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My parents were both only children; so I had no aunts or uncles. And my sister, my only sibling, had no children. I did have an incredibly supportive grandmother, however. When I introduced my partner to her in 1974, she immediately embraced him and told him that he must be a very special person if I loved him. She introduced him as her other grandson and kept pictures of us in her apartment.

My afternoon with Yura was delightful. I’ve never done a body scrub before, so I treated myself to a 90 minute package with Yura that included body scrub and body work. And, it was all a phenomenal treat!
 
From the moment I first met Yura in the lobby, he was warm, welcoming, and friendly. When he asked if I wanted the body scrub first or last, I confessed that I had not ever done a body scrub before, so I didn’t know. He suggested we do it first, and I think that was a brilliant suggestion.
 
Every step along the way, he attended to my comfort, and the body scrub was a really nice way to fully relax and get ready for a massage. It also allowed me to get to experience Yura’s large and warm hands with a variety of really fascinating textures too!
 
After the scrub, Yura helped me dry off and even wrapped the towel around my waist. I thought this was a really charming and unexpectedly sweet gesture.
 
Once on the table, he asked how I liked my massage and gave the option for firm. I told him I played rugby and currently do CrossFit, so my body is torn up and would benefit from a hard massage. He obliged with pizzazz, and Yura did an exceptional job digging into the knots in my shoulders and working over my hamstrings and hips to really loosen and open them up.
 
Beyond providing excellent service, Yura was so sweet with compliments and even asked me questions about my life. Whether he was sincere or not, it felt sincere, and he made me feel really great about myself. And, he made me feel really attractive. He even complimented my eyes after I paid, which was a wonderful parting touch.
 
Physically and emotionally, Yura provided the best massage I have ever had. And, he’s damn good looking himself. I left feeling like a million bucks and would definitely see Yura again!

Perhaps he feels awkward about changing the terms of the arrangement for some reason. Could it be that the client/provider relationship is the most comfortable and non-threatening context he can operate within? It seems he must value your company beyond any financial gain it provides. Just a different perspective to consider...

Cute guy.
Great sex.
 
Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth....and don’t fuck it up.

looks like that is his age, lol

One of my favs is a 5 floor walk-up. By the time I get up there, i tell him that I've earned a massage. He does take this into consideration with his pricing and keeps it on the low end. Why aren't there some Men's spas where you have to walk up 2 or 3 flights? Hopefully you're getting a good deal on your new digs. I hear rents in NYC are quite negotiable now under current market conditions.

His Onlyfans, His Twitter

Until about 2017 I had often felt shame and guilt around the hobby. My regular guy with whom I was very close died tragically. Shortly after his mother called me and asked to meet. I was mortified but agreed to go to lunch with her, and her two other kids. She said she had to know this part of his life.
 
At lunch, she opened up with something along the lines of “I know you gave my son a lot of money. I don’t care to know why. We know that it allowed him to live his best life and focus 110% on his sobriety over the past 18 months and we realize we have you to thank for helping him stay clean.”
 
She made it clear that she knew that he was going to sell his body anyway. He could do it from a place of desperation to fuel a drug addiction (as he had in his past), or from a sober place to make money to support a healthy life. She believed that whatever relationship we had helped him make the choice to live sober. She was right.
 
That lunch totally changed my perspective on hiring and any feelings of guilt or shame I had around the hobby.
 
Since then, I spoke about this man, and the origins of our transactional relationship to close friends and family and it helped with the immense grief I was feeling. Until that point, they didn’t understand why I was grieving a man I’d never spoken of or introduced them to. It made us all closer. It also opened the door to “well actually, I’ve never told anyone this, but once in Vegas, or once when I was visiting Asia....”.
 
It opened me up to participating at this forum, meeting other clients, sharing stories on the Adonis Friday night events etc. To take it a little further, all of my gay friends know that I hire, most of the straight ones, and most importantly my husband.
 
The place I host these boys is on a very public highway in my small town. My gay friends will often text during a session because they see a car that they don’t recognize and then want all the details. Dishing afterwards, guilt and shame free, has ALMOST become more fun than the actual time spent with a hot human. Almost.

Just got in from a session at Hush with Shawn. Lord Jesus, I should've made an appointment sooner. Everything from the facial to the body scrub was pure heaven. Hit the PM's for the deets.

He sure looks friendly.

This new fellow looks so inviting!
 
https://rentmasseur.com/Alex_bull
 
Has anyone visited yet?

Merry Xmas men of my 2nd favorite thread... looking forward to contributing more post-vaccine first hand experience in 2021!!
 
Now back over to my favorite thread where I’ve been wallowing since March: Hottest Massage Video Ever

I wonder if the increase in no-shows has anything to do with Covid. People who want a massage but then get scared of by the potential risk? Just a thought.

I've always wondered if there was a site or group where providers trade notes on problem customers

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It is my prerogative to keep on promoting these guys cause they are not just good bodyworkers however also very good friends.

