bostonman

Your post is totally fine. And yes, in my experience they have had very good hygiene. They have also been very in tune with their bodies and seem to be very proud of the genitals they have. And, they've all been very supportive of the idea that I'm pretty brand new to this and want to learn. So hopefully you'd find yourself in the same kind of company, with a transguy who is eager to help you learn something new and different. :-)
And btw, I have thoroughly enjoyed my experiments in "dining" down there. No, it won't ever replace sucking dick lol, but speaking as someone who enjoys using my tongue all over someone's body, it's nice to have finally gotten the chance to do this. 

Your post is totally fine. And yes, in my experience they have had very good hygiene. They have also been very in tune with their bodies and seem to be very proud of the genitals they have. And, they've all been very supportive of the idea that I'm pretty brand new to this and want to learn. So hopefully you'd find yourself in the same kind of company, with a transguy who is eager to help you learn something new and different. :-)
And btw, I have thoroughly enjoyed my experiments in "dining" down there. No, it won't ever replace sucking dick lol, but speaking as someone who enjoys using my tongue all over someone's body, it's nice to have finally gotten the chance to do this. 

For me, I'm not into anal sex, so that wouldn't turn me on lol - but having a guy spit in my face and stuff like that - incredibly hot. Or even just watching him spit across the room or something like that. :-)

I think some escorts are glad to meet for all sorts of reasons outside the bedroom. And some may be good listeners who are glad to provide a sympathetic ear. Friends are wonderful, of course, but sometimes people do feel the need to turn to someone else - maybe someone impartial, someone new, etc. 
I've told the story out here of the guy who has been my only "regular," who I also consider a friend even though I do hire him as an escort - and the time a few years ago that he made a last-minute visit to help me through a very emotional time. He was incredible to me, and helped in all sorts of ways beyond the usual. (And no, we didn't have sex that day, though he did offer a therapeutic non-sexual massage, which was awesome.) Yes, he's someone I knew previously and had already established a nice relationship with, but he still didn't need to help me the way he did. I couldn't be more grateful. 
I think that if one is looking for a session that is more a cuddle/talk/get your feelings out kind of thing, just tell your escort of choice that's what you're looking for, and if they feel they're up for that kind of meeting, why not? And certainly if you're just looking for an hour or two of wild sex to put your energy into something other than grieving, that's perfectly valid too. As long as you know that you *may* find yourself just where you left off afterwards. But that doesn't mean you can't enjoy the time fully. Carpe escort. :-)
 

Oh no prob, lol - you should do what turns you on, of course!! :-)
I've had guys use their spit to "lube up" their cock before I suck it - that's kinda fun. :-)

For me, I'm not into anal sex, so that wouldn't turn me on lol - but having a guy spit in my face and stuff like that - incredibly hot. Or even just watching him spit across the room or something like that. :-)

I have several fetishes - spitting is definitely the only "taboo" one to a lot of people. So when I meet a guy who's really into it, or who gets excited about trying it for the first time, it always makes for an extremely scorching hot time. So I agree with you!

I have several fetishes - spitting is definitely the only "taboo" one to a lot of people. So when I meet a guy who's really into it, or who gets excited about trying it for the first time, it always makes for an extremely scorching hot time. So I agree with you!

Only someone really slimy (literally) can get away with saying that. 

I met up a few times with a Boston area guy who was a great spitter, but I know he's retired now. But he was awesome and really seemed to enjoy getting things really wet and messy. I remember how he'd drench my face with his spit then rub his hands around in it - OMG that was so hot. :-)
I haven't done any spit play since the pandemic, though I'm now fully vaccinated - and would love to find a guy ready to let loose, lol. 
And I agree - such a huge difference between someone willing to do it and someone who really fucking into it. 

