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    Ajac got a reaction from AceHardware in Who Was Your First Celebrity Crush?   
    Jan Michael Vincent, but man did he fall hard.
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    Ajac got a reaction from down_to_business in Who Was Your First Celebrity Crush?   
    Jan Michael Vincent, but man did he fall hard.
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    Ajac got a reaction from MikeBiDude in Who Was Your First Celebrity Crush?   
    Jan Michael Vincent, but man did he fall hard.
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    Ajac got a reaction from + RJD in Who Was Your First Celebrity Crush?   
    Let me tell you that picture was depressing to a "little" kid.
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    Ajac got a reaction from RealAvalon in Who Was Your First Celebrity Crush?   
    Let me tell you that picture was depressing to a "little" kid.
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    Ajac reacted to + purplekow in Happy Birthday ...Mom   
    My mother died about 17 years ago but had she lived, my family would be celebrating her 100th birthday today. During my childhood and through my early teen years, my mother's birthday and the coincident Fourth of July would be a major family occasion, outstripped only by Christmas and possibly Thanksgiving, My mother and father bought a house in the suburbs of NYC, actually in NYC, just in suburban NYC and July Fourth was the day that the house was at its most utile. My father was a man of the times which means I never saw him, wash a dish, clear a table, do laundry, or cook. Except for the Fourth of July. Of course cooking was grilling, as grilling was the only way a man could cook in the fifties and early sixties. So on Independence Day, my immediate family and all of my mother's siblings and their children and assorted others would arrive en mass for barbecue, outdoor fun and family celebration. We had an overground pool, round and about 8 feet in diameter and 4 feet tall. We had an above sized average back yard, well above average for NYC. The house had been built with the back facing abandoned railroad tracks. Across the tracks, identical houses were build facing in the other direction. The tracks were about 10 feet below the grade on which the houses were built and there was about 10 yards of property between the back borders of the houses. There houses were build in a row of 54 houses and basically the "gully" between separated out the neighborhood. When the railroad decided to sell the property, they offered the land to the home owners. In reality, there would not have been another buyer for the land which was surrounded by back yards, with no entry and which was 1/2 mile long and 10 yards wide. So most of the home owners on both side bought half the property, eventually filled it in and extended the back yard. So, my house had the expansive by NYC standards back yard and a pool and about 50 relatives and friends each fourth of July. The youngsters would get in the pool. The adult men would stand around and drink beer and talk and smoke cigarettes and tell bad jokes and the adult women would gather in the kitchen and laugh and exchange the family news of the day.
    All the while my father would get the grill started and throw on some burgers franks, perhaps some Italian sausages and then ribs and corn. My mother of course, would have prepared other food and at least one pasta dish. Of course pasta was not called pasta back then, unless you were speaking Italian, Eventually, we would all stand outside and eat off of paper plates with the juice of the burgers sapping whatever small degree of integrity the dish had. And invariably, soon after most of us had finished eating, one of the men would splash one of the women with the water from the pool. There would be a screech and a retaliation. Soon, fifty people were running around with cups and pots full of pool water and the garden hose would be uncoiled as a major weapon. Again, like Old Faithful, one of the women or perhaps one of the smaller, younger men would be tossed in the pool. Others would follow either voluntarily or involuntarily until only one hold out was dry on the sidelines. Attempts would be made to cajole that person into surrendering voluntarily to the fate that was sure to befall them. There was the perfunctory refusal and then the mass attack of wet Italo Americans bearing down on the outlier and the eventual fall to the ground, the gathering of the limbs and torso and the triumphant splash. There was always laughter and howling and people out of breath. There were threats of revenge and covert alliances between relatives who under other circumstances barely spoke to one another. Every towel In the house would be used and as the sun headed down, most would get back into the house, shivering but mostly dry. Cake was served with coffee and then about eight hours after it began the family would begin to leave. This being an Italian family, everyone had to kiss everyone else. There was no hiding from the aunt who was a sloppy kisser, the uncle with the rough beard or the stray relative who liked garlic just a little too much.
    Many of the people who attended those parties are now celebrating wherever it is that those who pass from this realm party. Each of those of us who remain here probably have some special memories of these parties.