 
 
This right here is why you’re getting the feedback you’re getting. In these forums, people trust the integrity of their experiences with massage therapists, masseurs and other types of providers, because they are coming from a place of authenticity. Your friendship with these two massage therapists weakens the authenticity of your claims because there is a bias (although a positive one), formed from the foundation of your friendship to them.
 
I think it’s fair to say that reviews and ratings from friends wouldn’t seem as credible as a joe blow off the street, as there’s an existing relationship there.
That goes for any type of business.
 
For example....
I have a friend who is a realtor, and I recommend him all the time. Not one of my home purchases were made through him, and although I respect his capabilities, a positive referral from someone who actually used his services, and do not have a personal affiliation with him, far outweighs mine.
 
Now I’ve had a massage from Eli, and I can attest that he’s highly skilled. As I have no personal friendship with him, my assessment of his skills would outweigh yours...
 
I hope you can understand that.

My first guy since March, when the pandemic started... what a surprise!
 
I've been talking on and off with this latin guy on grindr for a few weeks now. And after a few failed attempts to meet, we finally met for dinner 3 weeks ago. We went to a nice mexican restaurant with outdoor seating. It was a pleasant dinner where I had the chance to learn more about him. Mexican, smooth dark olive skin, sparkling eyes and easy to talk to. He shared his life experiences, travels, struggles growing up being gay in a very traditional mexican family, etc.
 
The dinner had to come to an end, due to the pandemic restaurants were closing early. We talked a little more on the parking lot and said good-bye saying that we should meet again. We really enjoyed each others company. He's in his mid 20s.
 
We kept texting on and off during the next several days. And at one point he said his back was hurting... and that was my opportunity to offer him a massage He was open to the idea and said yes!
 
We met at my place, he arrived a little late due to some family obligations (he lives with his mom and sister). I had some of his favorite cupcakes (it was his bday few days before) and we ate one, we talked and then went ahead with the massage.
 
I already had the table set up, the right lighting, the music ready to go and all the other accessories handy. I asked him to undress to him comfort level and to put his clothes on a chair. I left for a few minutes to give him some privacy and when I came back, he was still in his underwear... he positioned himself on the table and the massage started.
 
Usual routine... myofascial release, sweedish massage with hints of sport massage and stretching. His body was not athletic... it was a regular body from a young guy. A bit toned, but no muscles or abs. He was sexy. When it was time to massage his glutes, I removed his underwear, he did not say a word, or opposed to it... he just lift his pelvis, so I could slide them off... And wow! What a beautiful ass he had. Round, bouncy, smooth, meaty... it was a really nice surprise. I started massaging his glues with dedication. He was enjoying it. I was teasing his hole a little, without being too obvious. Then it was time to do the legs. After that I asked him to turn.
 
When he turned... My jaw dropped. He had the biggest dick I've ever seen! Easily 11 inches and thick... uncut. I've never seen a dick so huge. It was an uncut monster... and he was leaking A LOT! The sheet covering the table had several stains of precum. I didn't expect that. He apologized and said... "this is why I don't like getting massages" he was all ashamed for his massive hard on and excessive leaking. I said not to worry, that it was common for that to happen.. and I continued with the massage, teasing his dick and balls.... not being too erotic yet...
 
At one point when I started jacking him off, he began caressing my legs, so I dropped my shorts and he started sucking me... and from that point it escalated quickly. He started kissing me, and I started teasing his hole... fingering him. He was moaning.
 
I jumped on the table and we started 69ing. Obviously I was not able to deep throat, I think I was able to take only half of his dick in my mouth. We did 69 for a while, then kiss some more. I also teased his hole with the tip of my dick... he was enjoying that (based on his grindr profile he's versatile so hopefully with time I'll be able to top him)... We jacked off our dicks together... we came almost at the same time. Then I rested my body on top of his for a while, we had cum all over our torsos... we stayed in that position, rubbing our torsos covered in cum... Talking and kissing. It was relaxing.
 
Then we showered together... with more kissing and foreplay. We dressed and said goodbye.
 
My ego was stroked when he said "I enjoyed the massage very much, you are better than the couple of ones I've paid for..."
 
I still text with him several times a week and we have plans to meet again soon. Hopefully next week. Our plan is to talk and go for a walk... but you never know ;-)

Thanks for this update guys!!

The pictures are real. Some a bit outdated; but he's been working out for over 20 years. 4th picture looks most current. He is 35yo after all. Massage was B/B-. His body was A+! Nice guy and very friendly from Madrid originally. We chatted a bit; my choice in order to break the ice.

Plenty of face in his private pics.

I just opened his private photos and yeah it’s huge. ??

Hmmm. How was the actual massage?
Wonder if Ken is actually beefy? Lol.

We do need to form a group in NYC who will alternately take one for the team. oh well.

Nice, which location?

New one. ?

But just so lifeless, whether bored...or medicated...or something. I guess the orgasm meant that he was physically engaged, but still.