I think some escorts are glad to meet for all sorts of reasons outside the bedroom. And some may be good listeners who are glad to provide a sympathetic ear. Friends are wonderful, of course, but sometimes people do feel the need to turn to someone else - maybe someone impartial, someone new, etc. 
I've told the story out here of the guy who has been my only "regular," who I also consider a friend even though I do hire him as an escort - and the time a few years ago that he made a last-minute visit to help me through a very emotional time. He was incredible to me, and helped in all sorts of ways beyond the usual. (And no, we didn't have sex that day, though he did offer a therapeutic non-sexual massage, which was awesome.) Yes, he's someone I knew previously and had already established a nice relationship with, but he still didn't need to help me the way he did. I couldn't be more grateful. 
I think that if one is looking for a session that is more a cuddle/talk/get your feelings out kind of thing, just tell your escort of choice that's what you're looking for, and if they feel they're up for that kind of meeting, why not? And certainly if you're just looking for an hour or two of wild sex to put your energy into something other than grieving, that's perfectly valid too. As long as you know that you *may* find yourself just where you left off afterwards. But that doesn't mean you can't enjoy the time fully. Carpe escort. :-)
 

Agreed. And granted, while all the dead characters are going to take their bows after they die in the last act anyway, I do think Scarpia could wait out the relatively short 3rd act, for instance, so that the dead aren't coming back to life before the story is over. I'm not aware that any other form of theatre allows for such mid-show bows, and I think opera shouldn't either. 

I wrote him once to try to find some of that out. And I got back A VERY VERY LONG FORM-LETTER TYPE ANSWER, ALL SHOUTED IN CAPS, AND NOT PARTICULARLY FRIENDLY OR HELPFUL. 
I passed on this one. 

I haven't paid much attention to SNL for a long time - but this season I watched every episode. Some great stuff, some ok stuff, some all-too-typical WTF sketches that really didn't work...but yeah, this musical performance took me by surprise. I kept wondering how many TV's were being switched off across America lol. But it was fun!! 

@xax, the original poster - may I just say that no matter what you decide to do, know that you have all of us out here that feel terrible that you're going through a bad time. We've all been through bad breakups (I will assume) and we all know that feeling you describe. We can give you advice on whether to see an escort or not, but I think more importantly we can tell you that we have your back, and that we wish you the best. 

I think some escorts are glad to meet for all sorts of reasons outside the bedroom. And some may be good listeners who are glad to provide a sympathetic ear. Friends are wonderful, of course, but sometimes people do feel the need to turn to someone else - maybe someone impartial, someone new, etc. 
I've told the story out here of the guy who has been my only "regular," who I also consider a friend even though I do hire him as an escort - and the time a few years ago that he made a last-minute visit to help me through a very emotional time. He was incredible to me, and helped in all sorts of ways beyond the usual. (And no, we didn't have sex that day, though he did offer a therapeutic non-sexual massage, which was awesome.) Yes, he's someone I knew previously and had already established a nice relationship with, but he still didn't need to help me the way he did. I couldn't be more grateful. 
I think that if one is looking for a session that is more a cuddle/talk/get your feelings out kind of thing, just tell your escort of choice that's what you're looking for, and if they feel they're up for that kind of meeting, why not? And certainly if you're just looking for an hour or two of wild sex to put your energy into something other than grieving, that's perfectly valid too. As long as you know that you *may* find yourself just where you left off afterwards. But that doesn't mean you can't enjoy the time fully. Carpe escort. :-)
 

I've only had limited experience with CBD in general (it was an escort regular and friend, who used to post here, that actually suggested it to me to help with my anxiety when I was going through it a few years ago), and unfortunately I don't think it did much for me. I won't say it doesn't work, and it could be a case of YMMV, but it does seem to me that CBD is being advertised as a cure-all for just about everything at the moment, and i wonder how true the claims really are. 
What I have been told, and tend to believe, is that CBD is not harmful (my GP who was also treating my anxiety told me it would be fine to try and he didn't expect any side effects from it), so I suppose it can't hurt to try it (no pun intended in this case), but I also wonder if it really does do all the things people try to say it does. 

I tend to think it would not be emotionally fulfilling in the long run, though it might well be in the moment. But I'd say if you put too much expectation in it, you could be setting yourself up for more depression afterwards. If you can simply enjoy the moment for what it is, that's great, though. 

