a few weeks before that'll be the case, I would think. Anyone else thinking the same thing?

You thought wrong. If anything, we're hitting it harder than we were prior to lockdown. And shocking the body/workout variations do wonders for ones physique (if you know anything about fitness). If you think men who hit the gym like clockwork are going to stop working out because they're confined to the house, lucky you, that's not the case. HIIT workouts, resistance bands, kettle bells, etc are equally if not more effective than the gym. That's a client problem you're communicating; sounds like you're projecting. How's your current fitness regime?

Speaking personally, I'm not confident in the research done, or the lack thereof. There are way too many "tbd" and "there is not substantial enough evidence" comments being made. I'm not judging, but like....is it really that hard to suspend hiring indefinitely. I'm trying to understand and empathize, but am really just left scratching my head during these uncertain times. Jack off.

This pandemic is definitely not going to end soon. If you are not into doing OF, JFF or Camming, what are the lines of work that you will/would switch to?

Beggars can't be choosers, if they have nothing to fall back on.