    In celebration of my mother's 100th birthday, I grilled some burgers in the back yard. I turned on the garden hose and sprayed myself. I have to say, that it was an accident that it happened but it did feel totally planned by someone somewhere not here. I enjoyed the sun. I took a dip in my bathtub. (I do not have a pool above ground or otherwise). If I had planned the celebration, /I would have bought a kiddie pool. I ran around the backyard with my dogs. All in all, I had a quarantine party that will be a memory. It will not be as sweet as those parties when I was young, but under the circumstances, I was glad I was able to get out and enjoy the day.
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    Ajac got a reaction from Monarchy79 in Words of Wisdom from Scott Baio   
    I would say Brown since he is so full of shit.
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    Ajac got a reaction from + Trebor in Stretch, flex, push, jump, stand still... repeat!   
    I told Trump that addition to the wall would only have more people wanting in.
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    Ajac got a reaction from marylander1940 in Stretch, flex, push, jump, stand still... repeat!   
    I told Trump that addition to the wall would only have more people wanting in.
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    Ajac got a reaction from AceHardware in Fat Gay Men Aren’t Welcomed (At Pride)   
    Yes I agree If I see a beautiful woman or man and they come off as arrogant or mean they are no longer attractive to me.
    My fetish is nice guys.
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    Ajac got a reaction from BonVivant in Fat Gay Men Aren’t Welcomed (At Pride)   
    Is there not a subset of gay men called Bears? Are they not celebrated in their own way? I find I am not attracted to me.
    I am hairy, I like smoother. I am bald I like a full head of hair. I am overweight I like fit. I on a couple occasions I have been to very fit masseurs who specifically preferred overweight men. I think everyone should be fat once in their lives to develop an empathy. I have been every body type. Got fat in third grade chubby through middle school. Then slim runners body in Highschool. Gained a belly in my 20's then became athletic in my 30's. I now am at a point where quarantining is sending me new scale readings that I never thought I was capable of. The perfect specimens dancing on a float in a speedo may not stay that way forever. If they are hateful and rude to someone they find inferior Karma can be a bitch. On the flip side you can't expect people to find you attractive if they are not attracted to you. Same goes for agism there are quite a few guys who have a Daddy fetish. Different strokes for different folks. Here is a retort if someone is rude about your weight. I can always lose weight but I doubt you will lose your bitchy attitude so fuck off.
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    Ajac got a reaction from AceHardware in Fat Gay Men Aren’t Welcomed (At Pride)   
    Is there not a subset of gay men called Bears? Are they not celebrated in their own way? I find I am not attracted to me.
    I am hairy, I like smoother. I am bald I like a full head of hair. I am overweight I like fit. I on a couple occasions I have been to very fit masseurs who specifically preferred overweight men. I think everyone should be fat once in their lives to develop an empathy. I have been every body type. Got fat in third grade chubby through middle school. Then slim runners body in Highschool. Gained a belly in my 20's then became athletic in my 30's. I now am at a point where quarantining is sending me new scale readings that I never thought I was capable of. The perfect specimens dancing on a float in a speedo may not stay that way forever. If they are hateful and rude to someone they find inferior Karma can be a bitch. On the flip side you can't expect people to find you attractive if they are not attracted to you. Same goes for agism there are quite a few guys who have a Daddy fetish. Different strokes for different folks. Here is a retort if someone is rude about your weight. I can always lose weight but I doubt you will lose your bitchy attitude so fuck off.
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    Ajac got a reaction from gallahadesquire in Fat Gay Men Aren’t Welcomed (At Pride)   
    Yes I agree If I see a beautiful woman or man and they come off as arrogant or mean they are no longer attractive to me.
    My fetish is nice guys.
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    Ajac got a reaction from mike carey in Green Onion Chex Breakfast Cereal: Korean   
    excuse my misspelling god knows how offensive that can be.
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    Ajac got a reaction from + Hoover42 in Fat Gay Men Aren’t Welcomed (At Pride)   
    Yes I agree If I see a beautiful woman or man and they come off as arrogant or mean they are no longer attractive to me.
    My fetish is nice guys.
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    Ajac got a reaction from Daverwr in Fat Gay Men Aren’t Welcomed (At Pride)   
    Is there not a subset of gay men called Bears? Are they not celebrated in their own way? I find I am not attracted to me.