I have hired a few, mainly because yes, as a very orally-centric guy, I do have an interest in exploring "down there" but never had with a cis woman - but I really liked the idea of trying it with a trans guy. (As I've told them, I really like the feeling of the male presence, even with the female parts.)
It's been fun. All three of the trans guys I've met have been very friendly, very sensual/sexual, and very eager to help me broaden my experiences. 
There are two trans guys currently advertising on RM in Boston, one I met recently and the other I hope to hire in the near future. The one I met, a few weeks ago - I told him that not only would I love some more experience (with some friendly guidance as well), but that my real dream would be to be able to bring a trans guy to orgasm. He told me (as the others have also) that just oral probably wouldn't be enough to do that. But guess what - I wound up giving him a clitoral orgasm, which he seemed very surprised about. That made me feel really special, lol. 
I am sure I will plan to continue hiring trans guys - I'm glad that they are more visible than they used to be. 
 

My! People come and go so quickly here!

I have hired a few, mainly because yes, as a very orally-centric guy, I do have an interest in exploring "down there" but never had with a cis woman - but I really liked the idea of trying it with a trans guy. (As I've told them, I really like the feeling of the male presence, even with the female parts.)
It's been fun. All three of the trans guys I've met have been very friendly, very sensual/sexual, and very eager to help me broaden my experiences. 
There are two trans guys currently advertising on RM in Boston, one I met recently and the other I hope to hire in the near future. The one I met, a few weeks ago - I told him that not only would I love some more experience (with some friendly guidance as well), but that my real dream would be to be able to bring a trans guy to orgasm. He told me (as the others have also) that just oral probably wouldn't be enough to do that. But guess what - I wound up giving him a clitoral orgasm, which he seemed very surprised about. That made me feel really special, lol. 
I am sure I will plan to continue hiring trans guys - I'm glad that they are more visible than they used to be. 
 

@xax, the original poster - may I just say that no matter what you decide to do, know that you have all of us out here that feel terrible that you're going through a bad time. We've all been through bad breakups (I will assume) and we all know that feeling you describe. We can give you advice on whether to see an escort or not, but I think more importantly we can tell you that we have your back, and that we wish you the best. 

I think some escorts are glad to meet for all sorts of reasons outside the bedroom. And some may be good listeners who are glad to provide a sympathetic ear. Friends are wonderful, of course, but sometimes people do feel the need to turn to someone else - maybe someone impartial, someone new, etc. 
I've told the story out here of the guy who has been my only "regular," who I also consider a friend even though I do hire him as an escort - and the time a few years ago that he made a last-minute visit to help me through a very emotional time. He was incredible to me, and helped in all sorts of ways beyond the usual. (And no, we didn't have sex that day, though he did offer a therapeutic non-sexual massage, which was awesome.) Yes, he's someone I knew previously and had already established a nice relationship with, but he still didn't need to help me the way he did. I couldn't be more grateful. 
I think that if one is looking for a session that is more a cuddle/talk/get your feelings out kind of thing, just tell your escort of choice that's what you're looking for, and if they feel they're up for that kind of meeting, why not? And certainly if you're just looking for an hour or two of wild sex to put your energy into something other than grieving, that's perfectly valid too. As long as you know that you *may* find yourself just where you left off afterwards. But that doesn't mean you can't enjoy the time fully. Carpe escort. :-)
 

I have hired a few, mainly because yes, as a very orally-centric guy, I do have an interest in exploring "down there" but never had with a cis woman - but I really liked the idea of trying it with a trans guy. (As I've told them, I really like the feeling of the male presence, even with the female parts.)
It's been fun. All three of the trans guys I've met have been very friendly, very sensual/sexual, and very eager to help me broaden my experiences. 
There are two trans guys currently advertising on RM in Boston, one I met recently and the other I hope to hire in the near future. The one I met, a few weeks ago - I told him that not only would I love some more experience (with some friendly guidance as well), but that my real dream would be to be able to bring a trans guy to orgasm. He told me (as the others have also) that just oral probably wouldn't be enough to do that. But guess what - I wound up giving him a clitoral orgasm, which he seemed very surprised about. That made me feel really special, lol. 
I am sure I will plan to continue hiring trans guys - I'm glad that they are more visible than they used to be.