    I am hairy, I like smoother. I am bald I like a full head of hair. I am overweight I like fit. I on a couple occasions I have been to very fit masseurs who specifically preferred overweight men. I think everyone should be fat once in their lives to develop an empathy. I have been every body type. Got fat in third grade chubby through middle school. Then slim runners body in Highschool. Gained a belly in my 20's then became athletic in my 30's. I now am at a point where quarantining is sending me new scale readings that I never thought I was capable of. The perfect specimens dancing on a float in a speedo may not stay that way forever. If they are hateful and rude to someone they find inferior Karma can be a bitch. On the flip side you can't expect people to find you attractive if they are not attracted to you. Same goes for agism there are quite a few guys who have a Daddy fetish. Different strokes for different folks. Here is a retort if someone is rude about your weight. I can always lose weight but I doubt you will lose your bitchy attitude so fuck off.
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    Ajac got a reaction from + E.T.Bass in Fat Gay Men Aren’t Welcomed (At Pride)   
    Yes I agree If I see a beautiful woman or man and they come off as arrogant or mean they are no longer attractive to me.
    My fetish is nice guys.
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    Ajac got a reaction from rvwnsd in Fat Gay Men Aren’t Welcomed (At Pride)   
    Is there not a subset of gay men called Bears? Are they not celebrated in their own way? I find I am not attracted to me.
    I am hairy, I like smoother. I am bald I like a full head of hair. I am overweight I like fit. I on a couple occasions I have been to very fit masseurs who specifically preferred overweight men. I think everyone should be fat once in their lives to develop an empathy. I have been every body type. Got fat in third grade chubby through middle school. Then slim runners body in Highschool. Gained a belly in my 20's then became athletic in my 30's. I now am at a point where quarantining is sending me new scale readings that I never thought I was capable of. The perfect specimens dancing on a float in a speedo may not stay that way forever. If they are hateful and rude to someone they find inferior Karma can be a bitch. On the flip side you can't expect people to find you attractive if they are not attracted to you. Same goes for agism there are quite a few guys who have a Daddy fetish. Different strokes for different folks. Here is a retort if someone is rude about your weight. I can always lose weight but I doubt you will lose your bitchy attitude so fuck off.
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    Ajac got a reaction from xyz48B in Fat Gay Men Aren’t Welcomed (At Pride)   
    Yes I agree If I see a beautiful woman or man and they come off as arrogant or mean they are no longer attractive to me.
    My fetish is nice guys.
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    Ajac got a reaction from + Charlie in Fat Gay Men Aren’t Welcomed (At Pride)   
    Yes I agree If I see a beautiful woman or man and they come off as arrogant or mean they are no longer attractive to me.
    My fetish is nice guys.
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    Ajac got a reaction from + Reisr30 in Fat Gay Men Aren’t Welcomed (At Pride)   
    Yes I agree If I see a beautiful woman or man and they come off as arrogant or mean they are no longer attractive to me.
    My fetish is nice guys.
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    Ajac got a reaction from marylander1940 in Fat Gay Men Aren’t Welcomed (At Pride)   
    Yes I agree If I see a beautiful woman or man and they come off as arrogant or mean they are no longer attractive to me.
    My fetish is nice guys.
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    Ajac got a reaction from + E.T.Bass in Fat Gay Men Aren’t Welcomed (At Pride)   
    Is there not a subset of gay men called Bears? Are they not celebrated in their own way? I find I am not attracted to me.
    I am hairy, I like smoother. I am bald I like a full head of hair. I am overweight I like fit. I on a couple occasions I have been to very fit masseurs who specifically preferred overweight men. I think everyone should be fat once in their lives to develop an empathy. I have been every body type. Got fat in third grade chubby through middle school. Then slim runners body in Highschool. Gained a belly in my 20's then became athletic in my 30's. I now am at a point where quarantining is sending me new scale readings that I never thought I was capable of. The perfect specimens dancing on a float in a speedo may not stay that way forever. If they are hateful and rude to someone they find inferior Karma can be a bitch. On the flip side you can't expect people to find you attractive if they are not attracted to you. Same goes for agism there are quite a few guys who have a Daddy fetish. Different strokes for different folks. Here is a retort if someone is rude about your weight. I can always lose weight but I doubt you will lose your bitchy attitude so fuck off.
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    Ajac got a reaction from MikeBiDude in Alam Wernik in dc   
    I saw him listed in LA before I saw any of his videos. Though I don't tend to go for a guy in that age range I almost made an exception for that ass. I wonder if a certain politician may have hired him when he was in DC.
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    Ajac got a reaction from + bashful in Olympian Kurt Thomas dies at 64   
    The deaths of people from my teenage years make me so sad. Life goes so quickly I hope these are not my final days I would like to die in a world in better shape than it is now.
    Plant shade trees you will never sit beneath.
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